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| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by chinchonglee(m): 10:45am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Offpoint1:Lol! Are you me? Anything that is not business, i dnt talk. |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by generalwo(m): 10:46am On Sep 30, 2021 |
I hate it too but a time is coming when you will need the same family you hate calling..... I check up on my folks regularly to make them know i love them and they are a part of me... Not because I enjoy doing it but because it's the right thing to do......... 2 Likes |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Charmingrascal(m): 10:47am On Sep 30, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: The fact is I have never dated any girl who complained about this lifestyle except the relationship I had before this present one. Understanding your partner and respecting their way of life matter alot in any relationship. |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Toks2008(m): 10:47am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Offpoint1: This is a clear sign of depression. |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Atticusxsz(m): 10:47am On Sep 30, 2021 |
So, my specie dem plenty 4 nairaland and i thought i was given birth all alone in this mundane world. I even thought i wasn't normal since almost everyone has got a bitter taste of my abnormal lifestyle. Although, my mum understands me since she's an evangelist and a counselor. Someone even recommended that i seek for help and i was like, seek 4 help say wetin happen abi na because you never come across my kind dem abi na wetin? I've never been happier in the entirety of my existence after stumbling on your thread this morning @ Op. Mine was not going home to see my mum and family for 3 years when i could've easily visited more than even necessary and not calling her up to 6 months. Although, she's complained severally about me not calling as my siblings and humans normally do but I'm still not flowing. It's after seeing her incessant calls, because she knows that's what irks me, that's when I'll finally return her calls.  Atleast, I'm not alone.  |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:49am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Charmingrascal: When you dated any of the ladies that didn't complain about this disturbing lifestyle of yours do you think any of them was happy being with you or they are with you for money and other things. If it is to find a committed partner and what not I don't think you can easily find a woman unless there are other reasons for such love and commitment  1 Like |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by ouvredeparis: 10:49am On Sep 30, 2021 |
You are not alone bro… Take a look at an almost similar thread I created earlier this month https://www.nairaland.com/6749180/advice-needed-please |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by blaquemyc: 10:49am On Sep 30, 2021 |
So I have partners after all, thought I was alone, if I ever make a call, it's an important one, people don complain tire, WhatsApp Facebook, etc are just there on a need basis |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Nobody: 10:50am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Offpoint1:YOU ARE MOST LIKELY A STINGY PERSON WHO LIKES TO DODGE RESPONSIBILITIES,ESPECIALLY THE ONES YOU CONSIDER NOT TO BE OF ANY ECONOMIC BENEFIT TO YOU.  |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Charmingrascal(m): 10:51am On Sep 30, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: It is not really a "disturbing" lifestyle. Different strokes for different folks. |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Lastlook: 10:52am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Mine is worst than yours. I didnt make call for 10 years nor receive any. I had to give up because of having a partner. Offpoint1: |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:53am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Charmingrascal: Some of you think you are okay but you are not take your mental health seriously.Our environment influences us a lot and sometimes we get rubbed off in a different way. Are you even sure you are happy?anyway let me mind my business and do have a nice day. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by marsup: 10:53am On Sep 30, 2021 |
You should go and live in a cave. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Dindondin(m): 10:55am On Sep 30, 2021 |
We now v many abnormal people on nairaland with abnormal reasoning n opinion. Seu n and the mods of Islam section belong to this category. This is an end time post. |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Psoul(m): 10:55am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Offpoint1: You grew up in a family that love doesn't matter. You don't care about ur parents and they don't care about you too. You don't miss anyone and no one misses u cos you guys were not taught about love and you have never experienced not practiced it. This is an abnormal lifestyle. There will be a point in life when you will need ppl's attention and you will get not. Your pain will not even be on the situation you are passing through at that moment, but on the lack of ppl's presence. What kills most ppl (esp. Whites) in the Western countries is lack of attention from depressed person not even the depression per se. |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Heavenknows: 10:55am On Sep 30, 2021 |
You will start by name change. Because this behaviour is "off point"..you cannot get what you don't give. Give love if you want to receive love because all I see is selfishness.. udo diri gi.. |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Charmingrascal(m): 10:55am On Sep 30, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: I can only LOL at this. Anyways au revoir |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by dettolgel: 10:58am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Offpoint1: I see your point. But keeping friendship means reaching out to people. As time goes on your circle of social contact will shrink and the few that you will find around you will those that you have forged a life time of friendship with. You can only forge a life time of friendship by keeping in contact with people. You know yourself better than we do, find what works best for you and use it to turn things around. I am certain that there is someone in your friend cycle that you consider a friend or worth becoming a friend. At least start small you don't have to go out all in one bang. Like I always say in my household I do a lot of things I don't like and not comfortable with because I know that it is in my best interest. Here is how I deal with mine maybe you could get one or two pointer from it. I personally don't enjoy calling, my phone has never rang for years now, it has always been on silent I dont hear message dropped or calls. I check it when I feel like not because a message drops or calls come in. But I do call back and I do text back, because I consider it rude or unfair not to text back (maybe because people have accused me of being a snub in the past and giving where I am at life now, I think my life should be more an example to people). But I do make concerted effort to keep in touch. One of the things I do in the morning and before bedtime is to do a mental check of any of my friends I need to check up on. If I don't really want to call, I send a message last thing before bed time and switch off my phone immediately so I don't see their response while browsing online and be forced to engaged. Because I am an early riser, I wake up around 4am go through the messages and respond then head out for work before they come around to call I will already be deep in work. The day I have the power to talk usually on Saturday, I will check up on the person by texting some will call back immediately and then I do a small talk to catch on things after a while I discharge them. Like I said take it one step at a time and do it your way. Just remember we all do need trusted people in our lives if not today then tomorrow. 1 Like |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by lucky4west: 10:58am On Sep 30, 2021 |
as it is u cant raise a family properly because u are satisfied being on ur own....it may come to the level that u dont feel safe with people around u....if care is not taken u might start having mental issue....hope u dont turn to drugs and start feeling u are in safe haven when alone.....it seems u dont go to church or share the word of God with people, if u are a loner u may not enjoy doing some of the things that make life beautiful....u fit begin kolo without realizing it. |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by zinizta: 10:59am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Offpoint1: Your social skills is awful....try and do better. Communication is essential in business and relationships. |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by HEAVEN4444: 11:00am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Offpoint1:now i see why you hate calling or receiving calls. you are a higher frequency spiritual angelic being. the mundane things of life that interrupt your connection with your higher self are a huge distraction and annoyance to your life. its one of the struggles of chosen ones. the balance between spirituality and reality. i face the same struggles. but my mama has insisted i must call once a week. its a huge distraction. before it was twice a week she wanted but she has settled for once a week. left to me it will be once a year. i just dont have time to be talking about nothing. i would rather be quiet and by myself. even relationships with women i cant deal with but thank GOD i am connected to a higher being now also into spirituality and peaceful co-existence 3 Likes |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by dettolgel: 11:00am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Charmingrascal: Wait until you marry and start having kids, no be person go tell you. |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Charmingrascal(m): 11:01am On Sep 30, 2021 |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by HabibGwen230(f): 11:03am On Sep 30, 2021 |
I thought Op was toxic but @Oluwoo your own sent a cold shiver! una strong fa |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Lamasta(m): 11:03am On Sep 30, 2021 |
A times my free bonus of 3k plus will expire without me using them because I can't be calling people who don't know if I exist or not..... But I dey call important people sha especially my business partners 1 Like |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Judgesledge(m): 11:04am On Sep 30, 2021 |
You are just a spirit, good one or evil one na only you sabi |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by dettolgel: 11:06am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Charmingrascal: I hope you won't come on NL with a new moniker blaming your wife and asking for advice? |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by wale2020: 11:06am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Offpoint1: I think you need to have a balance life. Christ spent more time with the people than praying. The lives you need to affect are physical. Secondly, you need to know your boundry as it relate to spiritual things. If you are a Christrian, pls stick to the bible ONLY. If your are not, pls withdrew and accept Christ. |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Lamasta(m): 11:10am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Oluwoo:Haaaaaa you need to go visit your family member this week o especially your parent abeg let them know you are alive 1 Share
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| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by sheDD(m): 11:11am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Offpoint1:I thought going by ur post u want a way out of ur "unusual trait" and here u are blowing ur trumpet how better off you are being d YOu |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Fvckyouall: 11:14am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Offpoint1:If you don't call your siblings call your mom and dad, they have tried, even if you don't like it call them they deserve it |
| Re: I Hate Making Calls: Am I The Only Human Who Hate This? by Srallens(m): 11:14am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Snitch24: It's really baffling and worrying that someone can not hear from his mum for a month or more but doesn't care.. You don't hear from friends or siblings, it doesn't bother you. It only goes to show one thing, that is, the person was brought up in a loveless environment and was probably sorrounded by corrosive people while growing up. I think the guy needs help, though he may not be aware of how it's affecting him. |
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