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He blurred his name in the first screenshot. Then revealed his name to be John in the second screenshot.

If you looked at the blurred name, that's not John.

forget it bros... No matter the situation you were a semi gay now turned full time official gay member

Neverwill:
I met a man here on nairaland that nearly or should I say took advantage of me and made me nearly commit an abomination which I nearly did. I wanted to keep this to my self till he sent me a message this last night again

I would keep this brief and I hope I find closure with this as I have been so sad since Wednesday and I couldn't sleep

I had to create a New moniker to post this because this is shameful

I'm 29 and a very handsome man. I have a young family with a beautiful wife that I don't even think I deserve because she is an Angel and I have 2 beautiful girls that means everything to me.

I lost my Job during the pandemic last year and it has been hard getting another Job and it's even harder watching my kids starve and my beautiful wife cry at night

I know my responsibility as a man and top most is me providing for my girl's and their Mom.

My wife have been shouldering the feeding responsibility at home since March because after i paid my girls school fee in February my account became empty

Even though my wife does everything she has never been rude to me or shown me the normal "Nigerian" women attitude

She has never denied me sex or spoke to me rudely since August of last year. She meets men, richer men that wants a relationship with her but this lovely woman tells me all, she even gives me her phone to chat with them

In all of this I kept on looking for a job because I feel like I'm failing my girls

On Monday I was in a thread here on nairaland and I made a post that I needed a job so badly and I got an email from here and I replied the email and I and the person started talking and he invited me to his office in the island

I was excited, baby was excited and the girl's were excited as well and I got to his office the next day which was on Tuesday and I submitted my CV to him and he went through it and was impressed and we spoke even more and he said something to me 'what can you do to get this job' and I said anything because I need to start providing for my wife and the girl's as I was feeling the pressure from home and he said something again. 'You are very handsome and I would want us to be closer and if you agree to this you would get even more than a job

Then he told me his office would get back to me and he gave me #15k as transportation and while I was heading home he texted me and said if I'm free tomorrow he would like to see me

My mind told me something was off , I knew but I just couldn't imagine or believe something of that nature could happen to me, I replied his text and told him I would be free and he told me he would get back to me and Wednesday morning he sent me a text that we should meet in one of the biggest hotels in lekki

I asked him why an hotel and he said he has an appointment with a client and he would want me to see the client with him so he accesses my ability In convincing a client to partner with us

Then I got to the hotel by 10am and I called him I was there and he invited me to his room and when I got in it seemed odd

There were 2 glass and a bottle of wine and we started talking and we spoke a lot while we drank and I actually felt comfortable around him and we started talking family and he told me his wife and kids are in America

Then when it got to my turn I told him about Nike and my girls and I got very emotional and started shedding some tears because I'm failing my family even tho it's not my fault, even though I look for job everywhere and every day both on jobberman and LinkedIn and Twitter and Facebook

Then he told me how much I want the job and I said so badly and he said what can I do to get the job I said anything and he said what can I do to get a job of #150k per month gosh that broke me and I said anything at all and right there he called his personal assistant to draft an employment letter in my name and add a salary of #150k

We continued talking and he told me how much I had left in my account I told him just 3k because I gave wifey the rest of the money he gave to me to prepare something for the kids

Some few minutes later he brought out a bundle of cash and told me it's mine and the employment letter in his email which he showed me if only he has sex with me

Hmmmm

I was stunned and astonished and didn't no what to do

I needed a job so badly, my kids needed the money so badly, Nikky has carried the family enough and I needed to do something and there was an opportunity

If it was you what would you do?

I have never thought I would be in such a situation in all my life but I asked him if it would be painful and he Said no

I'm so sorry for even considering it

Then he showed me a video of how easy it would be

Hmmmm

May God forgive me

I agreed guys

I agreed I'm so sorry babe

I agreed because I have been so broken and empty emotionally and mentally

He told me to pull of my dress and I did and he did as well and I don't know what he rubbed in my ass , maybe a cream he said for easy penetration

Then he kissed me and I kissed him back and in all of this I was just mute, confused, not knowing what to do

I knew I hated what I was doing but I needed a job for my girl's and wifey

Then he told me to give him a Mouth Gig and immediately I held his penis in my hands I remembered how Nike would always say no to other men And the Love we shared and I came back to my senses

And I respectfully told him I can't and he was angry and DISAPPOINTED as I could tell from his look but he told me to leave and I asked him about the job and he told me he would get back to me

I left and immediately went to the church to pray and when I got home babe asked me about it and I said I didn't get the job and at night she wanted us to make Love but I felt too dirty to do that

yesterday morning she wanted to kiss me I felt too dirty to do that also

My kids noticed I was different and asked what's wrong and I told them daddy was sick

I'm confused, I don't know if I should tell her and I don't know how she would feel or if she would even forgive me

My kid's are on midterm and I should take them out today but no money, I can't remember when last we had a family time together in an eatry

I feel so sad right now

I feel so broken right now

God forgive me

Please let's not take advantage of people in their down moment. I nearly fell for this and would have regretted it forever

God help me

Good morning

did he put his dick in you already

Even if it's a typo, the OP is more relaxed with revealing his own name as John but cannot reveal the phone number or even the name of the guy?

And you guys supporting him believe this?

Lol.

My man I really feel ur pain. You know what? Don't your kids anything but your wife must know the reason u dint get the job. U don't av to tell her the actual story but let her know the man is a gay and he was trying to cajole you into the act which you quickly resist because of your moral value after which the man ordered you out of his hotel room chikenna. Be diplomatic cos u are a man. My advice thou

Vlain:
U must really think we are gullible. U got me with ur fake story...Heck can’t believe I took my fvcking time to write an entire epistle .

And So...!

fof1:
And So...!

Geddifok

technically the dude got his butt clapped... which makes him completely less of a man

Temidayo1979:
My man I really feel ur pain. You know what? Don't your kids anything but your wife must know the reason u dint get the job. U don't av to tell her the actual story but let her know the man is a gay and he was trying to cajole you into the act which you quickly resist because of your moral value after which the man ordered you out of his hotel room chikenna. Be diplomatic cos u are a man. My advice thou

cortix:
First the story is fake
the screenshot is from a Fake whatsapp app:
1. Hardly you see anyone using light Mood now
2. The time is 24hrs timing which your phone is not set to.

Go and F! yourself.
Attention seeker

Osheyyyyy!!! Detective.his ass has been busted numerously..

Just pray it out and if you are a Catholic confess it out , there is a way act of penance brings peace to human soul.....
Just tell ur wife everything about it .
I don't think you did anything wrong since you didn't do the act.

If this story is true, please send me a dm as soon as you can. I will personally train you in an online job that should give you at least #1m every 3 months. You will not put in a kobo. I am touched by your Godly sorrow. Waiting. God bless all faithful fathers with resources.

Neverwill:
I met a man here on nairaland that nearly or should I say took advantage of me and made me nearly commit an abomination which I nearly did. I wanted to keep this to my self till he sent me a message this last night again

I would keep this brief and I hope I find closure with this as I have been so sad since Wednesday and I couldn't sleep

I had to create a New moniker to post this because this is shameful

I'm 29 and a very handsome man. I have a young family with a beautiful wife that I don't even think I deserve because she is an Angel and I have 2 beautiful girls that means everything to me.

I lost my Job during the pandemic last year and it has been hard getting another Job and it's even harder watching my kids starve and my beautiful wife cry at night

I know my responsibility as a man and top most is me providing for my girl's and their Mom.

My wife have been shouldering the feeding responsibility at home since March because after i paid my girls school fee in February my account became empty

Even though my wife does everything she has never been rude to me or shown me the normal "Nigerian" women attitude

She has never denied me sex or spoke to me rudely since August of last year. She meets men, richer men that wants a relationship with her but this lovely woman tells me all, she even gives me her phone to chat with them

In all of this I kept on looking for a job because I feel like I'm failing my girls

On Monday I was in a thread here on nairaland and I made a post that I needed a job so badly and I got an email from here and I replied the email and I and the person started talking and he invited me to his office in the island

I was excited, baby was excited and the girl's were excited as well and I got to his office the next day which was on Tuesday and I submitted my CV to him and he went through it and was impressed and we spoke even more and he said something to me 'what can you do to get this job' and I said anything because I need to start providing for my wife and the girl's as I was feeling the pressure from home and he said something again. 'You are very handsome and I would want us to be closer and if you agree to this you would get even more than a job

Then he told me his office would get back to me and he gave me #15k as transportation and while I was heading home he texted me and said if I'm free tomorrow he would like to see me

My mind told me something was off , I knew but I just couldn't imagine or believe something of that nature could happen to me, I replied his text and told him I would be free and he told me he would get back to me and Wednesday morning he sent me a text that we should meet in one of the biggest hotels in lekki

I asked him why an hotel and he said he has an appointment with a client and he would want me to see the client with him so he accesses my ability In convincing a client to partner with us

Then I got to the hotel by 10am and I called him I was there and he invited me to his room and when I got in it seemed odd

There were 2 glass and a bottle of wine and we started talking and we spoke a lot while we drank and I actually felt comfortable around him and we started talking family and he told me his wife and kids are in America

Then when it got to my turn I told him about Nike and my girls and I got very emotional and started shedding some tears because I'm failing my family even tho it's not my fault, even though I look for job everywhere and every day both on jobberman and LinkedIn and Twitter and Facebook

Then he told me how much I want the job and I said so badly and he said what can I do to get the job I said anything and he said what can I do to get a job of #150k per month gosh that broke me and I said anything at all and right there he called his personal assistant to draft an employment letter in my name and add a salary of #150k

We continued talking and he told me how much I had left in my account I told him just 3k because I gave wifey the rest of the money he gave to me to prepare something for the kids

Some few minutes later he brought out a bundle of cash and told me it's mine and the employment letter in his email which he showed me if only he has sex with me

Hmmmm

I was stunned and astonished and didn't no what to do

I needed a job so badly, my kids needed the money so badly, Nikky has carried the family enough and I needed to do something and there was an opportunity

If it was you what would you do?

I have never thought I would be in such a situation in all my life but I asked him if it would be painful and he Said no

I'm so sorry for even considering it

Then he showed me a video of how easy it would be

Hmmmm

May God forgive me

I agreed guys

I agreed I'm so sorry babe

I agreed because I have been so broken and empty emotionally and mentally

He told me to pull of my dress and I did and he did as well and I don't know what he rubbed in my ass , maybe a cream he said for easy penetration

Then he kissed me and I kissed him back and in all of this I was just mute, confused, not knowing what to do

I knew I hated what I was doing but I needed a job for my girl's and wifey

Then he told me to give him a Mouth Gig and immediately I held his penis in my hands I remembered how Nike would always say no to other men And the Love we shared and I came back to my senses

And I respectfully told him I can't and he was angry and DISAPPOINTED as I could tell from his look but he told me to leave and I asked him about the job and he told me he would get back to me

I left and immediately went to the church to pray and when I got home babe asked me about it and I said I didn't get the job and at night she wanted us to make Love but I felt too dirty to do that

yesterday morning she wanted to kiss me I felt too dirty to do that also

My kids noticed I was different and asked what's wrong and I told them daddy was sick

I'm confused, I don't know if I should tell her and I don't know how she would feel or if she would even forgive me

My kid's are on midterm and I should take them out today but no money, I can't remember when last we had a family time together in an eatry

I feel so sad right now

I feel so broken right now

God forgive me

Please let's not take advantage of people in their down moment. I nearly fell for this and would have regretted it forever

God help me

Good morning

Sent you a dm. Please reply as soon as you can. Thanks a lot.

Na wah o

Sorry about your experience.
But i dont believe it.
Whose screen shot is this.
If it is yours the recieved and read botton would be on your own part of the message not his.
Nice write up because people go through this real life.

No rich guy who owns a company would send you screen shot of such. Y did u ask for the screen shot in the first place.
Bro relax

Neverwill:
you think I would come online by 5am to write something for pity. Are you serious. You think I was awake from 1am crying in the bathroom to write a fake thread. For what reason, would nairaland pay me? I'm just confused and need advice on what to do. Did I beg for a job or money? Please never mock a situation you haven't felt. Good morning. If I see this Kind of comment again maybe I would just delete the thread

If you tell your wife that you had sex with a fellow man like you, she will never see you the same way again. So, don't tell her anything. Go and do a STD/STI test to ensure you have no STD. You have already asked God for forgiveness so find it in your heart to also forgive yourself. I had no idea that Nigerian men not only sexually harass women but their fellow men as well. I don't know why Nigeria is a nation crawling with sexual predators. Anyways, forgive yourself and move on. Hopefully you find a job soon. Keep the faith.

By the way, pay no mind to those talking trash on your thread. The average Nigerian is a narcissist. Narcissists have no love in their hearts and are incapable of felling empathy and compassion for others. So don't waste your time sharing your problems with Nigerians. Most of them are incapable of feeling empathy and compassion for others. Stay strong!

SEGLIZ:
if are gainfully employed you won't be on nairaland.


do everything in life never to be a victim of sorry case.


mr you've had enough than start dignifying nairalander directors and directives. be at peace for as many that are willing to learn are doing that already.
it isn't enough to make more pitiable scene from the likes. they are patronising you for you've have started exposing them.
wake up clear your head something imploding need more of an explosion for the world to see. their is something about you that is waiting for exposure, stop job hunting start employing others.
Peace of Mind unto You.

You are so right

Neverwill:
you think I would come online by 5am to write something for pity. Are you serious. You think I was awake from 1am crying in the bathroom to write a fake thread. For what reason, would nairaland pay me? I'm just confused and need advice on what to do. Did I beg for a job or money? Please never mock a situation you haven't felt. Good morning. If I see this Kind of comment again maybe I would just delete the thread

Ideally you should see a psychotherapist but you don’t have money and we don’t have them for free.
Speaking with God the way that you know can help fill the void. All the best

Omo things dey happen for this our lekki, the other days it was some gals going to have some orgy with some rich wealthy men dogs.

Lol,

Kings999:
This is funny and this is sad at the same time...
Don't let them see you finish... Life na packaging... you no package yourself well, don't bring yourself too low when looking for a job...



No tell your wife, it's a sin to you and your God, ask God for forgiveness and move on...
You have any right to teach the man a lesson... But you are matured for this oga... Why you no punch him for mouth or beat the hell out of him....

I understand the kind of person you are, you are too quiet... Ahh this kind people no dey meet me... I will stab any gay man that reason me nonsense... I say make I warn some gay people for nairaland....

Sent you a dm. Put seems you have gotten help from other users. I left all I am doing to keep checking my mail for your message so that you can get started this weekend. Checked to see if you are online some minutes ago. It is well. You can forget about it let me consecrate in what I am doing. Goodluck.

Neverwill:
I met a man here on nairaland that nearly or should I say took advantage of me and made me nearly commit an abomination which I nearly did. I wanted to keep this to my self till he sent me a message this last night again

I would keep this brief and I hope I find closure with this as I have been so sad since Wednesday and I couldn't sleep

I had to create a New moniker to post this because this is shameful

I'm 29 and a very handsome man. I have a young family with a beautiful wife that I don't even think I deserve because she is an Angel and I have 2 beautiful girls that means everything to me.

I lost my Job during the pandemic last year and it has been hard getting another Job and it's even harder watching my kids starve and my beautiful wife cry at night

I know my responsibility as a man and top most is me providing for my girl's and their Mom.

My wife have been shouldering the feeding responsibility at home since March because after i paid my girls school fee in February my account became empty

Even though my wife does everything she has never been rude to me or shown me the normal "Nigerian" women attitude

She has never denied me sex or spoke to me rudely since August of last year. She meets men, richer men that wants a relationship with her but this lovely woman tells me all, she even gives me her phone to chat with them

In all of this I kept on looking for a job because I feel like I'm failing my girls

On Monday I was in a thread here on nairaland and I made a post that I needed a job so badly and I got an email from here and I replied the email and I and the person started talking and he invited me to his office in the island

I was excited, baby was excited and the girl's were excited as well and I got to his office the next day which was on Tuesday and I submitted my CV to him and he went through it and was impressed and we spoke even more and he said something to me 'what can you do to get this job' and I said anything because I need to start providing for my wife and the girl's as I was feeling the pressure from home and he said something again. 'You are very handsome and I would want us to be closer and if you agree to this you would get even more than a job

Then he told me his office would get back to me and he gave me #15k as transportation and while I was heading home he texted me and said if I'm free tomorrow he would like to see me

My mind told me something was off , I knew but I just couldn't imagine or believe something of that nature could happen to me, I replied his text and told him I would be free and he told me he would get back to me and Wednesday morning he sent me a text that we should meet in one of the biggest hotels in lekki

I asked him why an hotel and he said he has an appointment with a client and he would want me to see the client with him so he accesses my ability In convincing a client to partner with us

Then I got to the hotel by 10am and I called him I was there and he invited me to his room and when I got in it seemed odd

There were 2 glass and a bottle of wine and we started talking and we spoke a lot while we drank and I actually felt comfortable around him and we started talking family and he told me his wife and kids are in America

Then when it got to my turn I told him about Nike and my girls and I got very emotional and started shedding some tears because I'm failing my family even tho it's not my fault, even though I look for job everywhere and every day both on jobberman and LinkedIn and Twitter and Facebook

Then he told me how much I want the job and I said so badly and he said what can I do to get the job I said anything and he said what can I do to get a job of #150k per month gosh that broke me and I said anything at all and right there he called his personal assistant to draft an employment letter in my name and add a salary of #150k

We continued talking and he told me how much I had left in my account I told him just 3k because I gave wifey the rest of the money he gave to me to prepare something for the kids

Some few minutes later he brought out a bundle of cash and told me it's mine and the employment letter in his email which he showed me if only he has sex with me

Hmmmm

I was stunned and astonished and didn't no what to do

I needed a job so badly, my kids needed the money so badly, Nikky has carried the family enough and I needed to do something and there was an opportunity

If it was you what would you do?

I have never thought I would be in such a situation in all my life but I asked him if it would be painful and he Said no

I'm so sorry for even considering it

Then he showed me a video of how easy it would be

Hmmmm

May God forgive me

I agreed guys

I agreed I'm so sorry babe

I agreed because I have been so broken and empty emotionally and mentally

He told me to pull of my dress and I did and he did as well and I don't know what he rubbed in my ass , maybe a cream he said for easy penetration

Then he kissed me and I kissed him back and in all of this I was just mute, confused, not knowing what to do

I knew I hated what I was doing but I needed a job for my girl's and wifey

Then he told me to give him a Mouth Gig and immediately I held his penis in my hands I remembered how Nike would always say no to other men And the Love we shared and I came back to my senses

And I respectfully told him I can't and he was angry and DISAPPOINTED as I could tell from his look but he told me to leave and I asked him about the job and he told me he would get back to me

I left and immediately went to the church to pray and when I got home babe asked me about it and I said I didn't get the job and at night she wanted us to make Love but I felt too dirty to do that

yesterday morning she wanted to kiss me I felt too dirty to do that also

My kids noticed I was different and asked what's wrong and I told them daddy was sick

I'm confused, I don't know if I should tell her and I don't know how she would feel or if she would even forgive me

My kid's are on midterm and I should take them out today but no money, I can't remember when last we had a family time together in an eatry

I feel so sad right now

I feel so broken right now

God forgive me

Please let's not take advantage of people in their down moment. I nearly fell for this and would have regretted it forever

God help me

Good morning

All the sacrifice you made was for their own goodness nit because you are doing it for the fun of it

Tell her everything and she will understand

You're dull if you thought this is a true story. I didn't even finish it.

If this is really, pls don't tell your wife now o! That be much later.

dominique:
How come the chat is from the guy that supposedly wanted to take advantage of you, or did he send you a screenshot of his chat with you?
As the sender, your chat should be in green while the recipient should be in white but your chat is in the white corner.

Verdict: certainly a fake chat and fake story.

A critical observer.

Neverwill:
Jesus Christ. Why are we Nigerians so mean. Please show me a thread like this and I would delete this immediately and apologise. What do I gain by making a fake post. Please be mindful of what you say ok

It is fake simply because, the screenshot looks like it was taking with the employer's phone, because the phone taking with the screenshot appears the green while the white is the receiver, so it's fake

mmadu5:
oga i read this same story last year here on nairaland . use your time and do something better .stop spreading fake stories we are not fools here . this was posted sometime last time . and when i read it then i knew it was fake . . GO FVCK YOUR SELF .

It is fake simply because, the screenshot looks like it was taking with the employer's phone, because the phone taking with the screenshot appears the green while the white is the receiver, so it's fake

mmadu5:
please no body should believe this story i personally read this same story last year 2020 i knew it was fabricated though i dont know if the op was expecting someone to say send me your acct let me send you something or he was expecting sympathy or job i dont really get his motive . no one should send anything or give him anything too many fake members on nairaland . with different fake stories . sympathy scammers everywhere . ... 419 419 419

It is fake simply because, the screenshot looks like it was taking with the employer's phone, because the phone taking with the screenshot appears the green while the white is the receiver, so it's fake

dominique:
How come the chat is from the guy that supposedly wanted to take advantage of you, or did he send you a screenshot of his chat with you?
As the sender, your chat should be in green while the recipient should be in white but your chat is in the white corner.

Verdict: certainly a fake chat and fake story.

Exactly my observation, you're so intelligent bae

Neverwill:
hey I won't dignify you all with a respond. For the screenshot I deleted my chat with him immediately because I didn't wanted babe to have my phone and see our chats because she knows my pin code to unlock my phone as we don't hide anything from one another , so I asked him yesterday night to send me some screenshots of all our chat and he did innocently . But it's fine if you all think I'm lying. Did I asked anyone for a job, did I beg anyone for money, but I understand. We can't be trusted so we see everyone as scammers and liars. It's ok bro. Take care

You're fake and a lying ass hole. So u have now changed your stance after getting bursted

Have been involved in sexual immorality before I can say you will really feel dirty because you were a man of a pure conscience and would have been powerful in the hands of God. It took only the grace of God for me to get out of it but yet I still fight it daily.

Neverwill:
bros you know when you are under a lot of pressure na. Normally the act disgust me even tho I'm learned enough not to judge anyone. I just feel so dirty. Babe Knows something is off with me, I'm in the seating room here just so filled with guilt. We promised never to hide anything from each other, I have never cheated on her with a woman and this. I have brushed my teeth More than 20 times, have had a bath since Wednesday more than 10 times even twice this morning but I still feel dirty and guilty

even if you brush your teeth 114 times a day and bath 76 Times a day,u will still feel guilty.

Confess to God and ask for his forgiveness
Confess to your wife not to your kids and ask for her forgiveness also.

And also forgive yourself

These three things will restore your peace of mind ASAP

no one could have resisted that kind of situation you were into and not fall for it. You should have backed out when your mind was telling you to. And also having been you prayed before you visited the man God could have saved you.
My best advice is that you confess if you truly want to be saved by God because that kind of defilement you just did will corrupt your soul so much. Forget the job you need God right now.