OKOATA:
Guy forget that talk, the reason why you see an older woman do that is because she feels like she a mother to you. You know our mothers always want to boss us because they are much older same as dating an older woman. As a man once you are dating an older woman you should be able to game up. Even the younger ones will boss you so forget that talk.

Oga we are talking about in Marriage. It's forever and ever!

Not a hit and run affair.

Simple NO

Why not? Even if she is eight years older than me provided she is still fertile, productive,industrous and good character

She's 28 I'm 26 and we planning towards marriage. The most beautiful part of our togetherness is she's so dedicated and understanding, she's playing that kind mother role in my life with her duly advise no doubt l will never regret choosing her.

MrSamsung:
Nigerian men that act and think this way(like you) are unsmart and foolish.

I bet you, you are like one of those in thier 30's that is dating a girl in her teens or 20's and undergraduate.

Probably even being the one sponsoring her schooling, while she is yet not matured, fvcking and enjoying her fellow young men for free, old men for money, thereafter she will retired not just to herself but to you--- her old mumu . Worst case scenario: she might not even marry you at the end of the day. Money, investment and time wasted.
Even if such a girl will still be with you at this time, her career path is not yet defined. Non independent financially. Do you know what that entails?


OR let say you as a man meet your age mate who is matured, graduate or not, but one who's career or business or handwork is defined, has overcome her youthful exuberance, experience, etc. but you refuse to marry her, rather going after a girl below or far below your age who doesn't possess any of the aforementioned qualities.
After you will come to Nairaland fp asking what women have to offer or bring to the table
My question to you is what do you really want

As a man, can you marry a mature woman?

VS

As a man, can marry a woman who is older than you?

The OP's thread refers to the latter, while your vituperation of a contribution talked about the former.

@OP, yes, if I were to have such need - provided that the age difference is within the limit of reasonableness. The most important thing should always be to marry a woman who meets your set ethical standard.

englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

If she gets booooosi, thigh & yansh...why not!!!

No
So if u get married to older woman,
I with still be giving her (anty) money for up keep

kenzysmith:
Marrying a woman older than u us the most wisest thing a man can do they ten to be experience, wise they can build a man from nothing to something most great men today are married to their agemate or women older than them. U see those ones from 23 down world if u are a man marry to those ones u signing your death warrant prayer wise no, financial support no, brain wise no, cheating 100% lying 100% nagging 100% blood suckers 100%

i want to believe you deliberately typed this or something. Learn to write what somebody can read please.

Wahala be like wetin again
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hzXZXh3ZpVY

If na white go ahead, if na naija my brother japa jape... You'll regret it

Even don't try the one you no take at least 5yrs from.

affirmative Yes

is she prayerful ?

is she God-fearing ?

is she mature? ( healthy communication and not gbasgbos when in disagreement)


once I sight this one's and at, atmost 5 years age difference

it's a Yes for me

Yes and Yes!

I presently date a lady older than me , if things go well , we should be married dis or next year

Onyi22:
Everyday woman matter, na wa ooo

The future is female

Yes, I can

playapayaski:


Who tell u say u go reach 90 or 40 sef? Don't worry too much about the uncertain future bro.

Nice punchline bro.

englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

young girls are younger, hotter and more attractive sexually. I want a young hot girl that's hot even if she has a few behavioral flaws that aren't deal breakers.... than marrying an old hag with sagging books and all I hv to deal with is liabilities.....

meobizy:

What is this one again? You Nairalanders won't kill me in this forum.

Ok, can u date a broke guy you are older than??

He who finds a wife has found a good thing age is nothing but a number. Age is just a number..

If anyone interested WhatsApp me on..
08025104440

I need someone young with standing breasts in addition to good character....no more than 24 as of when I'm marrying her.

don't Christians deserve sexual pleasure after worshipping God for so long waiting for marriage??

I need them young and hot otherwise marriage is a scam that leaves Christian men with used up old hags with sagging boobs etc in the name of marriage....

Why not? they're usually wiser, smarter, more experienced (you know what i mean ), and more understanding.

It's a NO for me.

Women hide their real age.

englishmart:
90 sure pieces.

#bantilosha

Lol..
The funny thing is..
If you lose a bet on this..
You won't be around to pay it..

englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

dude ,u no get point

simhosting:
Women hide their real age.

how?

Chop knuckle..

BigBashiru:
I need someone young with standing breasts in addition to good character....no more than 24 as of when I'm marrying her.

don't Christians deserve sexual pleasure after worshipping God for so long waiting for marriage??

I need them young and hot otherwise marriage is a scam that leaves Christian men with used up old hags with sagging boobs etc in the name of marriage....

Yes of course

Kingrefreshed:


Oga we are talking about in Marriage. It's forever and ever!

Not a hit and run affair.

The only thing that is forever and ever is DEATH..

englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

The green card part

Ammishaddai:
There is nothing wrong with marrying a woman who is older than yourself so long as you both are in-love and in agreement

I miss the video.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uyJlXSWC4xY