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Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Nehemiahjnr(m): 2:22pm On Aug 04, 2021
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by TheUndercover: 2:26pm On Aug 04, 2021
grin

Maybe you didn't include sex in your terms and conditions with her when you signed up for the relationship. Don't worry, wait few more years, she will consider you. Probably 4 more years. grin

LOL "Past experience" huh? grin What type of drug did the girl give you? It's very potent, like very potent. 4 years relationship? Damn! Is this the new format?

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Nobody: 2:27pm On Aug 04, 2021
Marry her and have all the sex you want with her,that's the right thing to do.

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by mykealpha(m): 2:27pm On Aug 04, 2021
Oga count your losses and move on

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Nobody: 2:31pm On Aug 04, 2021
Sorry boss. No be all investments dey succeed.

Move on and forget the past. cheesy

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by DaddyRochie1642: 2:34pm On Aug 04, 2021
TheUndercover:
grin

Maybe you didn't include sex in your terms and conditions with her when you signed up for the relationship. Don't worry, wait few more years, she will consider you. Probably 4 more years. grin

LOL "Past experience" huh? grin What type of drug did the girl give you? It's very potent, like very potent. 4 years relationship? Damn! Is this the new format?



grin

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by DaddyRochie1642: 2:35pm On Aug 04, 2021
See how Kpekus made this man to wait patiently for 4years, now he's weeping and gnashing his teeth because he's tired of waiting grin.... Never Underestimate the power of Kpekus grin

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Deveryib(m): 2:39pm On Aug 04, 2021
She is seeing some one else, or is she a virgin?

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Adeesther56(f): 2:39pm On Aug 04, 2021
U are a wicked person,so u want to have sex with her then it would results in unwanted pregnancy then u abandoned her,why can't u think are u a dog that can't live without sex,,think.. because fornication is a sin,u sef know it,and u call yourself a Christian,you are a disgrace to christians aswear, it gona clock 4 years this year that hav been a celibate..just pity your life aswear....

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by TheUndercover: 2:40pm On Aug 04, 2021
DaddyRochie1642:
See how Kpekus made this man to wait patiently for 4years, now he's weeping and gnashing his teeth because he's tired of waiting grin.... Never Underestimate the power of Kpekus grin
It's really powerful bro grin. The guy still believes he's in a relationship when he's just an ATM and an emotional tampon. A non-virgin girl for that? Damn! The drug is really working.

I'm sure the girl doesn't even contribute anything to the relationship excluding the sex part. Sunk cost fallacy is at play here.

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Bigredmachine: 2:44pm On Aug 04, 2021
Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything
She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.
when I ask her what happen she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences
Am tired of the relationship sef
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo
What should I do

Hmmmmm it's obvious you wanna chop and go... And she knows it,

And all u have spent on her far exceed the few hours of sexual enjoyment if at all u eventually get ur way...

Whichever way she is the winner here...

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Bigredmachine: 2:45pm On Aug 04, 2021
DaddyRochie1642:
See how Kpekus made this man to wait patiently for 4years, now he's weeping and gnashing his teeth because he's tired of waiting grin.... Never Underestimate the power of Kpekus grin

No be juju be that grin

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Nehemiahjnr(m): 2:48pm On Aug 04, 2021
Adeesther56:
U are a wicked person,so u want to have sex with her then it would results in unwanted pregnancy then u abandoned her,why can't u think are u a dog that can't live without sex,,think.. because fornication is a sin,u sef know it,and u call yourself a Christian,you are a disgrace to christians aswear, it gona clock 4 years this year that hav been a celibate..just pity your life aswear....

If you are the one in that ur profile pics
Why won’t you be celibate

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by aave: 3:16pm On Aug 04, 2021
Okay
Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by MANNABBQGRILLS: 3:16pm On Aug 04, 2021
Our opinion @[/b] : [b]Sex is not love,
Sex, inherently, has nothing to do with love, but we like to think they’re the same because it makes the sex and the love more fulfilling.
But there will come a point where the facade will fade and you’ll be left with one of two statements: “ Do I want something more,” or “It was just a fvck?”

Love, inherently, has nothing to do with sex.
This should be obvious but it sadly isn’t.
Think about it.
You love your parents, your pet and (hopefully) yourself, but you cannot sleep with any of those things!

Again, think about this!

We Rise.

Powerfly:

You made sense!
Lots of sense... But the generation I come from would never acknowledge this... cheesy
Sadly.... angry
Thanks for the heads up sis.
Seems the generation we live now has lost it,
We only pray and hope the next generation will be saner.

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Chijeep(m): 3:16pm On Aug 04, 2021
I can sense a boy of 21yrs dating a girl of 17 here...
undecided

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by tellwisdom: 3:16pm On Aug 04, 2021
Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

Do your worst

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by osuofia2(m): 3:16pm On Aug 04, 2021
Nwamaikpe please come and advice this bros on how to use soap

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Righteousness2(m): 3:16pm On Aug 04, 2021
Flee Fornication!!

If you are tired of Waiting go and Pay her bride price so you have all the days, weeks and years to bulala her as you like.

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Hambivert: 3:16pm On Aug 04, 2021
Sparogative konji has wrecked this brother. grin
Although I would not support premarital sex, I would never forget what an elderly man once said to me.

He said... "my son, there are three things you need to do to have a long and fulfilled life". He went further to say:

1. Fear women
2. Fear who and what doesn't fear women
3. Never ever forget number 1 and 2

Ever since I listened to that baba, no woman has made me pained or heartbroken.

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by capricornlady: 3:16pm On Aug 04, 2021
cheesy cheesy Marry her naa

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by MANNABBQGRILLS: 3:17pm On Aug 04, 2021
temitope27:
Then rape her
Stop promoting Rape on social media, especially on Nairaland ...okay?
Will you ever tell anyone to rape your sister or aunty because she refused sex with a guy?
How old are you Topsy?
just because you have one palasa phone do not give you the right to be so slow.
Better think twice before your mouth/fingers put you in deep sh#t before God and man!

Advice from the elders.


Na for Nairaland dem MANNA go teach una MANNERS 1by1.

Collectii......

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by MansoryMX(m): 3:17pm On Aug 04, 2021
Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?


Flee for your life Young man, nor allow one weak vessel use Kongi kill you. I was once in this sort of evil relationship. Mine was 2 years no sex. Dumped her ass for the next available girl who is serious and down for business. Today we are happily married with 3 kids. The idiot is still single and singing I broke her heart.

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by divinehand2003(m): 3:17pm On Aug 04, 2021
Marry her first, sex will come afterwards

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by MEGA4BILLION(m): 3:17pm On Aug 04, 2021
So you really want to

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by Davidonkonsults: 3:17pm On Aug 04, 2021
grin grin

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by lalajnr(m): 3:17pm On Aug 04, 2021
Oboy you try you deserve award

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Re: Dated For 4 Years, No Sex, I'm Tired by RedEnergy: 3:17pm On Aug 04, 2021
grin

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