Redberyl:
See why u don't date broke babes?Too easy to trip them.See how she open eye when she see 5 star restaurant,25k for tfare and Used outdated iphone 6+.Smh!Make we dey hustle hard o,so that our daughters no go mumu over wetin no even reach 1 million naira.

Don't really blame her much.This reminds me of one of my mum's favourite saying that "don't brag about your morals until you have made enough money to fund your temptations".There are many things hidden in poverty!

pansophist:
Op you chat like a typical simp. Even with your Belgian package, you're writing like she is doing you a favour to meet you. No swag, no pride, no nothing. Just female worship. I know you're the real boyfriend, but my general advice is that you learn not to chat like a needy thirsty simp. Tufiakwa

1F30M4:
You're indeed a clown lol..

While I'll agree with you that any form of breach in communication between two or more parties who are in a mutual relationship, sows seeds of doubt, a cause for concern.. The right thing to do is to call the attention of the party(parties) involved, as the case may be.. In this context, you did the right thing by expressing your displeasure, you went way overboard though.. It shouldn't have gotten up to that(your attempt to fool her, consistently chatting her up & what not), that consistency shows that you really do love her, you're hurt but then you just want some form of closure before breaking up with her..

She does love you though but I can't say I know why she ignores your chats or her late replies(not just minutes, many hours later).. You both should've really talked about it yh cos if she can reply a "random stranger" relatively faster than she does to you(her supposed boyfriend), there is something wrong..

Oh well, if you feel the breakup will make you feel better, then by all means go for it.

seanwilliam:


@ op all girls are the same. No matter how real her love is. Women are hypergamous in nature, she will always leave you for someone better except she doesn’t see the option. I don’t take women’s love serious

culf:



if I know my partner did what you posted above, we are done.
The truth is, you guys don't trust each other and as such, you shouldn't go this far to prove anything, just walk away, relationship without trust is not a relationship.

Elxandre:
I think she likes your and you both are being silly.
If DJ cuppy asks you if you get babe, you go say yes?

She admitted having a boyfriend anyways which makes her far better than most women out there.
I can't say why she snubs you though.

cornelin:
The part I liked most I'm all these, was how you answered the question "where do you get my contact from?"

culf:


I didn't say trust blindly, I said if she is giving you reasons to doubt her and not willing to change after talking to her, then move. What will be will be. relationship needs at least small level of trust, blindly or not

well, what my woman decide to do or not do is not my business . Any human being on earth can disappoint except God but that doesn't mean I don't trust her.

LordKO:
Give the girl her due credit. If you go through the chat with an unbiased mind and thought, you'll see that she places principle above expediency and is capable of faithfulness in particular and love in general , all things being equal.

Confusionist:
I'm an old guy, nearly 40 and you should understand that you're a fool. This girl goes thru temptation each day and you decide to test her with what she needs most that you cannot provide and you said she's cheating or what?
Understand that you'll be throwing away a good girl if you do this. From the conversation, she's trying not to Bleep up. Never used a Dearing word for the guy keeping her cool. Even using sir for the guy. I'll tell you what will happen if this was real... If the guy was real, she'll watch him and you'll keep acting stupid and she'll leave you. But now that the guys is not real, she'll only be devastated and never love you again. From all indication, this is normal conversation. You better stop now and stop trying to fool her. She is even willing to go with a friend. You think a hoe will even think twice before meeting in an hotel? If you keep tempting someone, what do you think will eventually happen. Girl has a bad phone that you can't change for her. Don't have money that you can actually give her and you're tempting her and expecting her not to fall? If a girl should test you and has all you want, won't you want to try too?

Let it go. You're just being a kid

ceede2:
Wasted effort you sch in Belgium from a reach Fam, you telling her this to know the angle she handle u from. I don't know who mumu pass among you two, how can a student from Belgium command English like that, you start what you can't finish.

Confusionist:
I'm an old guy, nearly 40 and you should understand that you're a fool. This girl goes thru temptation each day and you decide to test her with what she needs most that you cannot provide and you said she's cheating or what?

meemee:
You didn't fool anybody into believing anything. Your girlfriend is simply having a decent conversation with someone who is clearly throwing all kinds of material baits at her in quick succession. And from the look of things she is cool with you as a girlfriend since she is not your wife that must reply all your messages instantly. You are the one that wants it all.

Acecards:
Guy the bait you used to set her up is very enticing...

1. You are a medical doctor
2. You are based in Belgium
3. You want to send her 25k for tfare
4. You are from a wealthy home
5. You are willing to give her iphone6 before even meeting her

Haba, like someone said only like 4 girls in Nigeria will not fall for this. Even your sister go fall for this kind guy.

As long as you and the girl is not married her trying to see where this will lead to is not out of place oh... My 2 cents

If na me be the girl I go fall anyhow

dazzlingd:
The girl hasn't done anything bad yet, at least she kept ringing it that she has a bf, she may just want to maga the guy and run.....

Sonnobax15:


like I do tell my real dudes..That I'd rather spend my sub and precious time watching xvideos than see myself wasting my time on any Nigerian girl matter..
Two days ago,I sent my gf a dm on fb...I see say the banny read my message on messenger but she no gree reply me... infact,I resent her another message just to make sure she sees it..She saw it and again snubbed me for the second time....I just lock up like say nothing happen..

yesterday,the same banny messaged me on fb,I equally read her message and snubbed her as well..She noticed it and tried calling me but I kept ignoring her calls till now..

my guy,let your peace of mind be your utmost priority.

timota:

Redberry I hail o,ur mum's saying don make me cold like ice block

Confusionist:
I'm an old guy, nearly 40 and you should understand that you're a fool. This girl goes thru temptation each day and you decide to test her with what she needs most that you cannot provide and you said she's cheating or what?
Understand that you'll be throwing away a good girl if you do this. From the conversation, she's trying not to Bleep up. Never used a Dearing word for the guy keeping her cool. Even using sir for the guy. I'll tell you what will happen if this was real... If the guy was real, she'll watch him and you'll keep acting stupid and she'll leave you. But now that the guys is not real, she'll only be devastated and never love you again. From all indication, this is normal conversation. You better stop now and stop trying to fool her. She is even willing to go with a friend. You think a hoe will even think twice before meeting in an hotel? If you keep tempting someone, what do you think will eventually happen. Girl has a bad phone that you can't change for her. Don't have money that you can actually give her and you're tempting her and expecting her not to fall? If a girl should test you and has all you want, won't you want to try too?

Let it go. You're just being a kid

toren:


And LordKO..

There's nothing faithful about that girl. I know what I'm talking about. How can you be in a relationship and be giving attention to someone that's obviously chyking you? Agreeing to go on a date with him during their first conversation is the lowest of lows.

You're in a relationship, yet explaining why you're not replying on time. Somebody whom you should ignore totally and if you can't do that, reply at your convenience without need to shalaye.

You're in a relationship yet telling someone you barely know that your phone is somewhat faulty. He has no business knowing that. Keep your problems to yourself even if you've not eaten!!!

He asked for a date, she said she doesn't have t.fare to transport herself to a particular location. ahn ahn... that's stylishly begging. Why can't she just say Island is too far for her. Abeg she's no different from those urgent 2k girls.

Op, your girl isn't faithful to you and may never be. Better forget the relationship.

To find a faithful partner these days (both sexes) is like pulling tooth, I know, but they exist.

Redberyl post=100875242:
See why u don't date broke babes?Too easy to trip them.See how she open eye when she see 5 star restaurant,25k for tfare and Used outdated iphone 6+.Smh!Make we dey hustle hard o,so that our daughters no go mumu over wetin no even reach 1 million naira.

Don't really blame her much.This reminds me of one of my mum's favourite saying that "don't brag about your morals until you have made enough money to fund your temptations".There are many things hidden in poverty!

Asiseeit:
At 22, unmarried and not engaged (or are you engaged), it's 'understandable'. I also understand that you are crushed but for all you know, she may just be planning to clean out 'Tayo' without any attachment. She even wants to bring a chaperone, that's some decency there. So don't jump into conclusions.

What you should do is face your real problem. Have a mature heart to heart talk with her about your relationship. If she's in and just having some personal issues, fine. If not and she wanna quit, you'd know. Will hurt, but you'd be sure. This will let you know where you stand.

But still on still baba, go for the date. Complete the plan and let us know the reaction and interaction.