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Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by worldclass68(m): 10:20am On Jun 26, 2021
Lol....well they would call it an helper for now...
Until u go come here asking for DNA price after so much depression, no worry..
Why don't u do same thing and see how she reacts!
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 10:20am On Jun 26, 2021
PENNYSWAP:

She was watching all these Indian channel on Gotv , I had to keep my self busy cuz I don’t watch such channels .

Told her to give me her phone make I play 9ja ludo cuz game full her phone , she said no after holding on to the phone and pressing one or two things she now gave me the phone
So u want to impregnate and dump her? Wahala for girls who get mind to sleep with love they cheated on oo
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 10:21am On Jun 26, 2021
Blacksavage:

You say waiting? angry
See there's a possibility they havent don anything though
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Gbire111: 10:21am On Jun 26, 2021
Bro, we take some sacrifices and risk for the greater good and peace. Forget the 45% of a thing and look yonder for a better lady. She won't definitely stop there. And if you later resolve to be with her given pressures from the families, you'll suffer for it. Whichever relationship where trust and open-mindedness, loyalty and sincerity are not golden and sustainable is exercise in big futility.
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Blacksavage: 10:22am On Jun 26, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Are u people even OK? She probably knows d guy will flip hence d secrecy. God answers my prayer and brings a helper my way I shouldn't collect because of one guy struggling to pay 45 percent? Let's b rational

And you will probably spread your legs for him las las.. There is no big deal woman.. angry
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Tadeus(m): 10:22am On Jun 26, 2021
PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

If you impregnate her and leaves her. You doing yourself because she's carrying your baby. I don't thing any reasonable man will allow his child to suffer. She will transfer that wickedness to your child. If you no longer interested in her, let her go and move on with your life. You no be mugu bro. It's natural to spend for women especially the one you love.

Let her go and marry the Yahoo boy if you no longer interested. She will be fine and you will be fine also. My advice
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by rosalieene(f): 10:23am On Jun 26, 2021
3kay945:


I thought am the only one sane o.
Imagine the different advices dishing out to him.
No wonder evil reign in this country. The youth propagate it more.
I have always said it.
This nairaland people are very toxic.
See how many of them are supporting him.
So many insane people here.
People break up, he will not be the first.
Why must he want to take revenge.
He is an evil person and doesn't deserve that girl at all.
I wish she could see the thread and turn her back because this guy with this mindset can hurt her in the future.

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Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by od501: 10:23am On Jun 26, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Sometimes people come into our lives to be our divine helper

Divine helper indeed. Romance scammer spotted, typical Nigerian lady.
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by fortune1968: 10:24am On Jun 26, 2021
When money is lost , nothing is lost , when health is lost , something is lost , but , when character is lost, everything is lost . The girl has lost everything . I will advise you to forget everything that you might have done or spent towards your marriage if you don't want to lose your mind and health . The girl is not a wife material . Just be patient with yourself and allow the girl to go though it will not be easy , but , you have to endure it for a better tomorrow . Please , don't do anything in terms of vengeance against her do that God will be on your side and give you a good wife . Be patient .
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 10:24am On Jun 26, 2021
Blacksavage:


And you will probably spread your legs for him las las.. There is no big deal woman.. angry
Naaa, I don't spread legs for money.
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Tonitoniton(m): 10:24am On Jun 26, 2021
PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz



Oga sir,

No Yahoo boy will give money to a girl without sleeping with, except she wan die

What they inject into her body during sex and what they equally take during sex will shock u

That girl is trouble! How do u deal with trouble, bro!?
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by McLizbae: 10:25am On Jun 26, 2021
PENNYSWAP:


Hey God , I’m boiling .... I trusted this girl with my life , have done 45% from the traditional list

Don’t I deserve more

Guy cool down, calm down o!

Doubt you were forced to do anything on her dowry list, you take yourself to it and probably enjoyed doing the list that day. So somewhere somehow nah your mess you nor still do your assignment well on the chick. Life is a gamble bro, you win and surely lose some, so don't bet what you can't afford to lose. Again, you should wait for a more realistic stake before you make you bets in life.

Just calm down so gbo!

If there is a way you can still make some "money" off her, no wahala, play along and collect as much as possible and dump her for her yahoo guy (who is much likely to dump her later too). But that "impregnate and dump her", you are somehow planning your own life defeat and dishonorable funeral is a near future, because the army that chick and your own flesh and blood (that your child you seem not to think about at all here) will form against you, will be spiritually and physically formidable.

No go use hot head do anything you can't undo o, calm down!
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by superCleanworks(m): 10:25am On Jun 26, 2021
PENNYSWAP:


She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

I need advise from real niggaz

Are you sure your head is working well? You are very unserious.

Now there is nothing on earth you can do or say to chase her out of your life because you have given her approval where you are playing children's games instead of making your stand known immediately. If you say anything about this to her tomorrow, you will regret that day because what she will tell you will make you beg for ground to open & swallow you.

Shame. You have sold your right.

You lack wisdom.

Better go and collect your bride price back because you are not ready to be a man at all.
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Blacksavage: 10:25am On Jun 26, 2021
AutoChick4U:
See there's a possibility they havent don anything though
For you just said
I'm highly disappointed ahhhba...
You think say yahoo na mumu...
Madam let's be real that lady is hoe..
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 10:27am On Jun 26, 2021
od501:


Divine helper indeed. Romance scammer spotted, typical Nigerian lady.
Guy I can't pretend to love just to scam abeg.
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Creativeace(m): 10:27am On Jun 26, 2021
Bro
Where's your manly dignity ? Come on man you even gave her the go ahead to keep milking the guy ? Whats the difference between you & her now,cos if you were to be a woman,it shows you would have done the same,its an insult on your honour as a man.
GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST AND ABIDE BY THE CODE OF HONOUR !
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Blacksavage: 10:27am On Jun 26, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Naaa, I don't spread legs for money.
See this one
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 10:27am On Jun 26, 2021
Blacksavage:

For you just said
I'm highly disappointed ahhhba...
You think say yahoo na mumu...
Madam let's be real that lady is hoe..
Nawaooo, she for just manage d one her hubby fit provide fa
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 10:28am On Jun 26, 2021
Blacksavage:

See this one
See you
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Blacksavage: 10:30am On Jun 26, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Nawaooo, she for just manage d one her hubby fit provide fa

Na the normal life style wey this hoes dey live this days..
That's why I don't trust this creatures...
If you like them buy 2plot for moon for una
Una go still cheat grin
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Blacksavage: 10:30am On Jun 26, 2021
AutoChick4U:
See you

grin
Who you be self this girl?
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AmbassadoR100(m): 10:31am On Jun 26, 2021
Bro... You are being foolish with her. How can you give her the go ahead to collect money from the other guy??

Are you blinded by this girl you said you want to marry? She's too materialistic and she's not truthful. She wants to start a business but cannot wait for you to provide for her... She rather wants to dupe another guy for it and you are in support! Both of you are very much wrong. She wants the money fast and She might as well sleep with the guy or another man for it.

What do you or does she mean she's doing it for you?

Please be wise!! This is marriage we are talking about here... A lifetime contract.

You want to impregnate her and dump her.... My brother... You are going deeper into a dead pit!

You must be right for the person you want to marry and vise versa.

Examine her very well and examine yourself too. If things are not gonna work out, you better call it a quit now that it's still early otherwise... You might as well enter a very disturbing marriage all because of the stupidity from both of you!

Be real and Wise.
Do to others what you want to be done to you and there will be peace!
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Haywhymido(m): 10:31am On Jun 26, 2021
efficiencie:


Guy I'm sorry for saying this but you have just concluded your coronation as the Oba Mumuni 1 of Mumu land. Your so called gf will be lashed till they kingdom come by the very same yahoo boy. I will advice you to use your discovery as the excuse to get out of that relationship and seek a God-fearing woman. You sef need to be born again. Marriage is a divine thing and you cannot be carnal and expect to enjoy a divine thing...whatever demon that told you to get her pregnant and abandon her wants to ruin your life very very quickly. If you do that you will be giving her the legal right in the spirit to reduce you to a loaf of bread. Be warned. Get out of that relationship, repent and seek Jesus, seek a godly wife and be faithful to her...do this or else you will crowned Supreme Overload of the Federal Republic of Fools!
Godly wife for this generation? Na u go tire
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 10:31am On Jun 26, 2021
Blacksavage:


Na the normal life style wey this hoes dey live this days..
That's why I don't trust this creatures...
If you like them buy 2plot for moon for una
Una go still cheat grin
But I haven't cheated on my boyfriend and don't intend to even though d fool cheats.
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by dustydee: 10:32am On Jun 26, 2021
PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz
From the above, it appears you have some growing up to do.
1. A gift, once given, ceases to be yours. You stole her phone and refused to give it back because you had the power over her. And you will later complain about our leaders abusing their powers.
2. You want to abandon her with your baby so that they will both suffer because you felt betrayed? You deserve the "father of the year" award. Bringing a baby into this world just to get back at your fiancee? Clap for yourself.
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by superCleanworks(m): 10:32am On Jun 26, 2021
AutoChick4U:
See there's a possibility they havent don anything though

So you think a woman being cheap is till d!ck enter vag!na?

When you repeatedly put yourself in compromising positions that can give birth to sexual gossips and rumour and suspicions then you have already been screwed.
In fact that is even worse than the guy actually banging you

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Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Glamgurl: 10:32am On Jun 26, 2021
So you want to impregnate her and leave her when she is 6 months gone as punishment? Do some people think at all?
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AlwaysMotun: 10:33am On Jun 26, 2021
The way this guy will do her undercloth ehn, you sef would not have done it before... You think nowadays guys will just send money like that fiam without doing the undercloth? If she wanted to do scamming thing to that yahoo guy, you would have been in the know and both of you would have planned it. Hence the reason she is been recluse while you were with her. I used to be with girls like that... Shine your face and be the alpha guy!
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Blacksavage: 10:33am On Jun 26, 2021
AutoChick4U:
But I haven't cheated on my boyfriend and don't intend to even though d fool cheats.
Did I said you cheated on your boyfriend
That's your biz...
As for I don't trust this hoes..
Mind you I have a girlfriend oh
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 10:33am On Jun 26, 2021
AmbassadoR100:
Bro... You are being foolish with her. How can you give her the go ahead to collect money from the other guy??

Are you blinded by this girl you said you want to marry? She's too materialistic and she's not truthful. She wants to start a business but cannot wait for you to provide for her... She rather wants to dupe another guy for it and you are in support! Both of you are very much wrong. She wants the money fast and She might as well sleep with the guy or another man for it.

What do you or does she mean she's doing it for you?

Please be wise!! This is marriage we are talking about here... A lifetime contract.

You want to impregnate her and dump her.... My brother... You are going deeper into a dead pit!

You must be right for the person you want to marry and vise versa.

Examine her very well and examine yourself too. If things are not gonna work out, you better call it a quit now that it's still early otherwise... You might as well enter a very disturbing marriage all because of the stupidity from both of you!

Be real and Wise.
Do to others what you want to be done to you and there will be peace!
Apart from bring right, you must be enough for who wanna marry you. The op wife will definitely go astray when life bites hard. Contentment is lacking these days
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by lalalista: 10:34am On Jun 26, 2021
So because you did 45% you won't let us hear word. Why don't you just do 100% so that we'll know you own her totally
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by AutoChick4U(f): 10:34am On Jun 26, 2021
Blacksavage:

Did I said you cheated on your boyfriend
That's your biz...
As for I don't trust this hoes..
Mind you I have a girlfriend oh
who I'm sure u cheat on. Two wrongs don't make a right though.

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