chatinent:
Dear Deputy Boyfriend,

Anybody wey love you no go dey give en number out to another man, let alone dey hear chyking.

- Chatinent, 2021.

na wah ooo so we don dey get deputy boyfriend, make I go check my own now, thank you for this quote

The way Nairaland guys give advice ehnn you will think all of them are hard guy

She is indirectly telling you that you are wasting time o

OP, she's not sleeping with any other guy and she's not trying to show you the door, she's just trying to tell you to act fast. Do you want to wife her or otherwise, if otherwise, don't waste her time.

NybenSBF101:
She is indirectly telling you that you are wasting time o

Gbam

BigDawsNet:
That's definition of Love and Trust...

She has dedicated her heart to you...

If you guys are ripe...why don't you marry her right away...

If you not ripe yet...why don't you commit to a real and lovable relationship...treat her well...

Sho normal sha?

chatinent:
Dear Deputy Boyfriend,

Anybody wey love you no go dey give en number out to another man, let alone dey hear chyking.

- Chatinent, 2021.

Hahahhahahaha

constance500:


Make I park this one here

Haha

Sonnobax15:

After yellow card, chebi na red card?

Op, she's only yellow-carding you so that if you venture fvck up,na red-card she go just knack you....

Like seriously,I warned my banny not to show me such shiit the very moment she wanted to show me her nonsense screenshot . Na me you wor give mumu heartbreak . Abi you wor try tell me say you get suitors wey dey disturb you

she wan tell you say she get other men lining up. So, situp.

Common sense no common ,do your thing and leave

debbydams:
see don't mind this people above oo ..she's telling u she's loyal and for a lady to screenshot her chats means she loves you,I dont think she's showing you yellow card..she loves u,u can tell her to stop doing that..as a lady she truly loves you..don't listen to all this nl o..



If I'm in love t I don't hide anything form my man even my password.. Your babe is bn plain

Did you say “if”?

So e get people una dey date you aren't in love with?

Chai. Nwoke atala ahụhụ.

Sunisonflex39:
You are a Simp.. For bringing this here. U are a Simp..

Red pillars will know Howfa..
Oga u are a simp

Ha. Uncle cool down na no bi gidigbo.

Relax your mind, agu.

adedayoa2:
OP, she's not sleeping with any other guy and she's not trying to show you the door, she's just trying to tell you to act fast. Do you want to wife her or otherwise, if otherwise, don't waste her time.

This is a military lady speaking. If you never marry, I like you. Talk your own.

chatinent:
Dear Deputy Boyfriend,

Anybody wey love you no go dey give en number out to another man, let alone dey hear chyking.

- Chatinent, 2021.

ok, oga

chatinent:
Dear Deputy Boyfriend,

Anybody wey love you no go dey give en number out to another man, let alone dey hear chyking.

- Chatinent, 2021.

I was reasoning that way too. [color=#990000][/color]

Magnoliaa:
She only shows you the chats? What does she say about it?

she said I should not even think what am thinking that she is just showing me the way guys are disturbing her

Lol.. Pretend like you not interested but Monitor them well oo.. If you loose guard the guy fit knack your babe

Download whats web from Google Play store on your phone, find a way to scan your babe WhatsApp on your phone via the app.. Any message wey dey enter her WhatsApp you go dey see am for your phone too even if she dey another state .. But go settings put the notification on silent .. The Lord be with you

No funny shit, but na only the one wey she wan show you she dey show you so STFU and stop feeling like a boss.

Nanpon96:
she said I should not even think what am thinking that she is just showing me the way guys are disturbing her

I thought you were never going to respond. But toor, nobody knows the character of your girl here. The guys are just speaking based on stereotype and if you went to follow what they are saying, you just might spoil your relationship. Guys are insatiable. Here's a woman even showing you screenshots of guys asking her out, and they are still condemning her and saying there are others she isn't showing you. Na wa o. If she was hiding her phone from you nko?

IMO, if that girl doesn't trust you and isn't free with you, she would not be showing you the chats of her chykers. It's something I can do and would like it if my partner is that open with me as well.

She shows you her response to them as well na? Don't use assumptions and insecurity to create issues where they aren't. Just gist and laugh over it, as it could even strengthen the bond between you too.

As long as there are no red flags about her, I don't see a problem.

She is telling u to start parking your bag.

Competition will awaken you.
She has one foot out the door now.
Good luck in winning her heart 100% if she's truly worth the effort.

Bro all this guy's wey dey advise you here, no dey surprise say na one of them dey even chat with your girlfriend... so just follow your heart instead of bringing your relationship issues here

BigDawsNet:
That's definition of Love and Trust...

She has dedicated her heart to you...

If you guys are ripe...why don't you marry her right away...

If you not ripe yet...why don't you commit to a real and lovable relationship...treat her well...

See advice wey you dey give your fellow man! How is that definition of Love and Trust? Any girl who does this has big comma. Cause the truth is, no be only one guy dey chyke babe. The fact she's showing you screenshot of one or two is a sign she is already entertaining other suitors but wants to feign faithful

GrinCitrus:



Na so ..old man for love.na how many wives you get ?

Na "wives" be proof say you no be novice for love? Lmao. Brother, the fact that you can fall for a millennial scam like this shows you still have a long way to go in matters of the heart and love. You will learn soon enough

Pegi23:
She love u that's why

Big lie. If she loves him, she will block that guy and stop sending the chats to her guy. If she loves him, her guy will see these chats himself, when he is allowed access to her phone, without his asking for it. A lady who "selects" chats to show her boyfriend is a very shady lady. Most definitely, those are chats from guys she doesn't fancy. Rarely, those are chats from guys she's hooked up to as well. Any guy who falls for these scams you ladies put forward is a big fool

purples25:


The same for me. I have politely told him to stop asking me to come around. I asked him politely because he is crazily relentless. He has been coming back every year for some years now. New number every time. Always I say no because I know he doesn't have any plan for me.

I have someone who is so focused on me. I wonder why a Bleep boy thinks I will leave that person and follow him. One day my guy checked my phone and I said 'check everything, that is the guy that always asks me to come whenever his flight brings him to Abuja.' I showed him everything, revealed all.

I don't think OP should suspect his gf. I do that too, I am only trying to show that I am not hiding anything. So what would make op satisfied? She's baring it all now, guys said she isn't faithful. If she hides too or doesn't say anything, she's still bad.

This is a clear case of honesty. What guys are saying about that girl is unfair. Everything they think is biased and twisted. Always thinking evil of women. Very bad!

Baring it? But na few guys' chats she dey send for am? What's the essence of sending sef? It's a stupid and foolish way to prove one is faithful. Someone who desperately wants to prove that he or she is faithful, definitely has something up his or her sleeves. This same lady will totally frown at her boyfriend, if he tries to check her phone unexpectedly. Even if she is truly faithful, what does she want her boyfriend to do about those chats? It's undermining tbh. He doesn't need it

Psychology

debbydams:
see don't mind this people above oo ..she's telling u she's loyal and for a lady to screenshot her chats means she loves you,I dont think she's showing you yellow card..she loves u,u can tell her to stop doing that..as a lady she truly loves you..don't listen to all this nl o..



If I'm in love t I don't hide anything form my man even my password.. Your babe is bn plain

"Not hiding password" is a totally different thing. This particular lady though, most likely has a password to her phone that her bf doesn't know. This trick is an age long trick that women have mastered effortlessly. I don't need to see screenshotted chats to know that guys are wooing my babe. For her to send one or two to me, just shows there's something fishy and she just wants me not to suspect. My ex used to do same thing as OP said. But when I tried to use her phone, she declined and became uncomfortable. I pity guys wey no sabi una sha. Na heartbreak dey wait for them

Ten to one, she’s already polished his knob.

adedayoa2:
OP, she's not sleeping with any other guy and she's not trying to show you the door, she's just trying to tell you to act fast. Do you want to wife her or otherwise, if otherwise, don't waste her time.

Stupid way to put pressure on her guy. Women plenty abeg. If relationship don dey tire the babe, she can say it directly and go for who's ready. Na ladies' work be that sha. Another woman with sense will come along. Soldier go, soldier come

Nanpon96:
she said I should not even think what am thinking that she is just showing me the way guys are disturbing her

Omo. A very bad sign. Dey comot your heart small small for the relationship. It would soon end in tears. I don't need to see chats to know that guys are disturbing my babe. Any babe wey guys no dey disturb is either very ugly or very dirty. Same thing with guys sef. The fact say guy dey relationship no mean say some ladies no go dey show green light. It's normal. She doesn't need to be showing your those chats. It's a disaster waiting to happen