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For whatever reasons, never hit a woman

Her phone is her privacy, please

What do you expect. You have been dating her for 6 years and engaged her in order to turn her to lord of the rings abi? If you are serious with her, at least pay something on her head cos if she sees another serious person, she will definitely marry the person.

When the HAND WRITING is boldly written on the wall, we continue to keep blind eyes because we thought we are really in love.DONT LET THIS THING CALL LOVE FULL U.
LOVE IS NOT TAKEN,IT IS GIVEN.
LOVE IS NOT FORCED,IT FLOWS FREELY.
Na wetin i dey take like myself be dat,if u do anyhow i go just jejely ask u to resign "HONOURABLY" atleast it is beta than he broke my heart.

Before nko is it not personal belonging

Don't give yourself heart ache. It's her phone, her property! You ain't got no reason to feel disappointed cos she ain't letting you touch it. Mind your business and forget what's her own! It's your problem to either respect her space or not and also, to trust her or not.
BTW, did u say u was dating for over 6years? Are in for an adventure or what? 6 shitting years and you don't think she would want to look for who's serious owning to the fact that she is not seeing light at the end of the tunnel? Dude, wake up and be realistic! Insisting on seeing what's in the phone that she's hiding will cause you pain and pls, stop taking her calls

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

Na goat you carry or na woman? Why would you have to be beating a grown woman because of phone? Let that girl go and face your life, she has other options, so do you.

The next one you find instead of going out for 6 years, marry her before moving her in and stop beating people’s children. It’s like una no know how curses they follow bloodline

iLegendd:
You already know what to do. Problem solved. You caused everything.

1. You don't have principles to checkmate your relationship (a woman that doesn't allow you have access to her phone should only be a f*ck buddy and NEVER make her look like your girlfriend, but friends with benefits)
2. You've cheated on her, but you didn't mention it (true or false? The answer is true)
3. You beat her (yes, beating do reset some women's brain, but I would prefer you reset her brain with principles, but you don't have them)
4. You don't pity humans for too long — those you pity for too long will hurt you for too long
5. Marry a woman that loves you, not a woman you love (the ones that love you will open up to everything and they'll be your partner in crime — they'll tell you about all the guys disturbing them and show you their chats)
6. Don't let a woman emotionally blackmail you
7. When ending a relationship, don't be the one to end it — make her end it; e get why
8. Also, not all relationships end with conversation and closure — some end by being absent and incommunicado for a long time (ghost them)
9. Be emotionally unavailable for all these silly relationship stuff, else you'll drain yourself — don't derive Joy from relationship, but your progress in other aspects of life
10. The less you care while possessing the qualities they need, the more they care and become open to make sure they don't lose you

Any girl who doesn't want to lose you and at the same time doesn't want to open up is a mini Devil in disguise — flee.

Look at how pretty and innocent Chidinma Ojukwu looks and how handsome the man she killed is. She couldn't spare him — she had lots of secrets she was hiding from him and the end is death.

Same thing for women. When a man hides too much, run.

When one partner has lots of secrets, death comes to one of them faster than their appointed time.

It's either the person with the secret will die, but most times, the person who doesn't know the secret is the first to die a premature death.

You said it all �

Allow her be abeg,no be you go dey form vex if she touches your phone

Bros, i personally do not see the reason for this post. The writings are conspicuously written on the wall for u to see! Women are great creatures, very sweet when the love u buy when the live fizzle out, u dont need a sweet sayer to tell u. I k ow u are still living in denial that's why u are here. Bros pls call her and tell her u want to end the relationship because of the red flags u have posted here and her reaction may even shock u the more.

He doesn't have to become a cheat like her... What I did in this situation was to dump my ex. I am into another relationship after one year, she is still pleading but I don't have time for her. She even shamelessly said I can date her alongside but never. I can't be like her

EzegeNdiigbo:
The expo has been written by it self on your instinction


She's obviously DD



Copy her character's and sees if she would change.

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

It her right
A legitimate one in that matter.

But if it was my girlfriend
E for choke her
With my LL tools [color=#990000][/color]

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

The above bolded speaks a lot.. In marriage, is either you loss your life or she does.Its obvious she has someone else.
Why not path ways amicably?.

AutoChick4U:
So u wanna kill someone's daughter because she's living with you? Who even said she's cheating? nawao

only a woman would say this ...... Birds of a feather

She stayed because of the support she's getting pending a better offer coming.
'You don beat her tire' which is also wrong on its own.
I hope the both of you come to a sensible decision to avoid stories that touch now or later

Don’t trust no hoe

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

Must be one of these PH chicks wey don hook oil boy. Remove sentiment and ask her to go meet the person who has been calling her.

If you dont want to train a child another man sired.
Begin your back up plan this second.

They say verbal abuse is as bad as physical abuse...

Stupidquestions:
Point of correction...you dint suffer together, stop deceiving ur brain that u did....
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Cos has she ever fed you for a month or few months?.....I'm not talking of transport fare or one day food u got from her...cos many of ur friends could have done that
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Has she ever paid your house rent for six month or one year when you had no where to go?...so which suffer did she suffer for u....
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.. Someone u feed, give money, sponsor at schl..lol...u get sense so? How did she suffer for u..abi na u dey suffer alone while she uses u as her support system......at least without u, she would have even suffered more...guys can fool themselves Sha...
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Maybe u want to say she gave u pvssy when u were suffering and u quickly equate it to mean she suffered for fvcking a suffering guy...lol.
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May God one day return ur sense...u suffer together kor..ozuor

guy ur own mouth no be here oh

Stupidquestions:
Point of correction...you dint suffer together, stop deceiving ur brain that u did....
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Cos has she ever fed you for a month or few months?.....I'm not talking of transport fare or one day food u got from her...cos many of ur friends could have done that
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Has she ever paid your house rent for six month or one year when you had no where to go?...so which suffer did she suffer for u....
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.. Someone u feed, give money, sponsor at schl..lol...u get sense so? How did she suffer for u..abi na u dey suffer alone while she uses u as her support system......at least without u, she would have even suffered more...guys can fool themselves Sha...
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Maybe u want to say she gave u pvssy when u were suffering and u quickly equate it to mean she suffered for fvcking a suffering guy...lol.
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May God one day return ur sense...u suffer together kor..ozuor

how your post doesn't correlate with your name is amazing. There's hope for Nigeria

Guy if not one thing I for send Italian slap give you. Which gal suffer with you?? For your mind. You better start thinking with your head and not your scrotal sac. Once you notice such red flags you be a man and dump her cheating ass. No room for pity, Abi you be United Nations wey dey give free education?

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OP, one word for you Sir - RUN! I've been here n believe me, this lady has got a lot underneath her sleeves. Now it's still in its early stage n it's not gotten bad, call it quits. In my case one of her lovers called me n the things he told me could make one feel like committing murder. The shenanigans she's got going could eventually take you out of this world oooh. Take caution n let her go, I know it's difficult especially towards a lady you love with all of your being but take it from me, she's got real nasty things going on underneath n the earlier you move on the better!

apatheticme:
They will soon come and tag you simp!

Many of them are allergic to common sense.

If being a simp provides peace and a healthy home for me then I reject being a macho who lacks mutual love and respect.

But do you know those shouting 'SIMP' here are the weakest? Na dem dey cry for babe matter pass

leo22:
If being a simp provides peace and a healthy home for me then I reject being a macho who lacks mutual love and respect.

But do you know those shouting 'SIMP' here are the weakest? Na dem dey cry for babe matter pass

Not just weak, many are actually less than 25 years of age, still living on mama's food and struggling to find their footing in life!

Many of them don't even understand the basis of marriage as friendship, commitment and partnership in progress!

They're kids still being fed by their parents, jumping upandan to scream simp here and call women derogatory names!

Many of the married grown-ups they tag simp here they can't stand up to them in real life. But these days, every kid has access to cheap data and android phone. I believe it's a phase they'll outgrow!

Enjoy the rest of your day!

My brother, in the first place, you don't raise your hand to beat a lady. I personally use to preach it, anyone who does that is not a responsible man but an animal. Secondly, I hope you yourself, you aren't dating another lady or ladies? Thirdly, for you to be beating her, she might have another alternative somewhere else, thinking if you are not giving her peace of mind and love, let me seek it from somewhere else. Fourthly, is obvious she doesn't love you anymore, that's written all over her already. Fifthly, on no ocassion should you marry anyone out of pity, because you will surely regret it at the end of it all. Sixtly, a broken relationship is better than a broken home, when you rush in, you see yourself rushing out later on. (7)Bitter truth is, she is with you maybe because of your money, and prefer to endure the beating and torturing, that is why she can't leave.

Thanks so much for your thoughts.

We must learn that real life is different from social media and our lives can be shaped by what we perceive and believe.

This crowd mentality that most young people are running with ruins easily, relationships are built based on WHO YOU ARE so expecting your spouse to be perfect is daydreaming, no one was designed to fit your specifications or requirements because you are dealing with humans and not robots.

The simple rule is, treat others the way you want to be treated and allow them be themselves within the relationship. But expecting your spouse to automatically change because he/she is committed to you equals manipulation and every social being would react when manipulated.

apatheticme:
Not just weak, many are actually less than 25 years of age, still living on mama's food and struggling to find their footing in life!

Many of them don't even understand the basis of marriage as friendship, commitment and partnership in progress!

They're kids still being fed by their parents, jumping upandan to scream simp here and call women derogatory names!

Many of the married grown-ups they tag simp here they can't stand up to them in real life. But these days, every kid has access to cheap data and android phone. I believe it's a phase they'll outgrow!

Enjoy the rest of your day!

ccollins:
are u a feminist sympathizer, a simp or a woman wrapper

None of the above, don’t hit people …. U never jam who u go hit and him brothers go beat u like fowl . If you are tired of a relationship then leave the relationship .

Obakashdee:
Both of una deserve una self, you beat her she cheat on you! You are just as useless as she is if she’s cheating and you are beating her.
She no wan lose you because you are the atm and you no wan lose her cause she’s your investment
Una fit gan

Lol

wiloy2k8:
None of the above, don’t hit people …. U never jam who u go hit and him brothers go beat u like fowl . If you are tired of a relationship then leave the relationship .

Abi

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

Eyaa. And na virgin woman dey give you all these wahala oh? I mean you met her a fargin. Au-machier. Redpill's dick-imprinting in the poteaux poteaux. The first dick of yours she tasted is not enough to keep her loyal?