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How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Bigman101: 4:52pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Nairalander's I really need suggestion I really want to be a person without emotions anymore..reasons beings that people keep hurting me coz of me being emotional soft..its either they take my kindness for granted or they betray me..it make think his can I get a very hard mind in people? At least that will help me and I wouldn't be hurt by people's actions towards me..... I heard that in any relationship or friendship ,one person go love pass the other...am that person who love the most..eg I meet someone today be it male,female,etc ,I'll take the person like say na family member already and that's emotional, but all of a sudden them go do me something and I'll be like "what" (this person go fit do me this?) So I am tired,like literally tired..I no wan care,love,pity anymore!! For the sake of my mental health ..I need advise abeggg Pls moderator's help push this topic to front page.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by bottlewater1(m): 4:55pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Being emotional is not a bad thing at all, it is some what known as one of the best characters of sanguine. You can't stop it because of its advantages will keep drawing you back into it but you can control it as you can use its energy for achieving great things 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Nobody: 4:56pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Men should not be too emotional, leave emotional for women abeg |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by bigcee(m): 4:57pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Oga, you can never stop being emotional but you can learn how to control your emotions. It's just you, bro. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Kingpin1000: 5:00pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Bigman101: Bro Just remain who you are, it's not greener this side. You just need to modify your attitude, just try not to expect anything in return when you do good to people. If the Jews can release Barabas instead of Jesus, then it tells you a lot about human thinking. God made you that way, if you change you will hurt so many innocent people. My greatest prayer is when I decide to marry, I should not marry a woman that will use me to correct her past mistakes from men. 10 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by DAVIDMOE(m): 5:00pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
You want to stop being emotional while someone like me is looking for a way to start having emotions. Irony of life... 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Kobojunkie: 5:01pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Bigman101:Stop expecting something in return for the kindness you show others, and you will see that it is not so bad to be a human being- humans have emotions as default setting for good reason.. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Bigman101: 5:15pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Not that I do expect something... This is it ,I like being loyal and it hurt when those people u take as either friends or family don't take u same way..thats my problem.. I really don't know he to be hard emotionally 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Bigman101: 5:16pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
DAVIDMOE: Pls let's trade our emotions But on a serious note how do u do it? 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Kobojunkie: 5:17pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Bigman101:That's the same thing. When you quit having expectations of others simply on the basis that you extended what you consider kindness or friendship their way, then you will begin to experience some peace even when they bolt on you. Your emotions aren't the problem, instead your expectations are. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Bigman101: 5:17pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
bottlewater1:That's why I need help and am very sure after this ,I'll be a different person 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Bigman101: 5:19pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
bigcee:I want to be less emotional ( no pity,no love,just hatred) 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Bigman101: 5:20pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Kingpin1000:Oh brother!! Thanks a lot!! You give me hope 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Bigman101: 5:34pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
I heard that in any relationship or friendship ,one person go love pass the other...am that person who love the most..eg I meet someone today be it male,female,etc ,I'll take the person like say na family member already and that's emotional, but all of a sudden them go do me something and I'll be like "what" (this person go fit do me this?) So I am tired,like literally tired..I no wan care ,love,pity anymore!! For the sake of my mental health ..I need advise abeggg 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by bigcee(m): 5:38pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Bigman101:Really? It seem you're battling an unhealed trauma. Maybe you need to see a therapist, just maybe. Darkness cannot drive out darkness. Only light can do that. Be happy and stay positive. Oya take, manage am 1 Like
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Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by bigcee(m): 5:47pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Bigman101:I see . It's like you expect too much from people and you tend to emotionally attach yourself to them. So when them F***k, you become disappointed. You might also be suffering from low self esteem. Learn to take care of yourself, love yourself and respect yourself. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by AcademicWriter: 5:52pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Oh brother!! courtesy a alot!! You take me chance |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Theworldisvanity: 6:05pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
God is emotional, Devil is emotional, sorry you can't stop being emotional. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Youngpo413: 6:09pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Bigman101:not good. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by weblord1900: 6:21pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Bigman101, man up you're a big man 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Bigman101: 6:41pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
weblord1900: Bigman na human na 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Bigman101: 6:42pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Youngpo413:My mental health 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Bigman101: 6:42pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
AcademicWriter:I no understand oh 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Bigman101: 6:44pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
bigcee: Maybe 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Pumpumking: 6:50pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Bigman101: bro.sukin punnny is the only way out sir.only real men suk punnny without emmotion sir & womens will respet u sir.if u suk punnny for 1hour 15 minute non stop..u be like superman & stop crying like woman sir...THANK ME LATER!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by bottlewater1(m): 7:31pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Bigman101: Well the only help I can offer you is prayer to God and like you said the moment you can control it then you will change which means you will become mature the reason is because finding solution to a problem is like when you are in darkness once light shines on it ... You emotions respond to happenings and feelings you need to study things and situation like someone playing chess if I play this this will happen if my opponent play this this will happen You should know end product of situation before reaction then you can choose ( ie control) how you will react . Another thing is don't be carried away with happenings because you can be trapped in your emotion Learn how to channel your emotion to things that will make you be a great person in life 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Truvelisback(m): 7:37pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Bigman101:Being emotional isn't the issue, u just have to.... 1 Like
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Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by bottlewater1(m): 7:46pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Bigman101: By the way which emotion is the most active Anger or which one? 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by blinking001(m): 8:05pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Take the redpill |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Nobody: 8:17pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Bigman101:relationship is not by force neither is it for everyone. mbok,stay single and stay sane,besides you can still hit without being in a relationship,so whats your problem. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Offpoint1: 8:28pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Leave emotional for the white folks, it's Unfrica. |
Re: How Can I Stop Being Emotional by Bigman101: 8:29pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
bottlewater1:Pity,love,attachment to people, etc 1 Like |
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