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I practically pushed myself to go and vote in local election.
I gladly voted for green party.
Party for better environment.

Never miss opportunity to vote in elections.
Your one vote is always important.

JusthowIfeel:
How does it feel being an introvert?

Weird to others

A demigod to yourself

Sometimes I think it’s terribly wrong to be nice , infact those inspirational quote, that says treat people better than they treat you are big lies ,being nice to people is the beginning of see finish , being nice to people is the beginning of people taking you for granted. Using and manipulating that niceness. Treat people worst than they treat you .

Liliantalks:
Sometimes I think it’s terribly wrong to be nice , infact those inspirational quote, that says treat people better than they treat you are big lies ,being nice to people is the beginning of see finish , being nice to people is the beginning of people taking you for granted. Using and manipulating that niceness. Treat people worst than they treat you .

Not necessarily. Just learn to adapt to your environment. But this is somehow tasking of introverts because frequent readjustments and readaptations lead to a sense of loss of ones personality and this can somewhat impose a mental toll on us (my opinion)

Ftheophilous:

Not necessarily. Just learn to adapt to your environment. But this is somehow tasking of introverts because frequent readjustments and readaptations lead to a sense of loss of ones personality and this can somewhat impose a mental toll on us (my opinion)

I agree , the adapting is crazy , you just go to an environment where everyone is mean, especially in a school environment where they see u make mistake and they don’t want to correct you but you on the other hand when they make errors u correct them. Sneaky snakes. U just have to read on your own. Now I have to change my personality. I hate when I have to do that

Liliantalks:
I agree , the adapting is crazy , you just go to an environment where everyone is mean, especially in a school environment where they see u make mistake and they don’t want to correct you but you on the other hand when they make errors u correct them. Sneaky snakes. U just have to read on your own. Now I have to change my personality. I hate when I have to do that

Were you referring to an actual personal experience?

Yeah...for some others, it's like taking a walk in the park (changing personality). But it's tiring. Some lucky ones can blend seemingly well while others are said to be weird and awkward causing them to shy away form the public. The best way around this is to build your forte around your mind.

Ftheophilous:

Were you referring to an actual personal experience?

Yeah...for some others, it's like taking a walk in the park (changing personality). But it's tiring. Some lucky ones can blend seemingly well while others are said to be weird and awkward causing them to shy away form the public. The best way around this is to build your forte around your mind.

I’m such an emotional person. I hate offending people. I think the better way to keep that fort is not being too nice , then u don’t feel bad when people act like a jerk

Liliantalks:
I’m such an emotional person. I hate offending people. I think the better way to keep that fort is not being too nice , then u don’t feel bad when people act like a jerk

Quite the contrary dear. Behaving in an adverse way so as to prevent a potential backlash that can lead to emotional turmoil is a good survival instinct. But you aren't solely trying to survive, are you? you are also trying to live your life the best way you can - in a manner that suits and makes you happy. Therefore, rather than trying to change your nice self, try to learn how to better manage being hurt because getting hurt by people is an inevitable element in life.

meenah04:
Lol. Black black black

Hi meenah.

How do you do?

Albertone:


Hi meenah.

How do you do?

Good evening. I am doing fine.. Trust you are good too?

meenah04:
Good evening. I am doing fine.. Trust you are good too?

Sure I'm good.
Today,people are scared of going out so,what are you up to today?

Albertone:


Sure I'm good.
Today,people are scared of going out so,what are you up to today?

I am not scared of going out, I will go out later in the evening

Home working and reading

meenah04:
I am not scared of going out, I will go out later in the evening

Home working and reading

Lol depends on your region and the current situation of things there.Though everything seems peaceful now.

On a weekend? you're a workaholic yeah.
Have fun!

Albertone:


Lol depends on your region and the current situation of things there.Though everything seems peaceful now.

On a weekend? you're a workaholic yeah.
Have fun!

Is always peaceful over here on things like this, besides our governor won't tolerate any nonsense.

No I am not
Are you one of the WhatsApp group member? ?

Ftheophilous:

Quite the contrary dear. Behaving in an adverse way so as to prevent a potential backlash that can lead to emotional turmoil is a good survival instinct. But you aren't solely trying to survive, are you? you are also trying to live your life the best way you can - in a manner that suits and makes you happy. Therefore, rather than trying to change your nice self, try to learn how to better manage being hurt because getting hurt by people is an inevitable element in life.

it’s very hard.

meenah04:
Is always peaceful over here on things like this, besides our governor won't tolerate any nonsense.

No I am not
Are you one of the WhatsApp group member? ?

Really?
Which state is that?

Yes I am on the group.Are you?

Somehow,your signature kind of baffles me.
Don't try suicide please.

Albertone:


Really?
Which state is that?

Yes I am on the group.Are you?

Somehow,your signature kind of baffles me.
Don't try suicide please.

Yes, kogi state.
I am, pls just mention meenah04 on there to indicate you are the one. Don't worry I won't quote you there pls na beg I dey beg you fa.
Forget the signature, I am over it now, will change it soon

meenah04:
Yes, kogi state.
I am, pls just mention meenah04 on there to indicate you are the one. Don't worry I won't quote you there pls na beg I dey beg you fa.
Forget the signature, I am over it now, will change it soon

Abi are you gentledove?
I'm not really active on the group so you might not have seen me around.You can quote me for me to know you too.
And why you dey beg me fa



Please,I pray nothing as such happens again.But if it reoccurs,I am willing to devote my all to help out.

Albertone:


Abi are you gentledove?
I'm not really active on the group so you might not have seen me around.You can quote me for me to know you too.
And why you dey beg me fa



Please,I pray nothing as such happens again.But if it reoccurs,I am willing to devote my all to help out.

I will quote you, if you will give me a mention there, cos you are not active, so how do I know who is who? Allow me to beg in peace

I pray it shouldn't

meenah04:
I will quote you, if you will give me a mention there, cos you are not active, so how do I know who is who? Allow me to beg in peace

I pray it shouldn't

Alright... I'll message right away.

Introversion is just perfect until you are married and your in-laws are extroverts.

Imagine having to be called at least three times weekly for small talks, "I just called to say hello and check on you", oh how I despise
phone calls. My in-laws are the nicest people I ever met, but, arrrrrggggggh, those constant phone calls, bonding, coming over to my space, and the expectations of me in theirs for every family event or just to visit.

I wish I was as social as they wanted, Lord knows my mother-in-law in all of her kindness and open-mindedness deserves an extroverted daughter-in-law.

Hey!!! Intj female here. Please if you are also an intj female, let's talk.

UBGGA:
Introversion is just perfect until you are married and your in-laws are extroverts.

Imagine having to be called at least three times weekly for small talks, "I just called to say hello and check on you", oh how I despise
phone calls. My in-laws are the nicest people I ever met, but, arrrrrggggggh, those constant phone calls, bonding, coming over to my space, and the expectations of me in theirs for every family event or just to visit.

I wish I was as social as they wanted, Lord knows my mother-in-law in all of her kindness and open-mindedness deserves an extroverted daughter-in-law.

Your hubby can do the trick of stylishly letting them know you are an introvert.

Couchpotato:
Hey!!! Intj female here. Please if you are also an intj female, let's talk.

can't you talk with an intj guy

Couchpotato:
Hey!!! Intj female here. Please if you are also an intj female, let's talk.

can't you talk with an intj guy

Liliantalks:
it’s very hard.

Yeah, sure. Anything worthwhile is usually hard at first. Things get interesting and fun when you are finally able to manage them properly.
... trust you are good today.

Emocruize:

can't you talk with an intj guy
can't you talk with an intj guy

okay. Hey!! How are you doing

Ftheophilous:

Yeah, sure. Anything worthwhile is usually hard at first. Things get interesting and fun when you are finally able to manage them properly.
... trust you are good today.

smile* I sure am .

UBGGA:
Introversion is just perfect until you are married and your in-laws are extroverts.

Imagine having to be called at least three times weekly for small talks, "I just called to say hello and check on you", oh how I despise
phone calls. My in-laws are the nicest people I ever met, but, arrrrrggggggh, those constant phone calls, bonding, coming over to my space, and the expectations of me in theirs for every family event or just to visit.

I wish I was as social as they wanted, Lord knows my mother-in-law in all of her kindness and open-mindedness deserves an extroverted daughter-in-law.

Personally, this is one major reason the idea of marriage is unappealing. But how have been adjusting to all that?

Liliantalks:
smile* I sure am .

Good to hear that...

I am an introvert as well, infact mine is the most severe type, but I am a little bit better, I will simply drop some of my attributes as an introvert and I need reactions to it.
1. As a kid growing up when I was asked to speak in public places sometimes I fall seriously ill, when I get to Uni. I joined campus fellowship and they make me an executive that is what really helped my situation a little.
2. I don't associate, I stick to only few trusted friends, if I go out and talk with people, it drains me of my energy, unless I come back to the house and stay quiet, perhaps reading books and positively thinking of how I will become wealthy. Funny enough my Dad actually prefer me staying indoors, it worsen the whole situation.
3. I hardly talk, especially in the mist of strangers. But with my friends, especially when I am happy, your guess is as good as mine.
4. Almost all the ladies I have had something with in the past as a teen growing up, directly or indirectly they all showed me the green light before I could get them down, I will like a girl but the liver will not be there to talk to her.
5. I think alot, and can become depressed through my own imagination alone,.very terrible.
The list continues, let me stop here for now, if I get some reactions I will add more..funny! But so interesting personality.