BlackZeus17:
Hey meghan what about this guy and story u once told us about... How's did it go. Oya we can create gist from there and keep us company

MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.

MeghaneMorgane:


I have all these things you asked me to get but i still feels very lonely. I just want to have the feeling of someone sharing the same space with me. I told my sister to come and stay with me and get a job in my city but she said she wants to stay with my parents and work in the same city as my parents.

At some point I thought about changing accommodation and renting a shared space instead of a full space where it is just only me but on a second thought, I said no because I don’t want to have issues with anybody.

Most Saturday I go out with some of my colleagues who are also my friends and on Sunday I go to church bit immediately I get back home, it is different.

MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.

duchaB:


You were never lonely when u was in her shoes cos you are introverted!!
So what were you, when you were in her shoes?..
No matter how introverted anyone is, there can still be loneliness cos there are several layers and forms of loneliness..
It's multidimensional..

Anyways, I am starting a yoga class in Ikeja and VGC.. you can be my first student.
Let us remould that your yam legs.. just kidding!

MeghaneMorgane:


Thanks for the offer

Doja2000:
Those idiots telling op to be friends with them. Op say she wan make friends with anybody for this forum??
Womaniser full this forum ooo.
Even the ones way no dey lonely,dey talk say them dey lonely.

Decolonel:
Light up my weed, AZ, or SK, drink beer or vodka. Then proceed to the bathroom with my slimy cream/ lub and self-service the hell outta myself. . Then hit the bed for sweet sleep.

The orgasm you get when you are high is outta this world. My fellow niggars know exactly what I'm talking about

udosam:


I for one, i believe it is normal to want human company but at the same time like you already mentioned, you can’t force people to want what you want and also people have their lives to live too.

So find something that will excite you while you learn it, call your friends once once, take a stroll once once, read books. That’s my best remedy, reading books. Not just any book o, novels. Find authors you like and just keep reading.

I like Sidney Sheldon, Jeffrey Archer, Stephen King, etc.

And then just sometimes if you have light, watch movies, put on music and just sing along while you dance.

I can’t dance for the life of me but I just dance carelessly alone.

And talk to yourself, be your best friend. And pls don’t forget to reach out too. I’m sure many of your friends and relatives want to hear and gist with you, just reach out.

I have been living alone for long so much that I think I enjoy my own company too much, now I want to step out sometimes and just mingle but then, I enjoy my space too much

You can also get a pet. Me I have been craving to get a dog but the amount they are calling ehh, well,…..

In all, guard your heart, your thoughts and plan your actions. You will be fine dear

Cheers

sisisioge:


From a veteran....
1. Enjoy work and take some home
2. Get interested in professional developments/certifications....very time consuming
3. Fall in love with quora....you would read a lot of actually interesting real stories from real people who are mostly sensible
4. Love your sleep....lawddddd
5. Definitely have a boy that is allowed to call you from time to time....makes a lot more sense if he is several thousand miles away from you.
6. Find a dance school close to home....been trying to sort this cos a friend is having a blast learning salsa.

Irredeemable singleton....it gets tiring fa

emmyN:


Are you single by choice, abi guys nor gree toast you?

Blackdeewhy:
Subscribe to GLO 1 gig - #100 12:5am. I make sure to subscribed 300 or 400 which is 3 to 4gig.
Log unto O2tvseries, download series to keep your company during the day and you keep going.
Try these:
Power 1-6
Good Trouble
Orange is the new black
When they see us
Nikita
How to get away with murder
Black list
Kyle XY
The 100
Dexter
Etc
Self company all the way! No drama, no expectations, no argument you just do YOU�

MeghaneMorgane:


You’re right. I like that feeling of someone being around. Even if we aren’t talking but just knowing that I’m sharing the space with someone and hearing sounds others makes gives me some kind of comfort. That is why I stay in the office for as long as I can because most of the time, someone is in the space with me.

MeghaneMorgane:


Thanks for the offer

MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.

AfroKnight:
I’m good most of the time. Then I think of magnoliaa and I suddenly feel the need to get married. Then I think of my former country Nigeria, then I don’t. Then I’m good again.

But why na? Former country you say? I don't understand. What greater needs are pulling your mind away from the thought of marriage that I evoke? And you mean there are other things stronger than the feeling of being infatuated and intoxicated with me? Something must be wrong somewhere.

duchaB:


LMAO, imagine!

MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.

MeghaneMorgane:
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired.

When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours.

Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now.

kay29000:
It's not easy. Personally, I am a loner, so me being alone is actually a choice. But, sometimes I just want someone around. Really, man/woman was not made to be alone. When I get extremely lonely, I go out to see my friend (good thing traffic isn't crazy in IB, I can reach anywhere quickly). My friend is the opposite of me...he can talk for Africa. Lol. So, the visit is always worth it.

Other times, I call my female friend over. We have fought now... I really miss her, even though she has her own issues, we had great times together... but life goes on.

Other times when I can't get company, I just watch a movie or TV series, or chat with friends on WhatsApp. And there are times I really need that full charge...I just take 4-5 days off and go and see my sister...she has kids I really love spending time with. No dull moment with them. Lol. I can stay charged up for weeks after that vacation.

Deejay777:

Yes, pls do. You can try PUBG, it's an online action 3rd person shooter game. You'll get to meet new people and if u are good to a stage, you can even be a part of a clan.

BlackZeus17:
Hey meghan what about this guy and story u once told us about... How's did it go. Oya we can create gist from there and keep us company

Ebus12:
My dear God has been helping us.
The boredom got worst on me when my phone got stolen.
I virtually became a complete definition of boredom myself.

I only overcame it by strolling around my street.
I stopped by, whenever something caught my attention.
Fights, exchange of words, quarrels, football matches and the likes.
Thank God I overcame

quentin06:
I really don't see why you are single at 26, especially those of your that work.
Have a social life go to events, programmes or any social event try to meet people.
Stop all these forming, ladies be courteous, guys be friendly.
Soc media has killed the art on interpersonal relationships.
My condolences to the millennials.