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The less emotions you show, the better.

Always keep something in reserve. Always have a bit of mystery. Always be slightly unpredictable.

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With experience you'll learn how to be mysterious without being weird, and unpredictable without being unstable or flighty.
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You should attract women not pursue them. #WednesdayNuggets
When she (whoever she is) finds you attractive, she will pursue you. #WednesdayNuggets

A person cannot pursue something unless it is retreating. You must appear to retreat.

Advance very slightly to make her attracted to you, then retreat.

Attract then retreat

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When a woman sees you and likes what she sees(due to showing your value or preselection) – very often because you don't seem to notice her – she will find a way to meet you. She will find a way to talk to you.

She will find a way to get into your life.
A woman in today's society will pursue.
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If a woman sees you, and likes what she sees, she will imagine being in a relationship/sex/marriage soon enough.
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If a girl ever disses you, call her on it immediately.
Don't be a wimp #WednesdayNuggets
Remember, once you are a pushover, it's game over. #WednesdayNuggets

Be tactful but let her know you've just heard or seen something that you dislike and it will not be tolerated. If she continues, dump her.

Its called self respect.
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You must be willing to walk away.
The one who cares less, has the most power. Always.
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At all times, a woman must believe that you can walk away from the relationship and not look back.

She must believe that you care for the relationship less than her.
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To master the art of attracting women, you must not only be unpredictable but also uncontrollable.
You are not to be controlled.
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You can't pretend to be the prize. You have to be able to look in the mirror and honestly say, "I love this guy!"
It is only when you love yourself that you will be the prize.
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Why fake it till you make it when you can make it without faking it? Why pretend to be a great person when you can actually BE one? Work hard to excel in all areas of life - health, wealth, relationships. #WednesdayNuggets

Make your dreams happen and, most importantly, realize that happiness is a choice!
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By the same token, don't let self-improvement be an excuse not to handle your biz.
 
Don't fall into this trap, cuz you will just keep procrastinating, looking for reasons not to get your game on.
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Only you can make yourself worthy of the best things in life.
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Improve on what you can (health, fitness, style) and embrace the things you cannot change (height, race, etc).

Insecurity is an ugly thing, so confront the roots of your poor self image and banish this negativity from your mind. 
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THE SILENT TREATMENT
Most people view silence as a weakness but it can also be a strength.

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The basic idea behind the silent treatment is that you give a woman attention (women love attention!) when she is doing something you like.

And you take that attention away when she is doing something you don't like.

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While you don't want to overuse the silent treatment, it is an effective weapon to have in your seduction arsenal.

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When you turn and walk away, it doesn't necessarily mean that you lose the girl. Sometimes turning and walking away is the only way to actually get the girl.
 
It can be the spark that ignites a powerful attraction inside of her, as she begins to realize that you are different from other guys.

Learn to walk away

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Take just a quick minute and think about something...
What makes gold so great? Or diamonds?
Why are they so expensive? Why are they so valuable?
Because it's rare!
People want things that they see as rare. #WednesdayNuggets

If wood was more difficult to find than diamonds, I guarantee people would be getting on one knee with a wooden engagement ring.

Diamonds are rare and therefore, valuable. 

It's the law of supply and demand.
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What does this mean to you?

Be rare. Be a diamond. Be different than the others.

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Among all the other lumps of coal (other guys) you are the diamond. You stand out, above and beyond all the others.
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Do something that will make her say, "Here's something different."
Then Pull Back
Once she sees how interesting you are - pull back.
If she wants you, she's going to have to work for you. #WednesdayNuggets

This is where most guys make mistake, they give a very good first impression but as time goes on they start suffocating the girl with attention that she has no choice than to push them away.

Creating absence is quintessential.
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When a guy who made good first impression doesn't come back for sometime she starts missing him.

That is why you can go after a girl and give her too much attention she will be pushing you off but when u give up on her, she then want you back.
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It's cos you are suffocating her with attention and when you cut the attention, she starts missing you.

This is simple human psychology. We want what we can't have and miss what we have lost.

Learn to be a diamond

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Remember, to be valuable, you have to be rare. People take for granted the things that are always there.

Don't always be there.

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If she has to work to get to you, she'll appreciate you much more once you  let her have you
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Make her work to get your attention.

Ever go to higher institution?
If so, you can pick out the ones whose parents are paying for their school versus the kids who are either paying for it themselves or are on scholarships that require good grades.

The ones who have things given to them don't appreciate what they have as much as the ones who have to work for what they want.
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Be the Prize #WednesdayNuggets

Be the Prize #WednesdayNuggets

Be the Prize #WednesdayNuggets

Learn

Dpsychologist:
If a girl ever disses you, call her on it immediately.

Don't be a wimp
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Remember, once you are a pushover, it's game over.
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Please can you expanciate more on that first paragraph?. Like if the girl that just dissed you is your superior/colleague at work, how do you go about it?

Never be passive aggressive to women e.g you keep tolerating their bullshit till their bucket is full then you react.

That is a very bad move.
If you do not like what a lady does you react.

Either you ghost her (indirectly) or you tell her you don't like what she did.(directly).

Either way, let her know she did upset you.
#Thursday drills

Start putting yourself.

Even the Bible said love your neighbor as u love yourself not more than yourself.
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