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Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by DavidEsq(m): 2:56am On Apr 04, 2021
MejiLoyon:
For those that won't read
Chop highlights

He nack him wife to be sister.

That's all O.
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Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by DavidEsq(m): 2:59am On Apr 04, 2021
PERVENCHE:
*NOTE
With all due respect, I have changed names and some too familiar details about myself out of respect for my wife to be. I know she likes to catch cruise on nairaland.

My name is Friday (of course not my real name) I am from the middle-belt. So please save your tribalism with all those una Igbo, Yoruba and Hausa insults. I met Grace(my wife to be) few years ago. It was love at 1st sight. She was everything and is still everything I had hoped a woman should be. There is this crass about her that makes her effortlessly better than any lady around her. My type in the true sense of the word. Tall, busty, curvy, sassy, elegant, personable and above all, she has a graceful soul. From the 1st date to this day, I still pinch my self like.. What in God's green earth is a beauty like her doing with a shrek like me.

But then, true perfection is always a utopia. Grace in all her graceful demeanour and aura, has a flaw; Indecision! More so, blind trust seems to be her albatross. (I swear she can even take Lai Muhammad's word to the bank) Though, I still love her; flaws and all. Her complete or should I say blind trust for me and Abigail became one of the reasons Abigail(her younger sister) has become an unending chapter in our relationship. Even though the blame of what happened squarely falls on me.

Abigail just shy off 20, is too savvy for her age. Not the outright outstanding beauty like my Grace. What ever little she lacks in beauty, she more than makes up for it in her mentality. For she is truly a smart and an intelligent girl. Just five years younger than Grace. One who expect them at least to be close and be like Asaba and Onisha but then...they are the direct opposite of each other. While Grace is the introverted shy person, Abigail is quite the extrovert and likes to make friends for Africa. It is only fair to believe their formative time in secondary school played a part in their output towards life. Grace likes to conform like most day school students. Abigail on the other hand, is the boarding school nightmare all parents hope not to experience: the deviant.

Through the 1st years we dated, Abigail was in secondary school and was never in the picture. For some odd or strange reason, Grace was not ready to fully commit. Not that I blame her or something. At 23, Most girls her age are like Alice in wonderland; they crush on celebrities and Chase childhood dreams and fantasies. The vile ones, if truth be told...tend to live out their hoė phase. At 28, I was already grounded to know what I wanted and it was Grace and marriage. Sometimes, you do all you can do but then life has a way of throwing in a curveball. More over, "No be say because I wan chop egg I go begin dey worship chicken." Sensing her shakara, I pulled the hand brakes on us and walked out of the relationship.

***2 years later***
Fortunately or unfortunately after letting go, Grace became incensed and started to want me back. I hardly do any social media at this point. Pride won't let her call me, so there was no way to send coded messages on whatsapp status to me. Being the introvert that she is and the all trusting graceful Grace, she started to send Abigil over to my place to bridge the gap. In just over two years, Abigail had changed and developed into a sexy hippie bohemian. Not that I fancy her in any erotic way or something. It's just that in our contemporary naija society where mostly everyone conforms, it is hard not to notice a bohemian.

Knowing I would do no better than Grace even with a million dollars and in a hundred years of searching, I mended fences with Grace and our relationship became stronger than ever. Over time, Abigail became a bridge between us. At first, Grace would send her over to run errands for her. After a while, it became a second nature for her to come over and fidget with my electronics. Courtesy demands you be nice to your in-laws to be and so I was nice to Abigail.

Abigail's posturing over time made it difficult for me to say no to her especially during them Nengi and Laycon days in the house. She was a fan of big brother lockdown. And would always ask for my keys to watch the silly show for she was equally as silly to be gushing over that vanity fair. Grace seems not have any issues with her coming over and I also did not for I was hardly home and God knows the sub was kinda wasting away.

There are some things in life that are not planned. They just happen! My boss at work then tested positive for Covid and we were all asked to quarantine at home. Grace still had to go to work while Abigail was always free because of the ASSU strike. Suddenly, I started to be alone with Abigail. She would come over "for big brother" around 9am and leave around 7pm in time to beat her curfew at home. It was awkward staying all day with Abigail. Grace too predictable, only comes over on Sunday. For some strange reasons, on Sundays, Abigail will never show up.

There were times, and I am sure it could just be my imagination, that she enjoyed teasing me. She would come dressed like a sister Mary Amaka from home but after a while, she would take her bath and transform into a Kardashian. Wearing skimpy cloths and heavy make-up. I tried to give her her space. I was in quarantine and therefore, had practically no where to go. I am basically the type that don't flock with co-workers and I hardly keep any friends except for Grace. I am not one to be neighbourly with my neighbours so I was stuck with Abigail all day. Humans are social animals and we tend to gravitate towards each other especially when we are alone with someone. Gradually, she won me over and I started to watch the big brother show with her. While she was rooting for Nengi after her Erica left, I was simply for Neo for he had my height. And the bond between us grew. God knows I had no vile motives and evil intentions. It is hard not to enjoy Abigail's company for she is a smart, gleeful and witty girl. While I do all the talking with Grace, Abigail on the other hand does all the talking with me and it was a welcome change.

*** D Day ***
It became obvious Abigail was not telling the truth at home. She would pick their calls and tell them she was in her female friend's house. And in the spirit of our new found big brother bond. We kept the secret. On this faithful day, it had rained all day and Nepa had struck and the plug in my generator was no good. The rain had brought with it a cool breeze and some magical thunder. Seemingly, we could not watch our show so I took a blanket because of the cold and buried my attention on my PC (laptop) re-watching season 5 of the game of thrones.

Naively, Abigail joined me and entered the blanket with me. I use the word 'naive' because I honestly do not want to qualify her as a minx. And I know she does not see me as a Justine Bieber of a crystal ball for her to be drooling at. While in that warm blanket watching the movies in such compromising position, One thing led to another and alot of that one thing opened up her Pandora's box and I... I ate the most forbidden fruit there ever was. There is no telling how wonderful making love to her was at the heat of the moment and there's no shame in the world that equates to the shame that immediately dwell and still dwells in my soul shortly after even to this day. There's a lot to blame our mistake and betrayal on. Could it just be the moment? the weather? the chemistry? the devil? (laughs) my opportunistic habit? Her feminine warmth in such close proximity? my placing a hand on her thigh and meeting no resistance? My foggy mind and grown erection? Her racing and panting heart? Her feisty zeal and deviant nature? My libido? Hers? My morals? Buhari? Herdsmen? IPOB? Sunday Igbahor? Dstv and big brother? NEPA? Game of thrones? Was she after all really a minx? In all fairness, she is just a little naive girl that does not deserve to be pilloried for my betrayal. As the adult, I should have known better and acted a lot better.

Climbing down from our lustful climax, we both knew immediately what we had done, the gravity and the implications it could have on not just us, but grace and the whole family. In the most contrite way possible, we apologized to ourselves and vowed never to repeat it again. We felt it would be better not to tell Grace or anyone and we agreed Abigail would stop coming over. I started to avoid Abigail at all cost. I did not just release cum after my despicable act with Abigail, I released every thing good in me and every form of happiness. I felt much less of a man and wished I had died as a child or better still was aborted.

I hardly could face Grace after. The more I try to ghost her, the more she held on tightly. It became awkward visiting their family house for I was not comfortable around them trusting and accepting me. Not for the fear that they would find out...just my conscience eating me up. I stayed away and made peace with my gross mistake. For over six to seven months. I did my penance and nothing happened with Abigail. I know I am in a better place now to make sane decisions about cheating. To give something back to Grace, I have vowed never to sleep with anyone till die. We know how cheating amongst married men is common these days. I no call Adekule Gold name oh!

Me and Grace are set to marry on the 17th of this April. The thing is...Abigail is her chief bridesmaid and preparation demands I see her most times. She still has a look in her eyes...dunno what to make of it. A look of blackmail? Of you could still hit it if you want? We have unfinished business kinda look? You should be paying a bride price for two look? I die inside every time I see Grace happy she again got us back to talking terms because of the wedding. Ignorance is truly bliss.

I have doubts going through with this wedding. Folks may laugh and say I chickened out because of the inflation and money, others might blame Grace. It may ruin Grace for ever. How do I do this knowing Abigail will always be family?






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Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by DavidEsq(m): 3:09am On Apr 04, 2021
Peace081:
grin grin Why didn't u rush to informed us when you were about to commit the sin?
As in: pls help me dear nairalanders, I'm about to nak someone I should not nak. Pls should I still nak? cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin grin. Na like dis u mean, ba?
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by RichAbujaGuy: 3:12am On Apr 04, 2021
Frontail:
... Straight , Direct and Simply !

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Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by SmartyPants(m): 3:16am On Apr 04, 2021
PERVENCHE:
*NOTE
With all due respect, I have changed names and some too familiar details about myself out of respect for my wife to be. I know she likes to catch cruise on nairaland.

My name is Friday (of course not my real name) I am from the middle-belt. So please save your tribalism with all those una Igbo, Yoruba and Hausa insults. I met Grace(my wife to be) few years ago. It was love at 1st sight. She was everything and is still everything I had hoped a woman should be. There is this crass about her that makes her effortlessly better than any lady around her. My type in the true sense of the word. Tall, busty, curvy, sassy, elegant, personable and above all, she has a graceful soul. From the 1st date to this day, I still pinch my self like.. What in God's green earth is a beauty like her doing with a shrek like me.

But then, true perfection is always a utopia. Grace in all her graceful demeanour and aura, has a flaw; Indecision! More so, blind trust seems to be her albatross. (I swear she can even take Lai Muhammad's word to the bank) Though, I still love her; flaws and all. Her complete or should I say blind trust for me and Abigail became one of the reasons Abigail(her younger sister) has become an unending chapter in our relationship. Even though the blame of what happened squarely falls on me.

Abigail just shy off 20, is too savvy for her age. Not the outright outstanding beauty like my Grace. What ever little she lacks in beauty, she more than makes up for it in her mentality. For she is truly a smart and an intelligent girl. Just five years younger than Grace. One who expect them at least to be close and be like Asaba and Onisha but then...they are the direct opposite of each other. While Grace is the introverted shy person, Abigail is quite the extrovert and likes to make friends for Africa. It is only fair to believe their formative time in secondary school played a part in their output towards life. Grace likes to conform like most day school students. Abigail on the other hand, is the boarding school nightmare all parents hope not to experience: the deviant.

Through the 1st years we dated, Abigail was in secondary school and was never in the picture. For some odd or strange reason, Grace was not ready to fully commit. Not that I blame her or something. At 23, Most girls her age are like Alice in wonderland; they crush on celebrities and Chase childhood dreams and fantasies. The vile ones, if truth be told...tend to live out their hoė phase. At 28, I was already grounded to know what I wanted and it was Grace and marriage. Sometimes, you do all you can do but then life has a way of throwing in a curveball. More over, "No be say because I wan chop egg I go begin dey worship chicken." Sensing her shakara, I pulled the hand brakes on us and walked out of the relationship.

***2 years later***
Fortunately or unfortunately after letting go, Grace became incensed and started to want me back. I hardly do any social media at this point. Pride won't let her call me, so there was no way to send coded messages on whatsapp status to me. Being the introvert that she is and the all trusting graceful Grace, she started to send Abigil over to my place to bridge the gap. In just over two years, Abigail had changed and developed into a sexy hippie bohemian. Not that I fancy her in any erotic way or something. It's just that in our contemporary naija society where mostly everyone conforms, it is hard not to notice a bohemian.

Knowing I would do no better than Grace even with a million dollars and in a hundred years of searching, I mended fences with Grace and our relationship became stronger than ever. Over time, Abigail became a bridge between us. At first, Grace would send her over to run errands for her. After a while, it became a second nature for her to come over and fidget with my electronics. Courtesy demands you be nice to your in-laws to be and so I was nice to Abigail.

Abigail's posturing over time made it difficult for me to say no to her especially during them Nengi and Laycon days in the house. She was a fan of big brother lockdown. And would always ask for my keys to watch the silly show for she was equally as silly to be gushing over that vanity fair. Grace seems not have any issues with her coming over and I also did not for I was hardly home and God knows the sub was kinda wasting away.

There are some things in life that are not planned. They just happen! My boss at work then tested positive for Covid and we were all asked to quarantine at home. Grace still had to go to work while Abigail was always free because of the ASSU strike. Suddenly, I started to be alone with Abigail. She would come over "for big brother" around 9am and leave around 7pm in time to beat her curfew at home. It was awkward staying all day with Abigail. Grace too predictable, only comes over on Sunday. For some strange reasons, on Sundays, Abigail will never show up.

There were times, and I am sure it could just be my imagination, that she enjoyed teasing me. She would come dressed like a sister Mary Amaka from home but after a while, she would take her bath and transform into a Kardashian. Wearing skimpy cloths and heavy make-up. I tried to give her her space. I was in quarantine and therefore, had practically no where to go. I am basically the type that don't flock with co-workers and I hardly keep any friends except for Grace. I am not one to be neighbourly with my neighbours so I was stuck with Abigail all day. Humans are social animals and we tend to gravitate towards each other especially when we are alone with someone. Gradually, she won me over and I started to watch the big brother show with her. While she was rooting for Nengi after her Erica left, I was simply for Neo for he had my height. And the bond between us grew. God knows I had no vile motives and evil intentions. It is hard not to enjoy Abigail's company for she is a smart, gleeful and witty girl. While I do all the talking with Grace, Abigail on the other hand does all the talking with me and it was a welcome change.

*** D Day ***
It became obvious Abigail was not telling the truth at home. She would pick their calls and tell them she was in her female friend's house. And in the spirit of our new found big brother bond. We kept the secret. On this faithful day, it had rained all day and Nepa had struck and the plug in my generator was no good. The rain had brought with it a cool breeze and some magical thunder. Seemingly, we could not watch our show so I took a blanket because of the cold and buried my attention on my PC (laptop) re-watching season 5 of the game of thrones.

Naively, Abigail joined me and entered the blanket with me. I use the word 'naive' because I honestly do not want to qualify her as a minx. And I know she does not see me as a Justine Bieber of a crystal ball for her to be drooling at. While in that warm blanket watching the movies in such compromising position, One thing led to another and alot of that one thing opened up her Pandora's box and I... I ate the most forbidden fruit there ever was. There is no telling how wonderful making love to her was at the heat of the moment and there's no shame in the world that equates to the shame that immediately dwell and still dwells in my soul shortly after even to this day. There's a lot to blame our mistake and betrayal on. Could it just be the moment? the weather? the chemistry? the devil? (laughs) my opportunistic habit? Her feminine warmth in such close proximity? my placing a hand on her thigh and meeting no resistance? My foggy mind and grown erection? Her racing and panting heart? Her feisty zeal and deviant nature? My libido? Hers? My morals? Buhari? Herdsmen? IPOB? Sunday Igbahor? Dstv and big brother? NEPA? Game of thrones? Was she after all really a minx? In all fairness, she is just a little naive girl that does not deserve to be pilloried for my betrayal. As the adult, I should have known better and acted a lot better.

Climbing down from our lustful climax, we both knew immediately what we had done, the gravity and the implications it could have on not just us, but grace and the whole family. In the most contrite way possible, we apologized to ourselves and vowed never to repeat it again. We felt it would be better not to tell Grace or anyone and we agreed Abigail would stop coming over. I started to avoid Abigail at all cost. I did not just release cum after my despicable act with Abigail, I released every thing good in me and every form of happiness. I felt much less of a man and wished I had died as a child or better still was aborted.

I hardly could face Grace after. The more I try to ghost her, the more she held on tightly. It became awkward visiting their family house for I was not comfortable around them trusting and accepting me. Not for the fear that they would find out...just my conscience eating me up. I stayed away and made peace with my gross mistake. For over six to seven months. I did my penance and nothing happened with Abigail. I know I am in a better place now to make sane decisions about cheating. To give something back to Grace, I have vowed never to sleep with anyone till die. We know how cheating amongst married men is common these days. I no call Adekule Gold name oh!

Me and Grace are set to marry on the 17th of this April. The thing is...Abigail is her chief bridesmaid and preparation demands I see her most times. She still has a look in her eyes...dunno what to make of it. A look of blackmail? Of you could still hit it if you want? We have unfinished business kinda look? You should be paying a bride price for two look? I die inside every time I see Grace happy she again got us back to talking terms because of the wedding. Ignorance is truly bliss.

I have doubts going through with this wedding. Folks may laugh and say I chickened out because of the inflation and money, others might blame Grace. It may ruin Grace for ever. How do I do this knowing Abigail will always be family?







I just have one question for you. Who is Sunday Igbaho?
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Obaseki500: 3:17am On Apr 04, 2021
I know why you want to call off the wedding, because you know you go still chop Abigail over and again � � � � �
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Bahose(m): 3:22am On Apr 04, 2021
There are things you said that made me to know that you are an Igbo guy, well, that's by the way.you are a good writer and I am sure this story is a fictional one ,in reality if you want to avoid sin avoid the occasion you wanted it to happen and it has happened enjoy your unfaithfulness as long as it last because I am sure you are going to Bleep are again and again.
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Duplexxx: 3:48am On Apr 04, 2021
I don't read long stories

Sorry

I can't help
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Oyiboman69: 3:59am On Apr 04, 2021
Warrgidanairala:
So you are advising he should confess and still go ahead with the wedding, now I agree to the saying that men are shallow thinkers with little wisdom, easier said than done,the battle shall be between those two sisters while Mr randy dick will now be forming reconciliation master and its a never end battle that will linger on.Let him just go very far away from that family with his randy dick there's no other best solution to it
yes there is...the secret should not be let out and as you can see,both of them are doing well on that. besides, some things are meant to be kept secret....
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Oyiboman69: 4:00am On Apr 04, 2021
Warrgidanairala:
So you are advising he should confess and still go ahead with the wedding, now I agree to the saying that men are shallow thinkers with little wisdom, easier said than done,the battle shall be between those two sisters while Mr randy dick will now be forming reconciliation master and its a never end battle that will linger on.Let him just go very far away from that family with his randy dick there's no other best solution to it
yes there is...the secret should not be let out and as you can see,both of them are doing well on that. besides, some things are meant to be kept a secret....
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Bianda24: 4:00am On Apr 04, 2021
I must commend your writing skill. You should be the Adichie of our time. Back to the crust of the matter.

I will advice you don't let the cat out of the bag. The deed has been done. Let it remain so and forge ahead.

Confessing will not only worsen the matter, it will jeopardize it.
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by pacespot(m): 4:20am On Apr 04, 2021
NobleDeSage001:
My mind is telling me that this is a made up story. The accuracy of narration and the flawless expression is just too good.

Meanwhile, at about the time BBNaija lockdown happened, the case of Sunday Igbogho had not happened.
OP, you couldn't have been having sex with Abigail during BBNaija lockdown that happened last year and be thing about Sunday Igbogho that happened this year.

Fictional story, but you are a good story teller.

Those narratives he used are for sarcasms
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by saajus: 4:23am On Apr 04, 2021
Stop it. It was not a mistake. Both of you orchestrated everything. Deal with it. Some of you guys always think you have self-control, that's why you always put yourself in trouble. If she doesn't have a bad plan, why was she lying about her location? Both of you are stupid.

Call off the wedding if your conscience can't carry it. Calling it off will surely break Grace's heart. It would have been better if you call off the relationship last year. If you do it now that is 3 weeks to your wedding, you will mess up their family. Grace might not recover from it on time especially if she's old. Carry on with the wedding if your conscience can carry it, seek God's forgiveness, and keep mute forever. Even if you marry Grace, try to always avoid Abigail. She's very manipulative and can put you in trouble. She must not visit you whenever her sister is not around.
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by pacespot(m): 4:41am On Apr 04, 2021
I like the way you strewed those words together, you can make a living from fictional stories. But the obvious lie in the epistle is that the sex came by mistake, nobody had sex by mistake, there must have been prior and advanced interest before that night, your mind has to be ready for it before you can have an erection.

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Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by DedeNkem: 4:50am On Apr 04, 2021
The whole thing looked like a fabricated story. I blame your write up. You wrote it like a fiction.

You stretched the story too long unnecessarily, with not-so-funny bits added. But there were other areas I liked.

It should be placed under Entertainment not Romance.
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by buzorcharles(m): 5:21am On Apr 04, 2021
this is not a real life story. the guy wan use us learn how to write novel
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by BennyDon: 5:25am On Apr 04, 2021
I feel your pains, Bro. you see, what led to the gbenshing could have been averted if you hadn't allowed her to come over to your place as frequently as she did.

It was a gross mistake, even Lucifer himself would fall for such.

The interesting part of it is you being remorseful yet your insatiable lay would close her eyes at whatever you breed in your briefs.

I'll rather advise you back out or pay two dowries, one for Grace and the other for your enstranged sexmate.

Lest I forget, you write well!
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by drpossibilities(m): 5:30am On Apr 04, 2021
cheesy
MejiLoyon:
For those that won't read
Chop highlights

He nack him wife to be sister.

That's all O.

That is just it. You summarised it very well. cheesy cheesy grin grin
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by capitalzero: 5:31am On Apr 04, 2021
PERVENCHE:
*NOTE
With all due respect, I have changed names and some too familiar details about myself out of respect for my wife to be. I know she likes to catch cruise on nairaland.

My name is Friday (of course not my real name) I am from the middle-belt. So please save your tribalism with all those una Igbo, Yoruba and Hausa insults. I met Grace(my wife to be) few years ago. It was love at 1st sight. She was everything and is still everything I had hoped a woman should be. There is this crass about her that makes her effortlessly better than any lady around her. My type in the true sense of the word. Tall, busty, curvy, sassy, elegant, personable and above all, she has a graceful soul. From the 1st date to this day, I still pinch my self like.. What in God's green earth is a beauty like her doing with a shrek like me.

But then, true perfection is always a utopia. Grace in all her graceful demeanour and aura, has a flaw; Indecision! More so, blind trust seems to be her albatross. (I swear she can even take Lai Muhammad's word to the bank) Though, I still love her; flaws and all. Her complete or should I say blind trust for me and Abigail became one of the reasons Abigail(her younger sister) has become an unending chapter in our relationship. Even though the blame of what happened squarely falls on me.

Abigail just shy off 20, is too savvy for her age. Not the outright outstanding beauty like my Grace. What ever little she lacks in beauty, she more than makes up for it in her mentality. For she is truly a smart and an intelligent girl. Just five years younger than Grace. One who expect them at least to be close and be like Asaba and Onisha but then...they are the direct opposite of each other. While Grace is the introverted shy person, Abigail is quite the extrovert and likes to make friends for Africa. It is only fair to believe their formative time in secondary school played a part in their output towards life. Grace likes to conform like most day school students. Abigail on the other hand, is the boarding school nightmare all parents hope not to experience: the deviant.

Through the 1st years we dated, Abigail was in secondary school and was never in the picture. For some odd or strange reason, Grace was not ready to fully commit. Not that I blame her or something. At 23, Most girls her age are like Alice in wonderland; they crush on celebrities and Chase childhood dreams and fantasies. The vile ones, if truth be told...tend to live out their hoė phase. At 28, I was already grounded to know what I wanted and it was Grace and marriage. Sometimes, you do all you can do but then life has a way of throwing in a curveball. More over, "No be say because I wan chop egg I go begin dey worship chicken." Sensing her shakara, I pulled the hand brakes on us and walked out of the relationship.

***2 years later***
Fortunately or unfortunately after letting go, Grace became incensed and started to want me back. I hardly do any social media at this point. Pride won't let her call me, so there was no way to send coded messages on whatsapp status to me. Being the introvert that she is and the all trusting graceful Grace, she started to send Abigil over to my place to bridge the gap. In just over two years, Abigail had changed and developed into a sexy hippie bohemian. Not that I fancy her in any erotic way or something. It's just that in our contemporary naija society where mostly everyone conforms, it is hard not to notice a bohemian.

Knowing I would do no better than Grace even with a million dollars and in a hundred years of searching, I mended fences with Grace and our relationship became stronger than ever. Over time, Abigail became a bridge between us. At first, Grace would send her over to run errands for her. After a while, it became a second nature for her to come over and fidget with my electronics. Courtesy demands you be nice to your in-laws to be and so I was nice to Abigail.

Abigail's posturing over time made it difficult for me to say no to her especially during them Nengi and Laycon days in the house. She was a fan of big brother lockdown. And would always ask for my keys to watch the silly show for she was equally as silly to be gushing over that vanity fair. Grace seems not have any issues with her coming over and I also did not for I was hardly home and God knows the sub was kinda wasting away.

There are some things in life that are not planned. They just happen! My boss at work then tested positive for Covid and we were all asked to quarantine at home. Grace still had to go to work while Abigail was always free because of the ASSU strike. Suddenly, I started to be alone with Abigail. She would come over "for big brother" around 9am and leave around 7pm in time to beat her curfew at home. It was awkward staying all day with Abigail. Grace too predictable, only comes over on Sunday. For some strange reasons, on Sundays, Abigail will never show up.

There were times, and I am sure it could just be my imagination, that she enjoyed teasing me. She would come dressed like a sister Mary Amaka from home but after a while, she would take her bath and transform into a Kardashian. Wearing skimpy cloths and heavy make-up. I tried to give her her space. I was in quarantine and therefore, had practically no where to go. I am basically the type that don't flock with co-workers and I hardly keep any friends except for Grace. I am not one to be neighbourly with my neighbours so I was stuck with Abigail all day. Humans are social animals and we tend to gravitate towards each other especially when we are alone with someone. Gradually, she won me over and I started to watch the big brother show with her. While she was rooting for Nengi after her Erica left, I was simply for Neo for he had my height. And the bond between us grew. God knows I had no vile motives and evil intentions. It is hard not to enjoy Abigail's company for she is a smart, gleeful and witty girl. While I do all the talking with Grace, Abigail on the other hand does all the talking with me and it was a welcome change.

*** D Day ***
It became obvious Abigail was not telling the truth at home. She would pick their calls and tell them she was in her female friend's house. And in the spirit of our new found big brother bond. We kept the secret. On this faithful day, it had rained all day and Nepa had struck and the plug in my generator was no good. The rain had brought with it a cool breeze and some magical thunder. Seemingly, we could not watch our show so I took a blanket because of the cold and buried my attention on my PC (laptop) re-watching season 5 of the game of thrones.

Naively, Abigail joined me and entered the blanket with me. I use the word 'naive' because I honestly do not want to qualify her as a minx. And I know she does not see me as a Justine Bieber of a crystal ball for her to be drooling at. While in that warm blanket watching the movies in such compromising position, One thing led to another and alot of that one thing opened up her Pandora's box and I... I ate the most forbidden fruit there ever was. There is no telling how wonderful making love to her was at the heat of the moment and there's no shame in the world that equates to the shame that immediately dwell and still dwells in my soul shortly after even to this day. There's a lot to blame our mistake and betrayal on. Could it just be the moment? the weather? the chemistry? the devil? (laughs) my opportunistic habit? Her feminine warmth in such close proximity? my placing a hand on her thigh and meeting no resistance? My foggy mind and grown erection? Her racing and panting heart? Her feisty zeal and deviant nature? My libido? Hers? My morals? Buhari? Herdsmen? IPOB? Sunday Igbahor? Dstv and big brother? NEPA? Game of thrones? Was she after all really a minx? In all fairness, she is just a little naive girl that does not deserve to be pilloried for my betrayal. As the adult, I should have known better and acted a lot better.

Climbing down from our lustful climax, we both knew immediately what we had done, the gravity and the implications it could have on not just us, but grace and the whole family. In the most contrite way possible, we apologized to ourselves and vowed never to repeat it again. We felt it would be better not to tell Grace or anyone and we agreed Abigail would stop coming over. I started to avoid Abigail at all cost. I did not just release cum after my despicable act with Abigail, I released every thing good in me and every form of happiness. I felt much less of a man and wished I had died as a child or better still was aborted.

I hardly could face Grace after. The more I try to ghost her, the more she held on tightly. It became awkward visiting their family house for I was not comfortable around them trusting and accepting me. Not for the fear that they would find out...just my conscience eating me up. I stayed away and made peace with my gross mistake. For over six to seven months. I did my penance and nothing happened with Abigail. I know I am in a better place now to make sane decisions about cheating. To give something back to Grace, I have vowed never to sleep with anyone till die. We know how cheating amongst married men is common these days. I no call Adekule Gold name oh!

Me and Grace are set to marry on the 17th of this April. The thing is...Abigail is her chief bridesmaid and preparation demands I see her most times. She still has a look in her eyes...dunno what to make of it. A look of blackmail? Of you could still hit it if you want? We have unfinished business kinda look? You should be paying a bride price for two look? I die inside every time I see Grace happy she again got us back to talking terms because of the wedding. Ignorance is truly bliss.

I have doubts going through with this wedding. Folks may laugh and say I chickened out because of the inflation and money, others might blame Grace. It may ruin Grace for ever. How do I do this knowing Abigail will always be family?






It is better you quit now. Sooner or later, truth will be revealed. I see divorce in the future. The truth is that if there is any problem with grace in the future and Abigael come into picture, the same scenario will repeat itself. May be next one will happen in your matrimonial bed.
You are not a faithful man.
Shameless man!
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by drpossibilities(m): 5:35am On Apr 04, 2021
NobleDeSage001:
My mind is telling me that this is a made up story. The accuracy of narration and the flawless expression is just too good.

Meanwhile, at about the time BBNaija lockdown happened, the case of Sunday Igbogho had not happened.
OP, you couldn't have been having sex with Abigail during BBNaija lockdown that happened last year and be thing about Sunday Igbogho that happened this year.

Fictional story, but you are a good story teller.

That reference to Igboho caught my attention too. cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by capitalzero: 5:40am On Apr 04, 2021
pacespot:
I like the way you strewed those words together, you can make a living from fictional stories. But the obvious lie in the epistle is that the sex came by mistake, nobody had sex by mistake, there must have been prior and advanced interest before that night, your mind has to be ready for it before you can have an erection.

Very correct. Nobody has sex by mistake.
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Kingstanding: 5:55am On Apr 04, 2021
etrange:


And he started by telling us his wife's flaws (one of which is that she trusts him o). Meanwhile, he's the bad egg here.

Wonderful.
. The guy is wicked more than devil. How on Earth would you had sex with two siblings? Haba at least you should have thought of you being a father one day and would you be happy if a man do this to your daughters? There is no temptation on Earth will let me have sex with my friends girlfriend talkless of my girlfriend sister. That guy knew that the younger sister to his girlfriend is a bad girl, he should have not given her ant chances at all. Well, who is that man without sin to crucify you first? May Almighty God forgive you your sins and our sins too. My candid advice for you is to keep off from them.
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by yetty247(f): 5:59am On Apr 04, 2021
dey try summarize ur problem cos no b only u get problem for dis life
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Pacyrus(m): 6:07am On Apr 04, 2021
Can't believe I read this whole epistle.... So rare of me tho. cry
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by grandstar(m): 6:12am On Apr 04, 2021
PERVENCHE

The truth is you'll never be at peace until you confess your sin to Grace. Also, Abigail can still be a burden. That door is actually still open. To close it parnanently, you have to confess.

Read Proverbs 28:13.
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by mencer(m): 6:20am On Apr 04, 2021
lies lies lies na lie stories
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Munzy14(m): 6:24am On Apr 04, 2021
MejiLoyon:
For those that won't read Chop highlights
He nack him wife to be sister.
That's all O.
Ultimate summary...grin
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Munzy14(m): 6:32am On Apr 04, 2021
wahala for sister weh dull come the do shakara on top, na their smart sister go re-arrange their man for them...cheesy


OP from your story u were lusting after the sister, u only waited for opportunity...Girl weh u deh date, her your sisters suppose deh under you as a senior brother/another father figure and not equating them to position meant for you girl/wife.
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by optimusprime2(m): 6:34am On Apr 04, 2021
@OP, you are an excellent writer!
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Zionbel(m): 6:36am On Apr 04, 2021
Forgive yourself and let sleeping dogs lie. You're not the worst sinner that can't forgive yourself and be forgiven. There's no point making a confession because it will be like tearing up a wound and adding salt to it.

Fear women especially introverted ones. I'm talking from experience.
She would say, you're forgiven for telling her but it will have a lasting negative impact on your new home and also create a cold war between both sisters.

Just avoid her sister in all entirety and do well to avoid a one on one situation with her. And in all thy avoidance, discipline yourself and be a better man bro. One love!
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Fxwarrior: 6:38am On Apr 04, 2021
MejiLoyon:
For those that won't read
Chop highlights

He nack him wife to be sister.

That's all O.

Amebo. grin
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Fanuchi007: 6:39am On Apr 04, 2021
After visiting all the regions in Nigeria, one thing I can say is, The middle belt is the least tribalistic region in the country. Cross River is the least tribalistic state in Nigeria.
Bro u ar on ur own oh. ur matter be like nigerian corruption, e no get remedy.

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