Put yourself in her husband’s shoe,bro it’s a no no for me. Dick no get sense , sth must surely happen. Move on forever.

NL is my bear parlor where I relax after the day work.

Oluwaseun God bless you!

you will end up f------king yourselves.

sweerychick:
I don't think anything is wrong but to be on the safe side better tell her to let her husband know.

And if you are the husband you will accept her ex to work for her?

calcal:
NL is my bear parlor where I relax after the day work.

Oluwaseun God bless you!

Lol, enjoy.��

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

This story. Use your wisdom. You already know the answer.
I laughed a little when you said "she's such a good person." Yeah? So, her husband knows that she is asking her ex to fly in and help manage a business he most likely seeded? Ok. She should have at the least told her husband who you were, and you as a "friend" should have advised her to. What's ironic is you modified your post with "many of you reason like kids." smh.

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Draslo:

I don tire for you people. How many times do I need to say it? I don't have any intention of sleeping with her. Even if she does, I'm man enough to handle the situation. Shallow thinkers and men made from precum, the lot of you!

that's all..you have answered yourself

Oga OP,
the reason you are here is because your spirit man has already told you that this entire setup is not going to end well.

F*****k her jooooor, na wetin DE ur mind b Dat.....

I could sense from all indications that you were going to arrive at this...... It's on your mind to KNACK HER,because the Bleep that has been bleeped,can be refucked if the fucker and fucky agree to Bleep the Bleep, so we won't be the one to encourage you brother.

SmartPolician:

You have got killer lines!

Thanks

And your flesh is very weak, bros leave story u go fvck am

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

Bros,since you no get any intention to bang her,what's with the"my flesh is very, very weak?..Na 600yrs curse go follow you oo,if u like no keep your instrument for storage..

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

I think she just wants to show you who's boss and might keep you as kpekus backing back-up. It is not normal(behavioural terms) for a woman who just newly wedded to tell you as an EX to come and work very close to her.

Unless, she is looking for cheap labour.

But to be honest, I sincerely think she just want to show you she has married a more handsome and richer dude..

After the deed is done kindly give us your story on the ashewo beer parlour thread. Lefulefu nd I would b glad to hear your mumuness

Mumu OP.

People are giving you the real advice your need but you're busy telling them to fvck off.

If you end up fvcking another man's wife, uncle Karma will sure be Ur guest someday.

Op, you are not serious. Mr principled.
You yourself, will you wish for you future wife to have her ex come manage her business for her?
It seems you wanna die young.
You want to go play risky games with a rich man's wife in Abuja in the guise of managing her business?
Best of luck to you.

Are you the only one that can do the job in Nigeria? Tell her NO unless you have hidden agenda. This is how people get themselves killed because of woman and greediness.

I hate when lazy youths prey after married woman. Karma is coming your way

Offpoint1:
Too many nonsense in the write up.
If una wan make up fake stories, make una at least make am believe able.
Pay your flight tickets weekly, how much come be your salary? For a start up business not even up to a year, no same business incline human being would be wasting resources like that.


Try another make up story, I ain't buying this one.

You they mind Omo Ghana

Draslo:


Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

It does not matter if you want to sleep with her or not. The fact that she is married and her husband is unaware that the person she wants to help manage her business is an ex should tell you something. I suspect you know what you are about to do is wrong but you need confirmation. Just as you said, there are multitudes of women out there same as there are plenty of opportunities as well. You are walking down a very dangerous path that won't end well for you.

SmellingAnus:
I think you already know that you will definitely fvck her itchy hornnny pussy like a pornstaaar... so why exactly do you need our advice...

You should feature in a movie called "POINT BLANK"...

[I'll advise you don't even consider the offer. It's apparent she may be up to some mischief and being married to some top shot should equally sound a note of warning to be very careful. A lot of innocent lives have been wasted because of women. Don't start what you can't finish!author=Draslo post=100154307]I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.[/quote]

What are you really managing if you are not at the business during the weekdays but on weekend ....Anyway she just want your company or consulting and you want to be flying to Abuja every weekend without considering the risk involve

I'll advise you politely make up an excuse and turn down the offer. You may never know what she has up her sleeves. And the fact that she's married to an Abuja top shot should sound a note of warning to thread carefully. A lot of innocent lives have been wasted because of cheer negligence.

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

grossintel:
The only reason I liked your post was because of your edited post. Nairaland is Childrenland, under age broke jobless kids with cheap data, don't bring your problem here and expect any great advice.

I completely agree. Kinda wish I could delete the post even.

Draslo:


We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months).

She wants me to help her manage it.

I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes.

I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

Let's chew this carefully. The break up was mutual.... more like you both drifted apart. Of all the ex's ... this is the one that your flesh becomes weak...ehmmm.... weak weak. Why would you believe your principles will apply to her? It will take half of a spark to set your bodies on fire. On managing the business..... how exactly you being there will help her manage? Whatever the answer... it can be done remotely. You know her motive.... that all this helping to manage and whatever is a front..... you know what is the deal..... an invitation to week end intimation. Isn't what you really want to know is whether to accept or decline?... that you would love to see her again.... but know it is highly likely to end in bed.... and you are worried because she is married. I can bet my life and half of my next life that if she were not married... we would never be reading this. Leave the woman to her husband.... your conscience is already pricking you!

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

RUN!!! For your life and the sanity in it. Never engage with a married ex. forget the pay and all. Keep yourself away from guilt and "karma".

Originalsly:


Let's chew this carefully. The break up was mutual.... more like you both drifted apart. Of all the ex's ... this is the one that your flesh becomes weak...ehmmm.... weak weak. Why would you believe your principles will apply to her? It will take half of a spark to set your bodies on fire. On managing the business..... how exactly you being there will help her manage? Whatever the answer... it can be done remotely. You know her motive.... that all this helping to manage and whatever is a front..... you know what is the deal..... an invitation to week end intimation. Isn't what you really want to know is whether to accept or decline?... that you would love to see her again.... but know it is highly likely to end in bed.... and you are worried because she is married. I can bet my life and half of my next life that if she were not married... we would never be reading this. Leave the woman to her husband.... your conscience is already pricking you!

You have put it better than I wanted to. @OP, heed to this advice.

Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

It will end in adultery.
Let us not pretend to ourselves.
If you want the adultery, jump in. If you dont want, run away.

I now know why dna paternity test is gaining popularity.
Married woman and her ex trying to do business together on weekends basis,free return tickets for 'services rendered.

fvck off with your script

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