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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Sunnybay7: 10:59am On Apr 28, 2021
You really need help.
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by abobote: 10:59am On Apr 28, 2021
You shouldn't have accomodated her in first place, knowing that you are weak. She likes you, but want you to fall deeply for her

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by seyz91(m): 11:00am On Apr 28, 2021
una mumu na one of a kind, your case be like person wey gift a goat and not letting go of the rope
Leonstar:
Hey everybody, So I have this issue that you all can help me with. I stay in Akure in my late twenties doing okay at work and all. Then my sister's husband called me to assist him with a favour saying his cousin who is a single mother (though her child is with the father at Jos) will be coming to Akure because she has a 7 months contract with one of these big farms here so she might need a place to crash for the weekend till the firm gets a temporary accommodation where she will be staying.

The long and short of the matter is that she has been in my place for the past 3 months and she has been really nice and maybe I might have caught some feelings along the way and we might have had a one night stand which might have been one of the most amazing nights for me since I'm so busy that I don't get to have much social life.

Now, here is the thing!!! After that night, I have made several attempts to get her on but to no avail, always rejecting the offer and threaten to report to her cousin. She might be older than me, almost sure of that and she is quite pretty. Before that night, I also asked her to be FwB (Friends with Benefit) which she didn't have a problem with that so it is not as if I forced it on her......... I really told her that I needed a companion, she actually made me realized that (FYI, no serious relationship).

She is nice and really kind (She might have a bf somewhere though). I just want to know what I did wrong since she can't tell me and how I can remedy that without making her feel uncomfortable in my place.

Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by ceaser: 11:01am On Apr 28, 2021
Probably "Kayan mata" at work.

Here is my advice to you:

Go and have another s3xual romp with her but this time check well of she has scarification marks around her Instruments. If you can't confirm it the first time, you may require repeat episodes of rump with her until you are able to confirm she has the marks l, then you can stop seeing her.

Just a friendly advice. No thanks.

Edit: Imagine NL bot changing g£nitalia to "instruments". Mstcheeeew! Nonsense programming.

Instruments , device ni.

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by ipobarethieves: 11:02am On Apr 28, 2021
angry grin grin cheesy grin wink cheesy grin grin grin grin wink grin. I fear pipu wey nor fear NLders .Nah true u talk sha
Bola146:
Oniranu sad Get a meaningful life undecided
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by PERVENCHE: 11:02am On Apr 28, 2021
I guess you did not dìck her well that night. If you had...the topic of your story would have been... (Can't Get Her Off Me, I Need Help!!)

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by juman(m): 11:02am On Apr 28, 2021
Homeboiy:
Get another girl and bring her home


You got it right
He should leave her and go for other lady.

She go be boiling of jealousy.

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by maximunimpact(m): 11:03am On Apr 28, 2021
Leonstar:
Hey everybody, So I have this issue that you all can help me with. I stay in Akure in my late twenties doing okay at work and all. Then my sister's husband called me to assist him with a favour saying his cousin who is a single mother (though her child is with the father at Jos) will be coming to Akure because she has a 7 months contract with one of these big farms here so she might need a place to crash for the weekend till the firm gets a temporary accommodation where she will be staying.

The long and short of the matter is that she has been in my place for the past 3 months and she has been really nice and maybe I might have caught some feelings along the way and we might have had a one night stand which might have been one of the most amazing nights for me since I'm so busy that I don't get to have much social life.

Now, here is the thing!!! After that night, I have made several attempts to get her on but to no avail, always rejecting the offer and threaten to report to her cousin. She might be older than me, almost sure of that and she is quite pretty. Before that night, I also asked her to be FwB (Friends with Benefit) which she didn't have a problem with that so it is not as if I forced it on her......... I really told her that I needed a companion, she actually made me realized that (FYI, no serious relationship).

She is nice and really kind (She might have a bf somewhere though). I just want to know what I did wrong since she can't tell me and how I can remedy that without making her feel uncomfortable in my place.

You are not doing well
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by udemzyudex(m): 11:03am On Apr 28, 2021
Guys no be juju be this?

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by pk2me: 11:04am On Apr 28, 2021
So that's your only concern in life and Nigeria now?

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Akpuobi1: 11:04am On Apr 28, 2021
THAT'S THE WORK OF KAYAMATA OO grin grin grin grin

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:05am On Apr 28, 2021
A truckload of "mights" .. undecided

so she might need a place to crash for the weekend till the firm gets a temporary accommodation where she will be staying.

The long and short of the matter is that she has been in my place for the past 3 months and she has been really nice and maybe I might have caught some feelings along the way and we might have had a one night stand which might have been one of the most amazing nights for[/b]l me since I'm so busy that I don't get to have much social life.

Now, here is the thing!!! After that night, I have made several attempts to get her on but to no avail, always rejecting the offer and threaten to report to her cousin. She [b]might be older than
me, almost sure of that and she is quite pretty. Before that night, I also asked her to be FwB (Friends with Benefit) which she didn't have a problem with that so it is not as if I forced it on her......... I really told her that I needed a companion, she actually made me realized that (FYI, no serious relationship).

She is nice and really kind (She might have a bf somewhere though). I just want to know what I did wrong since she can't tell me and how I can remedy that without making her feel uncomfortable in my place.

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by mbahdi(m): 11:07am On Apr 28, 2021
Which one be FYI
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Havertz10: 11:07am On Apr 28, 2021
You didn't do her well, ladies can't say no to a man that pressed the right buttons and if she allow you, you go tire for her, she is smart, it's better like this, keep you drooling and be humble

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Hezmatosky: 11:08am On Apr 28, 2021
You are not even social. How can a woman you're supposed to make her always want you, is now making you uncomfortable in your house. You deserve a backhand slap i swear sad

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by BCISLTD: 11:08am On Apr 28, 2021
The bf reading this and putting 2 and 2 together grin

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Carsons(m): 11:09am On Apr 28, 2021
mbahdi:
Which one be FYI
For your information.
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by segun18(m): 11:10am On Apr 28, 2021
Bola146:
Oniranu sad Get a meaningful life undecided

Lol
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by zealkane(m): 11:11am On Apr 28, 2021
Lazy Nigeria youth
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by favour32(m): 11:12am On Apr 28, 2021
This fake story nor get creative sense.
Learn work well.
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Agbegbaorogboye: 11:12am On Apr 28, 2021
Won ti get e
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by colossus91(m): 11:12am On Apr 28, 2021
Baba ignore her and she will come around!!
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Pauldollars(m): 11:13am On Apr 28, 2021
Your story shows you cannot be trusted.
You'll always be a betrayer

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by kay29000(m): 11:13am On Apr 28, 2021
PERVENCHE:
I guess you did not dìck her well that night. If you had...the topic of your story would have been... (Can't Get Her Off Me, I Need Help!!)

Lol

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by kay29000(m): 11:14am On Apr 28, 2021
mbahdi:
Which one be FYI

For Your Information
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by PAWG(m): 11:14am On Apr 28, 2021
Leonstar:
Hey everybody, So I have this issue that you all can help me with. I stay in Akure in my late twenties doing okay at work and all. Then my sister's husband called me to assist him with a favour saying his cousin who is a single mother (though her child is with the father at Jos) will be coming to Akure because she has a 7 months contract with one of these big farms here so she might need a place to crash for the weekend till the firm gets a temporary accommodation where she will be staying.

The long and short of the matter is that she has been in my place for the past 3 months and she has been really nice and maybe I might have caught some feelings along the way[b] and we might have had a one night stand[/b] which might have been one of the most amazing nights for me since I'm so busy that I don't get to have much social life.

Now, here is the thing!!! After that night, I have made several attempts to get her on but to no avail, always rejecting the offer and threaten to report to her cousin. She might be older than me, almost sure of that and she is quite pretty. Before that night, I also asked her to be FwB (Friends with Benefit) which she didn't have a problem with that so it is not as if I forced it on her......... I really told her that I needed a companion, she actually made me realized that (FYI, no serious relationship).

She is nice and really kind (She might have a bf somewhere though). I just want to know what I did wrong since she can't tell me and how I can remedy that without making her feel uncomfortable in my place.


As in you're not sure the one night stand happened?


BTW I think she's had a rethink and thinks you'll be too clingy. Give her some time, you'll have her, just don't be acting like your life depends on being with her cos it's mere lust.
I don't think she wants a serious relationship with you so stop being too attached, it scares some ladies away.
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Richochett: 11:15am On Apr 28, 2021
Leonstar:
Hey everybody, So I have this issue that you all can help me with. I stay in Akure in my late twenties doing okay at work and all. Then my sister's husband called me to assist him with a favour saying his cousin who is a single mother (though her child is with the father at Jos) will be coming to Akure because she has a 7 months contract with one of these big farms here so she might need a place to crash for the weekend till the firm gets a temporary accommodation where she will be staying.

The long and short of the matter is that she has been in my place for the past 3 months and she has been really nice and maybe I might have caught some feelings along the way and we might have had a one night stand which might have been one of the most amazing nights for me since I'm so busy that I don't get to have much social life.

Now, here is the thing!!! After that night, I have made several attempts to get her on but to no avail, always rejecting the offer and threaten to report to her cousin. She might be older than me, almost sure of that and she is quite pretty. Before that night, I also asked her to be FwB (Friends with Benefit) which she didn't have a problem with that so it is not as if I forced it on her......... I really told her that I needed a companion, she actually made me realized that (FYI, no serious relationship).

She is nice and really kind (She might have a bf somewhere though). I just want to know what I did wrong since she can't tell me and how I can remedy that without making her feel uncomfortable in my place.
Let me post your real picture for everyone to see

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Nobody: 11:16am On Apr 28, 2021
The Feeling of attachment you currently have
for her is due to the Hormone OXYTOCIN.

It makes you form bonds and attachment to other people.

Scientists have been able to synthesise
Oxytocin and they manufacture it in the
form of Nasal Spray.

Therapists often encourage the use of such
products for Married Couples.
It makes them Trust each other.

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by SmartyPants(m): 11:17am On Apr 28, 2021
chatinent:
That brother-in-law is a brainy one. He didn't have to talk much but waybill his cousin sister ready to settle down to you with a guise of no accommodation!

I guess he trusts you'll make a good husband.


BTW, I don't support premarital sex.


Her recent attitude after the act, I think, is to build the remaining fallen blocks of her pride.

My crazy opinions tho.

I like the way your mind works cheesy
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by patani(m): 11:18am On Apr 28, 2021
Leonstar:
Hey everybody, So I have this issue that you all can help me with. I stay in Akure in my late twenties doing okay at work and all. Then my sister's husband called me to assist him with a favour saying his cousin who is a single mother (though her child is with the father at Jos) will be coming to Akure because she has a 7 months contract with one of these big farms here so she might need a place to crash for the weekend till the firm gets a temporary accommodation where she will be staying.

The long and short of the matter is that she has been in my place for the past 3 months and she has been really nice and maybe I might have caught some feelings along the way and we might have had a one night stand which might have been one of the most amazing nights for me since I'm so busy that I don't get to have much social life.

Now, here is the thing!!! After that night, I have made several attempts to get her on but to no avail, always rejecting the offer and threaten to report to her cousin. She might be older than me, almost sure of that and she is quite pretty. Before that night, I also asked her to be FwB (Friends with Benefit) which she didn't have a problem with that so it is not as if I forced it on her......... I really told her that I needed a companion, she actually made me realized that (FYI, no serious relationship).

She is nice and really kind (She might have a bf somewhere though). I just want to know what I did wrong since she can't tell me and how I can remedy that without making her feel uncomfortable in my place.

With Nigeria security situation...You people are still having sex? Na wa o

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by osazsky(m): 11:18am On Apr 28, 2021
Leonstar:


I'm sure familiarity contributed to this because it's been almost 4 months now + I just need closure!!!
how do u guys date ur relatives..u just let ur sister down..this may even afect her own marriage.u are not a man...even if she had send her kid in law of 14 i am ceetain u will begin to have erection.pls sir are u yoruba

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