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Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

So you're still expecting us to tell you what is overwhelming obvious even to a child ?


Op don't be selfish.
you be number 8 side chick allow the young man to visit other side chick na

Cut it off joor, which kind relationship be dis if he doesn't tell you where he is going now that you both are in relationship is it in marriage he'll do so, mehn you guys should learn to read warnings before it's too late. You said time is going and judging from what you wrote it looks like you want to settle down with him okay but can I ask you? In as much as he doesn't tell you where he goes to and all that what are those characters/behaviours you put up that annoys him, one thing I've learnt from men, brothers and fellows is that they want a woman who gives them 'peace'. So my dear check yourself if you are the reason he's running away from you all in the name of traveling and even at that he switches off his phone to avoid communication.

I'm the guy in question.
How dare u bring this matter here on nairaland?

You better carry your body and move on with your life. what kind of love is that? he is not straight forward, just free him, Basic. he might put you in trouble, who knows if he is an IPOB.

maxwelltony:
Hi guys
Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...
please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

I think you're just wasting your time as a side-chick.

No reasonable guy will leave someone he's dating for 3 months without communication and for no good reasons, and expects to come back and be received with opened hands...


Only a very dumb and good for nothing girl, except probably just being a cum bag... will continue to be in such relationship.

Deborah98:
Cut it off joor, which kind relationship be dis if he doesn't tell you where he is going now that you both are in relationship is it in marriage he'll do so, mehn you guys should learn to read warnings before it's too late. You said time is going and judging from what you wrote it looks like you want to settle down with him okay but can I ask you? In as much as he doesn't tell you where he goes to and all that what are those characters/behaviours you put up that annoys him, one thing I've learnt from men, brothers and fellows is that they want a woman who gives them 'peace'. So my dear check yourself if you are the reason he's running away from you all in the name of traveling and even at that he switches off his phone to avoid communication.

i agree with your point ma, its possible he has a secret wife elsewhere, men are dangerous.

omolola100:
i agree with your point ma, its possible he has a secret wife elsewhere, men are dangerous.

lolzzzzz some not all my dear but she needs to be truthful herself it could be she's the reason the man is doing all these we never can tell

Brexxit:

I'm the guy in question. How dare u bring this matter here on nairaland?

Oh! Really? It simply mean you are enemy of progress.

@admi, please help us push this trend to front page...

What do u mean by conduse

Emotionss:
So you're still expecting us to tell you what is overwhelming obvious even to a child ?


Op don't be selfish.
you be number 8 side chick allow the young man to visit other side chick na

i dont agree with your opinion.

illicit:
What do u mean by conduse

its error 'Confuse'

maxwelltony:
its error 'Confuse'

Alright

You're of no importance to him, that's why.
Even redpillers no dey do reach this one.

maxwelltony:
Hi guys
Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...
please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

Apply my rule 6. The man is married don't be silly.

Side chick spotted

red flag. let me call debbydam1 on this matter

@OP, the truth is that is the best eay to date a girl...a guy needs to be a a little mysterous...

If he come out totally open to u, trust me you will get tired of him and dump him...guyz dont need to be too truthfull to ladies.....

His ways are good and you have to brar it....

maxwelltony:
Hi guys
Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...
please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

You're not in a relationship period

maxwelltony:
Hi guys
Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...
please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

That guy is married.

Your man has a family somewhere...he is just using your toto to keep himself busy when he's in the same town with you

Sis, you're dating a married man.

You called him your man but does he call u his woman?
Tell him to define the relationship or you quit. There are plenty of other men that would wife you. .

Romanoff:
Sis, you're dating a married man.

Exactly what I was about to say.

Dude loves his family and wouldn't want you to ruin it. Explains the long periods of radio silence.

Lol .. Your man is definitely married somewhere..

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maxwelltony:
i dont agree with your opinion.

And what exactly is my supposed opinion ?

Deborah98:
Cut it off joor, which kind relationship be dis if he doesn't tell you where he is going now that you both are in relationship is it in marriage he'll do so, mehn you guys should learn to read warnings before it's too late. You said time is going and judging from what you wrote it looks like you want to settle down with him okay but can I ask you? In as much as he doesn't tell you where he goes to and all that what are those characters/behaviours you put up that annoys him, one thing I've learnt from men, brothers and fellows is that they want a woman who gives them 'peace'. So my dear check yourself if you are the reason he's running away from you all in the name of traveling and even at that he switches off his phone to avoid communication.

This is Quality Analysis,.... The Op, if she has sense, she should read this, check herself and be absolutely certain that the fault is not from her before pointing accusing fingers.

Brexxit:


I'm the guy in question.
How dare u bring this matter here on nairaland?

Oga to slap you dey hungry me

maxwelltony:
Hi guys
Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...
please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

Do you know how many people that are on nairaland? If the whole house advise you, your ear no go full?

maxwelltony:
Hi guys
Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...
please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

talking as if another guy nor dey chop ur coochie