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Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Jeon(f): 2:13pm On May 11, 2021

SmartPolician:
Who is even a prostitute, BTW?
A gurl who has lost her virginity can easily sleep with any man for money, including people's wives. [including people's wives congratulations ]

If you are not a virgin [ unless you are raped ] I see you as a loss sent to this world with empty bottle. Be it boy or girl..

That's why some people buried their destiny unknowingly later they will be blaming village people who are innocent.

Lollittaa my baby. I love you

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Nobody: 2:15pm On May 11, 2021

Jeon:
If you are not a virgin [ unless you are raped ] I see you as a loss sent to this world with empty bottle. Be it boy or girl..

That's why some people buried their destiny unknowingly later they will be blaming village people who are innocent.

Lollittaa my baby. I love you

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by olisaEze(m): 2:15pm On May 11, 2021

Stupid question!

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by secpowell: 2:17pm On May 11, 2021

If not sex, what business does male and female do?

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Jeon(f): 2:19pm On May 11, 2021

SmartPolician:
These days, the world has become so evil that we embellish it with runz babes.

Yeah not only runz babes but immorality and calamities

Truth be told, any girl who has lost her virginity is a potential prostitute...she doesn't necessarily have to stand by the roadside to be one [b] (umu highway)

Any one that lost his /er virginity is a prostitute... Unless he/she surrender their life's to God and turn for their evil immorality ways. AND I SEE THEM AS CHEAP PRODUCTS.

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Jeon(f): 2:20pm On May 11, 2021

Lollittaa:

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by seunmsg(m): 2:21pm On May 11, 2021

Psych412:
This is a very serious issue. Spending on a lady doesn't give you the right to ask her for sex. This needs to stop. Taking a girl out for a date doesn't have to be sex in return.

Please let's try to be responsible

So, what should men ask for after taking a lady out on a date? A ticket to heaven or what?

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Obason22(m): 2:21pm On May 11, 2021

Some question are stupid

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by VanBommel(m): 2:22pm On May 11, 2021

Psych412:
Sex after an outing is normal, but asking for sex as if it's a most or your right for it to happen. I find it abnormal. You're right and that's how it suppose to be.

your anger is the way the guy is demanding for the sex right? No problem, I hope he learns from this thread.

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Jeon(f): 2:23pm On May 11, 2021

Lollittaa:

Hi Lollittaa.
You see Nigerian men nowadays are after lust. They don't love.

They glorify immorality.

Come to me! Baby sugar.

Lollittaa and dollywood can be together. Cus he's one of the responsible fellow that respect his body.

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Frales6(f): 2:24pm On May 11, 2021

Some men even try to take you out b4 dem collect while some will use sweet mouth nack you tire and nothing come out....na you on your own go calculate your loss and move on. while some girls go chop the man too but she go still tight leg, the man go count his loss and move on too. some men wether you give them something or not them no bother, they will spend on you until you decide to give them

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by akilo1: 2:25pm On May 11, 2021

To get me money back

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Karleb(m): 2:26pm On May 11, 2021

The correct question is, when should a guy ask for sexx from a lady.

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by seyz91(m): 2:27pm On May 11, 2021

oga keep your idea
no man ask for sex on first day,

it's only logical for the two of una to Bleep if the girl get sense cuz which kind play dog dey play with lion?

Psych412:
This is a very serious issue. Spending on a lady doesn't give you the right to ask her for sex. This needs to stop. Taking a girl out for a date doesn't have to be sex in return.

Please let's try to be responsible

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Jeon(f): 2:27pm On May 11, 2021

seunmsg:
So, what should men ask for after taking a lady out on a date? A ticket to heaven or what?

Why not go straight to a hotel and have sex?

If that's your goal.

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Muslimsworldng: 2:27pm On May 11, 2021

Psych412:
This is a very serious issue. Spending on a lady doesn't give you the right to ask her for sex. This needs to stop. Taking a girl out for a date doesn't have to be sex in return.

Please let's try to be responsible

If you feel a guy should not ask you for sex after a date, then take yourself out. You cant expect another man child to spend on you needlessly.

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Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Jeon(f): 2:31pm On May 11, 2021

BigYash:
@the bolded.. And you're red abi? You're not toxic,right?

I know my race more. So you can't tell me nothing.

They are the real racist on earth.

VERY TOXIC CHEMICALS SO AVOID EM" QUICK TO GLORIFY IMORALITIES.

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Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by nextstep(m): 2:32pm On May 11, 2021

Psych412:
This is a very serious issue. Spending on a lady doesn't give you the right to ask her for sex. This needs to stop. Taking a girl out for a date doesn't have to be sex in return.
Please let's try to be responsible

It's not that we expect sex after the date; neither does spending give us the right to demand it.

But think about it: why would anybody take a girl out if he's not interested in her in the first place? He wants to have sex with her*, that's why he toasted her and took her out. No man wants to introduce himself to a woman just to be friends, so please take the mere act of "hello, how are you?" as an expression of intent to be intimate.

*Some people will say: "dates and sex are not the same thing"... I counter: the ultimate destination is intimacy - whether it be before or after marriage, whether it's on the first date or the tenth. Why split hairs about timing when it's the intent that's important?

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Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Jeon(f): 2:33pm On May 11, 2021

Muslimsworldng:
If you feel a guy should not ask you for sex after a date, then take yourself out. You cant expect another man child to spend on you needlessly.

Then keep your chicken change and go to the nearest hotel motel to satisfy your urges.

So date are only for sex?
What do you under by the date and how types of date do we have?

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by BigYash: 2:33pm On May 11, 2021

Jeon:
I know my race more. So you can't tell me nothing.

They are the real racist on earth.

VERY TOXIC CHEMICALS SO AVOID EM" QUICK TO GLORIFY IMORALITIES.

Ayam asking if you are toxic too? Not all Africans are toxic like you called it.

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Muslimsworldng: 2:34pm On May 11, 2021

Psych412:
Sex after an outing is normal, but asking for sex as if it's a most or your right for it to happen. I find it abnormal. You're right and that's how it suppose to be.

This your statement and trend topic are contradicting each other.

1) You said sex after an outing is normal
2) you also said why will a man ask for sex after a date?
If sex after a outing is normal why should a man not ask for it?

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Jeon(f): 2:35pm On May 11, 2021

nextstep:
It's not that we expect sex after the date; neither does spending give us the right to demand it.

But think about it: why would anybody take a girl out if he's not interested in her in the first place? He wants to have sex with her, that's why he toasted her and took her out. No man wants to introduce himself to a woman just to be friends, so please take the mere act of "hello, how are you?" as an expression of intent to be intimate.

Lollittaa come take a look.

Nigerians have nothing to offer and collect in relationship apart from money and sex

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by macmiral: 2:35pm On May 11, 2021

We both know what we want so no cap

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Muslimsworldng: 2:37pm On May 11, 2021

Jeon:
Then keep your chicken change and go to the nearest hotel motel to satisfy your urges.

So date are only for sex?
What do you under by the date and how types of date do we have?

The purpose of the date should be understood by both individuals, a man that takes a girl that add no value to him and spend heavily on her. If he sees sex as compensation for his expense will efcc arrest him?

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Jeon(f): 2:37pm On May 11, 2021

BigYash:
Ayam asking if you are toxic too? Not all Africans are toxic like you called it.

NIGERIANS ARE TOXICS.. Showing south Africans the way.

SO AVOID ANY BLACK SKIN HUMAN. For ur safety. Especially great Nigerians

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by seunmsg(m): 2:38pm On May 11, 2021

Jeon:
Why not go straight to a hotel and have sex?

If that's your goal.

There is a process involved and going out on a date is part of the process. Human beings are not supposed to just meet each other on the road and start having sex like dogs and chickens.

Asking for sex after a date doesn’t automatically mean the lady must accept. She can say yes or no and her choice should be respected. What the OP is trying to pick hole in is the right of the man to ask after a date.

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Jeon(f): 2:39pm On May 11, 2021

Muslimsworldng:
The purpose of the date should be understood by both individuals, a man that takes a girl that add no value to him and spend heavily on her. If he sees sex as compensation for his expense will efcc arrest him?

No answer my question. Stop understanding understand between man and woman topstanding in date.

ANSWER THE QUESTION

What is DATE?

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Muslimsworldng: 2:41pm On May 11, 2021

Jeon:
Then keep your chicken change and go to the nearest hotel motel to satisfy your urges.

So date are only for sex?
What do you under by the date and how types of date do we have?

Moreover, why go on a date with a guy you dont feel attracted too? If you are hungry go buy yourself chicken republic.
This is one of the entitlement mentality of women we keep talking about. if you want something be ready to drop something and stop playing saint.

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Jeon(f): 2:42pm On May 11, 2021

seunmsg:
There is a process involved and going out on a date is part of the process. Human beings are not supposed to just meet each other on the road and start having sex like dogs and chickens.

To Nigerian men date means your must have sex!

You are among them, you can't confuse me with ur pure analysis.

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Muslimsworldng: 2:43pm On May 11, 2021

Jeon:
No answer my question. Stop understanding understand between man and woman topstanding in date.

ANSWER THE QUESTION

What is DATE?

You should have use the k/b you use to reply to make inquiry on date

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Jeon(f): 2:44pm On May 11, 2021

Muslimsworldng:
Moreover, why go on a date with a guy you dont feel attracted too? If you are hungry go buy yourself chicken Republic .

WAHALA NO TOO MUCH?

So going on dates means you are hungry, attractive too.

Lolzzz, so many people are going on dates with knowing the real aim.

My dear fiflo ninezeria I wiifi!

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by nextstep(m): 2:44pm On May 11, 2021

Jeon:
Lollittaa come take a look.

Nigerians have nothing to offer and collect in relationship apart from money and sex

It's not just Nigerians, and it's not just sex and money. Please understand me:

1 - If a guy asks a girl out, it's because he wants to be intimate with her (as wife, as girlfriend, whatever)
2 - girls are also looking for partners to be intimate with (again as husband, boyfriend, etc), so they accept to go on dates. It's rare for a woman to agree to go on a date with someone she doesn't see potential in (or seeing as a free lunch).
3 - dates are a way of people getting to know each other - it doesn't have to involve spending any money - you can go to a park or even just stroll around.
4 - after dates, if things go well, the progression usually more dates, longer talks, texting, falling in love); the end goal is intimacy for both partners.

This used to be mediated by chaperones and societal rules of courtship (including the man asking a senior relative to talk to the girl's people).

The difference is now most people have reduced the dating experience to a shortcut to sex, and a shortcut to eat at somebody else's expense.

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