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I think you should take things easy with her, when u secretly took her phone you realized that she blocked the guy, that shows that she does not have any genuine interest in that guy and upon confronting her on your findings she acknowledged that she was just doing it to raise money for the business. My cadid advise is that you should just chill and not to take a hasty action on her because there is no perfect girl or lady no matter how saint she appears.

My friend walk away, that's not a wife... you will end up coming here to lament after the marriage.

Although most Nigerian women cheat, cheating is no big deal to them. To them it is a means of survival, if you can accept that fact and live with the reality, then ho ahead with her.

Someone I know allowed his wife to sleep with a guy for a big money contract but at least they were married. When I asked him why he agreed, he said he thought about it and that she could have cheated and he would still never know. They got the contract, are living big and they are still together and happy. I call them Mr & Mrs Smith, only the husband knows why.

I don’t like the idea of taking money from the guy while leading him on & she’s betrothed to you but be careful. With women of today these are the things you deal with. Sending her away may not be the fix, there are no angels out there.

Get a proper understanding of whats really going on. Is she being truthful to you or is she considering the guy. You must find this out first.

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

This is Selfishness. Since the yahoo boys is spending money on her, then let her go. She's a graduate, you couldn't provide for her, but you've already engaged her, how does that sound? You want to marry a jobless girl? She told you she needed money for side business, you no get money but you wan marry her. Nigha that's not how things work.

Give her the money in full or set up the business but if she continues sleeping with the yahoo boy then take it as a blessing that she is not your wife.

You deserve better, and she deserves better too.

AutoChick4U:
As long as d lady didnt cheat or even think of cheating, I see no issue here.

so u think it's possible to b collecting and not cheat? D girl de Bleep to raise monj, it's very obvious... If she never open yansh, dats d next tin to do and she will.. Either directly or indirectly

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

You don't need to wicked her because karma already knows what to do with her

But I think a lady that has already been proposed and her family had been visited and some commitments have been made by the man, shouldn't be talking about love with another guy.but can still discuss general topics with men if at all thete is need for that

My fear and worries are if you can handle her even in marriage

One of the ways that you need to put your mind at rest is for her to make a call to the said guy in your presence with a speaker, is for her to tell the guy by herself that she is engaged and wants to end any relationship they have

If she does that without hesitation then it's good and if she refuses then you don't even have her in the first place

Just let her go before she birth another man's child for you

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

If you don't want her anymore, let her go.... Don't impregnate her..... A relationship is an open door, till you legally marry her........

Odiegwu

No need to wicked her, If you know you don't trust her enough to marry her, break up with and let everybody go on with their lives

Lol. See as woman dey wash you. And you dey panic.
See it's simple, Since you've paid her dowry, you have nothing to lose unless you don't have options.

Follow this rules. For maximum sure odds.

1: Pretend like you still care

2: Don't even ask about the guy. Just flow along.

3: Find another girl. Just dey collect giveaway
from this your yeye babe. While, building connection with another lady.

Because a woman who have no endurance, materialistic, and self discipline isn't worth to be called a wife.

4: Since you've paid the dowry. Don't correct her. Just allow her to continue with her she*t. Cause this is prove incase her family would want to drag you. If possible have physical prove. Like record her conversation, screenshot the chat. Cause some family no get chill and she might deny her infidelity.

5; Once the guy play 2X and he wins the game. That's eat from her cake. He go run. E sure me goon. Unless, he gets her pregnant. And you should be happy

6: Kill that d*mb idea of getting her pregnant. Shey you won marry problem?

7: When she comes back. Just tell her that the relationship between you two, can't work cause you see no future In her. And walk away forever.

7: Instruct her never to call you, nor come to your place cause you've moved on a long time ago.

8: Then like a cloud of mist. She will seeth everything that have been hidden. And settle with a lesser man. Not you.

9: You still remain the Price.

No fake love, no bit©h, and no wahala. And maximum potential of starting afresh.

We men have nothing to lose. Unless, we f**lishy lose a good woman. This can haunt us for a lifetime.

So you're still the boss. 100 sure odds. That is just it my friend. You get the point now?

KieranTierny:
Bro, seems the Yahoo guy is already fucking your babe. Be smart and wise. I fear women.

Can some good Samaritans help me pls? I'm in sch writing exams and can't concentrate on my studies due to hunger, I'm starving. Someone should pls help.

I dunno why I read your two paragraphs with different voices

Stay away from that kind of people, na so people dae use enter problem them no bargain for.

No be every young boy people see way dae dress dae do big boy be yahoo boys o, some of them na ritualist, kidnapper's, armed robber's and cultist masquerading as Yahoo boys. make tomorrow u no dae ur own and niggas come pick u o. Tell you how d money u no know about dae be.

Be wise

PENNYSWAP:
It’s not as you think , some one I caught in the act , changed the narrative of that she wants to play the said guy , I was just looking at her , like ok fine do what’s in your mind .

I had to give her the yes to know what she was upto, and she was so happy I gave her the go ahead . I am not a fool bro...

Many things were going through my mind , so this is some I’m to marry , how do I take my own pound of flesh , a million thoughts

Pls, it really hurts, I know that quite well. But pls take your eyes off her and vengeance before the devil takes the wheel. Because you cannot know the plans the devil is also making. You still have a life ahead of you!

PENNYSWAP:
It’s not as you think , some one I caught in the act , changed the narrative of that she wants to play the said guy , I was just looking at her , like ok fine do what’s in your mind .

I had to give her the yes to know what she was upto, and she was so happy I gave her the go ahead . I am not a fool bro...

Many things were going through my mind , so this is some I’m to marry , how do I take my own pound of flesh , a million thoughts

do that which is on ur mind and do it very fast.also do it without any error.for that shall be your only gain.

Let's talk this in private,there are questions I will like to ask you,chat me up on WhatsApp 07039476669

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

Yahoo Wife.
This is type of woman who do all things to see her family is progressing.
Believe you in me, if you loss her you wount and can never ever find someone like her again!

I actually understand how constraining it is to find out your woman is
having a side dude.

You don't need to get her pregnant and abandon her,that would even be worst and portray you as more evil than the Yahoo guy.....I understand how you feel about your fiancee but gentlemen don't seize phones or SIM cards they bought for there women just because they want to check or say they suspect something.there are other ways to go about finding of your woman is cheating on you or not.
That said, you should by now be able to code the kind of relationship your woman have gone with the said Yahoo guy.but from your explanations she may have slept with the guy, hence the guy gave her the start up capital. But she shouldn't have told you you are wasting time, hence she has to go get it from the guy....

she wants to even collect more from the guy....ah ha..Tomorrow, she go use am yab you say na another man send am money to start business. Ask your family member for advice on this but my brother work harder n make more money.

It's your decision to take and no one will take such for you. But if you ask me, I will drop her and move on with life to get more money!

No need to “wicked” her. She is a liar and will always tell outrageous lies and will keep lying to cover up. I’m a woman and I can tell you she is manipulative.
Imagine after marriage and you are unable to provide certain things for her, what do you think would happen? She’ll keep running to other men for assistance. How would it make you feel as a man?
I’m also sure she’ll rub it in your face that you didn’t set up a business for her but someone else did. Talk a walk.

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

Abeg go collect whatever dowry you paid on her head for your life my brother, nothing is free in this world even in free town that yahoo guy is not a fool either one day he get to see that your lady pant and use her the way he wants, the lady is not your wife, she is an opportunist who jumps on men for money, any girl who does that can even kill you and doesn't have conscience it's simply a gold digger.

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

Leave her alone. Move on

[/quote][quote author=PENNYSWAP post=103095069]Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

why are you guys behaving like chicken these days

You notice something like this! You fvck her and dump her dirty baboon arss


Why are you guys behaving like simp! No naija women is worth dying for or even giving your heart for! Only use those bitches and dump then

You know naija women are useless.... All of them but yet you simps keep falling for there prey!

You guys should stop letting ya peniss do the thinking, use your brain instead.

Date a foreigner and forget all those worthless piece of shiit called naija women! They ain't worth it.

PENNYSWAP:
Hey God , I’m boiling .... I trusted this girl with my life , have done 45% from the traditional list

Don’t I deserve more

Na Delta girl abi?? Don't waste your time

AutoChick4U:
As long as d lady didnt cheat or even think of cheating, I see no issue here.

She's already a chicken cheat. Fuvk her

You no deserve anything, do you have money

PENNYSWAP:
Hey God , I’m boiling .... I trusted this girl with my life , have done 45% from the traditional list

Don’t I deserve more

This is gidi, bros u have a fault too, how will u allow her go ahead. Well, I had a similar experience, she will duck d dude, d dude will duck her, she'd call u a broke ass.. Bla bla bla........ U never see wife bros.

PENNYSWAP:
It’s not as you think , some one I caught in the act , changed the narrative of that she wants to play the said guy , I was just looking at her , like ok fine do what’s in your mind .

I had to give her the yes to know what she was upto, and she was so happy I gave her the go ahead . I am not a fool bro...

Many things were going through my mind , so this is some I’m to marry , how do I take my own pound of flesh , a million thoughts

you've just laid the foundation of a fail marriage......deep inside you, you know it, don't do what you will regret, two smart devil is impossible to control.

OP please cut long story short. Use Penis Booster and be strong and watch how your lady will gum you tight.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AD5Rao7LPX4

Some guys are mumu. Better receive sense before it too late.

Guy move on...