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MrBrownJay1:
you CANT cheat on the people you truly love, because if you indeed truly loved someone, you wouldn't knowingly hurt them by cheating. sadly, many people fall out of love or pretend/lie that they love someone when in reality they don't.

if you don't care about your partner's feeling; if you don't respect your partner/relationship; if you are ready and willing to throw your r/ship into the dustbin then you can't call that love

Cudeze4:
I don't really see any reason why someone who is in love should cheat, although most of them have different stupid reasons why they cheat.
some will say, she's not giving me sex, some will say i need to test another person.(My brother shey na market?).
If you are truely in LOVE, you wouldn't cheat the one whom you love bcuz you know it'll break his/her. And as far as i know, ''TRUE LOVE DOESN'T CAUSE HEARTBREAK''

Cudeze4:
If you still allow yourself to willingly fall into temptation and then open your mouth and say ''cuz i sleep with another woman doesn't mean i don't love my wife'' then you are the one who needs to grow up. Imagine your dad doing it to your mum, when you are done imagining, give me feedback, little one.

Can u swear with ur life ur father has only slept with ur mother. Ask him,he will tell u,well dats if he thinks you are old enough to understand him

Ayo2004:
Men are designed to disect more than one toto,it gets worse when they are rich and are able to attract any toto of their choice
For those saying some men don't cheat (very rare especially among the rich ones),those ones are denying themselves,trying their possible best,trying to override their natural instincts not to cheat
It is not a matter of love
A man usually loves one woman with his heart but his gbola is for plenty women
It's not about love.
He has met a pretty girl who he wants to explore her Toto,booty and titties until he moves on to the next one but his heart dey with one woman.Sex is not emotional for most men.

As for women too,they are designed to always look for better,they cheat on their boyfriends and husbands when in love because they met a richer,more handsome,cuter,bigger gbola and so on. because they always want more except the ones that cant just do without sex
That's why pretty ladies cheat more than ugly girls because they always meet a guy with more but an ugly girl will hold on to one guy if she manages to see him self
Women (especially the pretty ones) who don't cheat are the ones that are able to control their level of materialism and greed (Nigerian girls left the group chat ) and direct that attention to that one gbola.Most pretty women cheat one way or the other
It's not about love
Women want to chop life without working too hard
This is why your pretty babe will japa once she sees a guy with a clean Benz(and she will,if she is the Nicki Minaj type)
It's nothing personal,just business
For most women,comfort>love

My conclusion is it is almost impossible to find a rich and famous guy guy or an extremely pretty girl with those ass and curves who doesn't cheat especially in Nigeria.In short,please ,never fall in love in Nigeria
Treat your partner right,take care of them but always put in the back of your mind that your so called lover can serve you breakfast anytime.Hence,don't do pass yourself
Don't spend pass yourself
Don't kill yourself for anybody.
But many of una no dey hear word

I am a guy so I advice my fellow Nigerian men to please follow their natural instincts.If you have a sexy lover and see a sexier one,please fvck am.Do not keep killing yourself inside with "I must be loyal"
A lion should act like a lion

Ayo2004:
Men are designed to disect more than one toto,it gets worse when they are rich and are able to attract any toto of their choice
For those saying some men don't cheat (very rare especially among the rich ones),those ones are denying themselves,trying their possible best,trying to override their natural instincts not to cheat
It is not a matter of love
A man usually loves one woman with his heart but his gbola is for plenty women
It's not about love.
He has met a pretty girl who he wants to explore her Toto,booty and titties until he moves on to the next one but his heart dey with one woman.Sex is not emotional for most men.

As for women too,they are designed to always look for better,they cheat on their boyfriends and husbands when in love because they met a richer,more handsome,cuter,bigger gbola and so on. because they always want more except the ones that cant just do without sex
That's why pretty ladies cheat more than ugly girls because they always meet a guy with more but an ugly girl will hold on to one guy if she manages to see him self
Women (especially the pretty ones) who don't cheat are the ones that are able to control their level of materialism and greed (Nigerian girls left the group chat ) and direct that attention to that one gbola.Most pretty women cheat one way or the other
It's not about love
Women want to chop life without working too hard
This is why your pretty babe will japa once she sees a guy with a clean Benz(and she will,if she is the Nicki Minaj type)
It's nothing personal,just business
For most women,comfort>love

My conclusion is it is almost impossible to find a rich and famous guy guy or an extremely pretty girl with those ass and curves who doesn't cheat especially in Nigeria.In short,please ,never fall in love in Nigeria
Treat your partner right,take care of them but always put in the back of your mind that your so called lover can serve you breakfast anytime.Hence,don't do pass yourself
Don't spend pass yourself
Don't kill yourself for anybody.
But many of una no dey hear word

I am a guy so I advice my fellow Nigerian men to please follow their natural instincts.If you have a sexy lover and see a sexier one,please fvck am.Do not keep killing yourself inside with "I must be loyal"
A lion should act like a lion

Lollittaa:
100%@ the bolded. Our unfaithfulness to those we claim to love stems from our unfaithfulness to God.

Lollittaa:
love is kind. How can you love someone thoroughly on one hand and boldly break their heart? That's a paradox. Love doesn't cheat. Period.

OnGod2021:
Tbvh..You deserve this

Ayo2004:
Men are designed to disect more than one toto,it gets worse when they are rich and are able to attract any toto of their choice
For those saying some men don't cheat (very rare especially among the rich ones),those ones are denying themselves,trying their possible best,trying to override their natural instincts not to cheat
It is not a matter of love
A man usually loves one woman with his heart but his gbola is for plenty women
It's not about love.
He has met a pretty girl who he wants to explore her Toto,booty and titties until he moves on to the next one but his heart dey with one woman.Sex is not emotional for most men.

As for women too,they are designed to always look for better,they cheat on their boyfriends and husbands when in love because they met a richer,more handsome,cuter,bigger gbola and so on. because they always want more except the ones that cant just do without sex
That's why pretty ladies cheat more than ugly girls because they always meet a guy with more but an ugly girl will hold on to one guy if she manages to see him self
Women (especially the pretty ones) who don't cheat are the ones that are able to control their level of materialism and greed (Nigerian girls left the group chat ) and direct that attention to that one gbola.Most pretty women cheat one way or the other
It's not about love
Women want to chop life without working too hard
This is why your pretty babe will japa once she sees a guy with a clean Benz(and she will,if she is the Nicki Minaj type)
It's nothing personal,just business
For most women,comfort>love

My conclusion is it is almost impossible to find a rich and famous guy guy or an extremely pretty girl with those ass and curves who doesn't cheat especially in Nigeria.In short,please ,never fall in love in Nigeria
Treat your partner right,take care of them but always put in the back of your mind that your so called lover can serve you breakfast anytime.Hence,don't do pass yourself
Don't spend pass yourself
Don't kill yourself for anybody.
But many of una no dey hear word

I am a guy so I advice my fellow Nigerian men to please follow their natural instincts.If you have a sexy lover and see a sexier one,please fvck am.Do not keep killing yourself inside with "I must be loyal"
A lion should act like a lion

OhMyGodWtf:
Dont get it wrong or ever make that mistake of thinking that you cannot cheat on someone you truly love.. you will and you can

ugodson:

Can u swear with ur life ur father has only slept with ur mother. Ask him,he will tell u,well dats if he thinks you are old enough to understand him

jully29:
Thanks for this. Please let them know o.

manigold:
Let’s not judge him. He’s doing his best to bear out his mind. The act of cheating is an act of disrespect not the absence of affection. Ever wonder why the phrase, ‘love and respect’ exists?

Beebah2000:
Why do people still cheat on people they truly love??

OhMyGodWtf:
Dont get it wrong or ever make that mistake of thinking that you cannot cheat on someone you truly love.. you will and you can

GboyegaD:
Hmm dis matter get as e be.
One thing though is life happens. People cheat not because they don't truly love their partners but for personal reasons.

Cudeze4:
Yea, sure. Trust me i'm here for them.

Beebah2000:
Why do people still cheat on people they truly love??

shomutuski:
Ask my babe, she cheated too

plaetton:
BS.
All living organisms are primarily driven by instincts to survive. The urge to procreate are permanently woven into the DNA of all living creatures.
The method and degree to which this primordial instinct is acted put depends on individual species.
Knowing that, it becomes a bit obvious that monogamy is not wired into our DNA, rather monogamy is an adaptation to social norms, adopted at certain points in the history of different cultures.
Polygamy is still lega and practiced in many cultures within and outside Africa. Even in culture where it not practiced, there is this thing called ' Divorce ' , a convenient substitute for Polygamy or non- monogamous life.
The Divorce rates in non-poligamous cultures tell us the same story- that monogamy is forced tradition against our inherent nature.

Now, men and women see and feel romance and intimacy in different lights.
I can't speak for women, but men are polygamous by nature.
Wanting to have more than one woman has little to do with how a man loves his main partner or spouse . It is basic instinct , wired into our brains and hormones.
Now, a man can try as much to subdue his basic instincts to stay faithful to a partner or spouse . However, how long he can keep winning that fight against his basic instincts depends on a whole lot other factors and variables, most of which are beyond his control.

Owopariola01:
Love is not about sex alone. And the ultimate true love is loving yourself.
That is, people that don't cheat because they claim to love their partners, only do so, not because they really love their partners, but because they don't want to lose their partners when their partners find out they are cheating.
This implies that they don't want to hurt themselves by losing their partners when they are found cheating, not because they really love their partners.
If their partners would get hurt but won't leave them, they will certainly cheat.

DSHADOWWALKER:
your words have no logic to it.So you mean a philanderer by nature who has always slept with women of all sizesand get urges for women of different stages will stop gettjng those urges because he loves someone?? You people are so funny

Solofresh2:
As a man that can't control his sexual orges, you can actually cheat on your partner if she is not around but that doesn't mean you don't love her
The problem with people like this is that they can't control their sexual orges
Note that Loving someone geniunely has nothing to do with sex
Sex is love but lust

mrdino:
This is not a matter of love, old habits are very difficult to break, especially the ones that comes with pleasure. Once a person has cultivated the habit of cheating (especially when he/she has gotten away with it before), it will be very difficult to stop. Cheating itself is addictive.

authority2006:
Lol. You are more than confused about the topic. Decision not to cheat is not because you love your partner, but because it is your personal decision not to cheat. It has nothing to do with who you love.

Sapiosexuality:
I disagree. I think love is emotional and mental and sex is physical. People don't cheat because they don't love their partners but because they want to satisfy their bodily needs.

socialmediaman:
Do you love your parents? Do you disobey them and feel remorseful?
Do you love God? Do you disobey him and feel sorry?

pseudonomer:
You can cheat on you love truly as a man. All men know that.

OhMyGodWtf:
Dont get it wrong or ever make that mistake of thinking that you cannot cheat on someone you truly love.. you will and you can

Beebah2000:
can't you ask her yourself?

shomutuski:
Why did you cheat on me with him? you didnt even let him fvck you, Always linking him @ radisson

RexTramadol1:
If u want to shag mercilessly...... na outside babe sure cos u fit choke am as u want, do all kind dangerous game




But person wey u love and marry....... na treat with caution oh!


She gaz be treated with respect and dignity



Na Omo olomo u fit do Shaka Shaka