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I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

Who do you this thing?

It's not bad Sha .but don't come here to complain when. She gets back with her baby daddy..

You are a big fool.

ThisCouldBeUs:
You are a big fool.

Lolsss... u don't even know who the matter happen to u don rush dey insult.....

lilvicky68:
It's not bad Sha .but don't come here to complain when. She gets back with her baby daddy..

Deep inside i have moved on..... Just don't know how to discard her with out hurting her psychologically....

EmptyGarden:
Who do you this thing?

Bro i dey clean....
Na person matter i table so cos me sef no know wetin to tell am........

First....

You guys got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because you had no condom at home when she visited....

Second...

She told you that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Thirdly...

Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but you talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday you have been thinking of how to continue with her, you don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact.

And now you want us to tell you what to do ba...


My own opinion....

If you be my brother.... And u ask me the kind of thing... I go swear for u.... Oloshi...

Na guys like this dem dey call simps!!!

DSC7:
Deep inside i have moved on..... Just don't know how to discard her with out hurting her psychologically....

You know already in your mind how it will end..

anitabella:
First....

You guys got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because you had no condom at home when she visited....

Second...

She told you that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Thirdly...

Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but you talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday you have been thinking of how to continue with her, you don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact.

And now you want us to tell you what to do ba...


My own opinion....

If you be my brother.... And u ask me the kind of thing... I go swear for u.... Oloshi...

Na guys like this dem dey call simps!!!

Be calming down dear......


Things dey happen inside life.....

Moreover she is working and according to her, her boss have volunteered to take care of her predicament till she puts to bed... Me just dey find how to comot hand patapata.....

lilvicky68:
You know already in your mind how it will end..

Premium tears? �.....

DSC7:
Be calming down dear......


Things dey happen inside life.....

Moreover she is working and according to her, her boss have volunteered to take care of her predicament till she puts to bed... Me just dey find how to comot hand patapata.....

Na now u complete the story... I no go swear for u again...

anitabella:
Na now u complete the story... I no go swear for u again...

Hmmmm... So what do you suggest i do... normally i have ruled out any possibility of having sex with her... i just dey pity her condition...

DSC7:
Lolsss... u don't even know who the matter happen to u don rush dey insult.....

Even the person the matter happened to is still what the guy said he is.

She can't be pregnant for another guy and still be in love with you, that's not love huh.
Love isn't confused...

chatinent:
Even the person the matter happened to is still what the guy said he is.

Lolsss,,, ur matter no be here oooo....

Na who no sabi you dis ur post go choke.....

RiyadhGoddess:
She can't be pregnant for another guy and still be in love with you, that's not love huh.
Love isn't confused...

After narrating every thing to me she told me that she have moved on which is one of the reasons she accepted my proposal... but after every every local man weak.....

DSC7:
Lolsss,,, ur matter no be here oooo....
Na who no sabi you dis ur post go choke.....

This talk pain me sha

You are a mumu man �

YOU TINK SAY U DEY WISE?
YOU ARE A MUMU MAN

chatinent:
This talk pain me sha

Boss man no vex Abegggggg.....

But assuming it happens to you, what would you do?

in summary she want you to accept the pregnancy and love her unconditionally and you are actually considering it
Mr Yemi my lover e gbadun sir

DSC7:
Boss man no vex Abegggggg.....

But assuming it happens to you, what would you do?

Ditch am

two of una no well

She love you unconditionally after a week, tell me something I don’t know... sha know baby items are quite expensive sha

They want to dash you pregnancy and you’re still looking like lucozade. Okay na.

You know what to do.

CheedyJ:
She love you unconditionally after a week, tell me something I don’t know... sha know baby items are quite expensive sha

I taya bros, 1 week..... person wey come hustle

AfroKnight:
They want to dash you pregnancy and you’re still looking like lucozade. Okay na.

You know what to do.

But she wanted to abort but d op advised her to keep it. @op advice her to abort if she's not yet ready plsssss. Having a baby alone aint easy walai.

SweetCunt97:
But she wanted to abort but d op advised her to keep it. @op advice her to abort if she's not yet ready plsssss. Having a baby alone aint easy walai.

He gave her advice that would spare the life of the child.

OP, never advice anyone to abort. Abortion is a private and weighty matter. Let the pregnant woman and her baby daddy decide.

DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

Drop your location boss.....if you get mind ... what breed of werey is this one

First red flag.... You met her last week... Do you think you've known her enough to declare that you love her?

chatinent:
Ditch am

Done and Dusted!!!.....