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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by favour32(m): 5:27am On Apr 21, 2021
parkervero:


How can a lady claim to love you and still open her legs to another man to fuucck? You call that love? You will be a stupid person to even allow her to still be around you up till now. Can't you think?
Ogbeni!
Read the story well.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by VTJN(m): 5:35am On Apr 21, 2021
ThisCouldBeUs:
You are a big fool.
Throw that phone away, you don't have a business with a phone yet
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Chuks7807(m): 5:50am On Apr 21, 2021
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I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

Bro, for now don't end the relationship because of her condition and avoid any kind of Sexual intercourse with her to avoid story that touches the heart.... Also don't be too committed to the relationship .. just watch her and see how it ends.. and go get another babe.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by valencia25(m): 5:54am On Apr 21, 2021
Tell us you are joking?
cheesy
DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by remotecontrol: 6:14am On Apr 21, 2021
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Deep inside i have moved on..... Just don't know how to discard her with out hurting her psychologically....

She no think about your own psychology come the yarn you nonsense.

Is a trap. Well played by her
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Sterope(f): 6:27am On Apr 21, 2021
Plus getting her to keep a pregnancy she can't afford instead of finding a safe alternative for her?
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Deep inside i have moved on..... Just don't know how to discard her with out hurting her psychologically....
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Slurity(m): 6:33am On Apr 21, 2021
This life is mysterious, I once hear a story about a pastor that was the interpreter at a weeding ceremony and God opened his eyes right there in the church that the lady getting married is his destiny wife. To cut the story short, the later got married after 3 years of the first marriage with the wrong man.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Offpoint1: 6:39am On Apr 21, 2021
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Deep inside i have moved on..... Just don't know how to discard her with out hurting her psychologically....
You persuade her to keep the pregnancy, now you want to discard her. Tomorrow she will give birth and throw the baby into sewer and you'll comment humans are wicked.

You should have let make decisions that's best for her.

Whatever happens to her now, the fault is from you.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by naija4life247: 6:46am On Apr 21, 2021
EmptyGarden:
Who do you this thing?

His Village People
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Blackdisciple(m): 6:51am On Apr 21, 2021
hmmm!!!
E heavy bro, it will be very bad If you should stay away from her.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by nedekid: 6:59am On Apr 21, 2021
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I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....
Let her get rid of the pregnancy if she is not ready. Removing belle is no biggy and not 5050 as you say it if you go to a proper hospital and not use quacks. Should not cost more than 10k depending on how many months gone she is. (early stages).
If it were a big deal some of us for done get 32 year old children grin
Me sha I onces had to give an ex money and attach someone to escort her to go remove belle. I had not seen her for years, from the blue she called me that while serving ie nysc, e be like say her bf impregnated her and he is not a responsible fellow. Meanwhile she had pending job interview, in which they will do medical test on them.
I had to give her the money and get a friend to go with her.
Today na big woman, happy married with pikins.

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by InvertedHammer: 7:08am On Apr 21, 2021
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God works in a mysterious way.

He gives us opportunities to learn from the mistakes of others.

Kindly follow this guy's story and how it will end to learn what thou shall "never" do in life to be counted sane.

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by InvertedHammer: 7:09am On Apr 21, 2021
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God works in a mysterious way.

He provides opportunities for us to learn from the mistakes of others.

Kindly follow this guy's story and how it will end to learn what thou shall "never" do in life to be counted sane.

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by kufman123: 7:17am On Apr 21, 2021
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Be calming down dear......


Things dey happen inside life.....

Moreover she is working and according to her, her boss have volunteered to take care of her predicament till she puts to bed... Me just dey find how to comot hand patapata.....
but why convince her against the abortion when you know you are not going to stand by her.
bro think well abeg
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Lexusgs430: 7:25am On Apr 21, 2021
DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....


MAGA......... grin
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by TGM2015: 7:39am On Apr 21, 2021
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She told me how it all happened...

I observe bfr having sex so loose guarding because of punna aint part of me.....


Summary of the whole write up:Thinking of still been around her as a friend till she give birth or to just cut her off totally......
Give her necessary support for the sake of the unborn child and her life. The more mentally and emotionally stable she is, the better her health and that of the child. The likelihood her thinking of committing suicide, killing or abandoning the child after birth will either be eliminated or tends towards zero.

Three months after birth, you can have a one on one discussion with her to declare your stand for relationship with her. Anyway, not loving her after she opened up to you shows you never genuinely love her in the first place and her getting lost from the time you met her means she is not that wayward.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Ncube(m): 7:49am On Apr 21, 2021
Uncle this is a complex situation but please tell yourself the truth, you are still very much in love with this lady.

Truth is when you put your issues out in the public like you just did you are bound to see many suggestions though the ultimate decision rests with you.

I hope you realize that she wouldn't even be talking relationship with you if her boyfriend hadn't turned her down.
I also hope you realize raising a child is no joke most especially one that is not yours.

You did the morally correct thing by asking her to keep the baby but will you stand by her in raising the child?

If you love her, go for her. Being pregnant doesn't mean she can't be a good woman.

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by princejose: 7:56am On Apr 21, 2021
The truth is she just wanted to ruin your life. On the long run, you will be a looser if you don’t wise up. If she loves you as she pretends to be why must she open her legs for another man.

She has betrayed the love she said she has for you. Please, flee for all appearances of women antics.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by skedy1(m): 8:02am On Apr 21, 2021
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I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but *she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...*


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....
@Bolded

No be today them begin lie bros
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Burgerlomo: 8:05am On Apr 21, 2021
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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Bishopceo: 8:23am On Apr 21, 2021
My brother you have done well by telling her not to abort. Just want to advise you to help her deliver and marry her if you truly love her but pls do not have sex with her now because it will be curse on you
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Daddy46: 8:25am On Apr 21, 2021
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I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....
bro sit her down what does she wants I believe after putting to bed it's possible you get her or she goes back to him know her mind it's important but what you are trying to do is a difficult decision ooooooo

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by hush15: 8:37am On Apr 21, 2021
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I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....


Bros, I no wan read the story, she is not in love Kan Kan. Another man bleeped her so well that she even got pregnant for the person and still be claiming love, which love be that!!!


Just is just looking for who will help sponsor her baby. Na woman matter you carry for head like that. Neway, if you like am sha, you fit do what you can but just know that there is no guarantee in that relationship except she remains committed and true to you.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by pikechukwu6(m): 8:44am On Apr 21, 2021
Bro, you should have Nak her the pregnant nah, instead of freewill donation... Abi you no fit do ni grin grin grin?

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by WisdomfromGod: 8:46am On Apr 21, 2021
kufman123:
but why convince her against the abortion when you know you are not going to stand by her.
bro think well abeg
but wait ooh..the boss this and the boss that!! He will take care of her hmm who is the boss self and why he taking care of her or hope is not what am thinking ooh...boss I hail ooh sharp shooter �����
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by sylve11: 8:50am On Apr 21, 2021
ThisCouldBeUs:
You are a big fool.


Lol grin cool
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by kernniejay(m): 8:59am On Apr 21, 2021
The girl's initial plan was to transfer the pregnancy to you, your head save you as you didn't have sex with her before she confess the pregnancy. If she wasn't naive, she could have waited for you to have sex with her and then she will later claim you impregnated her and the mumu you will not reason the timeline of the sex and pregnancy. Only God knows how many guys are fathering children that are not actually theirs undecided
DSC7:


Done and Dusted!!!.....

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by DSC7: 9:05am On Apr 21, 2021
TGM2015:

Give her necessary support for the sake of the unborn child and her life. The more mentally and emotionally stable she is the better her health and the child. The likelihood her thinking of committing suicide, killing or abandoning the child after will either be eliminated or tends to zero.

Three months after birth, you can have a one on one discussion with to declare to stand of relationship with her. Anyway, not loving her after she opened up to you shows you never genuinely love her in the first place and her getting lost from the time you met means she is not that wayward.

I love her and i still loves her just that i dont want to do anything that i would regret later.....


We recently discussed alot and she told me it's her first time of getting pregnant and the guy responsible happened to be the one that deflowered her....


Am just trying my best with encouraging words to make sure she doesn't fall into depression.....

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by DSC7: 9:13am On Apr 21, 2021
Roseey0:


Love as a friend.
Keep away the romance she will get the msg. But always show up for her. Preggy is not leprosy. She deserves all the love and care she can get. Call and care.
Don't talk people out of decisions. Let them make decisions they can handle per time.
As you wan jappa now, after you don convince am say you dey for her, who go come help her?


Thanks dear.... i no go japa again make person pikin no go commit suicide because of me....


I will try my best for the sake that she opened up....
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by DSC7: 9:19am On Apr 21, 2021
smallsmall:


Thunder fire you for not taking your time to come up with a good story.
When you asked her to keep the Pregnancy, you did not ask anybody, it is now you want to ask us how to become a father of an unknown child?You carry Pregnant Hustler put for house, come dey disturb our peace here
Amadioha join thunder to scatter your head. angry angry

Smallsmall bro she no dey my house.....


Na her working place i know her from.....


Na based on say we both na from SS dats why she dey clear me everything.....
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by DSC7: 9:26am On Apr 21, 2021
ipobarethieves:
Let dem insult U/call U mumu but pls,dnt abandon that girl now.If u must discard her, let her give birth first and u can do the needful after 6 months , she'll understand.If u can't maintain her,pls,PM me her WhatsApp,.I'll take responsibility


The insults made me type about discarding her....

It's not a big deal supporting her just that i needed someone to put me through on the sexual aspect.......
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Lostchild(m): 9:30am On Apr 21, 2021
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DSC7

You are very stupid and senseless

The person who fronpage this thread is crazy just like you

Damn. It is time i leave Nairaland for you stupid guys like you angry

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