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Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Hassanmaye(m): 6:42pm On Jun 29
Stevebamdex:
Ladies And Their Myopic Reasoning Sometimes..The Guy Approached You But You Turned Him Down.
He Wooed Your Friend And She Accepted Him.
Your Analog Mind Should Tell You That Guys No Dey Chase Women For Long Again..If You Keep Us Waiting For Too Long,we Moveeeee!! .
Sorry For Your Pain, But I Like Your Bestie Sha..She No Even Waste Time..
Lol
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Hassanmaye(m): 6:42pm On Jun 29
ThEGodFaThEr103:
You're truly selfish. You rejected the guy and he opted for your friend and your friend accepted and now you're having issues with your friend over a guy you rejected his proposals. You cannot eat your cake and have it. Your friend made a wise decision knowingfully well that "man dey scarce for market".
Lol

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Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Hassanmaye(m): 6:42pm On Jun 29
maiiilooo:
I wasn't going to talk,but since u asked for our thought...i will say u're stupid.
Hahhahha

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Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Hassanmaye(m): 6:43pm On Jun 29
Pierocash:
So this girl hasnt realised that men are no longer persuasive in chasing women. Once they woo you and you say no they move on.

So because you don't like some kind of fruit means your friend shouldn't eat the fruit right? You are confused

I did same,I proposed to her about marriage,she was sounding incoherent, I moved on and proposed to another more prettier babe she knows quite well,because of that she stopped greeting me when she discovered we are deeply in love and sees us often. Who cares?
Lol no matter bro
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by drnoel: 6:47pm On Jun 29
Pierocash:
So this girl hasnt realised that men are no longer persuasive in chasing women. Once they woo you and you say no they move on.

So because you don't like some kind of fruit means your friend shouldn't eat the fruit right? You are confused

I did same,I proposed to her about marriage,she was sounding incoherent, I moved on and proposed to another more prettier babe she knows quite well,because of that she stopped greeting me when she discovered we are deeply in love and sees us often. Who cares?

But it took men almost half a century to realise that
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Munzy14(m): 6:47pm On Jun 29
mariahAngel:


Ogologo ihe a I dege, akwa I ma na onye ahu wu Zzor? cheesy
Ooo so owu ya di ihe a...lol

Anyway di okwu a wufu hu...It may still be a personal experience ya sha...

What's your Opinion on this her petty mindset regarding her frnd?
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Druss(m): 6:54pm On Jun 29
Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

Betrayal is too harsh a word for your friend's actions. Both of you strike me as immature. You will hopefully understand as you get older. In life, there are really no rules.

The stone which the builder rejected has become the keystone.
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Ekugbeh(m): 7:07pm On Jun 29
Kandeed:


You're a real nigga
lol, I was crushing on a bae n she was jus whining me o. Saw her with another cutie,told her, confirm from ur friend if she has any guy. She did, and even told me the girl has told her to give me her number. oya aunty Tex me the number nau, I'm still waiting.


The lady doesn't know what she want

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Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Codes151(m): 7:09pm On Jun 29
Mumu girl
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Nobody: 7:25pm On Jun 29
Here is full of very toxic people
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by MrMacinterchi1(m): 7:30pm On Jun 29
Rozcol:
And you didn't notice the betrayal in all of these,its against the rules and this is just a little of what she's capable of doing
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Toks2008(m): 7:47pm On Jun 29
Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?
Lalasticlala you see why I created this thread?

https://www.nairaland.com/6612477/why-ladies-problem
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Hassanmaye(m): 7:54pm On Jun 29
Telstar:
Yeah, foreign girls are straightforward. If you are talking to a foreign chick and she likes you, she would go ahead with you immediately, but if she doesn't like you, she would tell you straight away.

I could recall when I was in a nightclub with my niggas, one of them said to me Man G, look at this pretty chick. She's starring at you. I went to meet the girl, I was like wazz up baby? grin Bla bla bla, the rest is history now.
Lol
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Hassanmaye(m): 7:59pm On Jun 29
Makaveli217:


Leave all these Nigeria girls with their confused brains and always playing hard to get mentally, even if they are dieing for a guy and start giving him green light and he codes it and approach them, they will immediately start playing hard to get games while secretly dieing and craving for him. Very low mentality beings.
Lol confused mofos
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by bbode1(m): 8:00pm On Jun 29
I talk you. U no gree,
I talk to ur friend, she gree.
U con dey vex
Tunder fire u

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Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by justscorchone(m): 8:13pm On Jun 29
As long as you and the guy never got intimate then it's okay for your friend to accept to date the bloke, it's very childish of you to call off the friendship, life is about taking chances, he tried his chance with you and you rejected him, do you expect him to sulk over you for eternity? Life goes on.

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Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by mariahAngel: 8:18pm On Jun 29
Munzy14:

Ooo so owu ya di ihe a...lol

Anyway di okwu a wufu hu...It may still be a personal experience ya sha...

What's your Opinion on this her petty mindset regarding her frnd?

To be honest, if the "friend" went behind my back to agree to date a guy that was wooing me, I'd cut her off. (It'll be different if she asked me about it)
It's not being petty, it's being wary of someone you considered a friend. E fit be her husband wey she go collect in future.
Most guys do that sort of thing a lot...mostly to get back at the lady that refused them. It's so silly.
Some even stoop so low as to ask the sister to their interest out.

I ma na okwu gbasara ndi umu nwoke di n'ich n'okwu gbasara umu nwaanyi.
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by fineberry(m): 8:27pm On Jun 29
Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?
what is the time interval between when be wooed you and when you friend took.him from you.






I know the guy is a yahoo boy...the reason behind the shout...... Answer the question shaa
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Duru009(m): 8:33pm On Jun 29
You're such a BITTER soul.

Know this and know PEACE, nowadays men don't toast ladies for long again.

Be happy for HER and move ON with your life.

Keep on picking, you will certainly meet yourself in canaan land in 2050.....

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Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by ridwanlawal(m): 8:51pm On Jun 29
killerdragon:
MANY ARE MAD BUT FEW ARE ROAMING
MANY ARE ROAMING BUT FEW ARE NAKED
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by lordswill03: 8:54pm On Jun 29
Like she's supposed to get validation and approval from you first??

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Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by UlqU3(m): 9:15pm On Jun 29
Rozcol:
Its not exactly the way you painted it,she was in the know all the while he was after me,she never said anything positive about him but secretly started dating him,she's snakelike and why was she hiding it?if she were to be open about it I won't have had any issues with her

Go to hell. You're behaving like a bitter vindictive, greedy witch.

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Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by BlissGod: 9:19pm On Jun 29
Rozcol:
Yes I had to end my friendship with my once very good friend because she saw nothing wrong in dating someone who used to be so interested in me, that I turned him down isn't enough reason for her to date him

There are so many other guys she can date and it shows the guy does not genuinely love her else he wouldn't have come for me in the first place.

I don't think it's cool for a close friend to go ahead and date someone who was once interested in her friend, its betrayal and also a sign that she doesn't know and respect boundaries and that's dangerous to me, such friends are not to be trusted. She can stab you at the back when you least expect.

Now she's telling people that I'm selfish and petty for having issues with her decision to date the so called guy. What do you think?

As a woman that you're, you're not alright. Your number 6 is gone. Brainless chick.
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by BlissGod: 9:22pm On Jun 29
mariahAngel:


To be honest, if the "friend" went behind my back to agree to date a guy that was wooing me, I'd cut her off. (It'll be different if she asked me about it)
It's not being petty, it's being wary of someone you considered a friend. E fit be her husband wey she go collect in future.
Most guys do that sort of thing a lot...mostly to get back at the lady that refused them. It's so silly.
Some even stoop so low as to ask the sister to their interest out.

I ma na okwu gbasara ndi umu nwoke di n'ich n'okwu gbasara umu nwaanyi.


Ibu onye ara. Anu ofia, that friend needs your validation to date am adult like her.

Onye iberibe. Someone you rejected and she accepted. Anu mpama
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Munzy14(m): 9:36pm On Jun 29
mariahAngel:


To be honest, if the "friend" went behind my back to agree to date a guy that was wooing me, I'd cut her off. (It'll be different if she asked me about it)
It's not being petty, it's being wary of someone you considered a friend. E fit be her husband wey she go collect in future.
Most guys do that sort of thing a lot...mostly to get back at the lady that refused them. It's so silly.
Some even stoop so low as to ask the sister to their interest out.

I ma na okwu gbasara ndi umu nwoke di n'ich n'okwu gbasara umu nwaanyi.
Chai....gi nà this babe eeh...cheesy

I swear it sounded somehow...Person weh u no want, your friend eeveloped interest...To me it shouldn't bother u like that na.

Well, the truth is, if u have a good guy around...Some females around you(Including friends and siblings) also want him...Ihe o ma wunu choice.

And it starts by u sharing info about him to them, some will develope interest.

To me I feel it's bad if you have interest in a guy, only to discover a friend u told, went behind to hook him...

But you see a guy u rejected, dating ur friend...shouldn't be a big deal...

The trick is...As a lady, 5 guys will be drawn towards you for 5different reasons...

Same is with a guy and five ladies giving him greenlight.
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Gjmff: 9:55pm On Jun 29
You girls should get a life first and get a job and be responsible guys will run after you for what you worth not your puxxxy


When you have nothing to offer you will keep fallin
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by mariahAngel: 9:57pm On Jun 29
BlissGod:


Ibu onye ara. Anu ofia, that friend needs your validation to date am adult like her.

Onye iberibe. Someone you rejected and she accepted. Anu mpama

Chai Chineke!
Munzy14, bia lee ewu a o! Udi ihe a wu ihe m hetiri na forum a.
Inukwa mmadu itinye onu n'okwu n'agbasahu ya....

Bia enyia! @blissgod gini wu nsogbu gi?
Uche gi o zukwara oke? Gini butere gi itinye onu n'okwu n'agbasahu gi? I wu onye asiri? Kpachara anyi gi o...maka mgbe ozo
Ka'm haa gi this time.

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Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by valinno(m): 10:01pm On Jun 29
She is right, you're very selfish and stupid too,so because you rejected the guy, your friend should reject him also,did even care how the guy will feel when too ladies rejects him.Do you and your friend have the same destiny,you for tell us that you liked the guy but you were just pretending,or you're jealous because you thought the guy has nothing, but it's done on you that the guy is up and doing,and the evidence can be seen from how well he is taking care of your friend.
You better pray for another opportunity to come your, and leave your friend alone.
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by Nobody: 10:10pm On Jun 29
Its surprising to see majority of you insulting me over this, if what she did was right,when then did she keep it a secret till I found out. My visit to her house exposed everything because I met the guy there and was surprised and immediately he saw me his countenance changed,I quickly smell something fishy and confronted her and she owned up that they've started dating, I was dumbfounded and I just quietly left her house and text her never to come near me and everything that concerns me again.I'm not jealous of anything but that snakey slimy and cunning habit is what I can't stand.
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by mariahAngel: 10:11pm On Jun 29
Munzy14:

Chai....gi nà this babe eeh...cheesy

I swear it sounded somehow...Person weh u no want, your friend eeveloped interest...To me it shouldn't bother u like that na.

It's not about the guy na, it's about the person I considered my friend.
Friendship no be by force na...okwa ya?

Well, the truth is, if u have a good guy around...Some females around you(Including friends and siblings) also want him...Ihe o ma wunu choice.

And it starts by u sharing info about him to them, some will develope interest.

That is why it's good to be discreet.
Also, keeping too many friends is not advisable too, so that ya su, gi mara onye duga gi needle. grin


To me I feel it's bad if you have interest in a guy, only to discover a friend u told, went behind to hook him...

But you see a guy u rejected, dating ur friend...shouldn't be a big deal...

The trick is...As a lady, 5 guys will be drawn towards you for 5different reasons...

Same is with a guy and five ladies giving him greenlight.

Maybe she liked the guy and was playing hard to get...that's why she's pained.

As for me, the situation will determine the reaction.
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by mariahAngel: 10:13pm On Jun 29
Rozcol:
Its surprising to see majority of you insulting me over this, if what she did was right,when then did she keep it a secret till I found out. My visit to her house exposed everything because I met the guy there and was surprised and immediately he saw me his countenance changed,I quickly smell something fishy and confronted her and she owned up that they've started dating, I was dumbfounded and I just quietly left her house and text her never to come near me and everything that concerns me again.I'm not jealous of anything but that snakey slimy and cunning habit is what I can't stand.

Did you like the guy and was just playing hard to get?
Re: Betrayal: My Friend Went Ahead To Date A Guy That Was Wooing Me by tampadollarsign: 10:13pm On Jun 29
English that is not in the dictionary that you just cook up is confusing mankind

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