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| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Oyinlomobambam(m): 10:45am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Opexzy:Yes |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Danzakidakura(m): 10:46am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Suremikky: ![]() |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by leo22(m): 10:49am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Oga, you are responsible for her recent behavior, you created her to be this way because of your Insecurities! what business do you have with her phone? Why do us men think that 'controlling' your woman makes you a man? Treat her with trust and respect and that phone will loose the locks. I have been married for 15 years and I do not touch my wife's phone, never! It is not my property and there's nothing I am searching for there. And guess what? Your woman is allowed to have male friends because she is as human as you are and you cannot provide complete fulfilment that she desires, who you be? God? Women are social beings and they are more faithful than us men in relationships but it is low self esteem, insecure and low IQ men that turns them into what they become. Love your girl, become her best friend, allow her explore who she is, support her dreams and you will have success, good home and peace. If you like argue all you want, me I an enjoying my home because I and my wife live our lives without anyone trying to manipulate each other. |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by KGD10: 10:59am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Xilsbridalhouse:But she could eat his money and depend on him while behaving like a a slut? Is he her father? You dey ment? |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Nobody: 11:02am On Jul 18, 2021 |
chukwuibuipob:Someone is already collecting prick outside and you really think she will give a shi.t about this? |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Opexzy: 11:09am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Oyinlomobambam:Communication is the best.. Ask her questions.. Believe me, you will know when she tells you the truth. If this method has failed to work in the past. You might need to do it furtively to find answers to your questions. |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Simbadaddy(m): 11:10am On Jul 18, 2021 |
This lock and unlock thing has been around since forever. You guys just need to set boundaries and respect it. And you did mention TRUST tho. It goes both ways. IMO |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Lexusgs430: 11:11am On Jul 18, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:New units have been created and properly trained staffs, man/woman the office....... ![]() |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Oyinlomobambam(m): 11:11am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Opexzy:Thanks... I think I nee cancellor before I lose it all |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by CHoccolaTE: 11:18am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Op can you swear by sango that you are not constantly cheating on her in your offfshore work or that you have never cheated on her? But you want her to be faithful abi? Ovoko That girl is looking for a better alternative to you because she cannot marry a woman beater. Let her be abeg because even you yourself are unfaithful. |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Valtteri: 11:34am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Zeal0000007:You shamelessly opened your mouth to tell us you beat your girlfriend. You’re a useless excuse for a man. She locks her phone every night, so f*ck what! Your lack of self confidence and nonexistent self esteem is appalling. End the relationship and look for your peace of mind elsewhere. Which kain yeye stupid talk is this. My nigga, FOH! |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Mercuryb(m): 11:40am On Jul 18, 2021*. Modified: 12:17pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
You and this your girl You no dey tire? You have opened more than 20 topics on nairaland all centered around your relationship with your girl All the threads have similarity and you were given numerous advices You don come open another one again this Sunday morning I noticed you always hammer on the number of years you have spent with her If you know you deep down you don't want again, simply tell her It's like both of you need to breathe The other thread, you practically said you have to rape her to have sex Now beating her has entered too Are you seeing what the relationship is turning you into? You can simply just take this advice you gave someone else
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| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Nikkganc08(m): 11:49am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Labadi69:I'm not jobless sir. Most people marry after they've graduated from University and made some cash. In Igbo language, University is called 'mahadum' meaning "know it all". Know the good. Know the evil Then as an adult, u can choose ur path. Knowing d kind of lady u r living with is capable of saving ur life. Remember the story of the FCMB ceo that trended months ago? The man never knew his 3 kids were from another man. He later died when he knew. Had it been he knew from day 1, all these wouldn't have happened. Do u really want to know d thousands or millions people spend on DNA test? Do u think they r jobless? Before I start a relationship, I usually tell d lady that I have other girlfriends . She'll still consent and we'll move along. Finally, when a second girlfriend catches the other in my bed, both wud feel guilty and I would end up being the innocent guy. The First Lady wud b scared cos my girlfriend (second girl) don catch am in my bed. The second wud also be scared cos she came when my girlfriend (first girl) was around. I can decide to tell any of the two to jump out from d window or use d backdoor and she'll obey. Or let both stay. In other ways, I cheat in an honest and truthful way. If ur girlfriend or wife cheats in a bad way, it's ur right to know. |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by crossfire47(m): 11:53am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Nikkganc08:I'll be coming back to this tutorial soon.. Lol |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by EagleSquare1(m): 11:58am On Jul 18, 2021 |
A very big mistake you did in hitting her. I don’t know if she’s faced any emotional torture from you, but it’s obvious she has faced physical torture on countless occasions. You’ve confirmed that. How can she love you anymore, even if she did before. Do you know how many times she might’ve cried herself to sleep! It’s a pity she had to find love and succor elsewhere. That’s obvious. And most women do that. It could very well be your sister being hit or beaten by a man. Just imagine that! Kudos to you however for seeing her through her education. You’re doing it partly or mainly because she needs such support. You may wish to continue that whether or not she remains your fiancée or partner. It’s humanitarian. Please don’t hit her anymore. Zeal0000007: |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by apatheticme(f): 12:18pm On Jul 18, 2021*. Modified: 10:50am On Sep 11, 2023 |
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| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Quaddafi29: 12:20pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
My dear,you are just one of her customers and will remain so even after marriage. Just go and find another girl and marry although they are almost the same - cash and carry. Wanna see her whatsapp messages the last 9 days only, contact me. |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by MOVIC6: 12:30pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
Bro why you dey Bleep up na, you said your gfr and not your wife, so far as she’s not married to you, you gat no right over her phone, infact even if she’s your wife, her phone, her privacy, untill you gat someone red handed, they are still innocent, let go and make yourself happy. Life’s too short to think of heartbreak. |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by apatheticme(f): 12:39pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
leo22:They will soon come and tag you simp! Many of them are allergic to common sense. |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by sylve11: 12:44pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
donbachi:Na wa. ![]() |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by generalwo(m): 12:46pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
Opexzy:.... Sir if I was the girl I won't walk away after 6 years without anything to show for it.... She's gonna stay till he helps her through school they they are even.... Sleeping with a girl for 6 years and still beating her on top? He must be high on drugs for him to think she will stay faithful to such a beastly man...... Man wen no dey beat babe.... E dey hard for am to see faithful woman talkless of the one wen dey beat her... |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Nobody: 1:13pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
Zeal0000007:Go and marry that girl. You cannot use her for 6 years and leave her. On the issue of locking phone, women are career liars, even those ones judging your woman here, over 70℅ of young women lock their phones on their husbands, but will want to use their husbands phones to monitor him. That is not enough reason to dump your woman. It's just her LEVEL OF REASONING. (She believes by so doing she is protecting her relationship, against collapse. She is blind to the fact that it bothers you. They are bags of selfishness). If you don't understand women psychology, you will end up taking wrong decisions about them.. They can't take what they give. |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by umarshehu58(m): 1:13pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
Girl beater. U no dey shame to even talk am |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Ochenehi4life(m): 1:23pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
No be Small ooo. |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Kingsean(m): 1:23pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
Zeal0000007:she doesn't want to lose you because you are her ATM and not because she has nowhere to go. stop beating women bro, it's nonsense. you don't need to lay hands on her. once you have verified that she's cheating on you, just send her away and don't look back. she can kill you if she gets the opportunity , clear your account and elope with another guy. On the other hand, I feel you are too jealous and it would affect your future relationship and marriage. looks like you are very possessive. A man that's too possessive can't have a stable relationship and your fears are actually playing out. the brain is so powerful that it can make your fears seem like reality. just calm down and verify first. if she's found guilty, send her away |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by ledaman: 1:47pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
I would use Military terms for you. You need to apply tactical withdrawal approach because your babe she is double dating. Bros use your number 6 before your develop B.P most ladies are farm tools! |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by BRATISLAVA: 1:48pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
Lexusgs430:So they say. But a friend who went there told her experience and realized there are still patriarchal people in their employ. |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Lexusgs430: 1:54pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:Maybe I am too gullible, and believe all I hear on Brekete FM, Nigeriainfo & Lagostalk....... ![]() |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by BRATISLAVA: 1:54pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
apatheticme:Madam, take it easy on them. Please! LMAO. This "tiger" brutality you're laying into him, it's heavy! I loved it. |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by BRATISLAVA: 1:59pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
Lexusgs430:If it's Brejete, they will follow it up and there's accountability involved. But left to themselves the police say they don't want to have a hand in breaking homes, so they will ask them to "settle among themselves". That's how they kill the case. |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Jayslyder: 2:08pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
Toxic relationship..u don beat her tire.. Na mumu dey follow mumu sha |
| Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Escobar7(m): 2:22pm On Jul 18, 2021 |
maryjames9:My daughter cannot be left at the mercy of a man while in school. You will eventually not see anything wrong with her actions, not the emotional abuse the guys suffer with a girl he loves, and she is cheating on him and is secretive about her communications on social media. Listen, rap all you want, humans are not the same, his violent streak of beating her is wrong but born out of a feeling of jealousy which she fuels with her actions, the Olosho in her will not stop till he destroys himself and her in the process. Psychologically he will choose to leave and then consider their time spent, money, and how she will fare without him and all these further infuriates him. But am sure you won't understand that because of entitlement mentality. You who will see a man's fault without recourse to the action of the other party, you are an unfair judge and a sponsor of women promiscuity. Pray your brother or son don't meet that kind of woman in life rather than being a lopsided advocate. |
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Like are you really really serious? You lay your filthy hands on a lady and still posted it here like it is a norm?
Young man
and use one eye watch her
