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Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by henryd4(m): 6:18pm On Sep 01, 2021
Women do not like weak,emotional and effeminate men.They claim they do but they do not .



When they are tired of you,they will move to the next man who oozes toxic masculinity and keep the weak man as a friend .
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Antoeni(m): 6:18pm On Sep 01, 2021
Mr vegetables, it’s well
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 6:19pm On Sep 01, 2021
bigpicture001:
She is definitely pregnant. .let her be through these times.... It's normal for some women, especially with first child on the way
Shut up! I say shut up!! Pregnancy doesn't cause madness. You people should stop attributing I'll behaviour with pregnancy.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Nachop236: 6:19pm On Sep 01, 2021
Women sometimes like to see a little bit of harshness in their men. Show dominance. When she does something that offends you, make her stop it. Apply force if necessary. Don't be surprised if its a friend of hers that advised her to act in that manner, just to see if you can "Act like a man". You don't hve to agree with anything she does or says. Show her who's in charge.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Nobody: 6:19pm On Sep 01, 2021
If this your story is true then you are not only a vegetable but a rotten one at that. angry

E dey do me make I headbutt you now. angry
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by proxillin(m): 6:19pm On Sep 01, 2021
you are not spiritual enough...your wife belongs
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Slurity(m): 6:19pm On Sep 01, 2021
Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what huh
Should i run away from Home huh
Marriage no dey easy at all.
Just 2 things is likely to be involved. 1. She is possessed with evil spirit or 2. She is disappointed to see the real you in bed, or maturity or financially. Above all, one thing is sure. She has dominary spirit. You just married your husband bro.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Wokenaija: 6:19pm On Sep 01, 2021
She belongs to the skreets bro, she misses the streets that explains the change in attitude. grin
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by okoroemeka(m): 6:19pm On Sep 01, 2021
Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what huh
Should i run away from Home huh
Marriage no dey easy at all.
I think for an action there is supposed to be a reaction,if she slaps you then you must slap back,if she calls you a vegetable do what real men do,fvck the living daylights out of her, running away is accepting defeat,deal with her in the language she will understand and fvck her to submission.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by tomgold4u: 6:20pm On Sep 01, 2021
Do the right thing, stop snoring she need a man not a vegetable.
Search yourself, where you are getting it wrong, make love to her and make her fee secure, be a father and not a baby boy. smiley
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by chatinent: 6:20pm On Sep 01, 2021
Dear vegetable, maybe her notion of being a real man is beating the living daylight outta her.

Spoiler.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Nobody: 6:20pm On Sep 01, 2021
Okay and you said you dated her for 3 years?

How old is she? Seems like you offended her along the line and she only accepted your ring, without forgiving you, to torment the living daylights out of your life!

She came into this marriage with an agenda! What did you do to her prior the marriage?
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Depressed101: 6:20pm On Sep 01, 2021
Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what huh
Should i run away from Home huh
Marriage no dey easy at all.
you are an idiot, get out.... huh
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by femlad97(m): 6:20pm On Sep 01, 2021
U no sabi perform well.....change d styles na wetin she mean.....ur gbola no dey satisfy her grin grin grin grin cool cool cool
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by LongBig(m): 6:20pm On Sep 01, 2021
Yes she is right! You need to be a man not simply by getting physical but by taking charge! Take charge of your home and be a man!
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by bigpicture001: 6:20pm On Sep 01, 2021
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Shut up! I say shut up!! Pregnancy doesn't cause madness. You people should stop attributing I'll behaviour with pregnancy.
Chill man.... Don't lead your horse astray... U got alot of Hays to pack up...
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by DEEBOZZ(m): 6:21pm On Sep 01, 2021
This your wife na pure and unrefined ogbanje.

cheesy cheesy grin
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by nautybride: 6:21pm On Sep 01, 2021
grin. This man will beat up this woman or run away last last.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by walozanga(m): 6:22pm On Sep 01, 2021
She need deliverance.

Pls don't beat her ooooh, if u do she fit die, na characteristics of demon possessed body

If u must flog her, use ur d**k brutally
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by PrinceMajestic: 6:23pm On Sep 01, 2021
Always smoke marijuana in the house, she will flee or be loyal begging you to stp smoking it but don't stop. There's no evil spirit weed cannot tame, try it and thank me later. Divorce is important because you have been manipulated by an spirit. Smoke weed all over the house, she can't survive it I give you my word, even if you don't smoke it just burn it all over the house let it smell over the house. Good luck
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by MufasaLion: 6:23pm On Sep 01, 2021
LMAO

Marriage? I don't want. grin
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Malawian(m): 6:23pm On Sep 01, 2021
You no sabi furk!
Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what huh
Should i run away from Home huh
Marriage no dey easy at all.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Danjikanbauchi: 6:24pm On Sep 01, 2021
Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what huh
Should i run away from Home huh
Marriage no dey easy at all.
Oga go service your wife very well. You are not doing your work well.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by MayorOlohLo1(m): 6:24pm On Sep 01, 2021
I like to think us humans as the animal we are, I think you should also adopt that thought pattern, because we're truly animals, imagine a lioness trespassing by attacking a full grown and proud lion, the aftermath will either be the end of her life or lethal injuries sustained. Try to be a man, a king, a god.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by ppogba: 6:24pm On Sep 01, 2021
Take your story to Wake Adenuga production.

Or.better still, Zeb Ejiro.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Nobody: 6:24pm On Sep 01, 2021
Oga this is not normal behaviour o. You both suppose seek spiritual help. Dated for 3 years how una dey date women like this? Either marriage material or not you will know in six months. Research the family then marry or not. So she do Nollywood for 3 years come turn ogbanje?
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Nobody: 6:24pm On Sep 01, 2021
4k400:
That's your cross bear it
He doesn’t have to put up with it. His life is in danger, that’s a real threat
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by vickydevoka(m): 6:24pm On Sep 01, 2021
FutureIsFemale:
Man up. Your just too weak. I'm sure you are the last born. 'Mum's boy'.

She is trying to build up the man in you.

Women want a strong man. A man that can stand up for them.
When a lady told me that, my response alone to her make her de reason say whether I been human being. Those words are her own form of defense nothing much. It shouldn't even disturb any reasonable person
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by drezzyx(m): 6:25pm On Sep 01, 2021
I know what she wants,
She wants you to rough handle her a bit.
During this process you end up fvcking her silly..

I know of a girl who loves giving me brutal wounds with her fingernail
during this process of rough handling ourself one thing leads to another ,if you know you know.
Weird but thrilling.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by NGArmyTerrorist: 6:25pm On Sep 01, 2021
Make i laugh small grin Take her to dunamis for deliverance and foundation class or to mountain on fire church! Don't leave her or take her to fake pastors to avoid them, enjoying their kind that's if you don't love your wife. Do you satisfy her in the other side too? Goodluck!

Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by MufasaLion: 6:26pm On Sep 01, 2021
mariahAngel:
Oga, you don go marry ogbanje I swear! grin grin grin
E don be for you your enemies!

Wahala wey no dey nairaland no exist!
grin
The dude is in for it grin

I don't envy him.
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