healthbing:
Just give her space for sometime and stop calling her..
If she doesn't call or text you Maybe after a week then just move on..
Happiness is what matters in everything.
There is no need being in a relationship you're not happy about..
Advice yourself

Okay. Thank you for your advice

healthbing:
Just give her space for sometime and stop calling her..
If she doesn't call or text you Maybe after a week then just move on..
Happiness is what matters in everything.
There is no need being in a relationship you're not happy about..
Advice yourself

I thought she is seeing another guy of late.

What about that , can I even over look that even though she call.....

Fedric:



Do you know if I needed her attention and help at that moment ?

Why will she see my 20 miss call and not call back.

send a fvcking sms! Jeez

Fedric:


I thought she is seeing another guy of late.

What about that , can I even over look that even though she call.....

Well you both are adult..
Talk about whatever you think with her and sort it out.
Just don't let your emotions Take the better part of you.
And again don't rush into marriage until you're sure she's good enough..
And you yourself should try and change in ur character and attitude.
There are ethics and discipline a man should abide by..

Fedric:


I'm ready to get married .

I am rich but no one knows this and I didn't show her . Building my second house but I told her I am working as a factory guy for now and pretty tired .



I'm an internet marketer

No wonder ur ex Girlfriend is not picking ur calls, u too dey go off key: HOW OLD ARE YOU?, u no fit ansa u re telling us u re rich and building ur second house

Fedric:



Do you know if I needed her attention and help at that moment ?

Why will she see my 20 miss call and not call back.

guy na wa for you o,you too meek o,why wud you call a woman 20missed calls.i call my babe highest 2 missed calls.i love myself so much because I always act sendless,for instance if me and my babe dey talk for phone and she gets angry and cut my call,I dont get angry or vex and call back.i simply dont call till the next day ,I never ever apologize when am not at fault.i am in charge and she knows it.i have being this way right from time,I dont even read all these red pill books or things but as a man I know how to be a king in my own lane,and I cannot take nonsense from a woman

Is that not what girlfriends do? Misbehave

Fedric:



Do you know if I needed her attention and help at that moment ?

Why will she see my 20 miss call and not call back.

Jus imagine calling someone 20 non stop calls...Nawa oh

U don loose ur self respect dats y she has no regards fr ur attention which is nw like a disturbance to her...Guy wise up & no dey fall my hands as a weakling Bf

too many man babies and simps in the streets these days, you give girl 20miss calls back to back when a real nigga dey pump her doggy bck2bck while you call...oga wise up and take the redpill

Reex12:
too many man babies and simps in the streets these days, you give girl 20miss calls back to back when a real nigga dey pump her doggy bck2bck while you call...oga wise up and take the redpill

as in eh.. E dey vex me. Imagine he no dey shame dey yarn say he dey give girl 20 missed calls..i am sure the op is within 18-20years

Fedric:



Do you know if I needed her attention and help at that moment ?

Why will she see my 20 miss call and not call back.

I ditch my girlfriend for this same reason in 2019 for all this unnecessary miss calls. Why on earth will you call someone more than 3 times

I love that babe for ditching you. You gats no self respect

You call a girl 20 times

Michelle55:
For your peace of mind, observe her in silence and don't complain any more, if she doesn't change then you have every right to call it quit.

Don't displease yourself in the process of pleasing your partner, it's not worth it.

Happiness is free and if your partner is an obstruction to it, severe ties and maintain your peace.

Chose you first before anyone else, your partner should be a source of inspiration and peace to you and if he or she isn't fulfilling that role then it's best you cut ties.

If during courtship, I barely share a healthy and carefree laughter and peace around you then it's a red flag that I can't ignore, listen to your heart and make the right decision.

Peace!

Op
U see dis advice
Dis guy have said it all

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Sometimes I wonder if people read signs or just intentionally ignore them. You sef, you sabi disturb. If she keeps giving these excuses then stop bothering yourself, bro. I'm 70% sure she's with another man, ask those guys in Olosho beer parlour thread, I'm very sure one or two of them don dey smash am as you dey call your babe.

As for me, I don't call more than twice, thrice if it is serious.....10 times or more if it is a life or desth, money emergency. As a man that you are, it is even annoying as you keep blowing up her phone. Give her her space and goan explore other babes that are willing to be explored like Dora, since you are already rich. 'nuff said

How u go gree make woman be ur wahala Bruh!

Aaaaarghmed:
guy na wa for you o,you too meek o,why wud you call a woman 20missed calls.i call my babe highest 2 missed calls.i love myself so much because I always act sendless,for instance if me and my babe dey talk for phone and she gets angry and cut my call,I dont get angry or vex and call back.i simply dont call till the next day ,I never ever apologize when am not at fault. I am in charge and she knows it.i have being this way right from time,I dont even read all these red pill books or things but as a man I know how to be a king in my own lane,and I cannot take nonsense from a woman

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@the bolded. You see this right here, is what I love most about your comment. That's my fave quote/ belief "Never apologise when you know you are not at fault". Most females intentionally do this to take a measure of our manliness and most guys fall for it.

Be in charge of your one world. Na correct man you be, bro

Cutehector:
as in eh.. E dey vex me. Imagine he no dey shame dey yarn say he dey give girl 20 missed calls..i am sure the op is within 18-20years

He's above 20 in age but not in experience. It's obvious the guy has had no relationship experience that is why his world is about to crash.

20 missed calls??!! This level of insecurity and desperation is from planet Mars. Get into relationship early and learn how to get heart broken early so you would know how to handle situations like this when you come of age.

Ok

Wahala for who get Gf. Move on, bro, before the break your heart.

How old are you?

Relationship sucks

Nairalanders, should we tell him?

Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

Stop calling her. If I were you, I will begin to check out on another girl to fill her space and gradually replace her for life.

Where is your value when you keep calling a girl 20 times? That's stupidity na. A girl should miss you not you to keep behaving like a kid.

Distance make a heart grow fonder.

Fedric:
Lot of things has happen where I start begging her after telling her what I don't like she is doing .


I'm a gentle guy and I like people to treat me cool and likewise will I do so but she has made me a complain master and she still make me feel bad after raising my complaint .


I'm not happy right now as I feel she is seeing someone else and also the fact that she don't respect me as I want .


At list playing maturity and saying sorry when ever you go wrong is what I ask for

What a stuuupiiddd simp

Your girl foremost be an ESN member. Call Mr BUHARI, he has a better solution for you.

Muhylonaire007:
Nairalanders, should we tell him?

Not yet

Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

Do this mr man.

Just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

But before you free her have you checked on your own side that you are not hurting her?? Or have you sat her down and ask what the problem is?

If there is no issue and she put up this attitude then just move on don't call her no more. If she truly loves you she will come on her own.

Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

She may be your girlfriend but not exclusively cause obviously you're sharing her with someone else.