jimmychang:



Drop your location boss.....if you get mind ... what breed of werey is this one

EmptyGarden:
Who do you this thing?

Ajibade123:
in summary she want you to accept the pregnancy and love her unconditionally and you are actually considering it
Mr Yemi my lover e gbadun sir

DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

femi4:
Be around her till she have the baby, after that you can decide

DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

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But that can only be possible to me if no sex is involved...

TheEnygma:
Op, if what you are saying is true then you are the most SIMPish guy I've ever met..... It's very obvious the girl got pregnant before you got close to her and be grateful to God for not banging her that day because she would have pinned another guy's pregnancy on you.
What you need is an overdose of the RED PILL.

femi4:
You mean you can't control yourself around her...smh. She's preggy with another man's child. It's an abomination to sleep with a preggy lady that's not carrying your child

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@bolded...is the reason for this thread.....

I can't just do that...

Was contemplating on ghosting her to avoid stories that touch...

kunle75:



Are you the father or her mother?

Why are you taking up someone else's responsibility, are you a mugu?

femi4:
Leave her if you don't have self control

BiggyB242:
Brother, she doesn't love you. She just manipulating you to pin the child on you. Run as far as your legs can take you.

You don't know women, they are damn great actor. They can change emotion in split seconds and it will look so real.

Why will you want her to keep the child, would you take care of the child after birth? Cut her off and let her take her own decision. Some guys una go just carry people problem.

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Deep inside i have moved on..... Just don't know how to discard her with out hurting her psychologically....

chrisblack:
did you ever loved her?

indodon:
Oga leave the bitch.. Make she suffer the consequences of her own actions






































































Or help her out with another man's child then after the birth watch her leave.. Don't ask me how I know

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Hmmmm... So what do you suggest i do... normally i have ruled out any possibility of having sex with her... i just dey pity her condition...

RiyadhGoddess:
She can't be pregnant for another guy and still be in love with you, that's not love huh.
Love isn't confused...

DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

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Why i even asked her to keep it is because she wanted me to refer her to where she can abort it of which if anything happens to her i will be held responsible......

Her boss volunteered to take care of her and the child....

Na only money matter i carry for head bro...

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Freestainworld wat ya say?....

Freestainworld:
I know lots of guys will give you negative advice, firstly, it is good you advised her against terminating the pregnancy, you can just continue in giving her moral support so her brain can calm down, but I wouldn't advise you to continue the dating aspect, you barely know her too well, one week isn't enough to conclude that she's madly in love with you before somebody use your head play ludo, neither am I advising you to run away from her.

DSC7:


@bolded is exactly what she needs presently...

Someone told me back then never to sleep with somebody's wife... I have also been thinking weda it's part of it playing out....

Freestainworld:
She's not somebody's wife, she's just an expectant baby Mama, sleeping with her wouldn't cause any trouble but I will strongly advise against that, you need to get to know her more, even if you have something for her, it shouldn't be now till you finalize your investigations on her, like I said previously, just support her in any way you can till she puts to bed, let her stay with her people not in your house ooo, only call or visit her once in awhile.

DSC7:



Thanks alot bro....

Am now kind of relieved... have been thinking weda i don enter one chance by having a romantic affair with an expectant mum the moment she broke the news to me.... I thank God the sex never happened.....

She is new in town and staying with her Boss....

Thanks once again na everyday person dey learn....

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She told me how it all happened...

I observe bfr having sex so loose guarding because of punna aint part of me.....


Summary of the whole write up:Thinking of still been around her as a friend till she give birth or to just cut her off totally......