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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by YourMajesty(m): 2:09pm On Apr 07
airminem:
ExCONVICT, be guilded !
Ashawo nor suppose give advice. grin
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by NobleDeSage001: 2:15pm On Apr 07
Fedric:


I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

You can not use and dump someone who has stylishly dumped you already.

Kindly move on and forget everything about her.
Her recent attitude towards you is an indication that she is no longer interested in you and probably, she has replaced you with another guy. That's why she does not answer your calls.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by etcsines: 2:15pm On Apr 07
Lamasta:

As in to change the girl I don't care attitude or to change OP simping attitude cos I don't understand o

I didn't even read the post grin
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Heterodox(m): 2:17pm On Apr 07
Fedric:
Lot of things has happen where I start begging her after telling her what I don't like she is doing .


I'm a gentle guy and I like people to treat me cool and likewise will I do so but she has made me a complain master and she still make me feel bad after raising my complaint .


I'm not happy right now as I feel she is seeing someone else and also the fact that she don't respect me as I want .


At list playing maturity and saying sorry when ever you go wrong is what I ask for
What's with men and respect sef.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Eastcaostboy: 2:18pm On Apr 07
Fedric:


I'm ready to get married .

I am rich but no one knows this and I didn't show her . Building my second house but I told her I am working as a factory guy for now and pretty tired .



I'm an internet marketer
Real G, that is how we dip and swerve without being notice OG's.... Fling that Actress ASAP
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Mcslize: 2:19pm On Apr 07
Fedric:
Lot of things has happen where I start begging her after telling her what I don't like she is doing .


I'm a gentle guy and I like people to treat me cool and likewise will I do so but she has made me a complain master and she still make me feel bad after raising my complaint .


I'm not happy right now as I feel she is seeing someone else and also the fact that she don't respect me as I want .


At list playing maturity and saying sorry when ever you go wrong is what I ask for


I understand your plight but I am not here to lambaste you to add to your already disorganized emotions.

But I will be brutally real with you. How do you expect her to respect you when you are acting all desperate and needy? Ladies hate needy guys.

You are just overly desperate and worked up in the relationship. Why? You have stoop too low to be taking all her shits and worst of it all crawling and begging her all the time. What for? She won't ever respect you never again until you step up your games.

Ladies don't value gentle men. They will step on your feet, rubbish you with your emotions and go and Bleep another manly man that knows how to handle their type of girls.

You need to work on that aspect of yours. Stop begging and know how to handle that type of girl. You can never win her respect by being that gentle and taking all her bullshits cuz she knows after all you will continue to crawl and beg her all the time.

Secondly, you're expecting too much from your relationship. The girl I date right now treats me like a king but I still bullshit her love. I am not desperate over her. Whatever she is doing, she always snap pics and send me even when I don't ask for. I don't show much concern over what she is doing with her life and she is the one doing all the loving while I slightly reciprocate at some points without being all that desperate.

I keep her on her toes so much that if she messes up she keeps begging and doing all the talking while I remain silent. I am doing all that because that's the strategy I use to keep her to respect me. If I do all that you are doing, I bet you, she will start to act like your girl.

I understand all these females very well. They value guys that don't have their time more than those that have their times. Have I just revealed a secret? Of course YES. If you wanna be acting all wussy simply because you intend to marry the girl, she will never respect you ever. She will despice you and will always disrespect you. She will never take you seriously and won't value you.

Solution? Act like she never exist.

Rules: Don't call her more than twice if she don't pick your first call. Bombarding a girl with many calls even when she is not picking makes her sees you like a desperate low life man who has nothing to do.

Don't let any girl see you like that. I don't call more than two times when calling any girl. If I call once, a girl doesn't pick, I will give it some minutes and call again if she doesn't pick, I will stop. It's been working for me. They will call back based on the respect I have built in them.

Remove that marriage from your mind now. If you want to marry, be rest assure it shouldn't be that girl, if not, you will be the woman in the marriage. You want to marry a girl that doesn't value your existence? I won't even advice my enemy to go ahead with such a plan.

Bro, step up. Stop all those your gentle man attributes it won't help you keep any girl. Step up and show your manly attributes rather than your gentle man attributes only then any girl will value and respect you.

Take this from me: girls don't value gentle men. They bullshit them. I have tried and tested everything I said on girls and I have noticed that women show less respect to men that treat them like QUEENS and much respect to those that don't have their bleeping time.

Be that man that any girl will be scared to lose. Keep them on their toes when dealing with them. Be unpredictable and never let any girl know what you are up to the next minutes. It keeps them on their toes and will do any thing to please you .

A word is enough for the wise!

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by airminem(f): 2:23pm On Apr 07
YourMajesty:
Ashawo nor suppose give advice. grin
Child rapist tongue luckily you' re released now after your 14 years jail term. exCONVICT dont go back to your old ways okay. Please be useful, learn a skill and be a better man okay?!
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by FashionCookie(f): 2:26pm On Apr 07
BluDesk:



Na so. Leave hypocrisy address the issue at hand. Is the girlfriend acting as an olosho or not.


Birds of same feather dey say flock together undecided

Just leave plenty grammar online. E clear say una no go fit do without women. So why should I worry my pretty head over a story that's probably fake?
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by YourMajesty(m): 2:31pm On Apr 07
airminem:
Child rapist tongue luckily you' re released now after your 14 years jail term. exCONVICT dont go back to your old ways okay. Please be useful, learn a skill and be a better man okay?!
Ashawo be confusing me for the man she married. grin He should brace up and do a DNA test on his children. Having a promiscuous bitch like you as a wife is harmful to any unfortunate man who marries you. cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 2:34pm On Apr 07
The little girl is tired of constant dicking and pricking. Which be come over everytime. If she doesn't come over, can't you go over
angry grin
She wants to try something new. Or she might just be tired of your nagging attitude.
You must not marry her.
How old are you sef to start with? You sound like you just clocked 20 too.
If not, what happens to moving on when someone begins to give you unnecessary excuses.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by XDaBOSS(m): 2:44pm On Apr 07
This kind stuff de vex me wella....u know what to do already but u go come NL de disturb person peace...Mtcheww...
No help your self, de there de form Mr. Gentleman.

PS. Make sure say u knack her wells. Mix all the extra concoction needed for hard knacking den knack....before u decide anything.

Thank DaBoss later grin
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by oliviacute(f): 2:45pm On Apr 07
Mr fedric it's obvious that you love this girl so much and when that show of love becomes excess it turns to see finish
no 1 mistake- calling a girl 20 times, that's really awkward if u ask me
I understand how it feels when in love though and things people do unknowingly for love
two times is enough..if she doesn't pick up, send a text
don't call back until she calls back
and try and train urself not to be calling her as often as before. let's see if she will change.
don't subject yourself to emotional toture because of anybody
if u observe that she is not straight forward
move in with ur life
there is a man for every woman and a woman for every man
life is not that hard

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Fedric(m): 2:45pm On Apr 07
prekumohtim:


You are not dumping any sh*t. She has dumped you already
The issue is , she doesn't want to open up . She just believe that with her attitude you will understand.
Don't put marriage at your front. You could even propose to her and she will reject you .
Move on , stop calling her . Kill that stupid emotion
Thank you
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Fedric(m): 2:46pm On Apr 07
SweetCunt97:
A man shouldn't be too emotional or gummy gummy, your affection will be taken for granted. Simply stop calling or complaining. Those things you used to do, stop it all and watch if she'll come around.

Okay. I hear
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by SweetCunt97(f): 2:58pm On Apr 07
BluDesk:



Hypocrite. First call the girl and olosho before you call him names. Eediot
how? A girl no longer interested in a man that majes her an olosho? Mayb she even accepted d op based on pity
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by BluDesk: 3:02pm On Apr 07
oliviacute:
Mr fedric it's obvious that you love this girl so much and when that show of love becomes excess it turns to see finish
no 1 mistake- calling a girl 20 times, that's really awkward if u ask me
I understand how it feels when in love though and things people do unknowingly for love
two times is enough..if she doesn't pick up, send a text
don't call back until she calls back
and try and train urself not to be calling her as often as before. let's see if she will change.
don't subject yourself to emotional toture because of anybody
if u observe that she is not straight forward
move in with ur life
there is a man for every woman and a woman for every man
life is not that hard



You've spoken well jare Olivia

But give that girl ten years, she's still single and fvck Ed all over the neighborhood by everyone. It's what we see around. Karma has a way of balancing the equation
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by rioemmanuel(m): 3:04pm On Apr 07
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Telstar: 3:06pm On Apr 07
Man, why don't you look for another girl?
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Telstar: 3:09pm On Apr 07
rioemmanuel:
If you have a Facebook account you can spare
Send me a message on WhatsApp
I’m buying them all now. I’m buying for 1,000 Naira each

I need the Facebook to run paid advert (it is not for fraudulent activities) and more so, you will still have full access to your account anytime you want to.

I’m buying for 1,000 Naira each

WhatsApp on >>> 08096468885
1k? Gosh, are you totally out of your mind?
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by PrincewithGod(m): 3:11pm On Apr 07
My advice is "Give your life to Jesus and experience the greatest peace of all: PEACE THAT COMES FROM HOLINESS AND RIGHTEOUSNESS".
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by HRMK: 3:16pm On Apr 07
obviously,one of the lazy youths buhari was talking abt!go all out to hustle for money!no lady ignores a #moneybag!!
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Fedric(m): 3:20pm On Apr 07
AlexB300:
Oga girl wey genuinely love u no go do all these things. Find someone who does to avoid heartache. You’ll know when someone genuinely loved you wink

Exactly Baba. Thank you .
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by omonnakoda: 3:20pm On Apr 07
oliviacute:
Mr fedric it's obvious that you love this girl so much and when that show of love becomes excess it turns to see finish
no 1 mistake- calling a girl 20 times, that's really awkward if u ask me
I understand how it feels when in love though and things people do unknowingly for love
two times is enough..if she doesn't pick up, send a text
don't call back until she calls back
and try and train urself not to be calling her as often as before. let's see if she will change.
don't subject yourself to emotional toture because of anybody
if u observe that she is not straight forward
move in with ur life
there is a man for every woman and a woman for every man
life is not that hard
We need to distinguish between love and obsessive/compulsive behaviour.
We need to distinguish between love and clinginess driven by a weak sense of self worth

These sorts of behaviour are often driven by childhood attachment problems which is a very long topic for another day.

Simple fact is this kind of behaviour is a pattern that replays itself in all relationships and is underpinned by an unresolved childhood fear of abandonment now dressed up as "love" . It has nothing to do with love at all

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by BluDesk: 3:23pm On Apr 07
omonnakoda:

We need to distinguish between love and obsessive/compulsive behaviour.
We need to distinguish between love and clinginess driven by a weak sense of self worth

These sorts of behaviour are often driven by childhood attachment problems which is a very long topic for another day.

Simple fact is this kind of behaviour is a pattern that replays itself in all relationships and is underpinned by an unresolved childhood fear of abandonment now dressed up as "love" . It has nothing to do with love at all



Every relationship will need neediness. However healthy,etc stop downplaying this factor abeg una


I don't give two hoots about any lady. My ex worked in a multinational


It takes me just 5 minutes to get a reply from any lady or permanently walk away. Yes, I'm mentally, emotionally and psychologically strong, however that neediness and emotional security isn't needful in a healthy relationship is what I'll never agree to

I beg to defer with your standpoint.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by BluDesk: 3:24pm On Apr 07
Fedric:


Exactly Baba. Thank you .



You need to change how you deal with women


Start flaunting your success to project your worth so they begin to rush. When they chase you do your sorting


No time. Dump their sorry arses

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Fedric(m): 3:27pm On Apr 07
BluDesk:



There's need for closure and emotional security in any healthy relationship. He deserves to have it. She's deliberately not interested in being accountable. The Op isn't the one with issues here abeg you.


Whatever condition the OP is was brought about by the actions and I actions of the girlfriend.


The OP isn't clingy or needy. The girl isn't in lovewoth him and has grown tired of the relationship



Cc Fedric

Thank you very much. This is exactly who I am .


I like to enjoy healthy and loving and sweet relationship without blemish or thinking someone is using they brain on the relationship.


I'm just too open minded and want to enjoy life with someone I love.

This is my second relationship and I don't go intorelationship much .


I. Much more focus in achieving my dream and achieving financial freedom.


I'm so loving and my family could know that.

I'm an introvert and I don't really approach ladies for relationship.

I'm just a gentle type shall.




I dont see any issue in me calling my girl friend for multiple times , this is because I love her and I really want to speak with her .


I do not see any issue in me trying to show love .


It's obviouse that she isn't someone for me and someone who love someone like me .



Damn me

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by mikemiyaki: 3:28pm On Apr 07
How does one get a whatsapp tracker or a phone tracker?
Tohsynetita1:

get a WhatsApp tracker or phone tracker and get all she has been keeping from you
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by doverulez(m): 3:28pm On Apr 07
Every toxic relationships should be avoided at all cost.
My brother you need to start reading btw the lines as it is now obvious that things are not falling in line with your relationship.
The most important thing in any relationship is being happy. so if a girl/boy, man/woman is making your life miserable, guy leggo b4r e go shock you.....
Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by omonnakoda: 3:29pm On Apr 07
BluDesk:




Every relationship will need neediness. However healthy,etc stop downplaying this factor abeg una


I don't give two hoots about any lady. My ex worked in a multinational


It takes me just 5 minutes to get a reply from any lady or permanently walk away. Yes, I'm mentally, emotionally and psychologically strong, however that neediness and emotional security isn't needful in a healthy relationship is what I'll never agree to

I beg to defer with your standpoint.

I did not exactly use the word "neediness" .

Nevertheless I suggest you do a quick check on what the word actually means
There is nothing desirable about neediness
It takes you 5 minutes to get a reply or you permanently walk away? You call that "mentally, emotionally and psychologically strong"

That just sounds like an ego defence mechanism
That is weak as hell.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Eluala(m): 3:30pm On Apr 07
Fedric:
I'm just not happy .

Please read my post and place your advice . Will do much appreciate every input .


I just have to make this post short

My advice to you is to go to Google and search for a guy named KEVIN SAMUELS. He is a man's man. Watch his videos and you will thank me later.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by BluDesk: 3:31pm On Apr 07
Fedric:


Thank you very much. This is exactly who I am .


I like to enjoy healthy and loving and sweet relationship without blemish or thinking someone is using they brain on the relationship.


I'm just too open minded and want to enjoy life with someone I love.

This is my second relationship and I don't go intorelationship much .


I. Much more focus in achieving my dream and achieving financial freedom.


I'm so loving and my family could know that.

I'm an introvert and I don't really approach ladies for relationship.

I'm just a gentle type shall.




I dont see any issue in me calling my girl friend for multiple times , this is because I love her and I really want to speak with her .


I do not see any issue in me trying to show love .


It's obviouse that she isn't someone for me and someone who love someone like me .



Damn me



You're not damned


It's your love language


Na Whitey you suppose marry. Start asking questions. Speak to pastors. Your type would be abused by the ladies here cause they think loving is weakness as expressed by 90% on this thread



You're not weak for needing love or emotional security


Start living your life. Honesty and genuinely forget coding



Start preparing to travel out so you meet foreign women. From what I've seen about you... Just go to US and marry a white woman. That's the kind of love you need not materially attached people



Nigerian women don't know, value or appreciate love that's why when it's offered to them it's thrown back and trampled upon


Don't stay in any relationship that doesn't meet your emotional or psychological needs.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Fedric(m): 3:32pm On Apr 07
bigpicture001:


Bro peace of mind in marriage matters more than any other things... If deep down inside you, u know u wouldn't have peace of mind if you marry this girl, please walk away...

Experience has shown me that any lady who doesn't use the simple word am sorry is one who is a proud person.... And trust me it is a guarantee that all marriages will face a test of fire and brimstone.... In period like that her or your am sorry will make a whole lots of sense...

Again, in ur complain, u didn't mention any thing ah did to u aside not picking your calls twice.. That us not enough to say someone is misbehaving..... But the info ur hiding from her maybe the reason ur not shown love.. Women are wired to llove ONLY progressive males....

My best advice is u give it some time again


She don'ts say sorry anytime I raise issue and complain of anything .

I end up explaining and giving reason why she was wrong but still not working .

I'm just like a complain ash .

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