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Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by vickydevoka(m): 6:26pm On Sep 01, 2021
Danjikanbauchi:
Oga go service your wife very well. You are not doing your work well.
Stop this abeg. Wic kind talk be dat. All I can say is the de lady is very immature
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by SweetiliciousD: 6:26pm On Sep 01, 2021
She sees her self as the man in the house.

Use bedmatics shape her mouth.

See finish Don enter. Take charge and dictate the pace of your home and see her crawl back into her shell when fire starts raining in the home.

If you want peace, prepare for war!
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by abike12(f): 6:26pm On Sep 01, 2021
Not sure why you stated that you are against domestic violence, it seems like you want us to give you permission to hit her?

If all you said is true, it's definitely an abusive marriage. I feel bad you're going through this and I think some time apart will do you good. You may need to find somewhere to stay where you will have peace of mind and sleep through the night. It will also help to prevent escalation which can lead to manslaughter. Separate first then pray and re-approach things.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Godbless3(m): 6:26pm On Sep 01, 2021
You dated her for 3yrs ane knew she has bad behaviour and you marry her hoping she will change and hear you are and she has truely change as you want, you carry am come sell for koboland.

When you hear change, SIMPly run for your dear life.
You're a nigerian and still believe the word CHANGE is like supporting Arsenal and still believe in Super-chicken.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by NwaliE01: 6:26pm On Sep 01, 2021
There are lots of things that makes a woman bitter about her man.

I noticed that most married women are not getting sexual satisfaction from their partners.

As for women, no matter what you give her. If you have not satisfied her sexually, she will be very much bittered.

Hit her hard on the bed and come to thank me later.

Give her good amount of money in addition too.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by descarado: 6:27pm On Sep 01, 2021
JovialJune:
Lmao grin

Endure brother, marriage is for better for worse, pray and fast for 40days and 40nights, then watch WAR ROOM, one day, when God touches her, she will change and see you as a man.
cheesy grin


You guys will not kii me here cheesy
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by desmondude(m): 6:27pm On Sep 01, 2021
Oga go seek for spiritual assistance before they kill you
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by SimplePlan34: 6:29pm On Sep 01, 2021
Ogbeni are u sure u are satisfying her sexually?
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Danjikanbauchi: 6:29pm On Sep 01, 2021
vickydevoka:
Stop this abeg. Wic kind talk be dat. All I can say is the de lady is very immature
na lie which kind immature. She called him vegetable
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by descarado: 6:29pm On Sep 01, 2021
ppogba:
Take your story to Wake Adenuga production.

Or.better still, Zeb Ejiro.
cheesy cheesy
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Naxomoluabi1(m): 6:29pm On Sep 01, 2021
chatinent:
Dear vegetable, maybe her notion of being a real man is beating the living daylight outta her.

Spoiler.
Dear vegetable bawo grin cheesy you wicked bro. Advice person you dey use dear vegetable start your words wink cheesy
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by yash33: 6:30pm On Sep 01, 2021
Congratulations! You don marry person wife (girlfriend) and you are not behaving like man i.e. you should be side chick-ing, she can't respect person way dey behave like say him not get prick.
Choose a side, me I no gree na Jesus be my oga.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Nobody: 6:30pm On Sep 01, 2021
Poster, I’ll advise you to walk away. You don’t seem like a confrontational person so go quietly. If your house is a rental property, do not renew it. Find another place. Then report her to the police for threat to your life.
Also I’d say you’re not the best judge of character so do not rush into another relationship. If possible find someone but don’t marry them, you can pay bride price because that’s easy to take back, after kids, if you’re happy with her xter when the kids are 10 years & above you can then perform the wedding ceremony.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by selfmade22: 6:30pm On Sep 01, 2021
show her strong hand, some girls deserve better beating, but avoid her face, after that beg her for peace, another style is give her 4months holiday, allow her to be alone, no call no text... her brain needs formatting, before u go, help me pregnant her... thank me later
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Burgerlomo: 6:31pm On Sep 01, 2021
Please take almighty walk from the union before something bad happens to anyone of you or both, God forbid though.

Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Oblongata: 6:32pm On Sep 01, 2021
To a married man, the topic is just another Saturday shocked
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by zedegit: 6:32pm On Sep 01, 2021
anthonyuncle:
i perceive mammy water here
If you see mami water eh, never run away.

Married people are trying o. My brother na steady billing him dey collect.

Any penny spent by the wife is a call for refund.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by LegendaryArnold(m): 6:32pm On Sep 01, 2021
Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what huh
Should i run away from Home huh
Marriage no dey easy at all.
Next time change am for am. I mean give am better voicing... Like show her some drama, strong your face, make sure the veins in your neck are popping, your eyes should be red and filled with fury, you are sweating and spit drooling down the side of your mouth... omo she go humble but please dont raise your hand on her.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by imagrg(m): 6:33pm On Sep 01, 2021
Take her to a psychiatric hospital for a thorough mental evaluation because you may wake up one day to discover you are headless oh.

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Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Mystery9(m): 6:34pm On Sep 01, 2021
How about if she wakes up one night and stab you? See I don't know your faith in God o. But let me be sincerely sincere with you. You need Jesus in that house.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by reealec(m): 6:35pm On Sep 01, 2021
She's not okey mentally she needs rehabilitation else bro she go chuck u knife one day o
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by ikllbrokehoes(m): 6:35pm On Sep 01, 2021
mariahAngel:
Oga, you don go marry ogbanje I swear! grin grin grin
E don be for you your enemies!

Wahala wey no dey nairaland no exist!
grin
Nah only on this faceless forum I dey see pot dey call kettle black, smh
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Malawian(m): 6:35pm On Sep 01, 2021
Wokenaija:
She belongs to the skreets bro, she misses the streets that explains the change in attitude. grin
The streets is just a door away, no be streets be this. Can you imagine the man sleeping at 2 am when he should be disturbing the neighborhood with his wife's moaning? why wont she put on loud music to wake the man up. grin grin
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by 46arcadez(m): 6:35pm On Sep 01, 2021
Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what huh
Should i run away from Home huh
Marriage no dey easy at all.
Is she pregnant?
Maybe first trimester?
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by skuribeebo: 6:37pm On Sep 01, 2021
Na Taliban lady u marry.
War everytime.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by Tannhauser(m): 6:37pm On Sep 01, 2021
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Shut up! I say shut up!! [b]Pregnancy doesn't cause madness. [/b]You people should stop attributing I'll behaviour with pregnancy.
grin grin grin grin grin
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by MansoryMX(m): 6:38pm On Sep 01, 2021
Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what huh
Should i run away from Home huh
Marriage no dey easy at all.
Omooorrr your case worst pass my own

Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by goldman777: 6:38pm On Sep 01, 2021
anthonyuncle:
i perceive mammy water here
Lolzz
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by omoadeleye(m):
Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...








Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what huh
Should i run away from Home huh
Marriage no dey easy at all.
Arh arh arh,

Your wife has been possessed.

You need to employ the service of someone like John Constantine or Geralt to help you to perform exorcism on her.
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by OgogoroFreak(m): 6:38pm On Sep 01, 2021
grin
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by MediMedi(m): 6:39pm On Sep 01, 2021
are you not a vegetable manhuh Tell us your flaws towards her too
Re: She Is Pushing Me , My Wife Called Me A Vegetable - Read My Story by citadels(f): 6:39pm On Sep 01, 2021
Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...
She is possess take her for a deliverance
Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!



So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what huh
Should i run away from Home huh
Marriage no dey easy at all.
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