prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

Weeks to your wedding o that ex go still come after wedding because he sabi say you be loose girl.

No need to confess to anyone. Repent and stay away from such acts.

Let it stay buried, but don't go back to it

prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

First, you asking us if the Pastor would forgive is very unnecessary because no one can tell you the resultant action of your imaginary pastor since you wrote that this story is unreal.


Besides; many women will continue to have sex with their EXes even after Marriage just as Many Men will continue having sex after Marriage.

Just because people get married doesn't mean their Biological Emotions would be dead to the World around them.

Marriage is just the social construct for Showcasing People who are thinking they would continue to PANSH each other for the rest of their lives.


Many of the case you cited will continue to happen and many of them will continue to happen under the disguise of RELIGION.

Tell him. He deserves to know. Should he find out 25years down the line, your home will still scatter. Except of course if he's also a guyman. If you do me I do you kind of guy. Tell him he also have the liberty to cheat on you once within your marriage. Only God can forgive dis kind offence o and I no be God. If you tell me that kind thing, I fit forgive but at the slightest wayward behavior, your graphic cheating escapade will come to mind.

prettyheart:
Am not mad...

u are mad

prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

u cant give a man of God gutter naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa


Haba

UyaiIncomparabl:
Do NOT try it. I repeat, do NOT try it. You will live to regret it. Men do NOT forget easily. Except, of course, you have resolved in your mind that you're not going ahead with the marriage plans again, then fine, tell him and say your goodbyes. Anything aside from that, you are on your own. If he chooses to accept you back, you will never have peace in that marriage. You will keep getting daily reminders of how you cheated on him, and how cheap you are. Udo!

Expert...
By their comments you shall know them

prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

Lie and die
This is your case ....

KidDarkness:
Confess and have peace of mind

With God or man ?

Poloyanabo2:
Confession has destroyed many marriages, unless the act can destroy the man unknowingly if kept secret,
I'll advise you or whoever to keep it a lifetime secret,
Ignorance is bliss,
Unless you don't need your marriage or you intend continuing hoeing after marriage.
The only person that deserves the confession is Jesus cos only him can forgive you.
I'm not supporting evil, I'm only giving an advice I'll give myself and anyone.

Only Jesus will forgive, man will never trust you again forever

Some things are left best unsaid

UyaiIncomparabl:
Do NOT try it. I repeat, do NOT try it. You will live to regret it. Men do NOT forget easily. Except, of course, you have resolved in your mind that you're not going ahead with the marriage plans again, then fine, tell him and say your goodbyes. Anything aside from that, you are on your own. If he chooses to accept you back, you will never have peace in that marriage. You will keep getting daily reminders of how you cheated on him, and how cheap you are. Udo!

Is she not cheap?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Do NOT try it. I repeat, do NOT try it. You will live to regret it. Men do NOT forget easily. Except, of course, you have resolved in your mind that you're not going ahead with the marriage plans again, then fine, tell him and say your goodbyes. Anything aside from that, you are on your own. If he chooses to accept you back, you will never have peace in that marriage. You will keep getting daily reminders of how you cheated on him, and how cheap you are. Udo!

Emm completely off topic...

You are really fine tho.

Shameless.

Confessing to him will destroy your home and marriage,it will make him not to trust u again or respect u,no need of confessing to him but try hard never to cheat on him again for your conscience sake,he is not God, might decide to go for a divorce,even though he stays with u,what is broken can no more be fixed again..There is happiness in ignorance but sadness in knowledge of the bitter truth..No one need to know this bitter truth.

If I'm the fiance and I got to know,I will call off the marriage,I will forgive her but I won't marry her because she is unfaithful woman, if I marry her,she will still be sleeping with the guy,so the best thing is for her to go back to her ex since her mind is still there.

prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

Are you the EX that wants to sleep with someone would be wife?

abimbola74:

Is she not cheap?

I am not worthy to answer that question. We make mistakes, sometimes.

brandmix:


Emm completely off topic...

You are really fine tho.

Thank you.

Philomath1212:

Expert...
By their comments you shall know them

Agreed.

prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

Confession shouldn't depend on how convenient it is to the confesser or if the victim would forgive!

The cheater should confess before the marriage happens if she wants to start her marriage on a clean slate. If she chooses not to, she should be ready to be exposed one day, and then it would be too late.

I don't care if her confession causes the end of her relationship (she would deserve it) because it's only a fool would cheat few weeks to her wedding! She doesn't love her husband-to-be so why marry him?!

That is why I like Catholic Church, Confess your sins to a priest that does not know u. God will forgive you. Then move wlon with your life.


Side effect of open confession is that the reactions of the person u offended can be negative or positive but in most cases negative and there will be no trust and what you re trying to achieve is messed up.


Keep ur mouth shot and stop sinning

prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

So you opened up an account in less than 24 hours to give us fiction Mr. I'm a guy?

DedeNkem:


Confession shouldn't depend on how convenient it is to the confesser or if the victim would forgive!

The cheater should confess before the marriage happens if she wants to start her marriage on a clean plate. If she chooses not to, she should be ready to be exposed one day, and then it would be too late.

I don't care if her confession causes the end of her relationship (she would deserve it) because it's only a fool would cheat few weeks to her wedding! She doesn't love her husband-to-be so why marry him?!

Her husband is a pastor in a Bible believing church, probably they have never had sex and she was sex starved.

This woman will cheat on that pastor again. I can almost guarantee it with 99% accuracy.

SmellySperm:
no point telling him coz you'll still cheat on him after the marriage anyways

meanwhile,he should run a DNA test for his first seed..
I just have trust issues with you females

Wisdom!.

Preach Bruv!. Preach It!

MufasaLion:

Wisdom!.
Preach Bruv!. Preach It!

UyaiIncomparabl:


I am not worthy to answer that question. We make mistakes, sometimes.

Cheating is a deliberate act of betrayal not a mistake.

BTW the OP is cheap...

prettyheart:
Good evening,

Please this is not my situation, so don't take it personal. It's not real.

Please if someone sleeps with an EX like few weeks to the wedding ceremony, should the person confess to the Fiance or just keep it and repent? Assuming the fiance is a pastor in a Bible believing church, should such a person confess, and will the pastor forgive? should the person confess after wedding or before wedding? I believe confession is right. Or is keeping mute the best?

It is just a question, it is not real and it is not my situation... I am even a guy.

Take care....

First of all, I can tell that you are the woman that cheated on her husband to be... Your writing style, your storyline and your moniker are all feminine.

Secondly, you have already broken the covenant and your marriage with him will be spiritually null and void because you are about to contract it under deceit. The honorable thing for you to do if truly you are sober is to confess the betrayal to him before contracting the marriage. If your fiancé is a man of honor he would forgive your misconduct and END whatever relationship he has with you. The trust have been broken.


BTW being a pastor or believer doesn't immune anyone from facing the consequences of their action even when they repent. God forgave Moses for disobeying him but still denied him access to Canaan. He equally forgave David for killing Uriah and sleeping with his wife, yet made him face the consequences by ensuring that David's never built His Temple.

TonyeBarcanista:

Cheating is a deliberate act of betrayal not a mistake.

BTW the OP is cheap...

Sometimes, a mistake.

Not my problems if she's cheap.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I am not worthy to answer that question. We make mistakes, sometimes.

Hmmm... I dig
Peace out

No time is cheating a mistake.


She is cheap

UyaiIncomparabl:


Sometimes, a mistake.

Not my problems if she's cheap.

TonyeBarcanista:
No time is cheating a mistake.


She is cheap

I hear you.

May yours never cheat on you.