Do you have a family member capable of filling up the role since you have a job already. Would be nice to give another person a chance.

the only problems have here is temptation, even our Lord Jesus Christ was tempted so you may be next in line with this kind of job and offer.

well be careful and as a man of your words or principle like you stated, dnt fall victim in sleeping with her....who knows what she is up to..well take the offer and be smart at all times..

cheers!

BaeMercy:
The lady in question is a b*tch and will always be a bitch
How can you be married and still want your ex?
Her intentions are not genuine
If it was, she would have informed her husband about you
Some women can never change
Like you said she married a big guy, if you have an affair with her and he later finds out
Don't you think he can harm you? Don't lose your life over an unrepentant cheat if her husband is not enough let her find someone else


Marriage don't change people, people change for marriage

Before you marry a big lady who wears designers investigate her source of income most of them are into sex business so you won't end up paying for DNA test up and down

Chase a chick, never chase a bitch
Don't take her offer

Women are easy to understand . Once you Bleep them very well , they will never forget you. The new guy he is marrying is a two minutes man...

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

Bros how do you know you 'd not sleep with her? Just wait until it gets to that point. So she has been unable to get someone in abuja check her books for her? Wonders are nolonger happening.Na wa ooo

He knows that you are a capable and honest person.

Get her someone like yourself and maintain your distance otherwise this is calamity loading. what

Bro if u feel the deal is right and u have capability to manage it, fire on afterall RABA is involved...

No matter what we advice him, he will still go .

Farewell my child

It has just begun

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Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

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Stupid nonsense rubbish made up story

To all people with a good heart.
I'm reaching out to you. I hate having to do this but I wouldn't ask if I had a choice.
I need #25,ooo to finalize my project in school..�please come to my aid.
Pls, Any amount is okay even if it is #200.�
(oo515 81939 GTB).�
Thanks and God bless

SmellingAnus:
I think you already know that you will definitely fvck her itchy hornnny pussy like a pornstaaar... so why exactly do you need our advice...

THAT GUY KNEWS VERY WELL WHAT IS ON THE TABLE, BT HE WANT TO AGREE TO THE TRUTH.

SmellingAnus:
Nah... you are looking for folks that will support your plans to bang a married woman... you already said you have soft spot for her meaning you are most likely going to smash that pussy... I repeat...why exactly do you need our advice when you already know you will be spanking the ass of a married woman while giving her doggy style...

Lol The guy want dey whine us here

CaptainPrice1:
If her husband is on Nairaland, he can easily know you are referring to his wife with the little information from your story.

Make una dey try hide the real info.

That's why I will keep visiting Nairaland regularly until I turn 90yrs.


Even when I end up as a Senator or something in Nigeria or Biafra, I will still be making out time to be sneaking in here to learn some real life lessons from ordinary everyday people, undiluted truths.



Op we need more info about her to make suggestions, her complexion, shape and all that. You guys need to be adding those vital information bikonu

DON'T COME AND BE CRYING HEAR AFTER U ACCEPT THAT YEYE OFF. NA SOO THAT ODA GUY COME HERE COME THE TELL US HOW HE GO THE LIVE 4 WOMAN HOUSE FOR ABJ AFTER LEAVING HIS OWN HOUSE FOR LAG. NA CEIL FIVE(5) THE WAITH FOR YOU

There are some advice you don't seek from public fora.

The answer to your question thrown in advice form is visible to the blind and audible to the deaf from your write-up.

Do well to read your write-up three times and advice yourself!

Oga are u seeking for advice or u are here to quarrel us

Op, does the big 'shot' shoot guns?

Draslo:
Mature responses only.

Na matured mind na him wan scatter u like this

You already knew what you want ...

that is how Satan tempted Jesus to turn stone to bread.. be wise !!!!

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Mosdii the king is back....All of them are useless

Ehhh!!! It's cool as long as you still doing what ever you are doing so that the day she will sake you simply because you rejected her sex proposal it wouldn't bother you but it's cool if the pay is okay.

Not worth it

What u are going to manage is more than the beauty shop. She just need u back in her life .

Draslo:
I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

First, unfortunately, your "principles not to sleep with an ex" are contradicted by the first paragraph about ulterior motives, soft spot, and flesh being weak, so it's no surprise people have that in mind.

Second: she should find and pay well for a reliable manager. I can't imagine it would be more expensive than paying for a monthly flight back to Lagos. You don't want to be part of whatever drama is cooking.

Let me be honest: I have nothing but ulterior motives for most of my exes. If I happen to be in their lives again, I will want to bang 'em. And in most cases the feeling is mutual. To avoid stories that touch, we avoid each other. I can't be friends with my ex, or help her do anything. That's just me, and I'm owning up to it

Or wait, is the OP the lady in question? Who is actually asking this question?

Draslo:

Does it matter?

I wanted to chip in something, but after reading this, it enabled me draw my conclusion that you are irresponsible.

Just imagine. "Does it matter"

Translation. new hubby done tire of banging his ex and she wants that old groove thing back part-time. But I give her credit for not running out and looking for some new Abuja pen** and wanting to keep her body count in check.
Pls don't go down that road Mr Op. Major wahala will happen!

Draslo:

Mature responses only.

But he gave you a mature response na even though yours wasn't.

Like what do you want us to do now.

Uprightness100:
My son, attend unto my wisdom, and bow thine ear to my understanding.

Flee from a Strange woman!
For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil,
But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.
Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.

Hear me now therefore My Son,
Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house,
Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel,
Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be in the house of a stranger,
And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed.

I Have Spoken my son! The Choice is yours to take.

Wisdom, Naijacovid loves you