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michael77777:
how old are you?

was she forced into the marriage?

you just immature... you don't know what you want.

you are still a kid...

PlayMaker14:
Dear Nacoss25


You did the right thing my brother....

That audacity she had to say that you can't stop her is really disrespectful and you'll be surprise that she will be kneeling before her pastor saying "Yes Daddy" to his command, while she calls you by your first name and undermine your authority.

Just forgive her and tell her not to repeat such bullshit, else she will be on an early morning bus to her parents house.

Almajoon:
Didn't you know she likes wearing skimpy dresses b4 u married her?

I'm sure it's her skimpy dressing that attracted you

Meanwhile, locking her out was very FOOLISH of you. You didn't care about her safety.
You exposed her to armed robbers, kidnappers, rapists, ritual killers. You risked her life "because of skimpy dress."

You are NOT fit to be a husband. SHAME ON YOU!!!

Nacoss25:
Same age with ur father

michael77777:
I can bet with my two hairy balls that you didn't logde in any hotel...

you were just in a friend's place or better still in your mother's house sucking breast ...cus you are still a KID

Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.

Nacoss25:
Well said brother

Nacoss25:
Well said brother

Nacoss25:
I love seeing my wife in skimpy dresses but not wearing them to church whether as a single lady or married woman

webosky:
You are fool young man, you'll ruin your marriage if you continue like this, so you where comfortably in a hotel room while your newly wedded wife slept in the veranda and you have the guts to post it here, always remember that women don't forget.

Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.

Almajoon:
Didn't you know she likes wearing skimpy dresses b4 u married her?

I'm sure it's her skimpy dressing that attracted you

Meanwhile, locking her out was very FOOLISH of you. You didn't care about her safety.
You exposed her to armed robbers, kidnappers, rapists, ritual killers. You risked her life "because of skimpy dress."

You are NOT fit to be a husband. SHAME ON YOU!!!

Romanoff:
I wonder how she disciplines you when you misbehave.

Or only you have a monopoly of being the disciplinarian in the marriage?

I see immaturity all over your post and if you continue like this, you will run out of ways to "discipline" your wife.

What is wrong with waiting till she's in a saner mood to talk? If she had even spoken to you in that mood and it escalated to a quarrel, only God knows what you'd have come here to say.

You knew she loved skimpy dresses before you married her, now you want to force her to change to suit your idea of a "married woman".

Una no go follow una spec, you'll marry a woman and frustrate her into what she's not because you're the "husband".

When that woman begin show you pepper now, you won't tell us how you've forced her to be what she's not.

We dey wait for you for front. Continue o.

michael77777:
I doubt it cus my old Pa is more reasonable and responsible than the whole of your slowpoke infected family.and even your next generation to come

yorubarere:
Normal feminists jargons. Why should women discipline their husbands? Later Una go enter 30 and single after showing man features in a relationship. Keep dragging the head with ur husband, there is a reason cars don't have 2 drivers... It will crash. Any marriage that the woman is dragging the head status with her man will end up crashing or lack happiness.

karkinase:
guy, don't be too authoritative on your woman.. that moment your brother called, you should have rescind every atom of disrespectfulness she showed to you. besides your marriage is just two months.. prolly honeymoon stage . just dont be too harsh . women are very complex beings.

infogenius:
Op, u've done ur worse, so what else do u want from her?
I can tell u categorically that u're not a husband but possibly... I reserve my comment.

U endangered ur wife that u swore to protect because she a wore a dress u were not cool with.

Apologise to her and learn to behave like a husband and not a boss.

U need to really love and respect your wife no matter what while correcting her shortcomings in love

Romanoff:
Abeg shut up. I am married. And I am not a slave to my husband.

My husband na man. A real man that is in complete control of his emotion and his mind and I respect him for who he is. I can't disrespect my husband and he can't disrespect me. He is my best friend and we are crazy about each other.

We have something called "Mutual Respect" for each other. You should look up the meaning of the word.

Shior.

If your sister's husband locks her outside for what was written up there, throw a party for her husband, clap for him and call fuji musicians to come and hail him.

"Dragging head" with my husband means I should be treated like a miserable orphan abi? That's what marriage is to you?

Put a dog collar on the neck on your own wife, make we know say na slave she be to you.

Who raised some of you here?

Romanoff:
I wonder how she disciplines you when you misbehave.

Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.

escapefromusa:
Your type would have praised master Jesus and proceeded to get dunked by your husband's security guard.

Oga .. thank God for your wife. Hopefully she did not sneak to a mans house and return early morning like our madam above would have done.

Be careful women are quite cheap these days.

escapefromusa:
Your type would have praised master Jesus and proceeded to get dunked by your husband's security guard.

Oga .. thank God for your wife. Hopefully she did not sneak to a mans house and return early morning like our madam above would have done.

Be careful women are quite cheap these days.

DriftOff:
You no dey fùck her well, else she go dey respect you.

yorubarere:
I guess that is how u tell your man to shut up. You will all carry bad attitudes to the public space. I didn't insult you, but you, a married woman did.... So much for bin married. The marriage might as well soon crash with this attitude. There is always a breaking point for every man. That ur husband you think u have cornered with ur bad attitudes might just have his fill one day and leave you with kids.

Yungnaira55:
Oga locking her outside was a very wrong move
They r ways u could hv discipline her

Romanoff:
Shut up. You can't insult me and expect me not to react cause you're a "man".


My marriage I sweet and my man is happy with who he married. Can you guarantee your wife is happy with you for a husband?

Respect is reciprocal. If you weren't capable of making your point with any respect, why do you think you deserve to be respected?

Because you have a phallus?

I am not one of those timid ones you can bully online with your machismo.

Ask about me.

yorubarere:
Point to here I have insulted you so far. You are just looking for ways to show ur bad manners.

Coming from a girl that disciplines her man. Insulting people are the least of things to expect... Especially online.

Keep it up babe, the simp eyes go soon open

Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.