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Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by Odiriance4all(m): 8:48pm On Apr 17, 2021
OP is a sucker for love
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by Adegunwapiper15: 8:58pm On Apr 17, 2021
U must b a fool for testing ur so called gf, definitely u don’t trust her, it’s crazy, do u actually think of d outcome of dis shit? Anyway you’re still a small boy sha
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by abimic(m): 9:08pm On Apr 17, 2021
Which Nigerian girl won't fall for this, it happens so fast, who doesn't like good life? I for one hate my chats returned late from a partner that's online. Good part of it is that the girl admitted to have a boyfriend, majority would not only deny their partner but agree to have broken up long ago.... The juice is too sweet to waste, for your gf mind now, she Don see new guy. grin grin grin.. Chai.....
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by Oppy2k2: 9:11pm On Apr 17, 2021
This lady has done nothing if u follow d chat with clean heart.

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Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by Xkale1234(m): 9:16pm On Apr 17, 2021
Duplexxx:
My guy keep it in mind Nigerian girls doesn't stay with one guy I hope you know that


One girl will be bleeping 5 guys I hope you know that


If am in your shoe i will take her away from my mind and keep searching for true love


Don't be a lover man if not you may hang your self by the time you will catch her sleeping with another niggarr


Use your brain girls of nowadays are addicted to media where they date guys for money which you know is what your girl is doing if you think am lieing send me her what'sapp and just give me 3-4days I will send you her nude photos







Use your brain
guy u lie see my beb number call her and see +234 909 558 0902
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by Codes151(m): 9:22pm On Apr 17, 2021
You fooled yourself bro
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by richie240: 9:23pm On Apr 17, 2021
Jerrick:
Just have in mind that whatever happens, happens! grin Girls that won’t fall for this no reach 4 for Nigeria currently grin
its good u know this already.
They don't have d inbuilt mechanism to refuse such offers. Its not just ur girl alone.

If person over-reason woman mata - be it daughter, mother, sister, fiance or wife, person go just give himself hbp trowey. Is it d specie that was brainwashed by ordinary animal in d garden of Eden that one hopes to expect accountability from?

If u really love her or better put, if she fits d spec of woman u desire in a woman, then go ahead with her; but don't expect anything to change even if she (or any other descendant of grandma Eve) bcoms ur wife.

Their major weakness from d beginning of time is "living only for d moment".
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by gbadexy(m): 9:34pm On Apr 17, 2021
Hmmm
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by meemee(m): 9:35pm On Apr 17, 2021
maasoap:


Lame excuse as usual. When your gf of 4 years is doing that to you, snubbing your messages just because she's not your wife but spending endless hours replying a stranger with no face, just know that you are wasting your time with her. Because she hasn't seen who or what she's looking or waiting for.

A gf of 4 yrs who haven't seen any serious sign of commitment from her man should reduce the amount of energy and time spent on that relationship and redirect those energy and time to fresh new exploits which she has every freedom and right to do. How long do you intend to continue the shop and clean mouth?

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Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by richie240: 9:36pm On Apr 17, 2021
Jerrick:
But how will you explain her accepting to go on a date the first time/day they started chatting? grin
If she was free that day she would have gone. That was when I lost everything I had for her.
People are just talking, see it can happen to anyone and it’s good to learn from this
Like I said in my last post, women, apart from being hypergamous by nature, live only for d moment.

You urself said not up to 4 Nigerian girls won't fall for ur plot, which means dt there's virtually no Nigerian woman dt will pass ur test.

All me I know be say woman issue is inversely proportional to man's sanity.
#if_u_know_u_know
cool
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by Cuppycakes(f): 9:38pm On Apr 17, 2021
Waiting for the end of the gist patiently
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by FILEBE(m): 9:39pm On Apr 17, 2021
Jerrick:
So sorry “her richness” shocked

following. i will like to see how you ended the relationship.
how did you let her know you are the one and what was her reaction.
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by Yesboss0009: 9:40pm On Apr 17, 2021
Sonnobax15:
shocked

like I do tell my real dudes..That I'd rather spend my sub and precious time watching xvideos than see myself wasting my time on any Nigerian girl matter..
Two days ago,I sent my gf a dm on fb...I see say the banny read my message on messenger but she no gree reply me... infact,I resent her another message just to make sure she sees it..She saw it and again snubbed me for the second time....I just lock up like say nothing happen..

yesterday,the same banny messaged me on fb,I equally read her message and snubbed her as well..She noticed it and tried calling me but I kept ignoring her calls till now..

my guy,let your peace of mind be your utmost priority.



you deserve an Oscar boss
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by melly4u: 9:52pm On Apr 17, 2021
Who want to put all their eggs in one basket?
Dont breakup with her
Seat her down and ask her wat d problem is

And again make sure u go to DAT restaurant and see her reaction
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by Nobody: 9:59pm On Apr 17, 2021
You got a good girl but you're chasing her away. The girl hasn't done anything wrong from the chat. You're the one overreaching. If a girl should present the same picture to u, won't u fall?
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by culf: 10:04pm On Apr 17, 2021
maasoap:


Wrong statement. You can only say this when you don't really love her

you're the one that is wrong. When you love someone, you have a level of trust for the person, that means you're not really worried about what the person is doing because you trust the person until the person betray such trust beyond redemption.
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by culf: 10:06pm On Apr 17, 2021
b0rn2fuck:
he should better invest his time with something positive, all relationship has expirary date either it will last or not

simple and short
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by Iseddy: 10:12pm On Apr 17, 2021
bros y not double ur hustle and become the rich guy u r faking to be & give d poor Lady a good life.
by the way, have you paid any dowry on her head?
assuming you are close to me na 1 backhand slap I go use reset ur brain. all the time you wasted doing those chatting u would have use it to read books that will impact ur life. from the chat, d said lady did nothing wrong. Aswr u are immature and jobless.
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by YinkaGold02: 10:13pm On Apr 17, 2021
I don't think you are serious, what kind of game is that, I wish she will not forgive you.

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Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by Chidexsco8448(m): 10:25pm On Apr 17, 2021
Iseddy:
bros y not double ur hustle and become the rich guy u r faking to be & give d poor Lady a good life.
by the way, have you paid any dowry on her head?
assuming you are close to me na 1 backhand slap I go use reset ur brain. all the time you wasted doing those chatting u would have use it to read books that will impact ur life. from the chat, d said lady did nothing wrong. Aswr u are immature and jobless.
I can't agree less with u bro
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by chigora: 10:30pm On Apr 17, 2021
The poster is kind of person that is jealous and also have inferiority complex. This is a type that if his guy laugh with his gf, he will think that the guy is going out with the girl. Nwanne go and make money and women will be flocking around you
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by Fantazy(m): 10:30pm On Apr 17, 2021
I don't think there's any average single girl out there who will not fall for this
as in, you are even forcing the conversation on her.
besides all these conversations with her is not necessary. Why not study her, confront her and if you still doubting her attitude then you move on.
simple!
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by ceede2: 10:30pm On Apr 17, 2021
neyohh:


Belgians don't speak English sir.
Thank you my brother I haven't get there before.
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by Tbvxl: 10:40pm On Apr 17, 2021
Relationship is a piece of shit and trash to me in a nutshell.
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by AkupeMBANO(m): 10:48pm On Apr 17, 2021
IamPlato:
Even You Will Fall For This bro.

What You Are Doing There Is No Sense In It. Its Childish


Creating The Personality Of A Rich Person Is Something Many will Fall For Because People Are In Need Of Money and Coupled With The Fact That Majority Of Nigerians Are Living In Poverty or Struggling

Even You Will Fall For This trash so Cut The Bullshit. If Your Girl Is Not Interested In You Again Is probably Because You Are Insecured and This Your Stalking her Will Make Her Hate You
That guy is a boring JU man. no level, no nothing. any dirty girl will still dump his ass.
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by jelel6: 10:52pm On Apr 17, 2021
toren:


And LordKO..

There's nothing faithful about that girl. I know what I'm talking about. How can you be in a relationship and be giving attention to someone that's obviously chyking you? Agreeing to go on a date with him during their first conversation is the lowest of lows.

You're in a relationship, yet explaining why you're not replying on time. Somebody whom you should ignore totally and if you can't do that, reply at your convenience without need to shalaye.

You're in a relationship yet telling someone you barely know that your phone is somewhat faulty. He has no business knowing that. Keep your problems to yourself even if you've not eaten!!!

He asked for a date, she said she doesn't have t.fare to transport herself to a particular location. ahn ahn... that's stylishly begging. Why can't she just say Island is too far for her. Abeg she's no different from those urgent 2k girls.

Op, your girl isn't faithful to you and may never be. Better forget the relationship.

To find a faithful partner these days (both sexes) is like pulling tooth, I know, but they exist.

Finally, a submission that I can requote for added emphasis.

Like you said, she's unfaithful and already cheating in essence. But that's not even what I find most appalling.

She's not just greedy and dumb, the girl is without dignity, character and personal principles. She doesn't even have to be in a relationship for her to have enough reasons to rise above the cheap bait dangled in front of her.


@bolded

You only have to read the majority of replies here to see why finding committed partners is like untimate search. Most can't even comprehend what faithfulness entails.

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Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by 1Sharon(f): 10:53pm On Apr 17, 2021
Asiseeit:


So she said, cos it was a genuine excuse. She may have had another one if that one wasn't there. Important thing is "she turned it down".
Innocent until proven guilty

Nope. It's as if she would have agreed if church wasn't in the way.

Agreeing to go on a date is bad enough.

Cheating isn't just sexual.

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Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by Dextre(m): 10:58pm On Apr 17, 2021
Jerrick:
This is very recent!! Pardon my errors and mistakes please.

What do women really want? Everyone is really jealous one way or the other and our degree of jealousy varies but I wasn’t the over jealous type and would even let go of some things to avoid issues. So I was wary of my GF recent behavior; I’d send her text she would not reply for hours or even till the next day while she was online. I called her attention to it and she was acting like nothing was wrong, it actually got me mad that I overreacted and went as far as blocking her. I knew I made a mistake, I unblocked her back and apologized and we were fine but funny thing is that the same day we settled our dispute she repeated the same thing of not replying me which is very strange to me because throughout the years we’ve been together She’s never done such. I became worried so I decided to play games with her. Below is the chat of the person she thought she was chatting with.

I’ll upload more of it when this hits front page because I want to know if I did overreact ending things with her or not.


You are just looking for a reason to break up with your gf, because ehn, this is beyond stupid. Literally tempting your gf, the babe should run very far way from people like you.
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by Sniper101(m): 11:53pm On Apr 17, 2021
LMAO grin

this kind thing wey OP do here ehn, na wen I been dey carry girlfriend matter for head like Gala (about 7/8yrs ago) na wen I do dis kind things.

back then I'll even jump on a bike and follow my GF when she leaves my place around 8 or 9pm to see if she's actually going to her house. lmao.

another time, I was with her and then proceeded to use a new sim I bought to send her that MTN's "please call me. I love you" sms.
Babe immediately got the sms, read it, smiled and proceeded to call the number. and my phone rang grin
na so quarrel/argument take start cheesy


fast forward to 17th April 2021,
Niggarrrrr like moi dun wise up jare.


PS: all these stunts OP is displaying
became obsolete since 2015
when Buhari came in grin

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Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by Dreyton36: 12:34am On Apr 18, 2021
Op
You no finish the job na
Shey the babe still show up for location?
Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by efficiencie(m): 1:03am On Apr 18, 2021
It's amazing how a lady says she loves someone but she is disloyal to that same person...some idiot will rationalize it by saying that the guy has not proposed but they forget that more often than not ladies take this attitude into marriage...and when they see a man that seems better their legs will enter autopilot and spread wide enough to swallow a NEPA pole! This is the origin of paternity fraud...a woman that is not loyal before you wed her cannot be loyal after you wed her!

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Re: Fooled My Girlfriend Of 4 Years To Thinking She Was Going Out With Another Guy by fastpayfx(m): 1:34am On Apr 18, 2021
Guy, try this with your mother sister and come back with the results.

The girl is even loyal and truthful enough to admit she has a boy friend. Girls begin to think about settling down from an earlier age than boys. She has every right to 'window shop for a husband ' even while dating you. As long as she does not commit. Can you swear by your life you will marry her. if you truely love her then put a ring to it.

You are just a chewing gum guy.

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