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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:48pm On Aug 12, 2021
There is a law of psychology called "Effort Justification."

It says that whenever you put effort into something, you automatically want it more.

This applies to dating, money, success... anything.

#ThursdayDrills

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:50pm On Aug 12, 2021
If you understand this law you can make a woman put effort into you...
While you sit back and relax while she automatically became more and more attracted to him.
#ThursdayDrills

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:50pm On Aug 12, 2021
Have you ever known a girl who's boyfriend treated her like crap, but she still wouldn't leave him?

The more effort she puts into that guy, the more she feels she HAS to stay with him... even if he's a total scum.
#ThursdayDrills

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:51pm On Aug 12, 2021
The effort she made will make her justify herself by saying "it's meant to be," or believing she can "fix" the guy.

That's the law of "Effort Justification" at work.
#ThursdayDrills

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:52pm On Aug 12, 2021
Here's what this means for you.
If you want a woman to be head over heels for you...
You have to make her put in EFFORT to win you over. #ThursdayDrills

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:54pm On Aug 12, 2021
Its all about investments
Texting her all the time...
Calling her all the time
Buying her things...

Showering her with constant compliments...

Putting in all this WORK while she is doing nothing only make you over invested in her and end up addicted to her.
#ThursdayDrills

You become addicted to whatever you constantly invest in.
#ThursdayDrills

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:57pm On Aug 12, 2021
Your aim should be to make a woman invested in you, to get her addicted to you. #ThursdayDrills
Make a woman work to keep you or get your attention #ThursdayDrills

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:58pm On Aug 12, 2021
Lets say you were mysterious and girl keeps pressuring you to tell her something and you keeps evading it.
If you continue evading it ad infinitum, It will reach a time she will give up

If u instead tell her too early you kill mystery.

What then should you do?
#ThursdayDrills

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:59pm On Aug 12, 2021
Use Conditional compliance.

Tell her you will tell her on one condition and then you give her the condition.

By giving her a condition you are making her work for it.
#ThursdayDrills

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:04pm On Aug 12, 2021
Let's talk about cats and dogs.
Someone might say, what does it have to do with dating, relationships, and attracting women?
#ThursdayDrills

Cats exhibit many characteristics that are endearing unlike dogs.

#ThursdayDrills

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:42am On Aug 13, 2021
Let's talk about cats and dogs.
Someone might say, what does it have to do with dating, relationships, and attracting women?
#Fridaywisdom

Cats exhibit many characteristics that are endearing unlike dogs.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:44am On Aug 13, 2021
Cats Don't Take Crap
If the owner maltreats it, oftentimes it'll leave and become a stray. It knows that there are other people that can treat it better.
#FridayWisdom

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:45am On Aug 13, 2021
Cats Are Independent
It's probably their best known trait.

It's immensely hard to train a cat, although it can be done.
Cat does not obey orders easily.
You can't tell a cat to come or go; the best you can do to make it go is pick it up and deposit elsewhere.

#FridayWisdom

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:45am On Aug 13, 2021
Cats Don't Ask for Affection They are grateful for the affection they get, but they don't beg for it.
#FridayWisdom

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:46am On Aug 13, 2021
If you act like a cat, and not like a dog (ohh... you didn't pet me... ) then you should see improvement in how women treat you.
#FridayWisdom

Unfortunately, the biggest mistake most guys make is acting like a dog.

#FridayWisdom

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:47am On Aug 13, 2021
Dogs are considered too dependent, too needy, too clingy.
#FridayWisdom

A dog will do anything to please the master, it is very excited when the master is around.
It likes to be petted, while it shakes it tail.

Puppies are known to be loyal and trying to please the owner .

#FridayWisdom

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:47am On Aug 13, 2021
Remember, women are drawn to men who are independent, confident, and strong.
So step back. Give her some space.
And let her come to you. #FridayWisdom

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:49am On Aug 13, 2021
Due to this, clubs always let a controlled number of single guys in by making them pay more.

If a ticket for a single girl is #500, a single man at the
same event will likely be asked #1000 above.
#FridayWisdom

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:49am On Aug 13, 2021
Sometimes women are allowed to enter for free to encourage them in , while guys are charged higher to discourage them in.

#FridayWisdom

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Re: The Red Truth by xfactordv: 11:26am On Aug 13, 2021
Dpsychologist:
Make your dreams happen and, most importantly, realize that happiness is a choice!
#WednesdayNuggets


By the same token, don't let self-improvement be an excuse not to handle your biz.
 
Don't fall into this trap, cuz you will just keep procrastinating, looking for reasons not to get your game on.
#WednesdayNuggets


please explain
Re: The Red Truth by moremuch1(m): 7:35pm On Aug 13, 2021
Phew
O boy e no easy o, I can't believe I read this thread from page one till this page , Kudos to the OP for this great work.

Lemme say I am just one of the few lucky ones to discover red pill quite early and I am in my early twenties with almost an alpha mind set and I must say this is thread is one of the best if not the best red pill write ups I have ever come across.

Thumbs up

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:32pm On Aug 14, 2021
moremuch1:
Phew
O boy e no easy o, I can't believe I read this thread from page one till this page , Kudos to the OP for this great work.

Lemme say I am just one of the few lucky ones to discover red pill quite early and I am in my early twenties with almost an alpha mind set and I must say this is thread is one of the best if not the best red pill write ups I have ever come across.

Thumbs up

I am happy to be changing minds and touching lives positively.
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:58pm On Aug 14, 2021
He who hasn't suffered the tumoil of being a beta won't understand how degrading it is.

It can be heartbreaking to realise you have been oblivious to female nature for many years.

Being beta has psychological and physical consequences that needs to be overridden by the Alpha mentality.

Redpill revolution won't be automatic its one step at a time.
The essence of the red pill, is to make a U-turn in your life.
No one came here perfect but to be perfected.
#SaturdayMusings

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:59pm On Aug 14, 2021
Being a redpiller is a universal eye opener:


¶ You know when you're simping and the consequences of it

¶ You don't live in fantasy world, like blue pillers.

¶ You become better via self improvement

¶ You begin to control your emotions

¶ You know when to pull and push

¶ You know when to punish and when to reward

#SaturdayMusings

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:00pm On Aug 14, 2021
Women are not meant to be feared but understood , now is the time to understand them more so you may be fearless
— Dpsychologist

#SaturdayMusings

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:01pm On Aug 14, 2021
In the dating world, being a good girl is a good thing for a lady but being a good boy is a bad thing for a man.
#SaturdayMusings

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:04pm On Aug 14, 2021
The 21st century is conglomeration of betas, SIMPs, wimps, manginas, white knights etc.

There is shortage of who true men are.

Remember, there is difference between being a male and being a man.

#SaturdayMusings

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:05pm On Aug 14, 2021
It’s in the darkest hours that men are born and characters are forged. -Lucio Buffalmano

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:06pm On Aug 14, 2021
If you’re a man and you can’t learn from another man’s mistake, you’ll find life difficult.
#SaturdayMusings

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:08pm On Aug 14, 2021
Men, learn to have pride, and be self-centred….This is how you stand out.

#SaturdayMusings

Be stingy with your attention…your attention should be like droplets of water.

#SaturdayMusings

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:11pm On Aug 14, 2021
Here is the secret of dating: women only go for a man who makes himself the prize. You can be the prize by coming from a wealthy family, a leader, or tall and handsome,etc all this gives you value but do not be a nobody.
#SaturdayMusings

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:12pm On Aug 14, 2021
What is hard to get is what women want. #SaturdayMusings

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