GOFRONT:
Hmmm....Okafor's law at work here..

a Congo that has been shined before will definitely be shone again

First na girl right this thing , secondly ...girls can't just keep there pussy one place , thirdly , she will still do it again after married . stupid she goat !!!

lekonso:
Why should someone with a fiance still be romancing with an ex in the first place. The best thing is to totally cut off from any ex once you have chosen another person to marry in order to save oneself from this kind of situation. I think it is even shafeful for somebody to be still be relating with an ex that has seen your unclothedness after you have decided to marry another person. The thing is there is no shame these days again.

Simple answer greed and.lack of foresight

Most women cannot be trusted when it comes to relationship issues. I have had mine but the relationship I'm in now with a divorcee I have made up my mind that if she isn't faithful completely I will teach her the lesson of her life because I followed all the laid down rules given to me by her and I've been taking very good care of her to the point of paying her two children's school fees which is about 200k per term and I will be sending her to hajj in some months time which cost me about 1.4m and I will commence a building project for us soon cos we are getting married in some months time. Trust is scarce but as long as I'm faithful to u I expect same from my partner aswell,as for the poster if u like confess and if u like don't confess. All I know is that your secret can't be kept forever.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Ignorance is bliss.

If she chooses to continue sleeping with her EX afterwards, that's her and her to be husband's problem, not mine. Udo!

Fair enough...

Hmmmmm
What a piece of advice
Women and secretz are like 5 and 6

UyaiIncomparabl:
Do NOT try it. I repeat, do NOT try it. You will live to regret it. Men do NOT forget easily. Except, of course, you have resolved in your mind that you're not going ahead with the marriage plans again, then fine, tell him and say your goodbyes. Anything aside from that, you are on your own. If he chooses to accept you back, you will never have peace in that marriage. You will keep getting daily reminders of how you cheated on him, and how cheap you are. Udo!

No, confess it to God

Wallade:


Ok. If you are in their shoes, don't keep it a secret. Tell the whole world.

It is either she quits now or face consequence later.
Luke 8:27 and 1 Tim 5:24

SmellySperm:
no point telling him coz you'll still cheat on him after the marriage anyways

meanwhile,he should run a DNA test for his first seed..
I just have trust issues with you females

Don't mind those hoes.. that was how one left me for someone much richer. Right now she have got the money and suddenly remembered that no man handles her body the way I do. I told her straight up that I cannot be deceived to sleep with another man's wife no matter what.

if na him cheat...im no go talk...so make she no talk as long as she used protection

Ekpa! Tell him na and watch ur dream marriage vanish before ur eyes!

If u still get wet for ur ex, then u should marry him na. This song & dance u have started will not end here o.

PrimadonnaO:
Your conscience will decide.

But I'm sure most people will tell you to take it to your grave. ..

What I do know is that you may never have peace of mind until you confess... plus these things always find a way of blowing up in people's faces at the most unexpected time.

Confessing to your creator and believing He has forgiven you should be enough to have a rest of mind. Confessing it to all other sinners does not raise your status no guarantee forgiveness. Rather it will worsen your situation.

If u are a woman, confess and Ur relationship is off but a man can confess and the woman that wants to get married by all means will forgive and the marriage will still go on. Who we offend in this life eh����

Una sure say this OP dey normal?

prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent?[s] Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, [/s]should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

ur IQ is too low

Jodha:
Confess and allow him/her the decision to stay or leave. ...

Women can keep secret ok, a man can confess but a woman can't. i say this base on experience, a man can tell his friends while drinking or in a bid to show off but a women will hardly tell her friend (s), sibling (s), parents etc.

capitalzero:

It is either she quits now or face consequence later.
Luke 8:27 and 1 Tim 5:24

It is funny when you quote Bible on this case. She has the option to shut up forever or confess and face the consequences.

If I am in her shoes, I will shut up about it forever.

Let the sleeping dog lies.

To Confess or not to confess is the least of her problems.

She just started a journey and marriage will only compound it, with time it will explode.

She should fix herself first. Marriage will not fix her. It will make her worst.

prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

Pls if your girlfriend tell you about her ex but they are still in contact exchanging calls and chat and she said they dont love each other again that the love is dead pls is it truth..? And can such lady be trusted?

The sage has spoken, U will definitely still cheat after the marriage, confess now and accept the consequnces

SmellySperm:
no point telling him coz you'll still cheat on him after the marriage anyways

meanwhile,he should run a DNA test for his first seed..
I just have trust issues with you females

prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

Nigerian girls don't always stick to one man and is pitiful.

Yes you're

prettyheart:
Am not mad...

Since the did has not be done I comment my reserve until the did is done.

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I don't know what about marry ladies gain from such debasing actions.

Skullano:
Like seriously you are MAD.

i don't know the color of her madness

sylve11:



You tell no lies. 98% valid my guy.

Married women's fantasy over their social media chats with EX'es reveals how complicated it is.

prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

Firstly, the person in question is in two relationship that has something to do with her body. our body is the temple of the holy ghost which we have from so do not defile it through immorality. secondly, she is in relationship with a suppose to be husband, so she owe both an apology, if she wants to be free.