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He said he wanted 4 boys and no girl. I asked him why the emphasis on "no girl". He said girls are expensive to train.

Then later said, he can allow his wife have one girl that will be helping her out.

My spirit, soul and body left. Even though he'd even come with his people. I told my mum, she was shocked and said maybe he didn't mean it.

That mindset was too dangerous for me to manage.

Romanoff:


You'd know since your sisters feed you with the proceeds of selling their own vaginas.

Now run along and go collect pocket money from them before you run out of data.

Oboi eh... Killa savagery.


Ur head get light aswear

Seunpaul01:


Oboi eh... Killa savagery.


Ur head get light aswear

Many of them no get home training. E good make we dey give them training wey them no see collect for house.

My take is that women most of the time are confused with their very choices. A good number of them have missed their mr right because of what I just said earlier. They mostly choose to live in the nadir of delusions and fantasies which backfires in the long run.

IamKizzbrown10:
A lot of men make that mistake prosposing to a girl, wen u knw u dnt have wat it takes to have her as a wife, maybe u only have wat she consider as bf and gf stuff and nt marriage. No reasonable lady will reject a man she knws he is capable of taking care of her and her unborn kid or call it a responsible man. But if a lady reject such man just knw that her villiage people ar on her matter. Thank u

chief , its not always about money. You can have money and be able to take care of her and she will still reject you - ur not the only one with money .with this your mindset I really advise you to go and develop other things about yourself - a lot of other things come into play - not just your money .

CharisEleos:


Wow interesting!

I know i should have helped but you know how irritating that thing can be and I felt for someone of his status he should be able to afford a doctor or specialist. Another problem is, he was always touching it. so the thought of touching me with that hand just put me off altogether.

Funnily enough, as soon as he started courting another Sister ( she's in the medical line) the thing just cleared off completely even before their wedding. I guess she advised him to do something about it.

Yiimu, all these epistle for nothing just say you don't love him, i think having time age wise also joined. hope time still dey

TWLifestyle:
what is your business with her and husbands house ? This is how you men go around chooking your mouth in women's issues that shouldn't concern you .

What is ur business with my post? That's how you go around and develop heart attack on my comment.

AgreatMan:


There is more to that story, perhaps, the male child thing was the final straw or ur excuse to cut him off.

Every man wants to have a male child.

If u were raised in a different environment where husbands didn't divorce their wives cos of male child, you would have married d guy regardless of his male child opinion.

Was the guy making a ridiculous request or was your opinion about male children shaped by your environment? There is more to this.

every woman should run as fast and as far as her legs can carry her away from men like you .

larryjonze:




Low esteem on naija men are you kidding ... do those men in BBhouse portray low esteem.
i think naija gurls are tew focus on what they stand to gain that they bearly try to understand the men.
If we say we want an intelligent woman, we meant the ones that will come into our lives to compliment us not creat some rivalry shit.
if a babe drop ideas that will upscale her man prospective ideas why would he reject them ... buh a typical naija intelligent woman won't build on her man's idea most times she brings ideas that will overwrite the man's plans.

I don't watch it, but they sound like the usual arrogant sex addict types. Without access to money, what do they have to offer any woman? Finishing condoms, bullying themselves and flogging themselves?

You don't want intelligent women, that's why you see it as rivalry. Which is exactly what was being said.

Why must her ideas upscale the man? Most Nigerian men are just looking for a woman they can stand on who will build them while they give nothing in return except judgement. What happened to a man developing himself instead of looking for a woman who isn't his mother to do that? What sort of liability is that? Let men build themselves to the point where they can be in a relationship, financially and character wise.

Way too many unrealistic expectations for women. Nigerian men don't even try to understand women, yet they expect to be understood.

This thread has exposed them.

Fiscus105:



What is ur business with my post? That's how you go around and develop heart attack on my comment.

lol , your fellow men have already been commenting about you women wrapper men embarrassing yourselves on a thread supposed to be for women.

larryjonze:




Yiimu, all these epistle for nothing just say you don't love him, i think having time age wise also joined. hope time still dey

I'm not bound by time when it comes to marriage or any of life's endeavors for that matter. Ok?
I do my things when I feel up to it. So, don't "kan mi loju".

In my lovely dad's voice " it's not a hurrible affair" (not to hurridly do things).

Eyaaa..

Romanoff:


Many of them no get home training. E good make we dey give them training wey them no see collect for house.

You sounds very matured and reasonable as I've noted from all your responses.

Your husband must be very lucky to have a wise woman in you.

I guess you are giving him the peace of mind all men want.

Seunpaul01:




You sounds very matured and reasonable as I've noted from all your responses.

Your husband must be very lucky to have a wise woman in you.

I guess you are giving him the peace of mind all men want.

God dey epp us.

JovialJune:



Fixed

But let me ask, where does it specifically say that once sperm has been ejaculated in the woman, whatever sex she births is her fault? Or you didn't understand and understand the screenshot clearly?

dont mind the mumu - if a man is ejaculating lazy male spermatozoa- how is it the woman's fault ?

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Very immature

okwadatigbogal:


Mark my words, people will mock you mercilessly in this life! You will forever be an object of ridicule! You people just open your useless mouth WAAA....

BTW, If you like think I am bitter, nah you sabi!

Of course you're bitter. You didn't need to take it personal.


Please quit being vindictive, that's one of the hallmarks of Christianity. Even when people mock you, bless them for that's what is required of us.

GREATESTPIANIST:
and what is your spec....? Mrs Perfect ......later unango divorce una spec.........

how is someone eelse's divorce your problem though ?

TWLifestyle:
it is not your topic neither is it your business whether anybody is married or not . Marriage is not food or oxygen .

Op, am making the ladies to answer your question oh, see this one now

Romanoff:
Hmmnn.

Might not be a proposal but someone who claimed he wanted a relationship with me cause he wants to marry me said something when we were getting to know each other. This is what he said that made me turn back and face my father's house, "I am sorry to say this, but a man is not complete without a male child".

Since I knew that I didn't have a store house for male children nor did I have a guarantee of bearing him a son, I told him I wasn't interested in the relationship or marriage.

To my surprise, dude insisted on knowing why I turned him down after some months, I told him his comment about male children put me off. He tried to convince me he didn't mean it the way I saw it but I just wasn't convinced.

You acted childish.. Whether na male you go born from beginning to end..It may be rightful spouse..

CharisEleos:


I'm not bound by time when it comes to marriage or any of life's endeavors for that matter. Ok?
I do my things when I feel up to it. So, don't "kan mi loju".

In my lovely dad's voice " it's not a hurrible affair" (not to hurridly do things).

Unfortunately we all are bounded by time whether we accept it or not, you might entitled to your opinion immune to parental/societal pressure buh no woman is immune to biological time pressure .... exceptions to lakiriboto or masculine lesbian
You onces claimed to me you're married, so why will i rush a supposed "MRS" as far as i'm concern we are just talking

TWLifestyle:
lol , your fellow men have already been commenting about you women wrapper men embarrassing yourselves on a thread supposed to be for women.

Hope you know as you want to have heart attack on my post, heart not meant for you alone, my fellow men can also commit suicide on my comments

Olaideolayemi:
You acted childish.. Whether na male you go born from beginning to end..It may be rightful spouse..

It is not the rightful spouse if he will throw you out for not having a son.

larryjonze:




Unfortunately we all are bounded by time whether we accept it or not, you might entitled to your opinion immune to parental/societal pressure buh no woman is immune to biological time pressure .... exceptions to lakiriboto or masculine lesbian
You onces claimed to me you're married, so why will i rush a supposed "MRS" as far as i'm concern we are just talking

Your opinion.

TWLifestyle:
no woman owes any man " a chance " even if she has a truckload of men she has her reasons for not dating them - the reasoms dont have to satisfy anybody but her .

Truu, y'all are fascinating sha, you talk all tough and shit online but at night cry your eyes out while scrolling through bellanaija asking God when. Contrary to how my conversation went with the other slowpoke, I do love my women. It will do all us a great deal if y'all can actually make up your minds when it comes to relationships.

MufasaLion:


Woah!
Crazy shit.

very crazy