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Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by SweetCuntess: 5:37pm On May 26, 2021 |
shopwiser:It's worse if d kids ain't his ooo cos that would mean his kini has been useless and 10 years wasted without nothing to show 3 Likes |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by RightToReject(m): 5:41pm On May 26, 2021 |
Bobbyjay001: Calm down. Don't be cruel to a woman who hasn't deliberately and continually meted out pernicious acts on you directly or indirectly. 3 Likes |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by Nobody: 5:41pm On May 26, 2021 |
Of all these advice... None has been personally affected. So I'll give you from an experienced point of view. Speed the divorce and live your life. Spend your money and take care of your kids. Find a maid or use mom. Sleeping with a cheating woman leads to death. Your death. Forget all these Christian balderdash. Run oooo. I no go talk pass this one 10 Likes |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by revived2: 5:47pm On May 26, 2021 |
MejiLoyon: Op E Go Be For You If You No Obey This Aje, E Go Just Be For You Cuz The Person You Called Your Wife Will Do Anything To Satisfy Her New Lover Even If It Includes Taking Your Life. E Go Be For You Infact E Dun Be For You Sef 7 Likes |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by revived2: 5:48pm On May 26, 2021 |
MejiLoyon: Op @ Bhus21 E Go Be For You If You No Obey This Aje, E Go Just Be For You Cuz The Person You Called Your Wife Will Do Anything To Satisfy Her New Lover Even If It Includes Taking Your Life. E Go Be For You Infact E Dun Be For You Sef |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by Bobbyjay001(m): 5:57pm On May 26, 2021 |
RightToReject: No,i am just curious and interested in what he has to dish out. It's just for fun. |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by ShadowCracker(m): 6:10pm On May 26, 2021 |
Bhus21:What kind of men are we producing this days, shame. I have no pity for you . You have chosen to be blind to the harsh truth of life. This not even about Love, it's about respect. Your wife does not respect you, you don't command respect. You know what must be done but you are to weak to get it done. Let me just leave this, a wife that cheat's won't hesitate to kill you. When we tell you to take redpill you won't listen. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by stacyadams: 6:21pm On May 26, 2021 |
Bhus21: Nothing u fit do bout am bro |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by prettysassygirl(f): 6:37pm On May 26, 2021 |
Take heart is all I can say |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by Nobody: 6:55pm On May 26, 2021 |
olabrinks:if a lady I have a relationship with cheats me out of "boredom", I will end the relationship out of "excitement". Men who forgive a cheating woman are mostly those who cheat or are financially dependent. A well to do man who doesn't cheat will find it very difficult to take back a cheating partner 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by Nobody: 7:00pm On May 26, 2021 |
Bhus21:it seems you cheat too or you're financially dependent on her . You just sound so accepting of the fact,almost as if you're low on confidence 10 Likes |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by lanre9ja(m): 7:26pm On May 26, 2021 |
This matter deep gon... [color=#990000][/color] My advice: 1. A wife that doesn't care about u knowing her infidelity can kill u at any time to satisfy her self 2. In the this situation DNA is very necessary before granting her wish (divorce) for u not to father another man children 3. Do the needful for ur freedom because once a cheater will always be a cheater ur mind can never get pass that. 4. Freedom is free.... MY PEACE OF ADVICE BRO |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by Janosky: 7:31pm On May 26, 2021 |
Bhus21: Bros, was she a virgin when you married her? Whether yes or no,it's of little relevance now. You got her pregnant 3 times but maybe you have failed to hit her center of gravity even once. Women rarely leave a man who shag their brains out. Now she's finally found a freak to do collabo in the other room, she's not gonna come back to your loving arms. (Abeg you must do Paternity Test, I no trust wetin my mind dey tell me about that woman). Learn from the experience and live without a bitter heart towards women. Likely she wasn't meant for you but you failed to read the writing on the wall. Just let her go & pick up the pieces and move on. 1 Like |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by AbujaCitiBlog: 7:33pm On May 26, 2021 |
Winneygirl:You are an adulterer, that is why you are suggesting this. A woman was confronted about her adulterous ways but instead of acknowledgement of her mistake, she proudly admits it and says she wants a divorce. Forget matter. 8 Likes |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by Janosky: 7:42pm On May 26, 2021 |
Bhus21:Christlike solution is in Matthew 19:9 ,Matthew 5:23 & 1 Corinthians 7:15. [i]The story of the adulterous woman & Jesus Christ is NOT actually genuine, the story is of doubtful origin ooo. (The oldest Bible manuscripts have ZERO record of that doubtful story. Yes !!!). Listen to this song chorus : "When a woman's fed up" by R.Kelly. '".Cause when a woman's fed up No matter how you beg, no It ain't nothing you can do about it (nothing you can do about it) Oh no, it's just like running out of love No matter what you say, no And then it's too late to talk about it (too late to talk about it) Oh yeah, oh yeah Oh yeah, oh yeah Oh, ah, listen, if you don't want to find out the hard way Then listen to this song while the record plays When a woman's fed up Mama taught me along time ago It ain't nothing you can do about it (nothing you can do about it) Oh no, it's like running out of love (running out of love) No matter what you say, no (singin') And then it's too late to talk about it (too late to talk about it) Yeah (when a woman's fed up) You can cry a river 'Til an ocean starts to form, yeah But she will always remember 'Cause she's a woman scorned And if you ever get her back It will never be the same She's cuttin' the corners of her eyes Every time she see your face Now your trust is out the door She don't want you no more" 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by crackhaus: 7:47pm On May 26, 2021 |
Bhus21:You see this sermon you're preaching, you should direct it to your wife (fictional or not). She's the one who suggested divorce, not the "several people" here... Don't get yourself confused. Bhus21: 7 Likes |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by Nobody: 7:52pm On May 26, 2021 |
Bhus21:youre a senseless man with no self worth oga, dont reward bad behaviours.. Chai. 4 Likes |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by rex444(m): 7:54pm On May 26, 2021 |
Irrespective of our deeds, God loves us all and wants the best for her too....what if she is fine afterwards? Just take heart mehn Hashabiah: 1 Like |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by willybaby(m): 7:56pm On May 26, 2021 |
Bhus21:what men go through, your free to cry, weep, play with your kids anything to soothe your soul cause it seems her mind abi love ain't on you no more, let her go bro no need keeping a woman who ain't ready to give you her half talk more all of her |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by Hashabiah: 8:03pm On May 26, 2021 |
rex444:Fine? No woman can be "fine " after being caught in adultery. |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by OKOATA(m): 8:13pm On May 26, 2021 |
Bhus21:Bros you go soon receive heavy knock for head, you are thinking about your kids that's your reason for not divorcing, firstly ascertain their partenity and I guess you must have done that, free that woman u call wife, she belongs to the street and have no pity for her, be cruel and focus on your kids life and let her move on. You can't force her or she will put poison in ur food someday and when you die no one will take care of the kids you so much cherish. Your mom's still alive or any relatives if you can't handle the responsibilitys alone or better still send them to the boarding house, all these flower dinner night and those things you de do bro na simping, ur wife's cheating so u prefer to catch disease from her? Give her the divorce and let her be, alone u were in ur mothers womb o before someone came along, I know it's painful but let her be, free the harlot. 8 Likes |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by jesmond3945: 8:30pm On May 26, 2021 |
Bhus21:you have not answered the question, have you cheated on your wife ever before? Question number 2, have you laid your hands on your wife ever before? Question 3, do you have a love child somewhere else? Final question, have you had course to be away from her through distance or you neglected her needs due to work stress? Answer truthfully. 4 Likes |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by Nobody: 8:34pm On May 26, 2021 |
Guy u vex me to my soul , go have some red pill it will help Bhus21: 4 Likes |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by arzizhy: 8:39pm On May 26, 2021 |
Bhus21: You are going to heal brother. I was in this situation 10 months ago. I am in a better place now. 1 Like |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by olabrinks(f): 8:39pm On May 26, 2021 |
Bhus21:if everybody did things the right or the way we envision, we would never have problems in life. Unfortunately in life you have to accept that people will not always handle situations the right or the way you would like. You can gain control of these situations by using wisdom, involving third parties, getting to the root of the problem and flipping It to your advantage. Mr man you have to sit down and ask yourself if you really want this marriage and If you think your wife will Co operate. This is not going to happen over night, it will take months of trial and error. Time will heal you and unveil the destiny of your situation. |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by Donpenny(m): 8:41pm On May 26, 2021 |
Grant her wish, move on, free your mind, refresh and seek for fun and happiness by so doing you'll become more youthful and energetic. Look for fresh baby to satisfy your sexual urge whenever you need to. Save some of your family pictures with the kids and their mother somewhere safe, your're gonna need them to convince your kids when time comes to reclaimed them. Let her go with the kids for the meantime because they are still small they will stress you . Let them stay with their mother but be checking on them occasionally. Live your life to the fullest. Be a real niga |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by Lorayne(m): 8:42pm On May 26, 2021 |
Bhus21:Please, don't think of saving this marriage. I beg you. She doesn't love you no more and she'll definitely cheat again. Your kids will be just fine. You can have shared custody. It's obvious she doesn't respect you. Pls grow some balls and divorce that woman. 5 Likes |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by olabrinks(f): 8:46pm On May 26, 2021 |
eduj:of course because you’re not married and have never been tied to woman for 10years plus with children and many investments. You have never been in that situation so you don’t understand. But a man who has invested his youth, time, effort, money, hard work into a marriage with children involved will be more reluctant to let that go even with infidelity. 4 Likes |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by Nobody: 8:50pm On May 26, 2021 |
olabrinks:A woman who will trash the above scenario you painted- 10 years of marriage,kids and investments by cheating etc, by cheating is not worth keeping. Only if oga is cheating can he continue. 7 Likes |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by Uyoukowise: 8:53pm On May 26, 2021 |
Winneygirl:WHY DID YOU NOT READ FROM MATTHEW 5:32 1 Like |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by MARKone(m): 8:57pm On May 26, 2021 |
Bhus21: You'd be fine my brother, some of us have been through worse. My advice, when giving her the divorce, don't look back. 1 Like |
Re: My Ongoing Experience Recovering From My Wife's Infidelity by Bhus21: 8:58pm On May 26, 2021 |
arzizhy: What was your experience like? Care to share? |
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