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My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years / Man To End Marriage Of 16 Years With His Wife After Discovering Her Real Age / After 15yrs, I'm Still Haunted, Help!!!! (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by sabreal: 4:31pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
The only thing I will say is this: Make the children are in safe hands and you should also take good care of them and your selves. Do not allow them to suffer too much of the impact of the separation. Make sure you play your role in their lives. neonly: |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by iyobosadavid: 4:31pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:Na hero she dey drink oo,na kwaret isoko babe |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 4:32pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: We are both ophan no parent but brothers and sisters but I can't send my children to go and stay at anybody place God forbid no when am alive they must stay with me |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by solidmyk(m): 4:33pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Op na weakling How many times you don fight and confront her for her bad behaviours, I believe you've never done that all in the name of saving your home, if anyone has to do that then it has to be your wife. You think marriage na easy thing, even our fathers dey face shit test from their wife's everyday left and right 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ChocolateWine(f): 4:34pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
ahnie: Are you married? |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by benqo01(m): 4:34pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
ufotty2001: Imagine you guys gets married 1 Like |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by bmdmix11: 4:34pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
ufotty2001:n u wan still marry that one? nah liability b dat bros |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kobojunkie: 4:35pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
poiZon:1. In marriage, there is no such as something your wife should do. Ask people who are honest and they will tell you the truth. 2. He hasn't said anything about whether she brings money or not for sure. 3. Submission in marriage is s choice not a given since we all do not subscribe to the same cultural or religious ideas When you have been in a marriage for many years, you no longer meant to look for reasons, red flags, to help you end it, but instead for ways to help you grow, hopefully your marriage along with you. 1 Like |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by brownemmanuel43(m): 4:38pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:Baba their is nothing to thank Jah for a good wife. What u really need right now is to take a break. See u can't be depressed and unhappy while your so called wife is happy and enjoying her life. U have to consider separation for your happiness and peace of mind If divorcing her will give you peace of mind pls do without looking back |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kobojunkie: 4:38pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:Oh, I didn't know that. Has your wife always been the churchy kind? What demon is she supposedly working so hard at ridding herself of with her church schedule? It just seemed weird to me that she is not tired of the marriage, doesn't want to entertain a house help and also keeps what I consider a weird church schedule - note that I am not a churchian myself. Is there something from her past that could be the reason? Have you tried inquiring about why she keeps such church schedules? Just out of curiosity? 1 Like |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by hopexter(m): 4:39pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
ufotty2001: So why are you still with such a useless and materialistic thing? Na mere Hungry girlfriend she be, Pursue her make you find a better geh. Good babes full everywhere bro |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by kingsceemark(m): 4:40pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: Op you don take your money buy wrong market oooo
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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kobojunkie: 4:41pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
flavnwokem:Here's what a marriage like that looks like.. ibechris: 1 Like |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by sabreal: 4:41pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Some women are just not controllable. Such women allow you to fool yourself. What they want to do is in the mind, irrespective of who intervene cir what the husband does to ease the situation. Albertone: |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by valnino(m): 4:42pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
ufotty2001:it hurts so much. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 4:44pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Amhappy: But bro's it good we men are speaking out now unlike before nah |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by emekajonny(m): 4:44pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: neonly:Marriage is never an easy journey and will never be. FOR A FRUITFUL AND LASTING UNION, IT WILL TAKE A BLIND WOMAN AND A DUMB MAN TO COHABIT. See less and talk lesser. It has no formula but patience and God's grace. Advice alone can't perform any magic. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by cassyrooy(m): 4:48pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
ahnie:Please be calming down now. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Hassanmaye(m): 4:51pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
jimmyolasun:What do you and never been |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Hassanmaye(m): 4:52pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
siofra:Will you shut |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by reidkrugger(m): 4:53pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: Sorry o Op. But U be heavy Otele. U be yansh. Pussy. E be like make I break your head as I de read dis thing. Well Sha, u atlast are in order. Run for your life o. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by BigBashiru: 4:53pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
ahnie: unending pit how? |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by samwillyco1(m): 4:54pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: Op sorry but is all your fault, marriage is a union of two people (matured) in agreement on how to leave together, and do things together without leaving the whole load for one person to carry. I said is your fault because it seems you did not discuss family welfare with your wife from the beginning of the union, from what I read, she does nothing in the house, and she does not support you financially and you don't even know how much she earn is a big mistake from you. Op let your wife know that you are the man, infact share the responsibility with her so that her head will come down, she have saved much that's why her head is so BIG and do a research on whom her friends are and how much she earns so that you will know the kind of financial responsibility you will give her. Finally, DIVORCE is will have a negative effect on your children but DIVORCE will be the best option instead of you to DIE before your TIME. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ahnie: 4:54pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
cassyrooy:I'm calming down Cassy. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by brownemmanuel43(m): 4:54pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:For the sake of your sanity, happiness and peace of mind either divorce her or u marry another one so that she can sit her ass up |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Mboi: 4:56pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:Your have gone a long way in your marriage and in your family to start thinking of divorce. It's not easy to bear what you're going through right now in your marriage but just take it as one of the cross a man must carry so as to make something out of this life. You're even lucky she didn't turn your own children against you. I will chip in these few things if you can do it: 1. For one more time, call her and tell her that you want to apologise deeply to her for whatever you have done wrong to her knowingly or unknowingly. Tell her she should forgive you. (Swallow your pride, ur anger, whatever and do this). 2. After the apology, please focus 100% on your children and your job. Take care of your children and the house as if you're a widower. Show your children love as if their mother is no more. 3. Make sure you always pray and play together with your children, be their friend. Do these and forget her. Soon! I mean Soon!!! her eyes go clear and by then, e don dey late for her. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 4:57pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: That question is bottomless When I was young I was a Catholic(alterboy) Later Trem Meet her join CAC Later join foursquare dat where wahala starts Out of anger I wanted to go to d church because me I don't go to church anymore personal reason I wanted to ask d pastor what they preach but later I just let it go |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by abbaashiru(m): 4:57pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
ahnie:i swear me I just want to marry just to fulfill all righteousness... |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kobojunkie: 4:57pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:I didn't even see this. So she also refuses to use her income for her family's needs? |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Nobody: 4:58pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Prettychild:I don't have issues with my WIFE cheating at all but if she must do it, that has to be from her Father's compound & not mine, since I'm the one who brought her into my coffers. I can't divorce my MOM. I can't divorce my DAD I can't divorce my SISTERS. However, ...the word Divorce is reserved for only WIVES. 1 Like |
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