Julianah21:

Your mum isn't a Nigerian?

Reex12:
his mom isnt a girl

Julianah21:
Oh really��

Dre183:
Nigeria girls are useless.

Reex12:
Yes, shes a woman

Crazychris:
Tell her after there she will be following you to your hotel room and watch her reaction. If she says no problem then you fit fvck her, just find one better hotel book short-time you no fit spend pass 3k and the rest will be history.
Provided you're not a SIMP Sha.

Teajog:
Tell her that you wants to FVCK HER through her anus!!!

JovialJune:
You asked a girl out she said no, you then asked her where she'd like you to take her on her birthday, she named her heart desire, instead you decided to bring the chat here to gloat so that nl baby dull boys will insult and shame her, aren't you senseless? And you said you asked her out? Lol thank God she didn't accept cos if you genuinely wanted her to be your gf and not chop and go, you wouldn't bring your conversation here like a child

And is that your picture in the background? Lol lmao

She really dodged a bullet.

Irijosa777:
Straight to the point, I asked this girl out sometime ago but she told me she is not interested in a relationship, me being a person who easily respect people decision decided not to bother her since she is not interested in a relationship at then.
She just celebrated her birthday and she asking me to take her out for chopping.
Below are the place she said I should take her to.
kada
Domino's
Film house
Market square
Phil hallmark
Nadia
Stop to shop
At the moment I'm still looking for the proper reply to her, if you have a good reply please drop it because I told her that I want to consult the elders first before giving her my word.

Magnoliaa:


I don't know what "tact" or "shameface" or what exactly they're expecting her to show now. No be say she carry herself go meet him oh. They complain about some kind of women everyday, yet they won't stop trying to hook up with them.

pocohantas:


From my own POV, even if he made the proposal, she should reject it. Her excitement is too much for someone that doesn’t want to date him. That doesn’t mean OP has sense though.

Ehnn, yeah... And I think it's just her, though. She honestly honestly just might be that free and doesn't read too much in things. I can be like that, too. In my mind, it's like, I've said no. He *knows* my stance, so whatever he's getting into is solely on him, or he just might be that generous person that genuinely wants me to have a good time, even after I've said no to him. He could have taken it in good faith.

And there are even some guys that'll still be insisting that they just want to take you. And pestering you, and telling you to calm down or not think bad of their act. She said, "okay then." We don't know what tunes the Op has been singing since to her oh. If you want to spend your money, and telling me you don't mind? Toh. Who am I to stop you? Let's go na.

Magnoliaa:


Ehnn, yeah... And I think it's just her, though. She honestly honestly just might be that free and doesn't read too much in things. I can be like that, too. In my mind, it's like, I've said no. He *knows* my stance, so whatever he's getting into is solely on him, or he just might be that generous person that genuinely wants me to have a good time, even after I've said no to him. He could have taken it in good faith.

pocohantas:


With a Nigerian guy in Nigeria? You two must be brave.

Lol... if it gets to the point that it seems he's doing it to make me feel entitled to him, I'll gently let him go. But initially. Mba. Unless I'm not feeling up to it. I no dey think much of these things at all. Like on that thread that Nazgul created asking if you can accept an expensive gift from an admirer. I will one or two times over. You can't buy my attention or attraction or make me focus exclusively on you by doing things like that. I don't "see" such "signs or patterns"; maybe it's 'cuz I've not been in the dating world and I won't open my legs while we're at you taking me out. If that's not your pot of beans, leave me be o. Sooner or later, they'll float away IF their intentions aren't true. Especially even if he's a Nigerian. Me no care.

And that's not to say I'll gullibly be leading him on. Moderation is key.

AfroKnight:
You set yourself up.

Why are you calling her dear? Just tell her "no".

Don't be afraid to be broke-shamed. If she wasn't broke, she wouldn't need a man to take her out and spend money on her.

Tell her "no" and watch her change towards you. If you spend money on her now, she will always reject your advances but will not be shy enough to reject your money. You too, should not be shy to tell her you are not ready to spend on her since she is not your babe. Put the condition there and ignore her henceforth. I repeat. If you spend on her, she will still not agree to be your babe. If that is your goal, then you are about to waste time and money on a disappointment.

This country is funny. Man asks a babe out and suddenly finds out he is owing her birthday trips.

AfroKnight:
You set yourself up.

Why are you calling her dear? Just tell her "no".

Don't be afraid to be broke-shamed. If she wasn't broke, she wouldn't need a man to take her out and spend money on her.

Tell her "no" and watch her change towards you. If you spend money on her now, she will always reject your advances but will not be shy enough to reject your money. You too, should not be shy to tell her you are not ready to spend on her since she is not your babe. Put the condition there and ignore her henceforth. I repeat. If you spend on her, she will still not agree to be your babe. If that is your goal, then you are about to waste time and money on a disappointment.

This country is funny. Man asks a babe out and suddenly finds out he is owing her birthday trips.

JovialJune:
You asked a girl out she said no, you then asked her where she'd like you to take her on her birthday, she named her heart desire, instead you decided to bring the chat here to gloat so that nl baby dull boys will insult and shame her, aren't you senseless? And you said you asked her out? Lol thank God she didn't accept cos if you genuinely wanted her to be your gf and not chop and go, you wouldn't bring your conversation here like a child

And is that your picture in the background? Lol lmao

She really dodged a bullet.

Magnoliaa:


Need? Yes. Maybe. But not necessarily is a woman broke when/if she has a man taking her out. You haven't seen women swinging both ways? They are rich and they roll with rich men that'll spend heaven on them.

This thing just works for some women like that. Yeah, they can afford to, but men doing things for them (that the men pride in themselves) is not a sustenance of their lifestyle.

pocohantas:


From my own POV, even if he made the proposal, she should reject it. Her excitement is too much for someone that doesn’t want to date him. That doesn’t mean OP has sense though.

pocohantas:


From my own POV, even if he made the proposal, she should reject it. Her excitement is too much for someone that doesn’t want to date him. That doesn’t mean OP has sense though.

Magnoliaa:


I don't know what "tact" or "shameface" or what exactly they're expecting her to show now. No be say she carry herself go meet him oh. They complain about some kind of women everyday, yet they won't stop trying to hook up with them.

Tobest94:
Carry her go buka

Tobest94:
Carry her go buka

Irijosa777:
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I never wanted to reply you but since you have problem with comprehension let me help you.
go and read the post gain, if you don't understand, as someone to explain it.

Alaye, stop being touchy and testerical with me. I never wanted to bla bla bla; you have comprehension blehhhhhh; go read gain ko. Go read profit and loss ni.

Na your type. Your fellow men dey lash you, calling you senseless, you shine teeth dey play with them because you no get liver? Na on top my head you wan come dey form Bruce Lee when I didn't even insult you.

It's like you're not okay abi you're itching to quote me? Nonsense and ingredients.

Why you cut chat share the remaining for us? Because we are sign readers abi. Now you're turning around to be shalayeing that she requested to be taken out. Share am for us make we see na.

Irijosa777:

I can finance any of the last two on the list

Irijosa777:


I asked her "if I were to take her out, what is the place for the outing?"

Julianah21:
Which of the places can you finance?

Irijosa777:
Straight to the point, I asked this girl out sometime ago but she told me she is not interested in a relationship, me being a person who easily respect people decision decided not to bother her since she is not interested in a relationship at then.
She just celebrated her birthday and she asking me to take her out for chopping.
Below are the place she said I should take her to.
kada
Domino's
Film house
Market square
Phil hallmark
Nadia
Stop to shop
At the moment I'm still looking for the proper reply to her, if you have a good reply please drop it because I told her that I want to consult the elders first before giving her my word.

Tobest94:
Carry her go buka

Julianah21:
He was the one that wanna take someone out, if you know she as not add up any value to you, or she doesnt worth anything why bring up that subject