Yoighaman:


That is how it's meant to be, helping and supporting one another but this world is no longer normal, abnormality everywhere.

It depends on the nature, perspective and belief of the person you are dealing with.

I lost a relationship many years ago because I asked her for assistance, business had not picked up as envisaged and I was in dire need of funds.

I usually wouldn't ask, maybe because of my ego but I let them down and asked, but she saw it as a 'red flag', she saw me as a potential pest and stylishly ended the relationship. She was abroad and perhaps might have thought all of us in Nigeria are baggages.

I felt very sad but then, life goes on. Am I a better person now? Hell YES!

Thank God I went through that temporary financial challenge, I would have married the wrong woman.

So, it all depends on the particular man or woman you are in a relationship with, there is no 'one size fits all' answer.

Babara1994:

Pls dear, send me 5k for my hair.

MrDam:
My woman is always ready to give me if I ask anytime any day but when returning it she's like 2500+2500= 41000 that's why I'm tired to borrow from her

OlayemiAshraf:
Should a man ask for money from his girlfriend or wife

I actually ask for money from my girlfriend with my chest out and I don't feel ashamed... Even when I don't have money for meal, she pays for it without even abusing me ... When she needs money and I have, I don't hesitate to give her ... Actually we elevate by helping each other .....

I've been hearing from some women saying that "a man that asks for money from his girlfriend is a red flag".

Nairalanders, is that true

ShitHead:
Use the right word, "beg".

If they can beg you, you can beg them.


Begging is reciprocal.

OlayemiAshraf:
Should a man ask for money from his girlfriend or wife

I actually ask for money from my girlfriend with my chest out and I don't feel ashamed... Even when I don't have money for meal, she pays for it without even abusing me ... When she needs money and I have, I don't hesitate to give her ... Actually we elevate by helping each other .....

I've been hearing from some women saying that "a man that asks for money from his girlfriend is a red flag".

Nairalanders, is that true

extralargehead:
OP na waah for you ooo, so na only my own we go dey chop?.
If she no wan contribute to build the relationship, may God put asunder for the case!!!

Bola146:
This thing is simple! I can give him if he is also a giver as single. As a married woman, you have all right giving your husband if he is broke, but if he is not a responsible man, he should be only entitled to her foods only not money.

OlayemiAshraf:
Should a man ask for money from his girlfriend or wife

I've been hearing from some women saying that "a man that asks for money from his girlfriend is a red flag".

Nairalanders, is that true

Ritzybeauty:
Why not, it's not a bad thing but it shouldn't get out of hand to avoid disrespect

Mrscarter:


Im doin ok and yourself? How u doing?

sapphiere:
It makes you look less of a man.

OlayemiAshraf:
Should a man ask for money from his girlfriend or wife

I actually ask for money from my girlfriend with my chest out and I don't feel ashamed... Even when I don't have money for meal, she pays for it without even abusing me ... When she needs money and I have, I don't hesitate to give her ... Actually we elevate by helping each other .....

I've been hearing from some women saying that "a man that asks for money from his girlfriend is a red flag".

Nairalanders, is that true

Hathor5:
Depends on the boyfriend and the circumstances but generally speaking I am of the opinion that in a loving relationship you help each other no matter what. I know many ladies who make way more money than their husbands and it's not a problem. It's only on NL that men pay all bills and can afford 3 wives and 5 concubines.

Wittyduchess:
Depending on the type of man.



A man like my sponsor, who sends money on errands,never misappropriates

Then there is my neighbor who his wife gave money to buy 30 bags of cement so they can start building, he used it to gamble, bought drinks for friends.


There are some type of men that even when you try to be their support ,they end up dragging you down.

Kondomatic:
Contribute to build the relationship?


I don't understand what you mean by that. Can you please explain better?

ehay:
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I agree 100% with you.... dragging you down and also insulting and threatening you on top of it...

pocohantas:


True. As for the closing part, every guy here na redpiller earning in 6-7 figures. Only on Nairaland.

Hathor5:


Internet heroes.

Long time dear. How have you been?

pocohantas:


Na you disappear, so long time to you. I am fine, guess you are fine too.