citywal:
I am not dumping her she's not garbage

You see that she is acting like a garbage that's why you are dumping her ...

And garbage belongs to the street.

Don't worry the street will continue keeping her tabs.

Just focus on yourself king.

citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

I will recommend a book for you to read. Just give yourself one week and your worries will be over. Peace of mind you will find after all.

"MARS AND VENUS ON A DATE"
.... By John Grey, Ph.D
Good luck young man!

Ammishaddai:
Welcome to reality.

Oh my brother u said it all
Welcome to reality once again @OP

NewSoul:
I see Op doing soapy

I see Op getting tired of soapy and calling his girl to apologise

I see Op buying gifts to placate the lady

I see Op impregnating the lady but refusing to marry her

These I have seen!

Oga u no see anything , wake up

When they say, Nigerian girls are useless all of them now una understand? I dey shock una now abi..?

Concentrate on yourself. Leave her be.

Guy focused as you rightly advised yourself, get yourself a baby mama and march on. All this phone prone ladies of today, there are not worth dying for.

VaginaPeople:
the Devil you know is better than the Angel you don't know

Shot up there!!
The Devil you leave with can block your Angel of Blessing... Once the devil is revealed to you, then you flee from her..

AfroKnight:
Hold your horses. You reason for dumping her is cos she goes out with friends a lot or you suspect she’s actually going out with other men?

before nkor, men na

Edusouls:
When they say, Nigerian girls are useless all of them now una understand? I dey shock una now abi..?

One man in UK back then told me useless boys attract useless girls and vice versa.

citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

Brah, it is what it is. The signs have been shown to you.

There's 4 options open to you -

1) Leave her and don't look back

2) Emotionally and sexually detach yourself from her, but remain as a friend. DO NOT allow yourself to be alone with her in a car or room etc

3) Emotionally detach yourself from her, but if she's a damn good fvc.k, keep on getting free staff but always ALWAYS use protection. **Warning** Grown men only.

4) Admit that you are pussy whipped and hopelessly in love with her. Be ready to accept any rubbish from her because you've been warned. Probably carry out one over the top marriage proposal and cry (real tears not man tears) when says yes. She'll probably have lovers and random sex partners and your children may or may not have a different real father.

citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

Sounds like another insecure mofo

Good luck to you and is better for you Sha

You have try enough for her , if she insists to change move on bro life goes on

citywal:
like she's changed totally, bro late nights and all n this is something she doesn't do before. And many more the. Other day she was posting how she wants to take molly n all sorts c'mon man I know what I'm saying

What is Molly? Hard drugs?

arthurwillia:
It’s that woman that you love that’s always giving you problem, but the one you don’t give a damn about go Dey smooth, why? This life dey rigged

When u start loving her she will become a problem. Women are naturally wicked and troublesome. I de see my babe as my first daughter not my partner. Cus if i de see her as my partner I fit leave her. Because, a partner in anything u do that does not contribute is not a partner. In most cases I see her a my responsibility. Coming closer to a 9ja girl be like say u de come closer to fire. She must hurt u.

Jeetech01:
Relationship is complicated.

Most times, one person need to act a fool for it to work.

Mostly should be a man. Wen a woman does, that means de man no de gree at all at all, so in dat case she will give up. N in most cases de man got to be Rich o

If she cant listen to you now, forget it she will still not listen to you if you eventually end up with her.

Juliearth:




Wait a second, you mean her only offense is/was going out too often with her friends? If an issue this trivial can make you breakup with her, it means you may have to carve/mould your wife by yourself. We live in perilous times , but what we need is God's protection and not seclusion. The truth of the matter is that even in your room, you can be greeted by danger.

Even though we need God's protection we also have to be smart ,you can't be keeping late night ,not helping your mom in her business and expect all to go well with you .Late night for me is a big red flag and not helping her mother reeks of irresponsibility and laziness.Wisdom is profitable to direct .

stunnert:
This one na simp wet him eye just open. Welcome to reality, the earlier you know all these fish brain girls are useless, the better it is for you.
If konji hold you too much just enter coded runs . com and carry one you fit afford

Guy I de fear olosho, I no no y. Me na soapy I prefer. De last time I Bleep okpo I no sleep for 3 days. I go hospital to know whether I do contact

citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

One of exes was like this, tell her something, she no go listen, na the one wey dey her mind she go wan do, when the thing red for am, she go begin look like cat wey dem commot for water..

citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

If ur lifestyles are not compatible then ure not compatible. Bt the twist is this may or may not be a phase in her life where gals wanna have fun and keep going to places or hanging out etc.. so I can’t tell exactly yet which is which. U have to ask her and study how hyper she is.

If ure not comfortable with it move on the deal with unnecessary stress.

citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"


Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

You’re not a simp. I applaud your decision, she’s not the only woman in the world

cejaypriesty:

Even though we need God's protection we also have to be smart ,you can't be keeping late night ,not helping your mom in her business and expect all to go well with you .Late night for me is a big red flag and not helping her mother reeks of irresponsibility and laziness.Wisdom is profitable to direct .

I totally agree with you bro, but I think op is a bit brash to break up with his woman because she keeps late night.

arthurwillia:
It’s that woman that you love that’s always giving you problem, but the one you don’t give a damn about go Dey smooth, why? This life dey rigged

it's all bleeped up

Juliearth:




Wait a second, you mean her only offense is/was going out too often with her friends? If an issue this trivial can make you breakup with her, it means you may have to carve/mould your wife by yourself. We live in perilous times , but what we need is God's protection and not seclusion. The truth of the matter is that even in your room, you can be greeted by danger.

go and read my response to others that's not the only thing.

valentineuwakwe:
I understand how you feel but have you so her where she used to hang out with friends and what they do there? Why will a lady leave assisting her mum who owns a restaurant business, only to hang out with friends? That's what you should investigate on instead calling the relationship off and shouting at her.

Your girlfriend is the party type or one who was into runs before you meet her for the relationship. Perhaps she has someone else she goes to hang around with but you should have done your home work properly. You hastily took a decision to leave her and that's wrong.
Go find out more about her hanging out and take a decision later.
Thank you.

bro I see her status on Whatsapp, this same check started taking Molly recently, I don't even do drugs n posting all cult stuffs

Bros Op, all this young girls no fit stay one place, dem wan dey Talantolo upandan, dey Mikrimo anyhow, my advice is that you better dump or let her go & look for a more matured & ready to settle kinda lady, asin look for lady way don tire to rock life... If not you go just get hypertension Bcus you dey police wan ogbanje wey molly dey crack her knot..... In fact you need no advice, you yourself, you know what to do!.... Them no dey tell person cus one man's meat is another man's poison...

Kaiser20:
Face your studies, from your post it's either you are still in school,or looking for a job.
Get settled before anything, you are not married jet and you are forbidden you girl from hanging out at her young age

done with school I work for my own firm. Thanks for your advice

HRSweetness:


What is Molly? Hard drugs?

Yes it's hard drugs.

What's the name of that guy that said NIGERIA GIRLS ARE USELESS, ALL OF THEM

MOSDII abi wetin?


Follow who kno road

citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

I sincerely thank you all for ur advice, this girl didn't do any of this from the beginning...it's not only the going out that's the problem she recently started talking about molly and posting cult stuffs, all this are friends influence... Tbh I'm really hurt and I just had to say it all here. For all others saying I'm guilty n all plz can u marry a girl dat do drugs c'mon be honest with me. It's not easy for me here...I'm not a simp but I really thought this was it, settle down n focus on family. Mum on my neck too.