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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by SILENTandSMART2: 8:04pm On Apr 23, 2021
Hahahaha grin

Iro poor , otipoor repete otipoor


Lie lie Op Lori iro


Keep on deceiving yourself
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Nobody: 8:16pm On Apr 23, 2021
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Is there a way to prevent this guys from commenting on my threads?
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Raalsalghul: 8:16pm On Apr 23, 2021
StacyO:


A lot Mr/Mrs Truvel




A lot, I repeat.

Sorry to say but you're a naive person.
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Nobody: 8:18pm On Apr 23, 2021
Raalsalghul:


Sorry to say but you're a naive person.

Doesn't make a solid argument.

I think you should go deeper with what you're trying to pass across.

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by TripleDdotcom: 8:25pm On Apr 23, 2021
Starz825:

tripple D or tripple J....which one?

Triple D sir. Where does J come from?
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Raalsalghul: 8:28pm On Apr 23, 2021
StacyO:


Doesn't make a solid argument.

I think you should go deeper with what you're trying to pass across.

"Men are scarce" are due to a combination of factors one of which you treated in your detail in your post: seeking women of value.

However, I can see you're trying to quench/ignore the finance factor hence me calling you naive.

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Nobody: 8:52pm On Apr 23, 2021
DEMZEE:

Women's game is to lockdown a high value man ie retaining a high value man post-sex


This is where we women get it wrong.

Retaining a high value man should be pre-sex (before or without sex).

It's hard but, it's worth it.

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Nobody: 8:55pm On Apr 23, 2021
Raalsalghul:


"Men are scarce" are due to a combination of factors one of which you treated in your detail in your post: seeking women of value.

However, I can see you're trying to quench/ignore the finance factor hence me calling you naive.

Finance factor in what aspect??


If you don't mind pointing it out to me.
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by DEMZEE(m): 9:56pm On Apr 23, 2021
StacyO:



This is where we women get it wrong.

Retaining a high value man should be pre-sex (before or without sex).

It's hard but, it's worth it.

Why wud a high value man wait for sex wen he has options??

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Nobody: 11:24pm On Apr 23, 2021
DEMZEE:


Why wud a high value man wait for sex wen he has options??

The question should be, why would he seek out liabilities when he already has an asset?

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Nobody: 12:33am On Apr 24, 2021
Truvel:
U Are Right. Dis Is Why I Ask Myself. How Many Ladies In Our Time Would Like To Cling To A Guy Who Is Trying To Make Headway In Life? I Bet U. No Lady. Every Lady Wants A Ready Made Man. A Man With Different Cars, Big & Beautiful Houses & A Wealthy Man. My 2nd Question Now Is, How Many Men Av All Dis? Many Men Are Striving To Make Headway In Dis Horrible State Of Country Where D Cost Of Living Is Now Very High. Can U Now See Why Men Are Scarce?

False.
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Nobody: 12:37am On Apr 24, 2021
StacyO:



This is where we women get it wrong.

Retaining a high value man should be pre-sex (before or without sex).

It's hard but, it's worth it.

But we still have male hustlers in serious relationships with female hustlers.
We even have female hustlers that support their boyfriends/male hustlers financially.

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Reex12(m): 1:57am On Apr 24, 2021
StacyO:


The question should be, why would he seek out liabilities when he already has an asset?
the points stated are just hoax for women to seem valuable to decieve men into marrying them believing she'll add something to his life..but immediately you achieve your goal ( marraige) and the man goes through tough times he'll know the difference between WWE and WWF ...

The men who approached you at 19 were simply after your youthful looks and nothing more hence 'catch them young'

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Nobody: 6:25am On Apr 24, 2021
HellVictorinho:

False.
Prove It.
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by DEMZEE(m): 7:32am On Apr 24, 2021
StacyO:


The question should be, why would he seek out liabilities when he already has an asset?

The only prized asset a woman cherishes is her sexuality

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Sonnobax15(m): 7:49am On Apr 24, 2021
tongue

Rubbish thread

Men aren't scarce but I must tell you that husband materials are a scarce commodity..

whether you like it or not,that's how it's...

Do you think it's every single man that you come across that fvcks you'll take you down the altar?

Well,like my people do say--"you go easily see man wey go fvck you,but na to see man wey go put you for house as him wife nia be the problem"

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by SPLENDID25(m): 7:52am On Apr 24, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Good write up from baby girl op

Well-done baby girl op...perused through your article while putting on my intellectual cap as I read between lines and blazing my weed simultaneously or rather concurrently....I must confess your article is not devoid of intellect....
LOL
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Nobody: 10:04am On Apr 24, 2021
DEMZEE:


The only prized asset a woman cherishes is her sexuality
You've been conditioned to believe that but, it's quite wrong.

Getting any man to commit is easy.

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by DEMZEE(m): 10:06am On Apr 24, 2021
StacyO:

You've been conditioned to believe that but, it's quite wrong.

Getting any man to commit is easy,at least to me.

Men and women show commitment differently.

Men show commitment by providing financial security to their women

Women show commitment by not being a hoe ie they show commitment through fidelity.

Men and women are not equal and we view sex differently.

This is biological evolution and not social conditioning

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by kushme: 1:42pm On Apr 24, 2021
StacyO:

You've been conditioned to believe that but, it's quite wrong.

Getting any man to commit is easy.

Yea, even short lived commitment is a commitment, too,huh! At least one could leave after hitting the coochie for a while..

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Jayslyder: 6:52pm On Apr 24, 2021
We're ate scarce..rest jare...I see you in shiloh come 2030

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Goldenheart(m): 6:53pm On Apr 24, 2021
grin women are scarce
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by TundeChris: 6:55pm On Apr 24, 2021
Faber:
You talking what's your value outside Facebook, Nairaland and other social media platforms?

All una value begins and ends on social media. If your phone spoil now or get lost or stolen. I bet my kidney you will go to any length to buy a new phone. You cannot live 3 days without the Facebook and co.

So una value begins and ends on social media looking for likes and shares. You are not different from your folks. Don't sound as if you are a superwoman

When for sure na another yeye female talking grin




Women hold access to sex and men hold access to marriage/relationship. Women need to understand that men don’t care about that you are a firebrand career woman. That is a good bragging rights for your girlfriends. Men want women who are feminine and agreeable (I.e not argumentative, and someone who brings peace).

Men are not scarce, wives are. And when a man sees one, he takes her quickly.

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Jh0wsef(m): 6:56pm On Apr 24, 2021
Lol
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Chukabiz(m): 7:01pm On Apr 24, 2021
Before I opened the thread, I already knew who the OP would be.
Any statement about girls that she doesn't want to believe is a misconstrued statement.
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Rexnegro(m): 7:02pm On Apr 24, 2021
Men or guys are not scarce like you said just that most girls or ladies are looking for hushpuppi with a touch of Sam adeyemi.

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by Nobody: 7:03pm On Apr 24, 2021
How many ladies, are willing to hustle the genuine ways without favours, Alot of ladies can't cope with the struggle in the labour market like a typical guy would, always looking for short cuts, Am not judging though am just saying cuz what you wrote up there. Kole work. Why most ladies are single is as a result of their need to marry a very comfortable man, An already made that can support them financially

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by ultimateprof: 7:04pm On Apr 24, 2021
" girls are like mangoes, while you're waiting for them ripe, other men are already eaten them with salt".

No matter how a girl holy reach, she is still mugu for one guy side!

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by COdeGenesis: 7:08pm On Apr 24, 2021
So you statement says "Cheap products have the largest customers in the market". You said u were having men cum ask for your hand in marriage at 19years. I guess that contradicts your statement. Just live a decent life and be happy. Runs girls dey get husband sef pass most church gurls. Mingle with people, expose yurself. You can not get a man if you are always indoor pressing your phone. Go out and discover yourself.

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by brownemmanuel43(m): 7:09pm On Apr 24, 2021
Serious topic
Aunty wey sabi, things dun change ohhhhh. Naija no dey help matter, feminism no dey help, social media na double wahala for dead body
Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by jaxxy(m): 7:09pm On Apr 24, 2021
StacyO:
YES
It is all a lie. A very BIG one at that.
Men are not scarce, the genuine men are only seeking for ladies with value.

It's not about you being beautiful my sister ever noticed that cheap products have the highest customer base in markets??
Forget the saying that bad girls get married every Sunday. We all know the divorce rate and troubles in every home nowadays.

Men are still in the olden era. Forget 21st century, men are in search of women with worth.


Develop yourself first cause if you don't, you'll depend on men for anything and definitely you know that'll mean opening your legs at any given opportunity.

It's your body, you're free to use it any how you deem fit.
But, you just know that men love ladies with value, ladies with goals & future ambitions, ladies who exercise authority over their bodies and doesn't allow mere words move them.

At age 19, I had suitors coming to see my dad. I mean, men with clean rides.
I was definitely young and I had no big ass nor boobs.

Then, I began to wonder what drew this men to me?
Till I got to discover that I disciplined myself that way. Any man that comes to me, must be in for something serious else, he leaves the relationship disappointed.
My only prayer now is that I get to make a good choice when the time is right.


To those ladies complaining of not meeting any man for marriage,
WHATS YOUR VALUE?
You need to set rules and boundaries when it comes to relationships.
Mind you, the FIRST thing a man will look out for when he starts with you is your body.
THE BALL DURING ALL THIS IS ACTUALLY IN YOUR COURT.
Are you in for sex as well? If no, make it known and make sure you close those legs. Practice, even if you must cause that will be your only saving grace.

Develop yourself
You might not be like Ngozi Okonjo Iweala but, make yourself a woman with worth.
Place yourself even far above your own value. Na men go dey rush you ooo

Men are not scarce. The question is, are you a liability or a woman of substance??


Even if ur a woman of substance and develop urself if u don’t now how to handle or treat men u will make mistakes and too many mistakes isn’t good especially for a woman.

Also know urself and make sure u can be compatible with the type of Man U want. Not every gal that closed her legs was successful in marriage so there more to it the just closing ur legs.

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Re: Men Are Scarce (A Misconstrued Statement). by sammirano: 7:10pm On Apr 24, 2021
grin

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