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So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!

What is all these ..... why can't you behave like a man .... ... Why are you behaving like vegetable ....

Why can't even respond like a man ..... I Feel So Unsafe with You !!! , Am not sure you can stand for me like a man.

You are just a waste of Vegetable .................

So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what
Should i run away from Home
Marriage no dey easy at all.

i perceive mammy water here


FTC.

i dedicate this FTC to every guy facing one demon or another in the form of a girlfriend or wife

Oga, you don go marry ogbanje I swear!
E don be for you your enemies!

Wahala wey no dey nairaland no exist!

Ok

She called you vegetable Buhari?

This your wife not get joy at all.

Eye yam just laughing

Op

Your wife needs deliverance. slapping you while you are asleep is weird.

Another story o.

Person done marry ogbanje put for house.

This one is strong.

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and walk away.

No be winch be dat

She get contract with your village people

Lmao

Endure brother, marriage is for better for worse, pray and fast for 40days and 40nights, then watch WAR ROOM, one day, when God touches her, she will change and see you as a man.

Is she feeding you? If not, she no geh any reason to dey slap you lol. Run for your life before you are poisoned.

Na lie jare, this story isn't true... And if it is, you have married a mentally deranged woman.. No normal woman will just wake up and land her sleeping husband a slap in the face. At this rate, you might just wake up with knives in your belly.

But wait, shey you didn't know say she dey behave this way before marriage ni...?

She even talk say divorce is equal to death.... Haaaa. Your village people are perfectionist.

Bro she wants you to be a man. You knew before you wifed her because u said it that since u placed a ring, her behaviour changed from BAD TO WORSE. It's on you to toughen up and take charge.

It's our darling vegetable in Aso rock or what


You need to take her to your church or any hot MOG for deliverance ASAP so that it won't get worse bro

Maybe her family pipo don dey run her mata


My opinion tho

Woman na correct devil wey person dey see physically. ��‍�

Then be a man.. Stop being a simp..

Even if she is mamy water, show her who is the boss.. Na common girl dey threaten you say if u leave am u go die.. Mtchewwwwwwwwwwweeweee.

Gone are the days when men are men..

So we have another vegetable apart from the one in ABUJA?

Man up, take charge of your life

Endure brother

You must have seen some of those bad behaviors while you u were dating her.I will keep advising people, don’t manage a bad relationship and let it lead to marriage. Maybe you be Vegetable or Dodo

LOL

Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what
Should i run away from Home
Marriage no dey easy at all.

Man up. Your just too weak. I'm sure you are the last born. 'Mum's boy'.

She is trying to build up the man in you.

Women want a strong man. A man that can stand up for them.

Some ridiculous stories wey person dey read here sef no fit make it to normal Nollywood films.
Not to doubt the authenticity of the story but y'all are just proving it to us everyday that we can never see it all because just when we think we have seen it all, then boom! Another shit happens

Na wah oo, imagine being woken up from a sweet sound sleep with a heavy slap. But OP please is your name Buhari or is your equipment no longer responsive ? Just wondering why she feels you are like a vegetable

Take the red pill, una no gree, now see.

Marriage this days sef!
Na surrogacy sure pass

This is one of my fears for marriage. But I know my God will lead me right.

Firstly, I like to ask you?.....are you financially stable in the marriage?

You see, I sent monthly dues to my sister back home for house upkeep and other utilities and I see how she bombard me with numerous romantic words as gratitude..I have it at the back of my mind, if the flow is disrupted or stops, the gesture from her stops as well, maybe gradually, maybe instantly..."Men are loved by what they have or potential to have, conditional love or respect or submission"

A friend called me on my way to fix an issue with my car, he spent hours with me at the mechanic garage. Afterwards, I took him to a pub so we can chill, drink and have food. He literally told me to give him the money instead to get pampers for his child....I came to understand, it was fire on the mountain from madam that chased him out of home running helter skelter.

I also have a friend that flirt alot, but he is financially buoyant. He first made his current wife a baby mama, when she was craving for him to wife her, he didn't. He wifed anyway when she least expected. She know his sexcapade but won't confront him on that but rather putting blames on us his friends for aiding such. I had to give the guy some distance at one point because of that. Something she knew even before the guy wifed her. Infact, she is a major beneficiary since he finally married her out of 100s. Now, this lady ain't confronting this guy because..He already build and furnish his house before marrying her, his children attend one of the best schools around, he set up her brother in business. His birthday is alway big because his wife always invent new ways to sweep him off his feet.

Now, read my long post gently and figure out where your problem lies.

Wahala be like Nairaland na everyday person go dey jam different character...