PrimadonnaO:


Well to be honest, I feel everyone should be able to gauge chemistry. You should be able to know when a girl really likes you.

If communication is strained... she's probably not feeling you.

If you always beg to see her... she's not feeling you or there's someone else occupying her time and mind.

If she starts on from the get-go with billing - high chance she dates people primarily for financial gratification.

In the way you're getting to know her, if she's not also deliberately trying to know you - high chance she doesn't put much thought into dating and just says yes to almost anyone who asks her out.

People should be intentional about dating... before the relationship starts, and during the relationship.

Handsomecole:
Chased during school and five years even after school; one day she came over spent two nights (no sex) we went on am expensive date , we talked about dating she said she was gonna think about it and she left.

I posted photos of her at the date on my insta she saw it got angry and asked me to take it down.

Since then I lock up...

Magnoliaa:


Me is three, all three is me, all three is in me, I am in all three, lmaoo. Kai.

Egalite:
After 4years... I quit and formatted her from my mind, heart and soul

Magnoliaa:


Me is three, all three is me, all three is in me, I am in all three, lmaoo. Kai.

Tbvxl:
I give up easily bruvs!
The last time I had myself stressed over a lady was my ex. After she broke up with me because I caught her cheating,but still I wanted her back like mad. In a nutshell I pleaded with her from Feb till April,and everything got worse this month. But if it were to be other ladies,I'd give up easily. I hate to be taken outta my comfort zone

PrimadonnaO:


Well to be honest, I feel everyone should be able to gauge chemistry. You should be able to know when a girl really likes you.

If communication is strained... she's probably not feeling you.

If you always beg to see her... she's not feeling you or there's someone else occupying her time and mind.

If she starts on from the get-go with billing - high chance she dates people primarily for financial gratification.

In the way you're getting to know her, if she's not also deliberately trying to know you - high chance she doesn't put much thought into dating and just says yes to almost anyone who asks her out.

People should be intentional about dating... before the relationship starts, and during the relationship.

Yanbaba4u:
Girls in my department really made a mockery of me, I invite people tire from my 200lv, non showed up, ask few out all declined, even my girlfriend then started showing attitude, until she dumped my sorry ass �
Poverty is bad, fast forward to present day, boy don freshen up, come fine like madt, all the girls that turned me down started wondering, because the way I take change ee, the thing sef shock me,
They started seeking my face, even begging for visits, but I had to ignore them and face the one who later accepted me for who I am, I am with her now, and have no intention of cheating.

PrimadonnaO:
See, first develop friendship with a girl. Give her a reasonable amount of time to get to know you.

Depending on the quality of communications you have, a month or 3 months max should suffice. If she's begun to like you, then trust me she's patiently waiting for you to ask her out.

Then you clearly ask her out.

If she tells you no, and the reason is not because she has a boyfriend already or she just got out of a relationship and needs some time to let wafer flow under the bridge before starting a new relationship, then please quit chasing, because she saw the question coming and has prepared for it.

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You can decide to hang around and strengthen the friendship so you ask again another time, but the chances of her stance changing is quite low, and you may simply end up investing more resources on a wild goose chase.

P.S This only applies to quality babes, not the ones who;

play hard-to-get for a living,

or the ones who think they should give any guy that asks them out a try.

or the ones who say yes because their birthday is close or they want to bill you for a new phone.

mrdharkchild:
Omo!! E nor easy again o.
Na hiding of my fine face I de do now o.
E nor easy at all.
But Sha, God pass them.
Thank God for weed.

I'm sure to date a white girl Sha. Nigerian girls are too worldly n worthless. U can't even spark an intelligent conversation these days with them.

MickzyDonald:
I stopped chasing them when i realized i must first make it then they will be the one to come around

yomi007k:


Seconded...

Yanbaba4u:
Girls in my department really made a mockery of me, I invite people tire from my 200lv, non showed up, ask few out all declined, even my girlfriend then started showing attitude, until she dumped my sorry ass �
Poverty is bad, fast forward to present day, boy don freshen up, come fine like madt, all the girls that turned me down started wondering, because the way I take change ee, the thing sef shock me,
They started seeking my face, even begging for visits, but I had to ignore them and face the one who later accepted me for who I am, I am with her now, and have no intention of cheating.

amrichy:

This is quite an intelligent opinion. But then, how do you know if a girl's response to your proposal is genuine or motivated by ulterior reasons? How do we distinguish "quality babes" from non-quality ones?

For a babe like me oh, you go correct antenna tire. Even climb your next-door-neighbor's fence reach your pan, before you try to peg me as a quality or non-quality one. But shaa, lemme read Donna's response on which store pesin fit go for quality ladies and to filter the disguising bend-down-selects.

I like to learn. It might become handy in my arsenal.

mrdharkchild:
Omo!! E nor easy again o.
Na hiding of my fine face I de do now o.
E nor easy at all.
But Sha, God pass them.
Thank God for weed.

I'm sure to date a white girl Sha. Nigerian girls are too worldly n worthless. U can't even spark an intelligent conversation these days with them.