afamaustin:
ntooor and my mind tells me ur ex is who am marrying nw

na him be say na my leftover you dey carry naa

Born2winnx:

Simp assx nigga.
No Abundance mindset.

e concern you?..

Bigshoe2028:
None yet , but ex is ex for a reason , I use to think she was good and a wife material until we parted I met this one am dating now not that she is the best but nothing beats respect and peace of mind in a relationship

This is actually first time in my life I do things I want not because someone mounted pressure on me

Word!

That peace of mind is priceless...

uthlaw:
keep quiet and mind ur business!

Na vibes and inshallah full your head

callmetoniaa:
Wetin concern me with ex.he never came back, me too never went back.. We dated for few months. We broke up the period I got pregnant for him.. the funny part of it, is tht I have the child, and he doesn't even know how the child looks like..he will die without ever setting his eyes on him..na em own karma be tht.... who cares... My 2021 goals na to double up my hustle. Who ex help

karma is for men alone abi, don't deceive yourself...he will get married and still born like 5!

uthlaw:
na u mumu pass....so he will come to nairaland and be telling you about his plan!

Oga rest
No come do make e be like say na Eba full your head

guy ...I know 1 from Kogi like dat o....same name o...

Lordofalmajiri:
might be o, is she from kogi??

peppermint7:
Oga rest No come do make e be like say na Eba full your head

na garri con full ur own head!

Pls date to marry o..

AmgMakanaki:
Nairaland don change me sha.. sometimes I go just Dey look my babe I go Dey vex.. because I no fit trust woman at all

I swear bro

Last time, she told me that I have change toward her , and is true. That poor girl is suffering from my Nairaland addictions

kachii77:
guy ...I know 1 from Kogi like dat o....same name o...

this particular one na champion for bed!!

hahaha ...just tell me the state she dey leave 4 or d state wey her uni been dey....make I check something...lols

Lordofalmajiri:
this particular one na champion for bed!!

kachii77:
hahaha ...just tell me the state she dey leave 4 or d state wey her uni been dey....make I check something...lols

I no know her current location, but na warri I meet her.

praiseneo:
lol my ex was to proud she behaves like a feminist she’s always right I don’t have the right to scold her when she’s wrong. She’s the most educated and intelligent she go school pass me.


Rubbish I trash the idiot when I taya after 3 years of endurance
But I fvck am reach 1000 times if I count
I pity who go marry am sha
She no fit stay husband house

1000 times in three years. O;

That's like 0.91 times approx once daily for three years. Is this your claim not doubtful like this?

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Bros op can loose guard

Kpekus way you go still take dey follow up

Who emotions help
Real niggarrrrs nor dey do emotions na

To all my real niggarrrrs...always don't break up with your girl in a violent way....
If you break up with her peacefully...there is a higher chance she will always be at your beck and call till the end of time....even when she starts another serious relationship with someone else..
At times...when you are with your girlfriend...probably watching movies or cuddling..then stylishly and passionately whisper things like this to her ear...."baby girl I can not guarantee our relationship life for ever because there might be circumstances beyond our control in the future but I assure you we will be friends till the end of time"...
I bet my balls if you repeat this things to a woman in a passionate way....then after break up..she won't see it as a do or die affair....she will always talk to you again when ever you call her....and as a sharp niggar...meeting her again and banging will be very easy

sharp nigarr.
that has been my bullet

Mameluani:
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*Today, I met my ex and she was kissing her new boyfriend in front of me, I was watching them and she saw �me then she kissed him more and asked me what I was doing there. I told her my wife is pregnant � and I am here to buy baby � stuff's and I am very very happy �. I spoke as if she asked how I was feeling. I proceeded in the store as she was looking at me, I bought 3 buckets, diapers, a baby seat and a baby bed with sponge with soaps then I called a taxi � and left. She and her boyfriend were looking at me and I felt good!. Now, my issue is; if you know any woman who has given birth, I am selling buckets, diapers, babyseat, soaps and sponge. Please HELP me,I was supposed to go and pay our compound electricity bill with the money...*
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I need d diaper size 3. No just fall my hand ooo.

uthlaw:
na garri con full ur own head!

It’s still better than Eba

My ex came back after 2months. She found out the guy she started hanging out with, which was a week after she broke up with me was married she then came back to me after 1month, claiming she couldn’t get over me, I found out through her phone the guy was married, which she didn’t tell me. We are still together, but I’m just confused about the whole situation

MENTORCH:
My ex came back after 2months. She found out the guy she started hanging out with, which was a week after she broke up with me was married she then came back to me after 1month, claiming she couldn’t get over me, I found out through her phone the guy was married, which she didn’t tell me. We are still together, but I’m just confused about the whole situation

Someone made you a second choice and came back when her first choice disappointed and you are confused?

Dumo that girl ASAP right now. If you take her back...she will leave again when she find someone better than you.

I don't know what's confusing you in all of this.

BigDick70inch:
She quit the relationship and went to be with another guy immediately I left for school.........

called me....... years later and narrated how the guy disflowered her,promised her marriage.....but he never did..........

I told her.......its okay,things happen and we could still be friends.......

But........since she wasn't ready for that and wanna be desperately back with me........

This year........makes it the 5th year i have been fucking her with no plans to wife.........even tho she thought she had found a fiancé already...........

Honestly.......am just practising my karmasultra skilla on her........when she's tired she will leave!!!

Remember chidinma.
A word is enough for the wise

Lordofalmajiri:
no be she, this one is quite smart and she's in her late 20's now.

Lol remain blessed bro

Vicas2000:


Someone made you a second choice and came back when her first choice disappointed and you are confused?

Dumo that girl ASAP right now. If you take her back...she will leave again when she find someone better than you.

I don't know what's confusing you in all of this.

Lol, is it straight like that. We dated for a year and broke up because of something I did. So she started dating again, and found out the guy was married, after like a month she started begging me to come back. Even when she was with the guy, I saw a lot of subliminal signs about her going through hard times with the break up. The guy even sent a message to her saying that she talks about me all the time, when they were together. Well you are right too. I dumped her after like a month, but she doesn’t want to go.

bigpicture001:


But trust me..onyeka will never come back!

Onyeka onwenu?

SmartyPants:


What exactly do you respect in what he said?

It was a mere statement of fact not worthy of respect nor of disrespect.

So what gives?

Uncle!! i actually respect the fact that he admitted that his ex won't call him back not like you guys that will always pretend to be the one who never wanted the relationship online but will be begging offline

Greenishly:

I swear bro

Last time, she told me that I have change toward her , and is true. That poor girl is suffering from my Nairaland addictions

.. pls treat her well oo
My babe always gets angry each time she see me searching Nairaland on my web

Girls sha....

Ex them, Example of things you shouldn't consider.
Toasted this girl for 1yr after much we dated for 4yrs (time i would have put into academics and get both certificate and NYSC khaki)

After everything she said i either choose her or one of my female friend (not first time she showed up her insecurity)
Well i walked out, thats a stupid thing to choose from (we both got our private lives, i never complained about her cartel of friends male or female)


After 2yrs she reached out, saying she hasn't been able to love again (see me see case oh)
Babe have had 4guys after me and counting but according to her she doesn't feel love like i did her.

Well i wanted to just play along till her village people started using her to monitor my life that am not always available when she calls, aunty thought it was does days when i was stupid

After much ranting she figured that i dont have time for rubbish she chill
Next thing she turned love counselor on whatsapp

Idiot with low self esteem

ceaser:
Hell she did. But dude had moved on. Two years after breaking up with me, travelled almost 300 kilometers to pay me a suprise visit.

Of course I was surprised, but not the "pleasantly surprised" one she hoped to achieve. I wasn't even impressed, contrary to what she hoped, that she did all that long and dangerous journey to see me. I'd helped her to check into a hotel and on her bill of course.

As I sat on the bedroom sofa, all that kept running thru my mind as she sat there on the edge of the bed opposite where I sat was how dangerous a second heartbreak with her will be and much more importantly that my new girl, who later turned out to be my wife and the mother of my children, will not have the slightest suspicion that my ex went thru all that to come see me. Also, my moto in relationships is not to go back to ones vomit, so she stood no chance.

Of course three day after, my current girl later find out from my call logs that I had interacted with her and being the honest dude I usually like to be, I came clean. She had her suspicions that something intimate probably happened between us both but I was able to easily convince her otherwise because she (my new girl) and I had up till then, which was 11 months into our relationship, not had any s3xual relations. So it was easy to push to her my claim of fidelity and innocence.

Well, my ex knowing the nice guy I was couldn't believe that I could toughen up and ignore her. She was shocked and she still is. She admitted that one should be careful not to fall into that "wicked side of me".

The moral of the story is that it's not good to make oneself the tool of heartbreak, breach of trust or one to destroy the emotions of other people in every form of relationship (platonic or romantic) especially to someone that really, deeply and truly loves you. There is a very fine line between love and hate, chivalry and vengeance.



I tells you. It's subliminal mind programming. You need to be so sure of your babe (after verifications of course) not to have a vacillated feeling towards her.



1000 times in three years.

That's like 0.91 times approx once daily for three years. Is this your claim not doubtful like this?



Your persistence and faithfulness is commendable. If you had broken the heart of the man that proposed to you all because of range rover, you would have some serious recompense to settle with. Going back to your ex and leaving your betrothed hanging will have ended in premium tears. The ex would have chopped and diced you, clean mouth and dump you. And both the ex and the broken hearted groom will have also been commenting here on NL without one knowing the other or that the subject of their discussion is the same and one woman.

thanks bro.It can't even be about the range rover, let's just say i became attractive to him again only because another man was about to marry me.I knew that it wasn't love on his end,so i didn't even give it a
second thought.

Megatron77:
Uncle!! i actually respect the fact that he admitted that his ex won't call him back not like you guys that will always pretend to be the one who never wanted the relationship online but will be begging offline

Where do you know me from that you feel confident to make such a sweeping generalization?

smh. what do they teach you young ones these days?

Anyway, my point was, admitting that the girl won't call him back out of her own pride, is nothing to "admit". There is no shame in it except for her.

Greenishly:

I swear bro

Last time, she told me that I have change toward her , and is true. That poor girl is suffering from my Nairaland addictions

If you won’t treat her right please let her go.. don’t play with peoples emotions or pass am give me .. I have so much love to give

peppermint7:

If she later pull one Chidimma on you
Na for nairaland front page wer go read am.
Plan your life
Abi you neva realize sey you de follow waste your time

true talk

Funny how the guy thinks he's actually moving forward with such shallow mentality.

After 5yrs of failed emotional turmoil, what if this girl gives you an incurable disease or gets pregnant and refuse to remove the child you may or not , you'll be forever tied to her.

Foolishness abà

Foolishness at its peak.

gulfer:
I am married to an ex, we broke up due to distance and then my high-energy as an early twentyish guy......We got reconnected by a friend after about 5-years apart........I always thank God we came back together because I knew her and she understood me as a person...
Chai, where's the love emoji when you need it

That one no be ex na runaway girlfriend she be.
hope u grab.

BlissGod:
true talk

Funny how the guy thinks he's actually moving forward with such shallow mentality.

After 5yrs of failed emotional turmoil, what if this girl gives you an incurable disease or gets pregnant and refuse to remove the child you may or not , you'll be forever tied to her.

Foolishness abà

Foolishness at its peak.

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