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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Mecka: 7:02pm On Sep 19, 2021

bukatyne:

This thread is shocking!

Same people clamouring that adulthood starts at 18 are sooooooooo convinced that a 19yr old is not adult enough to care for a baby.

Would it be rough? Yes!

But the guy is ready to face the consequences.

See them supporting abortion as if it would change the fact the girlfriend is/was pregnant.

what are you saying. There are 19yrs old babies and 19yrs men. You don't know him from adam

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Suzie1(f): 7:02pm On Sep 19, 2021

Ayanwukoma:

So I should let them go and abort my child tomorrow?
Sorry sir I can't do that, even though am young I will fight for my right.

That child is my offspring, I won't let her mom terminate it because of her assumptions about me.

We are both same age groups, I am older than her with 3 months

She called me crying, I can't tell from her voice she doesn't want to do it.

Fornication and abortion are shameful acts and sins against your body.

However, you're shouting here not because you loved the lady in question but because your ego was broken. You're angry because you couldn't control the situation (as you already perceived yourself as a man and maybe your parents do help you to pamper your ego). That's why you're acting like a victim (thinking it's because you're not rich).

In 2 years time, you will stop loving the girl (even if at all you loved her, to start with) you will blame her for being pregnant etc. You have no respect and it contributes to the fear of uncertainties her Mum already has.

The girl needs help, a godly mentor to help her see the future using the powerful women's intuition.

Conclusively, ask God for forgiveness, pray for wisdom and understanding of situations. Work on becoming better in the future. I believe that before the day break tomorrow, her mum could have a change of mind but YOU'RE NOT ENTITLED TO THE BABY.

You know you're doing this gragra too because of your broken "ego". Be humbled, stop feeling like a victim. Have an ambition and be passionate about it first.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by AuroraB(f): 7:03pm On Sep 19, 2021

VTJN:

God forbid, God forbid. If na me this nonsense happen to eh i swear i go kill this guy 3 times

If the girl's parents should forge her birth certificate and reduce her age to16. Get this nuisance arrested... ensure he spend some years in prison... he'll turn a pastor when he gets out angry

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by foreverproduct: 7:06pm On Sep 19, 2021

I lack words to advice you OP. Some problems as best avoided but una no go hear.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by BarrElChapo(m): 7:07pm On Sep 19, 2021

VTJN:
You expected the parents to allow their daughter have a child for such a person? Then she becomes a single mother at 18 or thereabout? When it get to your turn. Pamper and preserve your daughter and the foetus since na Dangote or Otedola your daughter go born for you

I won't have the unborn child killed if thats what you're asking. Ok Bye

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by drmuchin: 7:07pm On Sep 19, 2021

Ayanwukoma:

My parents will do that, they are happy about it and I do work also.
Just not financialy strong to get my own place yet, am still Young hoping to get admission next year to further my studies.

I have dreams.

Joseph the Dreamer!

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 7:13pm On Sep 19, 2021

ParkleElegant:

Your story they vex me.. E be like say make I flog u!!! Can u imagine!!! U can't b bold to to take care of ursv but u bold enough to get someone pregnant under ur parent roof.. N still have the mouth to say your parents will take care of ur child u bore out of ur stupidity n carelessness ... Tufiakwa!! U think Naija nah Abroad abi kwantinue

Person na Tout and Agbero wetin you expect from am. His parents ain't responsible. Like parents like son. If this kind one carry him smelly dick near my door step eh. I go stangle am asap wink

Let him go and be cutting his ticket in the grave

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by neztar: 7:16pm On Sep 19, 2021

mariahAngel:

Proud that he is ready to stand up to his responsibility and face the consequences.

His undefeated spirit is his motivation.

Next time reason well b4 you vommit. Stop defending a ghost

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 7:18pm On Sep 19, 2021

NnamdiN:
Wonders shall never end walahi. No bride price, no marriage, no traditional rites, no court marriage and shame gree you dey type my child upandan
If I were the girls dad, I'd shoot you on sight.

Exactly what i would do

I will kill him 3 times sef. Shameless tout and Agbero from an irresponsible home

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by mariahAngel(f): 7:18pm On Sep 19, 2021

neztar:
Next time reason well b4 you vommit. Stop defending a ghost

You’ll be alright. grin

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Offpoint1: 7:20pm On Sep 19, 2021

The audacity...
You ruin my baby girl life and still have the audacity to bring thugs to my house... I'll have you murder in the most gruesome way never known to mankind.

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Ayanwukoma: 7:24pm On Sep 19, 2021

Offpoint1:
The audacity...
You ruin my baby girl life and still have the audacity to bring thugs to my house... I'll have you murder in the most gruesome way never known to mankind.

No, not to constitute nuisance, you all got me wrong.
I spoked with the street vice chairman about it which he suggested we should go and have a sit down with her parents.

Since I have limited time to convince my own parents to go and plea on my behalf.(especially my dad)

The thing is you all mistaking me mentioning community youths as street touts and urchins saying we are going there to fight, that's wrong.

We have alot of responsible adults in my community that are well respected, and I believe if her mum sees them and they made an input she may likely change her decision.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 7:25pm On Sep 19, 2021

Newboss:
Guy, abortion is illegal in Nigeria.

If you really want that child to be born, GET THE COMMUNITY INVOLVED IMMEDIATELY.

You may be a street guy but that child is not a street guy. Let's be reasonable when passing judgements on others. Make sure you get justice for your child. If na to burn down their house, so be it. Them dey craze?

I support abortion 100% if both parties agree to it.

Keep deceiving yourself baba. Whether abortion is legal or illegal. She's not having the child if her parents stands on it.

Even Yorubas are wiser now. Na before if them give Yoruba girl belle gbam the person automatically becomes her husband wink

You go die for jail you never know memememe in naira mail's voice cheesy

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Chris2863(m): 7:25pm On Sep 19, 2021

the woman is right

Davash222:

You see why her mom said you're a tout?

You want to take boys to their house to constitute nuisance.

Gbola = Active
Sense = inactive

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Myke99: 7:26pm On Sep 19, 2021

Na mad people full nairaland I swear. Someone is seeking for advice all u guys can do is to insult him one way or the other. If u can’t advice him just shut the Bleep up

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by benson81(m): 7:27pm On Sep 19, 2021

Ayanwukoma:

My parents will do that, they are happy about it and I do work also.
Just not financialy strong to get my own place yet, am still Young hoping to get admission next year to further my studies.

I have dreams.

and your dreams included sticking ur pen in juicy kitten and getting someone's young girl pregnant. Joseph the dreamer boy grin

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by neztar: 7:27pm On Sep 19, 2021

mariahAngel:

I’ll be alright.

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by mariahAngel(f): 7:30pm On Sep 19, 2021

neztar:

I am.

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 7:33pm On Sep 19, 2021

Liposure:
miss congi nawa 4 u o

Congi kii you there cheesy

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 7:35pm On Sep 19, 2021

Ayanwukoma:

Thank you very much sir.
I will

See this Tout, Agbero and Ticket cutter dey find pikin cheesy

Even a mad man will rather die than for his or her daughter to have a child for a Tout from an irresponsible home

No go start jamb lesson and prepare to write jamb and go to school. I wonder wetin you take has the poor girl sef to open her legs for you

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Pumpumking: 7:36pm On Sep 19, 2021

Pegi23:
Jesus. Op you might be out of your sense oo u want to destroy the girl future abi...19years old what did u know about fatherhood,what about the world (u know nothing) u are still collecting feeding money from your parents

You are a tout for thinking of taking touts to their house...the girl is mad for opening legs for a jobless boy..you can't take care of her and that's the truth stop thinking about the present think of the future period... abortion is bad tho I don't support it but the parents decision is good and the best..I hope the girl isn't underage oo because if she is ehh I will advice they should lock u up

Why are u blaming jesus again?...
U really need helps.
Please are u ok? undecided

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Newboss(m): 7:37pm On Sep 19, 2021

VTJN:
Keep deceiving yourself baba. Whether abortion is legal or illegal. She's not having the child if her parents stands on it.

Even Yorubas are wiser now. Na before if them give Yoruba girl belle gbam the person automatically becomes her husband

You go die for jail you never know memememe in naira mail's voice

Deceiving myself? You don't know how much Nigerians hate the word "abortion". They can even lynch a person for abortion.

If the guy wanted the abortion, no problem. But the girl's family cannot make that decision alone. He did not rape her. He should get the community involved. It's only at community level that there is justice for the common man because Nigerian police can be bought

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 7:44pm On Sep 19, 2021

Ayanwukoma:

My parents will do that, they are happy about it and I do work also.
Just not financialy strong to get my own place yet, am still Young hoping to get admission next year to further my studies.

I have dreams.

You get dream and you dey do Agbero work. You get dream and you be tout? You get dream you dey follow woman at your tender age? You get dream you dey get erection to the extend of having sexual intercourse with someone child you are not married to? You get dream you carry your dick go impregnate somebody child? Person wey no be your wife o? You get dream and you dey look for how the poor girl go keep the pregnancy because you be agbero or something?

This your dream na only you and yours go believe yourself. No one else

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 7:48pm On Sep 19, 2021

Newboss:

Deceiving myself? You don't know how much Nigerians hate the word "abortion". They can even lynch a person for abortion.

If the guy wanted the abortion, no problem. But the girl's family cannot make that decision alone. He did not rape her. He should get the community involved. It's only at community level that there is justice for the common man because Nigerian police can be bought

Guy wake up and stop having this myopic mentality. The guy has no say to someone's child. He's a tout and Agbero. He wasn't married to her legally or otherwise

You go just recieve correct beating of your life with this your woke mentality. Except You try the nonsense with family wey no get sense

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 7:58pm On Sep 19, 2021

Davash222:

You have dreams of impregnating people's daughter

The baby guy na he goat

He deserves life imprisonment

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Newboss(m): 7:59pm On Sep 19, 2021

VTJN:
Guy wake up and stop having this myopic mentality. The guy has no say to someone's child. He's a tout and Agbero. He wasn't married to her legally or otherwise

You go just recieve correct beating of your life with this your woke mentality. Except You try the nonsense with family wey no get sense

Woke for supporting my fellow man? Guy, you're a lost cause.

My last reply to you

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 8:03pm On Sep 19, 2021

Ayanwukoma:

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.

Guy forget that girl and the pregnancy. Let them do whatever they wanna do to it. Nobody will allow their daughter have such child

It will not only affect the girls future and possibly the child as you no get money. The thought of having a child for you an Agbero and a tout is mind boggling. To cap it All, your parents are even in support of you. That shows you are not from a good home and your parents are not responsible

Na all these things they look to decide to help their precious daughter life before one tout turn her to single mother

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Magnoliaa(f): 8:06pm On Sep 19, 2021

Myke99:
Na mad people full nairaland I swear. Someone is seeking for advice all u guys can do is to insult him one way or the other. If u can’t advice him just shut the Bleep up

Asinnnnnnnn. Very mad people. Ani no be we pornhub say we be the number 1 visitors for their site abi watin?? The attitude is disgusting, especially amongst adults. It's some very complex shit, in always wanting to belittle young ones, as they continue the circle of forced respect and legality their parents imposed on them.

And surprisingly for countries wey abortion dey legalised, their women no dey abort. Instead of looking for solutions and doing something, they'll rather punctuate on morality and talk about how teens are doing this and that and castigate. When they do pass themselves. Abi is it not the same people littering NL with their trolling and drivel upandan? Now they are coming here to form judges as if na them get sense pass. Mtcheeeew.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by Ayanwukoma: 8:06pm On Sep 19, 2021

Newboss:

Deceiving myself? You don't know how much Nigerians hate the word "abortion". They can even lynch a person for abortion.

If the guy wanted the abortion, no problem. But the girl's family cannot make that decision alone. He did not rape her. He should get the community involved. It's only at community level that there is justice for the common man because Nigerian police can be bought

Exactly, which I spoke with our street vice chairman, he said we should have a sit down with her parents.

The thing is they all mistaking me mentioning community youths as street touts and urchins saying we are going there to fight a war, that's wrong.

We have alot of responsible adults in my community that are well respected, and I believe if her mum sees them and they made an input she may likely change her decision.

Please don't respond to that guy again, he has quoted me several times, which I ignored.

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 8:13pm On Sep 19, 2021

Newboss:

Woke for supporting my fellow man? Guy, you're a lost cause.

My last reply to you

wow!! supporting your fellow guy for crime committed? Impregnating someone's child when she's not married to her legally or otherwise? You think say almost everybody wey support the girl parents to get rid of the pregnancy no get sense Abi? We no be guy Abi? All of us na woman Abi?

You must have been sleeping with someone's child and you are not married to her. You and Op are birds of same feather no doubt about that

P.S: if truly you are in support of his action. PM the guy and follow him to go bus the girl house. Then come back to give us feedback

No family will ever allow their daughters marry or have a child for a useless guys. No go find how to better your life and be responsible before running after someone's daughter. You are just wasting your time. The family will never allow her marry you or have the child if pregnant. Except the family is senseless like the useless tout too

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Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by tianshie(m): 8:17pm On Sep 19, 2021

If truly you wan go university or poly you no go dey think of getting pikin now. Knowing fully well say dat pikin go drag you back. You appear to be suffering from cognitive-dissonance, or you're plain lying to us about your future dreams.

You aren't being completely honest. When I dey your age, na to sharpaly comot the belle. For university then sef I dey beg dem to comot am. Your folks aren't helping either.

Re: Her Parent Threatening To Abort My Child. by VTJN(m): 8:21pm On Sep 19, 2021

generalwo:
.... U have dreams and u impregnated a girl? While you gain admission and go to school, the girl stays at home and takes care a baby right? Have u seen how wicked you are? U want to pursue your dreams after killing someone else's own? I think the girl's mother saw all these before asking her daughter to abort

What do you expect from a Tout and Agbero cutting ticket for junction?

If you know those people you should know how the letter P in psychology is more useful than them

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