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Jess even me this matter over me, papa ijeoma won run mad. I they even pity am.

I go just give una the story how my client give me..

My name is papa ijeoma, I have three kids. A daughter and two son, the girl is the first. I Am just a road side mechanic managing life with my family though am normally busy so I do come back in the night.

For twelve years of marriage I have never had issue with my wife nor-suspected any mistrust or cheat. We have live very happy not until on Tuesday(2days back) when I came back from work very early and it was because she is hosting their women wing ex-co meeting in the house that day.

So when I came back she was in the kitchen as God would have it her fone was on the center table in parlour, the phone rang, it was on silence(but on vibration) so I was on call with one of my boys in the shop could not tell her to come and pick her call.

As soon as I drop my call I say to myself (this children have put their mother phone on silent again) not knowing she was the one that put it. I pick the phone to remove it from silent, I saw the miss call emma(I trust the wife wai I get for house die, so I no send) not up to 5second a message enter from this same emma via sms(you know android phone na them go pop up the sms untop for your screen).

I saw 'my world' sharply I open the sms and it was (my world you have been avoiding me why!! Have miss you lying beside me on my bed) immediately my eyes started turning me, my head began to hot like fire.

Sharply I enter watsap of which have never done before(though in my house we don't put security lock on phone my rules) I saw that same Emma again on WhatsApp message, I screw up-up and began to see message like hope you are taking care of my child Emma, because that is the name of my suppose last child.

So she name him after her ex-guy. I ran to her in the kitchen to confront her immediately she just knelt down and started crying uncontrollable and confessing that the last child is for her ex who came back from outside the country few years ago and started disturbing her. Have called her parent and my parent they say they we be coming by weekend.

She use advantage of me because she knew am a very quite person in nature.

Right now I just feel like dying don't know if I should divorce her quietly or forgive her, but she is claiming to be really sorry. (but Las-Las I love this woman die just don't know why she betray me like this).

Op I know say na you. still I will say what's on my mind now.

You (Papa Ijeoma) and I both know what that means. She didn't just cheat, but she trapped you (Papa Ijeoma) into a bad situation. Your (Papa Ijeoma) raising another guy’s kid. I don't think it gets worse than that or more humiliating.

No doubt you (Papa Ijeoma) will feel a sense of betrayal and a significant breach of trust.

This is undoubtedly a painful situation, so step softly and slowly.

PS: Fear women and fear who not fear women. #TheFutureIsFemale.

You guys and unverifiable stories...

Papa Ijeoma you are on your own o

Breeze111:
Jess even me this matter over me, papa ijeoma won run mad. I they even pity am. I go just give una the story how my client give me..
My name is papa ijeoma, I have three kids. A daughter and two son, the girl is the first. Am just a road side mechanic managing life with my family though am normally busy so I do come back in the night. For twelve years of marriage I have never had issue with my wife nor-suspected any mistrust or cheat. We have live very happy not until on Tuesday(2days back) when I came back from work very early and it was because she is hosting their women wing ex-co meeting in the house that day. So when I came back she was in the kitchen as God would have it her fone was on the center table in parlour, the phone rang, it was on silence(but on vibration) so I was on call with one of my boys in the shop could not tell her to come and pick her call. As soon as I drop my call I say to myself (this children have put their mother phone on silent again) not knowing she was the one that put it. I pick the phone to remove it from silent, I saw the miss call emma(I trust the wife wai I get for house die, so I no send) not up to 5second a message enter from this same emma via sms(you know android phone na them go pop up the sms untop for your screen). I saw 'my world' sharply I open the sms and it was (my world you have been avoiding me why!! Have miss you lying beside me on my bed) immediately my eyes started turning me, my head began to hot like fire. Sharply I enter watsap of which have never done before(though in my house we don't put security lock on phone my rules) I saw that same Emma again on WhatsApp message, I screw up-up and began to see message like hope you are taking care of my child Emma, because that is the name of my suppose last child. So she name him after her ex-guy. I ran to her in the kitchen to confront her immediately she just knelt down and started crying uncontrollable and confessing that the last child is for her ex who came back from outside the country few years ago and started disturbing her. Have called her parent and my parent they say they we be coming by weekend. She use advantage of me because she knew am a very quite person in nature. Right now I just feel like dying don't know if I should divorce her quietly or forgive her, but she is claiming to be really sorry. (but Las-Las I love this woman die just don't know why she betray me like this).

divorce the unfaithful woman and be happy raising your children as a separated couple, rather than being miserable parents to your children.,

No words.

Waiting for papa Ijeoma.

Baba , how can you forgive an adulterous wife who wickedly concealed the knowledge of her illegitimate child from you ? This woman has committed too many atrocities to be forgiven , and it's best you divorce her and have your peace.

Apart from that , she has been sleeping around, and who knows if she's infected with STD. I just pray your other legitimate children are not psychologically scarred by their mother's unfaithfulness to you

In my home town in anambra,any child born by a woman that was legally married belongs to the husband,no two ways about that,you can never come and claim a child born by a family woman,as for me I will divorce her and I will take the three kids.

edochie12:
In my home town in anambra,any child born by a woman that was legally married belongs to the husband,no two ways about that,you can never come and claim a child born by a family woman,as for me I will divorce her and I will take the three kids.

did you say the "three" kids... even the one that aint biologically yours?!

Seems "I Do" means nothing to people these days. Too bad

Inside life...

If she is truly sorry, forgive her.
This life is too short to spend it unhappy, since you love her this much, forgive.

Emmanuel909090:
If she is truly sorry, forgive her.
This life is too short to spend unhappy, since you love her this much forgive.

your kind of person won't forgive her, so stop deceiving yourself

Wahala for any guyman wey make woman him best friend....Them no dey tell person na....It's either you understand the video by yourself or you learn through the hard way...

Op,no too rush......But Afa,are you still calling her your wife or your ex-wife?

Emmanuel909090:
If she is truly sorry, forgive her.
This life is too short to spend unhappy, since you love her this much forgive.

Guy,I swear if na for warri you take make this kind of statement,na small thing like these dey vex men dey pour fuel on people wey dey misyan like you........

Which kind mumu talk be this na

Sorry

Breeze111:
Jess even me this matter over me, papa ijeoma won run mad. I they even pity am. I go just give una the story how my client give me..
My name is papa ijeoma, I have three kids. A daughter and two son, the girl is the first. Am just a road side mechanic managing life with my family though am normally busy so I do come back in the night. For twelve years of marriage I have never had issue with my wife nor-suspected any mistrust or cheat. We have live very happy not until on Tuesday(2days back) when I came back from work very early and it was because she is hosting their women wing ex-co meeting in the house that day. So when I came back she was in the kitchen as God would have it her fone was on the center table in parlour, the phone rang, it was on silence(but on vibration) so I was on call with one of my boys in the shop could not tell her to come and pick her call. As soon as I drop my call I say to myself (this children have put their mother phone on silent again) not knowing she was the one that put it. I pick the phone to remove it from silent, I saw the miss call emma(I trust the wife wai I get for house die, so I no send) not up to 5second a message enter from this same emma via sms(you know android phone na them go pop up the sms untop for your screen). I saw 'my world' sharply I open the sms and it was (my world you have been avoiding me why!! Have miss you lying beside me on my bed) immediately my eyes started turning me, my head began to hot like fire. Sharply I enter watsap of which have never done before(though in my house we don't put security lock on phone my rules) I saw that same Emma again on WhatsApp message, I screw up-up and began to see message like hope you are taking care of my child Emma, because that is the name of my suppose last child. So she name him after her ex-guy. I ran to her in the kitchen to confront her immediately she just knelt down and started crying uncontrollable and confessing that the last child is for her ex who came back from outside the country few years ago and started disturbing her. Have called her parent and my parent they say they we be coming by weekend. She use advantage of me because she knew am a very quite person in nature. Right now I just feel like dying don't know if I should divorce her quietly or forgive her, but she is claiming to be really sorry. (but Las-Las I love this woman die just don't know why she betray me like this).

Jeez

MrBrownJay1:
did you say the "three" kids... even the one that aint biologically yours?!

it is our culture and tradition,you have to accept the child,.

Breeze111:
Jess even me this matter over me, papa ijeoma won run mad. I they even pity am. I go just give una the story how my client give me..
My name is papa ijeoma, I have three kids. A daughter and two son, the girl is the first. Am just a road side mechanic managing life with my family though am normally busy so I do come back in the night. For twelve years of marriage I have never had issue with my wife nor-suspected any mistrust or cheat. We have live very happy not until on Tuesday(2days back) when I came back from work very early and it was because she is hosting their women wing ex-co meeting in the house that day. So when I came back she was in the kitchen as God would have it her fone was on the center table in parlour, the phone rang, it was on silence(but on vibration) so I was on call with one of my boys in the shop could not tell her to come and pick her call. As soon as I drop my call I say to myself (this children have put their mother phone on silent again) not knowing she was the one that put it. I pick the phone to remove it from silent, I saw the miss call emma(I trust the wife wai I get for house die, so I no send) not up to 5second a message enter from this same emma via sms(you know android phone na them go pop up the sms untop for your screen). I saw 'my world' sharply I open the sms and it was (my world you have been avoiding me why!! Have miss you lying beside me on my bed) immediately my eyes started turning me, my head began to hot like fire. Sharply I enter watsap of which have never done before(though in my house we don't put security lock on phone my rules) I saw that same Emma again on WhatsApp message, I screw up-up and began to see message like hope you are taking care of my child Emma, because that is the name of my suppose last child. So she name him after her ex-guy. I ran to her in the kitchen to confront her immediately she just knelt down and started crying uncontrollable and confessing that the last child is for her ex who came back from outside the country few years ago and started disturbing her. Have called her parent and my parent they say they we be coming by weekend. She use advantage of me because she knew am a very quite person in nature. Right now I just feel like dying don't know if I should divorce her quietly or forgive her, but she is claiming to be really sorry. (but Las-Las I love this woman die just don't know why she betray me like this).

Absolutely ridiculously FAKE story.

No be only Papa Ijeoma. What about Papa Mgbeke?

Take heart bro, though I know say na cooked up tori.

I fear VuLva people ooh

Just because Papa Ijeoma is a roadside
mechanic and he is not always at home.

I come dey wonder for those men when dey Spare part market dey hustle from morning till evening leaving their wives at home........someone must be servicing those women before their sparepart husbands return home in d evening.

Sparepart men should better start questioning the Authenticity of the paternity of their children....

I was enjoying the fake story until it got to the part where the OP claimed his wife saved her lover's name as 'Emma'. This right here is a big fat lie! Also, a cheating woman will not put password or pattern on her phone? Haba! Abeg tell us another lie nau.

Even an amateur in the cheating business wouldn't even make such mistake. Talk less of someone who has cheated to the level of bearing a child for his lover. She would have stored that number with 'Mama Emma'.

Make una dey try put salt and maggi for this una fake story nau. It's too bland.

End time news

Emmanuel909090:
If she is truly sorry, forgive her.
This life is too short to spend unhappy, since you love her this much forgive.

people like you die earlier because of woman!

Sonnobax15:
Guy,I swear if na for warri you take make this kind of statement,na small thing like these dey vex men dey pour fuel on people wey dey misyan like you........

Which kind mumu talk be this na

dat one na she goat!

Nawa ooooooo.......


Well as for me you can do all you want but once i have climbed you, no room for excuses if you later cheat.....

I can forgive your past before we meet after then no stories......

Lastly i be that kind person wey be say once you cheat my instincts go tell me.....

If you love her, forgive and move on. Though I'm not always comfortable living with such backstabbers. Follow your mind.

Don't forgive her,she is a bich and she took u for a fool. So many ladies have hurt me in the past,present. I just move along,but mother nature never forgets,God never forgets and God sees your heart. My guy go do DNA test for the rest to be sure,pls dont take her back. She is fuc king diff men outside and u r comfy with it. Women are useless and I feel no pity when they get killed by their lover,husband . Bastard s

I will make such both families know what she to avoid lies in the future but I wouldn't divorce her. For the rest of my life she will doing everything to please me.

Fake stories everywhere all in an attempt to shame women

Mercychen:
If you love her, forgive and move on. Though I'm not always comfortable living with such backstabbers. Follow your mind.

It is either you are guilty of the same thing or it is something that you too can do.