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| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by shoboy9: 9:11am On Jun 26, 2021 |
You mean he gave her money for free? No nothing? Or you just don't want to admit you're a side chick? |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Offpoint1: 9:12am On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP:Impregnate her and leave her? What manner of foolishness is that? A woman betrayed you and you want your own child, blood and flesh to suffer the consequences of her mother's sin? You're not very wise. 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Obaman12: 9:13am On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP: Bro, you're a wise guy. I must commend the way you reacted to this by not letting her know what's on your plan. Had this similar situation but I goofed it up cos I couldn't control my emotions. So I'm happy you were able to play along. Now is your come back time, she's leading you now, in terms of score. You have to up your game by digging more to find out if the guy has actually laid her. Read chats from her best female friend, that's where the secret is. Everything she's been hiding is there. When you discover the real truth, there and only will you be able to act without looking back. This girls are something else. Quote me, we'll talk more. |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by drightguy(m): 9:13am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Who said you can't find someone better than her? please you need to let go of that relationship. Truth is that she is not yet matured. Nothing you can do to keep her. It will always end in tears. |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by TheSociopath(m): 9:13am On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP: NA Igbo girl? |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Irennediva(f): 9:13am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Not Surprised. The future is Female  1 Share
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| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by showafrica(m): 9:15am On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP: Hahaha, my man, sorry but i no no how you go handle this bitter truth. You never mature to marry, give yourself more time but its possible if you enter, you go mature as time goes on , hopefully you no go burn your finger. Your girl don hammer the Yahoo boy, and the money the boy promise am was not given to her completely hence she blocked him. The boy is requesting for more before giving her more money. She did it for herself not you, allow her finish her hoe stage before paying any bride price. Wickeding her is of no use, just find way collect your money back from her, then continue the sexcapade unti she beg you to come marry her, if she prefer the yahoo boy, free her. Just find way use diplomacy get your money back from her or the yahoo boy and continue banging for free. Make una dey take redpill una no gree, make woman no carry you enter prison for nothing 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by elonize(m): 9:15am On Jun 26, 2021 |
airminem:u too fool.e mentioned any ethnic group here  |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by starz100: 9:16am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Guy, suspend all the dowry process for now until you have closure on the matter, that is if you still love her so much. Do not be in a hurry to marry her, make sure she give you more info about the yahoo boy. If she is not free giving you info about him as in trying to hide things from you, then she is not your wife, hence leave her. Should you dump her, do not make the mistake of taking her back because that will be your greatest mistake. 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by sadi78: 9:16am On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP:
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| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by authority2006(m): 9:16am On Jun 26, 2021 |
masterflowx: Go back and read it again. Though,, he was being childish about the part where he said something about impregnating and dumping her |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by fineberry(m): 9:17am On Jun 26, 2021 |
BabbanBura:this tears is LOADED already bro....90% of woman nowadays have no loyalty at all 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by OChimex: 9:17am On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP: You sound young and naive. First, the red lights are there. Second, if you gift someone something it's not yours anymore. Do not constantly remind them of it or threaten to take it back. It is childish. Especially girls of which they had as well gifted you in kind. Third, "you need to wicked this girl." Why do most of you guys in this part of the world always vindictive and wicked? This is the reason there is so much evil in the country. Everybody has a wicked heart never forgives and always ready to pay evil with evil. Finally, many of those yahoo boys are fetish and most girls they associate with are always victims of their fetishism. Indirectly, you might be affected. So many red lights to make you kindly stay away from the girl and use your precious time to hustle, plan a future, purify your wicked heart, instead of wasting your time planning evil against her. 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Hcqmela: 9:17am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Ogbotobo77:so being faithful is not among the thing a guy should have to show his loyal Hmmmmm.... I'm very sure if it's the girl that caught the guy red handed,na ur type go dey give the normal useless advice that Cheating is a normal thing for guys 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by nick50(m): 9:17am On Jun 26, 2021 |
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| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Stallione(m): 9:19am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Just make her a baby mama and dump her sorry ass. Ndi ara ndi ara everywere!!! |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Indispensable85(m): 9:19am On Jun 26, 2021 |
You didn't catch her pants down with anybody so why the rage? She's playing emotional games with the guy to raise money for her business which you couldn't provide and you're here ranting. I've got no issues with her so long as she continues to keep her legs closed to the guy. There's nothing to prove she has been sleeping with the guy. |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by friendl: 9:19am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Manage her like that ,no single 9ja girl good ,the next could be worst ,..trust me 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by EndRape2(f): 9:20am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Why did you touch her phone? Why did you open her phone, I thought you people said girls and boys should not touch each other phones? uote author=PENNYSWAP post=103095069]Greetings guys .. I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas . She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle. I told her to give me small time to save up money . There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me . I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it. We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy . I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp. I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business. I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy . That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since . She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be. My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me . The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here . Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo I need advise from real niggaz[/quote] |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by godlessmind: 9:21am On Jun 26, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: Madame speak for yourself biko.. It's not my business if anyone gives you money or not. |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Junnior: 9:21am On Jun 26, 2021 |
BarrSly:Lol. You watch stephIsCold on YouTube? |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by elonize(m): 9:21am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Guy for u to give a go ahead, u don do mistake o....as for dis matter....e b like say u go leave dis girl.because going to take frm yahoo boy,n ntin goes for ntin ,u as a boy know dis truth.another tin is,girl no get work or anything doing.u dey 1marry her.d money u dey 1use do start up for her,nai bring ur finance down for d marriage plans...mk d girl get smtin doing ooo. 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by authority2006(m): 9:22am On Jun 26, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: Lol. Like if you allowed someone to fvck you, you would come back home to tell your husband? She's cheating already, fvck or no fvck. The yahoo guy didn't present himself as father Christmas, he was definitely asking for something. |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by alizma: 9:22am On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP:You are not mature for the marriage yet. When you are ready, come back for advise. You no get money but all you could think of doing is borrow her phone to play ludo abi? Swear that you have never give out money to a lady before. If you are complaining that she took money from the guy knowing that the source is not clean, that is fine but you don't have evidence of her cheating on you yet, besides she had earlier gave you clue on the guy and her intention. |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by moriss33(m): 9:23am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Nope...you should understand that the issue here is trust. If she had been upfront OP won't be here lamenting. It's not about the money buh trust. Imagine ur man doing same & telling you he wants to scam a lady friend....would u blindly believe such crap ? AutoChick4U: |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by excel101(m): 9:23am On Jun 26, 2021 |
If she sleeps with a guy just to raise money you could not provide before your marriage with her, what would she do in similar circumstance after marriage. You found this out yourself, mind you there might be other guys in her life. My advice is for you to think and act wisely. |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by OkpaNsukkaisBae(m): 9:23am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Why should you wicked her? Please dump her and move on. Where's the humanity in you? You guys are not married... even if you're married to her the least you can do is to divorce her. |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Lifewasgood: 9:24am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Oga, money wey reach to do small business na dem dash your girl just like that. Hoor, you nor sure say that bros dey shift pant. Run now before you train another man pikin o. |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by tope3x(m): 9:24am On Jun 26, 2021 |
The guy don fvck her, forget story omotoshodontee1: |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by chuksoyo21(m): 9:25am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Dude, don't kill yourself before your time... Give that girl some space let her sort herself out. She's not yet ready to marry... |
| Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by almarthins(m): 9:27am On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP: And what pride will gain from wickedness? It is better to have your mind n conscience void of offense towards her. Impregnating her and dumping her will on breed worstful hate. And how would you xplain it to ur child ? Let us be men with good character. I no dey do again no be by force. Let her go peacefully. |
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