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AutoChick4U:
As long as d lady didnt cheat or even think of cheating, I see no issue here.

Big red flags for me.

1. Impatience: I'll never roll with a lady that doesn't appreciate process and growing into things.

2. Opportunistic: again a big no no, the Yahoo guy was there for the spoils, so also her guy for the marriage, everyone of them serves a strategic purpose, she only being the chief beneficiary in all this.

3. Excessively secretive on issues that should be bare: a big no no again, such issues should be discussed before execution.

4. Materialistic: her mindset shows this in full, according to the story.

I rest my case.

AutoChick4U:
Sometimes people come into our lives to be our divine helper

See how easy it is for you to justify evil. Will he pay 45% and later dump her? And you tag "whoring" divine helping? Why can't you tell the girl to get a job and start saving? May this situation befall your brothers and sons. since it is no biggy to u.

As I'm reading this thread, I'm also listening to a song by the kid Laroi titled "without you" and a line in the song says..... "Now here we go oh, can't make a wife out of a hoe."

The lyrics of the song seem to fit this thread.

Yusufisraelj:
Big red flags for me.

1. Impatience: I'll never roll with a lady that doesn't appreciate process and growing into things.

2. Opportunistic: again a big no no, the Yahoo guy was there for the spoils, so also her guy for the marriage, everyone of them serves a strategic purpose, she only being the chief beneficiary in all this.

3. Excessively secretive on issues that should be bare: a big no no again, such issues should be discussed before execution.

4. Materialistic: her mindset shows this in full, according to the story.

I rest my case.

GBAM!!! .... You've said it all.

mardis:
That is pure lie from the suppose fiancee, she is not worthy to be a wife.

Gbam she Will definitely repeat that process

No diss bro but this is the dumbest idea ever!!!! What the Bleep u mean telling him to hit up the other nigga for a chat

CsRockefeller:
Calm down, first, don't do anything stupid.

Get the guys number and request a man to man conversation, find out everything (he will be honest with you). That will determine what you should do next.

However, one thing is certain - your woman isn't honest, and that's a red flag.

apostle96:
You are just acting up unnecessarily
If she places all her burden on you, you will complain
Now she has an helper, u still dey complain

Are you stupid?

The choice is urs for me I no dey do again cis I can't trust her. Any girl who cheat after intro, or pay part of her parent charges does not deserve pity.. hopefully dem never use her pant mk u no go carry empty mkt enter house oo..
Yahoo boy and pant can not be trusted..

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

BEST ADVICE

when a man starts doing for a lady what he can't do for his fellow man...

Just know that d lady is already giving to him what a fellow man can't give him.

He can't give a fellow man money to open a business but he is doing so for ur Wife-to-be.

The question is...

What is ur 'wife to be' already giving him that a fellow man can't give him?

MARRIAGE is for eternity.

It's for adults / matured minds that can take decisions without interference from family, friends and Nairaland.

Marriage is not 'boyfriend/girlfriend'


I can bet my two testicles on the fact that ur 'wife to be ' is NOT a virgin.

Thinking of impregnating her, then running away clearly exposes ur immaturity.

Hope u know maturity has nothing to do with age?

Age is just numbers.

My Dad can never caution me on women affairs simply because he already impregnated someone before he married my mom.

Anyday he tries to...
I'll remind him of how HOLY he was when he was my age.


You are about to sign up for eternity of premium tears.

Don't let ur mind deceive u.

There are over 90million ladies in Nigeria as at now.

I'm sure more than 10million of them are as beautiful, loving and caring as ur 'wahala to be'.


PS:

I'm still single and therefore, not qualified to give marital advice.
Listen to the matured minds in the group not me.

There is no need to repay evil with evil...

Impregnate and dump her at 6th month of pregnancy?!

Please don't do what you will regret in future, pity your unborn kid

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

Papa Ajasco story! Though it's happening o

And for real one, .....a lady you intended to marry that she is still hidden phone or password for you? I pity ur sorry ass.

The implication is that such guy is not in charge of the relationship and he won't be in charge when they eventually married.

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

Are you a man or mouse ?

Eh yah...what a caring wife material...all for the husband to be..

Meanwhile Op what software diju use to come up with the 45% traditional rite you claimed to have performed....Even people that have completed their traditional and white wedding still contend with infidelity and you're raising somuch dust and killing yourself for unsubstantiated 45%.

Issorite.

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

If you can't come to an understanding simply WALK AWAY you'd be happy you did.

PENNYSWAP:
Hey God , I’m boiling .... I trusted this girl with my life , have done 45% from the traditional list

Don’t I deserve more

If you love your sanity bro then you need to end things ASAP.As Dey always say, “A broken engagement is way better than a broken marriage.Stay strong.

Guy

Collect the phone, the Sim, the wig, the bag, the pant, the gown, the slippers, everything you have invested in her. Now she sees you as a partner on deceit, be 5 steps ahead of her because since the yahoo boy has already said he love her, forget it. He will Fuk her!! Not once o, and believe me, he will not do it with a condom.

Since there's money on ground now from the first deal already, collect it with style. Use the money to go better yourself. But ensure you have evidences with you that she's fucking this Yahoo boy.

No pity her, don't impregnate her for any reason. Just waka jeje comot from the relationship. Forget your 45% bullshit and move.

I don talk my own.

BarrSly:
No diss bro but this is the dumbest idea ever!!!! What the Bleep u mean telling him to hit up the other nigga for a chat

He needs closure, he can't get it from the lady, the guy would oblige him.

I'm assuming both parties are men with composure, not boys.

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

ur are a simp .There over 10m Ladies in Nigeria .na long throat u wanna make wife abi. U want to be sharing you wife say woman are now scare commodities. GOD HAS SAVED U FROM DISASTER.

Your mind has told you the right thing. It's now left for you to be a man and take your own pound of flesh or quietly walk away like a mugu which you are.

If however your village people catch up with you and marry this prostitute, even your generation yet unborn will regret it.

I need a girlfriend like that right now to do it for us.

G, she is not your wife , just try and impregnate her and dump her at the end he G guy will later use her for blood money . Believe me you will thank me later .

AutoChick4U:
Sometimes people come into our lives to be our divine helper

Biko I don't want that divine helper that will be telling my bae how much he loves her

Op that girl is one of the many useless nigerian girls. She is not worth the stress. Do whatever comes to mind but i wont advise you marry such a person. You will regret your naming ceremony.

There are still few good ones, but they may not be your choice. In this life, it's almost impossible to have it both ways.

Pls go nd make money nd stop lamenting

AutoChick4U:
Are u people even OK? She probably knows d guy will flip hence d secrecy. God answers my prayer and brings a helper my way I shouldn't collect because of one guy struggling to pay 45 percent? Let's b rational

Satan answered your useless prayer and sent you someone to encourage you in your olosho lifestyle...not God

lol

For her to have blocked his line on WhatsApp, it means she is trying to lay him off.

At least she is open to work with you against the maga.

Tell her no more lies.
That girl like you o.
Marry her.

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz