mariahAngel:


Did you like the guy and was just playing hard to get?

I like him but I rejected him because he smokes which he claimed he does once in a while, she knows about everything,she once told me too that she can't date any guy that smokes and drink but here she is jumping on him.

Rozcol:
I like him but I rejected him because he smokes which he claimed he does once in a while, she knows about everything,she once told me too that she can't date any guy that smokes and drink but here she is jumping on him.

You did what you felt was right, so forget about them. Let it go.
One thing I like about you is that you don't pretend to feel unaffected when something makes you feel bad. You're true to yourself and I like that.
They can call you petty all they want, but it is what it is.

mariahAngel:


You did what you felt was right, so forget about them. Let it go.
One thing I like about you is that you don't pretend to feel unaffected when something makes you feel bad. You're true to yourself and I like that.
They can call you petty all they want, but it is what it is.

Thank you, the rest refused to see things from my angle.

Rozcol:
Thank you, the rest refused to see things from my angle.

Most of them are guys, so don't expect them to understand.
Males and females see and feel things differently.

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

Receive sense and may every spirit of jealousy die in Jesus name

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

One evil friend spotted... No poison person daughter o

maiiilooo:
I wasn't going to talk,but since u asked for our thought...i will say u're stupid.

Lol, make una take am easy now.

Life na general market (in Erigga's voice).

O.P na jealousy go kill you!! I just dey wonder wetin you wan carry person downfall do for this life... them give you Hero, you say no, say u no dey take alcohol, oya person way be drunkard done come fire the whole crate, na you way the highness come dey jam... Haba! Abi u never hear say u can't eat ur cake and still have that same cake you had eaten?? No worry na hangover dey do you like this, e go soon clear just wait small... Waka!

Try n study n develop ur senses

LadyRosa:


No be say man dey scarce for market. Man no dey scarce AT ALL. Na money dey scarce for man hand. The thing be say she don see her kind of man, and she quick grab am before the food cold.

Meaning she grab am as e dey HOT ba?

Babaken:


Dey there dey do shakara your friend know there's no time.

Hmmm...... you read between the lines!

mariahAngel:


Chai Chineke!
Munz.y14, bia lee ewu a o! Udi ihe a wu ihe m hetiri na forum a.
Inukwa mmadu itinye onu n'okwu n'agbasahu ya....

Bia enyia! @blissgod gini wu nsogbu gi?
Uche gi o zukwara oke? Gini butere gi itinye onu n'okwu n'agbasahu gi? I wu onye asiri? Kpachara anyi gi o...maka mgbe ozo
Ka'm haa gi this time.

Lol..

It's a public place, so people will jump into conversations without invitation...But, the reason why some come with insult, baffles me..Just leave am...E go shock am as u refuse to enter gutter with him......O nwere ike wuru style o ji choro attention gi...

Blissgod, I don't know where the insult is coming from...In a seperate discussion I am having with her...You can jump in and give your Opinion without the onye Ara, anuofia thingy...smh..Your emotions getting the better part of you, so terrible!

mariahAngel:


It's not about the guy na, it's about the person I considered my friend.
Friendship no be by force na...okwa ya?



That is why it's good to be discreet.
Also, keeping too many friends is not advisable too, so that ya su, gi mara onye duga gi needle.




Maybe she liked the guy and was playing hard to get...that's why she's pained.

As for me, the situation will determine the reaction.

Probably from female angle, it's against your code....

Lmao...@ onye duga gi needle..
Few quality and reasonable friends over free for all friends....


She still like the guy, that's y she deh vex...But wait, a ka na eme hard to get nowadays?
Hard to get wu kwa nwaanyi confusion di na isi ya n'eme ya....

In this current economy and times, nwoke mere nwaanyi approach di nu serious....because country hard..guys chuga ego now karia...Oge a ga la mgbe a na chuwa nwaanyi weeks, months even years....


Onye a churu, ya kpawa guy, A try ya next door......Even umu nwa ji zi aka ha achoga zi guys di reasonable nowadays.

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mariahAngel:


Most of them are guys, so don't expect them to understand.
Males and females see and feel things differently.

I gbuo la anyi.....


So those females commentiri nu, wu cha nwoke?

mariahAngel:


Did you like the guy and was just playing hard to get?

Mommy zzor....

mariahAngel:


You did what you felt was right, so forget about them. Let it go.
One thing I like about you is that you don't pretend to feel unaffected when something makes you feel bad. You're true to yourself and I like that.
They can call you petty all they want, but it is what it is.

When a mom advised her first daughter regarding relationship issues...


Banye nollywood o......I ga eme ofuma...

Stupid girl.A guy woo you refuse.he went for your friend you are now pained.selfis beign.I dont no why 99a% of women dont no what they want in life very confuse set of human beign.

Where is the friendship, when she can actually bypass you? But it’s possible they’re made for each other, if not the man would have stick with you but he is not a kid and he knows where his heart belongs

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

You dey craze!!!

Rozcol:
Its not exactly the way you painted it,she was in the know all the while he was after me,she never said anything positive about him but secretly started dating him,she's snakelike and why was she hiding it?if she were to be open about it I won't have had any issues with her

I so disagree with you, you just saying this to get people on your side, so they can also term your friend a snake. Firstly, you two were not dating, he showed interest in you, you turned him down and he went for the available. Do you expect him to keep on chasing after you "hell no" again how do you know the guy does not genuinely love her since you no longer friends with her?! One man poison na another man food. Besides, there is no rule that says your friend can't say yes to the person you rejected. No carry mata wey o supposed be mata for head oooo

Truvelisback:
I See Nothing Wrong Too. If U Had Had A Relationship With Him & Later Broke Up With Him, That Would Av Been A Different Issue. U Turned Him Down Because U Don't Av Interest In Him, Since Ur Friend Has Interest In Him, Let Her Be.

Even if she broke up with the guy and her friend later get together with her friend ex, for crying out loud no issues there na. Havent you heard of stories like this and the marriages na bliss. She's just paranoid, probably, because the love wey she supposed get, her friend dey get am in 100 folds. You would be so shocked sey na wetin dey pain her be dat.

blinkz4real:
@Rozcol
I understand how u feel. You re not angry because d re dating but unhappy because of dt feeling of betrayal from a trusted friend whom u confided in. She is a snitch and karma always have a way of teaching dem a lesson. Life happens my dear!

Just see it dt God used u 2 help her meet her man and urz ll locate u if at all his not already. All those attacking u ll do worse!

Why you de contradict yourself! Only you, karma and life go teach them lesson, now later said make she see am as sey she help her friend get her man. Nothing like karma and life no go teach them any lesson. She was not attached to the guy so why the use of karma.

LadyRosa:



Wow! MY Bad.
Since she didn't say anything positive about him then I advice you stay away from her. But, you're not supposed to confront her, I think that's childish. Again, you should have a mind of your own in decision making as not all advice must be taken into consideration.

When a friend tells you a guy is bad, the onus is on you to do a background check to see if truly the person is bad. I have come to understand that sometimes extraordinary folks are painted black and that is the more reason I hardly go with the flow. I'm always interested in people, many people rejected because I would want to unrevel the mystery surrounding them to see what others claim they saw. In several of my findings, I understand it's just human error and envy. It's Normal to throw stones on trees with ripe fruits. And Envy and backbiting has its headquarters in Nigeria.

Don't be too close to her, but let it slide. MOST importantly Do not reveal your paroles to her.

You flow with so much wisdom, I hope you live it too. Keep it up.

Rozcol:
And you didn't notice the betrayal in all of these,its against the rules and this is just a little of what she's capable of doing

Shut up joor!

What’s your problem sef?
You don’t want something, and you don’t want another person to have it. Are you a witch?

Munzy14:

When a mom advised her first daughter regarding relationship issues...


Banye nollywood o......I ga eme ofuma...

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She needed someone to understand and pacify her at that moment.

Munzy14:

I gbuo la anyi.....


So those females commentiri nu, wu cha nwoke?

I didn't read their comments, so it's irrelevant.

Let me tell you: the gravity of what her friend did could be compared to that guy that always wants his friend's girlfriends. That guy wey dey go back go dey chyke him guy babe

There are guys like that right? Would you keep such as a friend?

Munzy14:

Probably from female angle, it's against your code....

We're wired and tolerate differently.
I can't pretend to be OK with something when I'm not...dishonesty with myself unsettles me.

Lmao...@ onye duga gi needle..
Few quality and reasonable friends over free for all friends....

Owu ya.

She still like the guy, that's y she deh vex...But wait, a ka na eme hard to get nowadays?
Hard to get wu kwa nwaanyi confusion di na isi ya n'eme ya....

In this current economy and times, nwoke mere nwaanyi approach di nu serious....because country hard..guys chuga ego now karia...Oge a ga la mgbe a na chuwa nwaanyi weeks, months even years....

Maybe she'll learn from this experience...hopefully.

Onye a churu, ya kpawa guy, A try ya next door......Even umu nwa ji zi aka ha achoga zi guys di reasonable nowadays.

Eee!
O foro ha mewa ihe ishi nwoke. Igba nkwu nwoke.

Munzy14:

Lol..

It's a public place, so people will jump into conversations without invitation...But, the reason why some come with insult, baffles me..Just leave am...E go shock am as u refuse to enter gutter with him......O nwere ike wuru style o ji choro attention gi...

Blissgod, I don't know where the insult is coming from...In a seperate discussion I am having with her...You can jump in and give your Opinion without the onye Ara, anuofia thingy...smh..Your emotions getting the better part of you, so terrible!

If it's done with civility, I wouldn't mind at all.

mariahAngel:


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She needed someone to understand and pacify her at that moment.




I didn't read their comments, so it's irrelevant.

Let me tell you: the gravity of what her friend did could be compared to that guy that always wants his friend's girlfriends. That guy wey go go back dey chyke him guy babe

There are guys like that right? Would you keep such as a friend?

As mommy na...

Oooh!!!


Well, I won't deny such friends doesn't exist...for this she clearly rejected the guy na....only to discover she liked him..

He smokes awuhu excuse, many men do quit a habit the moment the meet the right babe.

One thing u should know as a woman, blood sisters deh collect another sister man, ma ya fodukwa just a friend..

mariahAngel:


If it's done with civility, I wouldn't mind at all.

Exactly...their is time for everything.

Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

OF COURSE YOU ARE PETTY.

And I think you know it.