Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,158,127 members, 7,835,798 topics. Date: Tuesday, 21 May 2024 at 03:07 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags (70436 Views)
There Are Too Many Red Pillers Offline / What Are The Red Flags You Can't Overlook In A Relationship? / Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (17) (18) (19) (20) (21) (22) (23) ... (29) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by esthel(f): 8:35am On Jun 24, 2021 |
This aunty doesn't seem to have any problem. There are familes where one party is a Christian and the other Muslim and they have no issues. |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Funkybabee(f): 8:35am On Jun 24, 2021 |
MisterGrace: Lols, see you U still find fault in my respond. That's what we are saying. Okay, let me give you an example. U met a man, u are talking online, or physically, he did something unsual as a spiritual minded, u observe or atimes correct him. He answered to back it up U look it off, I mean u did not count it So when you finally met, he's trying to touch you, you caution him immediately that's against the scripture commandments, he said know and used another bible work to back it off, u still try to let him understand that it's not allow through God's commandments, evn using a book to back it off. He didn't answer and still continue his move note , he's a well know church members, where u expect them also to be filled with word. Do you now want us to blame his church of not teaching him the right word no or he's just totally an unbeliever. Can you answer me? |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by naturefellow(m): 8:37am On Jun 24, 2021 |
DDDEnterprises: Catholicism isn't Christianity |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Olanre05(f): 8:37am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Tloc: I figured she has been brainwashed. And simply don’t know what she wants. 1 Like |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by GHOSTMODEBIZA: 8:39am On Jun 24, 2021 |
A friend of of mine is happily married to a Muslim lady with 2 beautiful kids and they are living a very happy life. This op go Las Las end up for shilo Abeg drop the guy number cus so many serious girls here need life partner 1 Like |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by ajufoalex2(m): 8:40am On Jun 24, 2021 |
��� where is the red flag ? So cos he doesn’t bind and cast in the middle of the night he isn’t a born again Christian abi Wo u never ready to marry |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by wirinet(m): 8:40am On Jun 24, 2021 |
miketayo:Abeg help me ask am, was Jesus a Christian, was any of the disciples born again, did Jesus himself impose all these doctrines on his followers? To me Jesus was not a religious fanatic, he eat with sinners, he entered the house of sinners, he never condemned anyone (except the Pharisees for their hypocrisy). 1 Like |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by GHOSTMODEBIZA: 8:40am On Jun 24, 2021 |
naturefellow:Says who? Deputy Jesus |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by tunize(m): 8:41am On Jun 24, 2021 |
For your mind now you are more of a christian than him abi? Just because u became a pentecostal member which was your choice now you are forcing or want him to change church his refusal now made you a better christian keep it up. Since you said he is not the one for you, you dont need advice or some convincing kuku break up and date a well suitable christian as u claim. LAS LAS EVERYBODY DEY TRY BECOS EVEN BIBLE WHEN YOU DEY READ STILL CONFIRM SAY NO ONE IS RIGHTEOUS |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by iupac120: 8:41am On Jun 24, 2021 |
mugnmuffin: Dear Op, it is necessary to look before you leap. Don't mind many comments castigating your observation. The way of a Christian is totally different from the way of the world. (1cor3:14) Marriage is a committed one needs a divine guidance. Give yourself to personal prayer to seek the will of God either to GO ahead with the marriage or not. Many of the commentators failed to understand your concern. Being in Catholic or Pentecostal churches does not mean that your a christian. Many people attend churches as a result of be brought up in that environment but the life of the spirit which makes them Christians is not in their life. I can say that are emotionally attached with your fiance and that is why is you are finding it hard to pray and it might hard to understand clearly what the Holy Spirit is ministering you until you separate emotion. God is always wants the best for His children. 1 Like |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by cugardmalino: 8:43am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Aboki go and drink kunu. So because you’ve joined yahoo yahoo church you think you’re born again. Let me just advise you now, the devil is fucking up your thinking. When you were a catholic you enjoyed his views towards God. You’ve joined the one that will make u single till you turn sugar mummy. Talk to your pastor to give you one of his assistant pastors. Either you manage the one you have or remain single. mugnmuffin: |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by seaway: 8:43am On Jun 24, 2021 |
You are not being honest here. Deep inside you, you know there is more to this. Let's do some analysis here: 1. You have been with him for 3 years, yet that's not enough for you to know if he's the one or not. 2. All of a sudden, you gave your life to Jesus. You didn't take him with you when you were giving your life to Jesus. You said you made a mistake by not praying about it at first. Are you referring to the time you have not given your life to Jesus or are you referring to now that you have given your life to Jesus? The time frame is not adding up because if you said you should have prayed about it at the beginning, was it the time you are still non-Christian because that means you shouldn't have prayed anyways or you don't know what prayer is at that time. 3. You are saying that catholics are not real Christians because you are now a non member. That's so childish. 4. Is your bf a chief priest? What made you think he is not the one just because he's a catholic. You think you are better than the guy. Such a shallow mind. You are just looking for an excuse to try the new guy That's all over your Dm. This new guy is making you LOL. You lover his fancy, you just like that he's vibrant. His is bringing something new into your life. You think your bf is just not meeting up. We all love new stuff, but every thing gets old my dear. Women sha. Good luck the new guy. Hopefully you won't change your mind on him too. [You have said it all,she's not been sincere] |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Blackdisciple(m): 8:45am On Jun 24, 2021 |
You guys were both ok when the both of you attend Catholic church but suddenly things changed because you are no more in Catholic. If you are talking about being saved, the calling of Christ to everyone has his or her own time to answer pending on when He ( Christ ) called you Just imagine it was the opposite I strongly believe you will say he is wicked,he is seeing someone else, he is selfish, he is ungrateful, after all those years. For you feeling you are saved and he is not, and you want to leave him, lemme tell you something Christ called you through someone and you will have to reach out to another too , and another to another , that's how it goes. Besides he is attending Catholic doesn't mean he is not saved. So you think say marriage na moi moi abi, ok You sound like a selfish Christian, and that's what Christ will not take. Spiritually and physically you are selfish. He shouldn't make the mistake to marry you because you will be that type of wahalla Christians that sees others as infidels maybe you tried to reach out to them or maybe not. |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Nobody: 8:45am On Jun 24, 2021 |
According to Adenkunle Gold " If it would cause my peace,then I would take my leave"....simple..... Remember there is no Advice on Social Media......Nah only you know where e dey pain you... 1 Like |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by ozueozue(m): 8:46am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Kindly drop the guy's contact, so we can talk to him, he will give our single sisters here listening ears |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Nobody: 8:46am On Jun 24, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:Let her pray |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Thryphosa(m): 8:46am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Na so this aunty go do wey she go lose this guy, your younger sister don marry, soon all your friends go marry leave you coz of your unseriosness. Continue! |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Blackdisciple(m): 8:47am On Jun 24, 2021 |
seaway: Bros see me see trouble ooo. That guy will make a mistake if he marries that girl wallahi |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by valinno(m): 8:48am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Thank God you discovered before the wedding,most of the time, the issues couples are experiencing in their marriage, the signs were there during courtship, but they ignored it, and now, they are living in regret, your spiritual life and destiny in God is more important than anything else on earth, follow your inner person because it never lies,many will talk,but your future is more important than peoples talk, only those who are mature in faith will understand what you're going through now, they will tell you there's nothing wrong, that it's one God, but the truth of the matter is that alot is wrong, you ve seen both sides, and you know the truth now,marry who have a relationship with God, and not a church goer who doesn't even have a prayer life, imagine you praying in the Holy Ghost, and your husband carry chaplet and start counting bids in the name of prayer,I'm sure you know that a couple who cannot pray together in agreement, cannot grow together,so quit the relationship. 1 Like |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by mrksquare: 8:48am On Jun 24, 2021 |
mugnmuffin: People that ain't overly religious are more rational than people who profess to be born again. I can't get married to your kind sister. |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by authority2006(m): 8:48am On Jun 24, 2021 |
mugnmuffin: I think this man should stay away from you, not the other way round you are trying to portray. You are definitely going to be a problem for him with your this religious enthusiasm and fanaticism. I wouldn't marry your likes for anything in this world! Bola146: zed7: |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by nams77: 8:49am On Jun 24, 2021 |
mugnmuffin:My heart goes out to you. I'm glad you made Christ the centrepiece of your being. If your concern is only because he is lukewarm towards the things of God and he is not bad in other areas, then talk to God about it, pray for him and also talk to him lovingly too. Make him see that you want your kids to look up to him as a spiritual beacon. My Dad wasn't religious when he married my mum. Infact at a point, he was not happy about her church activities but he was an exceptionally good man. Long story short. He became an elder later on and died a devout christian. Myself i wasn't really passionate about church. I pray in my cubicle and have a personal relationship with God but I didn't want to do anything in the house of God. Now, the story has changed after several people and even strangers have told me that God wants me. I'm now striving towards working for him. Things do change my dear. Talk to the holy spirit to touch him. If after praying you experience a peace and calmness when you think about him, then go ahead. No human is 100& perfect. Wishing you the best 1 Like |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Beatswim: 8:50am On Jun 24, 2021 |
ALLFATHER14:am talking to the op not you sir, foolishness is the word of the Cross to them that perish,to we the children of God,its the power of God..there is no association between the light and darkness..be wise |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by tonieguy(m): 8:51am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Are you seriously serious You sound so holier than thou. Please, urgently leave the guy as I think you do not deserve him. Let a reasonable lady have him. I see your type everyday. So caught up and brain washed by pentecostal pastors. You should even wait for a vision from your pastor for your life partner. My advice is that you should leave the young man since you are no more comfortable with going ahead with the wedding. This is because when the marriage starts experiencing challenges lik every other marriage, you would always second guess and blame yourself for choosing a wrong life partner. Also note that Christians marry Muslims and they live happily. Christians even marry other non Christians and they are happy. Methodists marry Anglicans ; Anglicans marry Catholics ; Redeemed marry Living faith., etc. And they are all happy. The key ingredient required is love and understanding which you seem to lack. 1 Like |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Xano(m): 8:52am On Jun 24, 2021 |
aanuoluwami14: My advice: Marry someone you are spiritually at peace with. Marriage is not about manage. |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Sophy22(f): 8:54am On Jun 24, 2021 |
jaeyking:You just said my mind. The girl is insane. Mtcheeeeeeeeew |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by Issues2(m): 8:54am On Jun 24, 2021 |
I did not see any red flag in what u just said changing of church should be personal conviction and not been spiritual and who told who catholic church is not a good church habaha aunty be wise dont allowed ur mind to throw away all wat u have started building for yrs in a trash all in d name of religion..pls still pray against d spirit of confusion thanks 1 Like |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by melodyogonna(m): 8:55am On Jun 24, 2021 |
One thing I won't do is marry a religious fanatic. |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by divine2288: 8:55am On Jun 24, 2021 |
mugnmuffin:you are not ready yet there... Is he serving the devil? |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by dnawah(m): 8:55am On Jun 24, 2021 |
Bola146:if u no know u no go know. |
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by sterlingD(m): 8:56am On Jun 24, 2021 |
AgentGoat: 1 Like
|
Re: After Introduction, I’m Seeing Too Many Red Flags by galadima77(m): 8:56am On Jun 24, 2021 |
zed7: Nice |
(1) (2) (3) ... (17) (18) (19) (20) (21) (22) (23) ... (29) (Reply)
Lady Tattooed Her Boyfriend's Face On Her Throat. Photo Goes Viral / Couple Say "I Do" On Hosptal Bed After Accident 4 Days To Wedding (Photo) / Hot Lady & Her Man Pose In Pre-Wedding Photos
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 89 |